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In the past, when I read inspirational books, I only thought of this sentence as a very reasonable statement, but I rarely really practiced this sentence.

Often, you can see the farthest distance in the world and what is such a sentence. I used to think it would be interesting, but now I have my own opinion: the farthest distance in the world is no communication. Because without communication, it's like living in this world and living in that world at the same time, and there can be no intersection.

Let's take emotion as an example, first of all, friendship, how many friends who used to be dead friends in the torrent of time, scattered in different corners of society to struggle, if there is no communication between friends, then it is the farthest distance in the world; and then love, once so sweet lovers in time under the instigation, turn around in different corners of the world to find new happiness, if there is no longer communication, then that is the farthest distance in the world; and finally family affection, once so happy to talk to the family under the mutation of time, lost in front of the family but have nothing to say, if there is no sincere communication, then it is also the world's farthest distance。

He, she, and they may have disappeared, may have seen but have nothing to say, and the farthest distance that cannot be seen or seen but cannot be touched is that there is no communication.

This afternoon, because the family was busy in the field, I went home again to help. That's the benefit of being close to home, you can go home whenever you want. When the family needs me, I can come home whenever the situation allows.

After dinner tonight, I was lying on my uncle's bed listening to the song, ready to write. How did the inspiration come about? For me, it was a comfortable or inadvertent slip by.

At this time, Uncle suddenly walked into the room, turned on the light, and sat on the edge of the bed where I slept to play the electronic piano. Forehead...... It seems that this is the first time such a picture has appeared. Usually when I lie in bed and play with my phone, my uncle will not come in and sit next to me......

Well, I bought the electronic piano for myself last year to learn to play, because I went abroad later, so I handed over the electronic piano to my uncle for safekeeping. In other words, the electronic organ already belongs to my family, and they can play it as much as they want.

Uncle has never played the piano before, but he is still quite good at some rhythms. Because, when he was a child, he learned a little bit about music, so he would play the erhu. So much so that last year, after I handed over the guitar that I bought for myself to learn to play but never played much, he pondered it for a while, and then the taste of pulling erhu popped up. Similarly, the electronic piano was also played by him under the "love and love" of his "March does not know the taste of meat", although he only played the black keys, and there were no so-called standard gestures, but he played very skillfully. Most importantly, he seems to be dancing happily to his soul.

Think about it, if Uncle had taught me music when I was a child, maybe I would have embarked on the road of music now. Maybe my musical feeling was inherited from my uncle, I can compose a melody very casually, and after singing it once, I will never forget it for a long time, but I can't compose music. I remember how high the melody was, but I didn't know how to express it with my knowledge of music, so I could only hum the melody or put the lyrics I wrote and sing it. It's a pity that none of my family members thought that I could write songs (indeed), just because I couldn't compose music.

I want to be recognized by my family, but my family always thinks that I really don't know anything when I'm the youngest. (It's true that nothing, and half of it won't.) ）

In the same way, Uncle should also want to be recognized by his children. Like, he sat on the edge of my bed and played the electronic piano, laughing and saying while playing, "I haven't practiced for a long time, and I can play it very well without watching it before!"

Yes, Uncle's character is like this. Because, Uncle loves face very much. As the head of the family, you can make your children feel that they are very powerful, not to mention how proud you are.

In the days before I returned to China, I would call home every weekend to chat with my aunts and uncles, and I would often hear them say that they were very happy to learn to play the piano! I listened to their happy voices, and I was also very happy, and I was grateful that I bought the electronic piano last year, even if I couldn't play it for myself, it brought more happiness to my family!

Uncle, in my eyes when I was a child, he was the most powerful! It seems that he can do anything, and when he holds my little hand, I will feel that the whole world is safe.

After my uncle played several songs, I smiled and praised: "It's amazing!"

Uncle's face was carved with a proud smile, although the wrinkles were a little deep......

Soon after, Auntie also came into the room and joined the chatting camp. As she spoke, my aunt also wanted to play the electronic piano for me. Because, she has also practiced seriously for a long time......

It's just that I didn't listen to anything seriously. Because Uncle took some anagrams for me to guess, more precisely, to teach me to guess.

Uncle has been particularly fond of charades recently, and since he learned to surf the Internet, he often receives some crossword puzzle messages, and he is also happy to think about it. Generally speaking, I think of the answer first, and after I come up with the answer, I will test my second sister. Fortunately, my second sister is also very cooperative to think and can answer a lot correctly. In addition, my second sister has never learned to play the piano, but she looks at the score, even though it is an unfamiliar score, she can also play the melody while reading the score. So, I got the unanimous praise of my aunt and uncle - although she looks stupid, she is probably the smartest of your siblings. (Well, I reluctantly accepted)

Uncle first gave me some anagrams that my second sister had already guessed to show me, and the answer was written next to it.

I was puzzled and asked, "The answers are all written, what else can I guess?"

Uncle said solemnly: "It's just to teach you! You look at the anagram, then look at the answer, and think about the relationship." ”

Forehead...... All right......

I looked at it and thought, is this kidding me? Who invented the anagram? How does it feel like a brainteaser ancestor?

I can't complain anymore, maybe it's really my brain that doesn't work......

Uncle also said to me: "When you look at your mind, you know you can't think of it!"

Actually, for Uncle, the last thing I like is to hear him say that I'm stupid, stupid, or something like that. I didn't like it since I was a child. When I was a child, I admired him so much, but when he met someone who could be arrogant, it was easy to blindly say that I was stupid or something, and that hurt me when I was a child. When I was a child, I cried at least ten times because I was told stupid by my uncle.

Even though I'm grown up now, I don't cry. But when I heard my uncle say something like that to me, I was still a little sad in my heart. Anyway, I'm just that bad......

However, I don't pay much attention to this feeling now, I am more concerned about whether he is happy or not.

After that, Uncle handed me some anagrams that my two sisters hadn't come up with yet (type one word each):

One stroke is written in the words of the main month.

The two of them met with the land first.

Someone has walked well.

It's all because of the fire.

Well, after a glance, I immediately guessed that the third sentence was the word "food". After all, it's simpler.

After that, I'll look at the second sentence.

Forehead...... Is it the word "from"? Then, the land comes first. Is "soil" used as a radical and "from"? There seems to be no such word. Could it be the word "cong"? Well, land first, maybe that horizontal line represents land.

So, I said to Uncle that it was the word "Cong".

He smiled and said I had made a mistake.

Forehead...... I twisted and twisted and twisted, and twisted and twisted, and I still didn't know......

Uncle announced the answer to me, which was the word "sit".

But still, I don't understand the meaning of "land first", especially the word "first". I asked Uncle again.

Uncle's answer to me was simply a "must-have" answer: "Land first is land first!"

Well, if I have a dispute with the great uncle, I am destined to run away. Or maybe my brain really can't turn around. I'll read another sentence......

"One stroke is written in the words of the Lord's month". Well, what is this?

What is the "Lord's Words"? I don't have this existence in my mind.

I paddled around in my mind and even jumped into my mind, delusionally diving in search of the being, even forgetting that I hadn't learned to swim at all......

When I was about to suffocate in my own mind, the great uncle rescued me very appropriately.

As he said, "You haven't really thought about how the words are written. You see, Lord Yueyan, isn't it just a 'please' word when written?"

Forehead...... I finally understood that it was easy to say the truth, and the process of exploration was really not easy for his mother.

Well, I continued to look scarred at the next sentence.

"It's all because of the fire." Well, this sentence is likely to be the relationship between the collocation of "fire" and "field".

I learned to think with Conan dragging his chin and well, there is only one truth!

What is the relationship between "fire" and "field" in the ............? Well...... Well......

Uncle smiled and said, "Think about it seriously." ”

I've always been so serious, so serious, so serious. Say the important thing three times. And then the egg!

At the moment when the great uncle gave the answer, I felt that my worldview was about to collapse!

The answer turned out to be the word "smoke"! Oh my God! "All causes" and "fire" can be married? How can you be embarrassed by your name "Furutian"? Who is it? Who is it that wrote such an unreasonable anagram? I am also drunk......

But that's not all......

Uncle gave me some anagrams again:

The cow touches the monk's house.

The two of them carried a piece of wood.

Two trees do not form a forest.

Two songs.

Well, "cow touching monk's house". "Monk's house" should be a temple, and "cow" should be a radical, but is there a relationship between the two?

Uncle began to give me some hints: "Think about what the 'monk's house' is." ”

I replied cheerfully, "Temple." ”

Uncle replied to me in a corrective tone: "It's a temple!"

I also have to refute: "It's the same, it's all about the temple, but I chose the temple and you chose the temple." ”

He continued to ask lightly: "Then let's see what words 'temple' and 'cow' are combined?"

I thought about it in my head, uh, it means I haven't studied......

Uncle suddenly said a few words out loud: "It's the word 'special'!"

I suddenly woke up! Yes, how could I not remember the word "special" when it was so simple? People are very strange, and sometimes the simpler things are, the easier it is to forget and ignore them.

Well, this one really shows how stupid I am......

Sigh, shake your head, and move on to the next sentence.

"Two people carry a piece of wood". Well, the feeling has something to do with "from". If it is the word "cong", it is unreasonable, after all, it is "lifting a piece of wood". In this case, how can we add the word "wood" to the top of the word "from"? Is there such a word? Hmm...... Well...... Well...... It's so hard to overturn the boat on the sea of minds!

The great uncle looked at me, who seemed to have no hope, and knew that I would definitely not be able to answer, so he said the answer softly......

What I heard was the word "come", and the pronunciation of Uncle was also the sound of the word "come". Well, I don't understand it very much! Is this really teasing me? The word "come" has something to do with "double lifting wood"?!

Uncle said proudly: "That's the traditional Chinese character for 'come'!"

How can I guess the traditional Chinese characters? I grew up learning simplified Chinese characters!

What's more, I don't have any impression of what the traditional Chinese character for "come" looks like.

Uncle unhurriedly took out a thick "treasure book", flipped through it, and pointed to the traditional Chinese character of the word "come" to show me.

I looked at it, and sure enough, it was "here"!

Well, I'm speechless...... Even the traditional Chinese characters joined in the fun...... The struggle continues to be weak......

"Two trees don't make a forest". Well, this sentence is because I heard them say it when I ate before, it is a "phase" word.

Hurry to the next sentence.

"Two songs of the word song". Well, hehe, how do you play two songs?

Looking at the word "目", I thought over and over again, I couldn't figure out how the word "目" could be curled!

Uncle said proudly: "I see, you may not be able to guess this......!

What I heard was the word "see" when I met, and my outlook on life began to crumble!

How can the word "目" become the word "see" in the second song? Is this magic?

The great uncle never played tricks on me: "That's the traditional Chinese character for 'see'. Then, point out the traditional Chinese character for the word "see" on the "treasure book" and show it to me.

I really watched "see".

Well, it feels so hard to love......

When I thought it was over, Uncle handed me some anagrams again, well, is Uncle going to ruin the rhythm of my little spiritual fortress?

Call...... The anagram is as follows:

A mouthful of food fields is dressed.

The two of them are fourteen and one minds.

The treasure cover covers the pink girl.

The white wood tree hangs two threads.

Well, the third sentence should be the word "an". Sure enough, easily take the next one. Although before this, it was easy to fall a lot......

"A mouthful of food and a field of clothing". Well, "dressing" should be "礻" as a radical, so "a mouthful of food field" should be a relationship between "mouth" and "field"! Is it the "mouth" that swallows the "field" in the stomach, or does the "mouth" bite off part of the "field"?

Although I analyzed it quite well and guessed the radical correctly from the beginning, but I guessed the beginning, but I couldn't guess the ending. At this time, I need to have a piece of music for "Heaven and Earth Let Me Go" in Journey to the West......

Uncle gave the answer with a smile: "It's a 'Fu' word." ”

It turned out that I had made a lot of calculations but still missed a "one".

I looked at the top of the bed and sighed softly, alas!

All right...... Continue to the next sentence.

"Two people fourteen and one minds". Well, cleverly analyzing, there are two possibilities for "two", such as "彳" and "from". So what is "Fourteen"? What is "One Mind"?

If the word "two" is the word "from", then there seems to be nothing to match with the latter one. Well, this should be the radical "彳".

With the radical, think about the other side. Well, "one mind" should be the word "heart".

As for "Fourteen", I imitated and wrote it many times in my head, and I don't feel like there is such a word!

What words are next to the pair, there is a "heart" word on the right, and some of the words will be added?

The brain is running at high speed! But, I just can't think of it! Not only can't I think of it, but I also feel that a large number of brain cells are dead! Cause of death: I'm tired to death! I can't let you live?!

The kind-hearted uncle rescued me again: "It's a 'de' word." ”

Why are my values starting to falter too?

How did the "fourteen" become the upper right part of the word "de"? Although it is a little close, the word "four" is the one in the second song and the upper right part of the word "de......

Uncle judged the situation and broke through the castle in my heart in one fell swoop: "People are like this!"

I...... I......

Well, in the face of the powerful uncle, I still lost......

Crawling inwardly to face the next sentence.

"White wood tree hanging two silks". Well, it's a little tricky! Aren't they almost all tricky? Uh......

Uncle said with a smile: "This is from traditional characters, you probably can't guess it!"

Hearing this, well, traditional Chinese characters are not my cup of tea. In this way, I gently disarmed and surrendered, and the small castle in my heart was also gently captured by Uncle.

Uncle said the answer with satisfaction: "It's the traditional Chinese character for the happy word 'music'." ”

Then, I flipped through the "treasure book" again and pointed out the traditional Chinese character to show me.

Well, when I saw "Le", I was also happy. Because, Uncle looks so happy! Even happier than when he played the electronic piano to me! It's been a long time since I've seen Uncle and I communicate so happily......

I don't think there are any anagrams.

Who knows, Uncle was so happy that he couldn't get enough, so he found some anagrams, but my second sister had already guessed correctly.

The anagram is as follows:

A mouthful of food and a lot of clothes.

The woman smiled.

Kazuki is dressed in the middle of the day.

There are several rivers along the Mother River.

Well, as soon as I saw the first sentence, I remembered the paragraph where I guessed the beginning but couldn't guess the ending, well, it should be the word "Fu".

Uncle smiled and nodded.

The woman opened her mouth and laughed. Well, it should be related to the word "mouth". But before I could think about it deeply, Uncle was in a hurry to sort out the clues for me.

Uncle pointed to the anagram and said with a smile: "Look, 'female opening', female and mouth, what words can be synthesized?"

I replied with a smile in a timely manner: "It's the word 'such as'." ”

Uncle smiled.

Then, there's no need to guess below......

The first sentence is the word "Fu", the second sentence is the word "such as", then the third sentence should be the word "East", and the fourth sentence should be the word "sea"!

Uncle smiled and nodded, but also reminded me: "The word "east" in the third sentence is a traditional Chinese character. ”

Okay, okay, I get it!

Come back to it, oh, it turns out that every four sentences of the anagram I guessed were connected!

The first anagram is connected with "Please sit and smoke".

The second anagram is connected to "special meeting".

The third paragraph is "Fu De Anle".

The fourth anagram is connected to the "blessing like the East Sea" just now.

Well, it's still quite interesting.

For me, looking at the happy and proud uncle is the real fun.

My aunt, who was trying to play the electronic piano for me, found that my uncle and I were very involved in guessing the word puzzle, and I wasn't listening to her play the electronic piano at all, so she went out to the living room to watch TV in the middle of playing......

When Uncle walked out of the living room satisfied, Auntie walked in happily and said that she wanted to play the electronic piano, and I think she wanted to play it for me. Perhaps, I hope to be recognized......

Auntie said that when she first started playing, she couldn't remember which note was in which position, so she wrote down the tone on a small piece of paper and pasted it on the corresponding keys. Later, Uncle told her that she couldn't learn that, and that if she wanted to learn, she had to tear up the papers. She did so, and when she tore off the paper, she magically found that she could remember the position of the keys that corresponded to the keys......

Listening to my aunt's mood of learning to play the electronic piano, my heart is also warm......

While listening to my aunt playing the electronic piano, I thought back to the chat with my aunt in the vegetable field the night before.

At that time, my aunt and I discussed the gap between parents and children. Whether it's from my family's point of view, or from my point of view, I'm speaking more objectively.

Finally, my aunt said something to me that surprised me: "Golden Dragon, in fact, I have always been very grateful to you! We are old, and we can't understand the thoughts of many young people, but I am very happy that you can communicate with me like this! I talked to many relatives on the phone, and found that many of their children have nothing to say to their parents, do not answer anything, and always hide alone. So, you can communicate with me whatever you want, I really appreciate you!"

At that time, I felt that my heart was also warm.

Communication with family members is really important! Because without communication, you will feel a lack of love, and the more you feel a lack of love, the farther away your heart will be from home.

Later, the second sister also told me about some of her interpersonal grievances, and she felt very wronged. I gave wholeheartedly to help them, but what I got was slander and distrust. She felt the heat of the world......

Well, interpersonal relationships are really a particularly sensitive issue, and if you don't handle it well, it's a hard injury.

Judging from the blessings of the Mid-Autumn Festival, in fact, it is a beautiful thing to send messages and blessings every time you go to the festival.

However, when the complexity of society and the human mind itself produce a discordant fusion, these blessings become "interpersonal pressure".

If you want to bless someone sincerely, you can choose to make a phone call or give a proper title when sending a blessing message. I think it's more sincere.

It's just that the complexity of society makes people's thoughts very complicated, and many people feel that there are not many true friends, although the address book is full of "friends", so there is not much motivation in the heart to give everyone a blessing one by one. At this time, coupled with the influence of people's own hearts, when people feel lonely or lack love and warmth in their hearts, they will feel that the world is dark, and at the same time, they will also produce a kind of laziness, that is, they are too lazy to call and send messages to bless.

After combining, slowly, there is the emergence of "mass hair".

"Mass sending" can satisfy both social complexity and people's own minds. "Mass sending" is just because there are too many "friends" in the address book, but if you want to maintain your relationship with their friends, you still have to send messages to bless it! However, I am too lazy to send them one by one. Therefore, "mass sending" satisfies this condition.

In the beginning, "mass sending" was very popular! However, after a long time, people began to find that there seemed to be no emotion in that "mass sending". It's just a giggling expression and a so-called creative greeting that has been copied out of nowhere. In fact, it's better to just post a familiar name, plus a simple sentence of happiness. Because, that's the more true.

Therefore, the "mass sending" has been more and more ostracized, and many people who have received the "mass sending" either ignore it or return to the "same fun" with a little "courtesy". This is also normal, most of human nature is like this, what you do to me, I will do to you. If you "send a group" of blessings without discrimination, then I will also politely perfunctory a "fun". each other. A lot of people, that's it......

In fact, the root cause of these "interpersonal pressures" is nothing more than the rapid development of communication equipment.

Because of good communication, you can get to know a friend quickly, but when it's time to maintain a relationship, you also need to remember that friend from time to time, especially on special occasions. After all, the blessing of the air can be received at once. In this way, as time goes by, there are more and more friends, and my own affairs are getting busier and busier, how can I take care of so much?

If it was the situation in ancient times, and there was a marriage over there, until this side knew that the other side was married, maybe there were children over there. Therefore, scientific and technological progress has brought about beautiful changes, and naturally it will also destroy some of the beautiful originals.

Of course, if you are a true friend, you may not necessarily care about the blessings of these holidays, after all, this time is different.

And most of the problems are that some people feel lonely in their hearts, but they don't know who cares about them, so they verify it through group sending. When I saw the replies that were almost all "fun", I felt that the world was even darker. However, this is not fair. Why can you get a special response from the tired people in a complex society through "mass messaging" without a special name? What's more, using "mass messaging" to verify one's interpersonal relationships is inherently disrespectful to one's own friends. If you say that you "sent it in a group", and a friend responded to you happily by calling you by your nickname, well, you have successfully verified, and you know that there are still people who care about themselves. However, you have invisibly undermined that friend's trust in you.

However, there are two sides to everything. "Mass sending" can at least prove one point, that is, you still exist in the other party's address book.

Therefore, you don't need to have a cold attitude towards "group sending", at least, you can politely reply with "fun".

There is nothing wrong with "mass sending", but the mentality of "mass sending" should not be to verify one's interpersonal relationships. In other words, since you "send it in bulk", don't be depressed because you don't receive a reply or receive a lot of "fun". After all, what seed is, what plant will grow.

I think that if we can communicate well through the advanced communication equipment that is now developed, maybe everyone will not be so embarrassed. However, society is still a complex society, and the nature of the mind is still the nature of the mind itself......

There are also people who don't like how to communicate, and they like to be alone. But those people are different, because they are happy when they are alone, and the world is still full of hope. For example, some scientists and artists who are engaged in research......

Auntie played the melody of several songs, and I thought about it almost......

Grandma smiled and told me to go back to the "heart world" to take a shower and go to bed early, in fact, I wanted to tell my aunt that the soles of my feet were injured......

Because when I was helping in the field this evening, I couldn't see the stones in the field clearly, so I accidentally cut a hole. A somewhat numbing pain crept through the soles of my feet......

I don't want to say it though. I asked my aunt if there was hydrogen peroxide at home.

Auntie asked Uncle, oh, no.

Okay, then I'm ready to go out and go back to the "heart world". I don't want to limp when I'm out of the house, but the pain in the soles of my feet makes my nerves reflex naturally. I can't control it......

When I was about to ride, my aunt seemed to notice something wrong, so she rushed out and asked me if I had injured my foot.

I was quiet and said no. Although I would love for my family to show concern when they see that I am injured, since I don't have the conditions to meet them, then I don't need my family to worry about my health, and it's not a big deal.

Then, I slowly rode back......

Auntie was happily looking at the full moon in the sky at the door, saying the words of the moonlight......

Communication, it's really great!

The bright moonlight is still like an invisible angel quietly holding me, quietly ......

Before I went out, my uncle showed me some anagrams, which I had heard when I was a child.

The anagram is as follows:

The swan flies away and the bird does not return.

Good words go to the head of the pair.

The two trees are not connected to each other.

If you have a heart, you will not fly.

The words connected by this anagram are quite appropriate if you confess.

Looking at the comfortable full moon, well, I miss you very much.

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