"Don't Ask Me What I'm Doing" - 2015.1.2

I was a third of my height, accepting that I was getting into trouble because I was too headstrong.

Forbearance is really a great wisdom. Endure for a while, calm and calm. Endure for a long time, talk endlessly. A knife on the head of the word "color", just a headache. But the word "forbearance" is a knife in the heart, but it is heartache!

Resist the impulses of the body, hold back the restlessness of the mind, and endure again and again. Although it is painful, in order to be able to return to the original touch, no matter how painful it is, it is worth it!

Fortunately, I finally endured it when I couldn't bear it anymore, and it was time to endure it just now.

Desperate for the body! Clenched fists, bruised tendons! Eyes closed, boundless world! Clenched teeth, obscene face! Full body twitches!

"Ahh

Take a deep breath!

"Ahh

Whew, and then, my whole body went limp, the sky was dark, and I had forgotten who I was. If you remember who I am, please tell my aunt and let my aunt come and save me. Thank you ha!

What's wrong with me? What am I doing?

Don't ask me what I'm doing...... It's a secret that can't be said.

However, then again, the toilet with feelings is really a good place for the soul to be sublimated.

Whew, I'm drunk......

"Is it really useless for a man who doesn't take the initiative" - 2015.1.5

I've read some weblogs before, and there is a sentence in them: "Men who don't take the initiative would rather not!"

When I first saw this, I felt very uncomfortable. Why? The reason is simple. I just don't take the initiative, well, strictly speaking, it's more appropriate to rarely take the initiative.

Indeed, in today's society, most of the ideas have the shadow that men should take the initiative, especially when it comes to falling in love.

However, is it really useless for a man who does not take the initiative?

Personally, I think that the degree is very important. You can't say too much about opinions, there are no absolutes in the world.

A man who takes the initiative can be a good man or a bad man who plays with feelings.

A man who does not take the initiative may be cowardly, or he may hide secrets, but he cannot be allowed to be the standard for judging good and bad men. Anything is possible.

Some men who dare not take the initiative are like girls waiting for boys to confess, and in turn waiting for girls to confess.

Some people may think that this kind of man is useless, but whether it is useful or not depends on the performance after the relationship, not before the relationship.

Some men who dare not take the initiative will be very moved like a girl after being confessed by a girl who takes the initiative, and they will also feel that only this girl who confesses to him likes him, so they love this girl very much after dating the girl who confessed to him, and cherish it very much. Because it didn't come easily.

This kind of psychology is like the psychology of normal boys who take the initiative to confess to girls, so that girls can have it. Because of this, the girl will love this boy who confesses to her very single-mindedly.

It's the same thing. Men who are not active are as dedicated to love as girls.

Therefore, men who do not take the initiative may not be strong enough in their hearts, but they have their sincerity, they also have their waiting, and they also have their persistence in love.

What's more, men who are not active may also be potential stocks. Men who dare not take the initiative after being accused may be able to stimulate their inner potential because of the accusation, so as to become excellent.

Therefore, I think that men who take the initiative have their good, and men who do not take the initiative also have their good, and they can't just say that it's useless.

There is no such law in the world: men must take the initiative, and women wait for men to take the initiative.

Girls also take the initiative, and there are also those who harvest beautiful love.

Therefore, a man who does not take the initiative is not useless, he is just waiting for a fate that will really get closer.

Like, the frog was waiting for the princess's kiss, and after being kissed, he became a prince.

I believe so.