It's finally hot, but it's not sweaty heat, it's damp and cool......

Yesterday's mild cold made me dare not blow the fan for a day, so much so that when I ate today, my back broke out in a cold sweat...... The only way I can heal myself from this cold is to make my body sweat.

Well, today is the fourth day of unleashing the beast within.

That bad habit almost captured me last night, because the whole person was dizzy, and my self-control was extremely weak, and it was very uncomfortable. Thankfully, when that bad habit was about to take my captive, I fell asleep before I knew it.

And today, my head is no longer dizzy, and my condition is much better, so naturally it can't be as rampant as yesterday.

Not necessarily, though.

Whenever I'm lonely, empty and cold, oh no, in a season like summer, it should be whenever I'm lonely, empty and hot, I miss my dear dear so much.

It's a good thing to miss it, but the more I miss it, and my dear is not around, then that bad habit will be extremely rampant! And this is undoubtedly a great test of my self-control.

No way, who told me that my imagination is so good?

Well, love her, so miss her.

But if you like it, won't you miss it too?

When I was with my first love, although I didn't know what to say, I missed it in my heart. Just like me and Xiaoshi nowadays, we talk on the phone too much every day, and I don't know what to say, but that doesn't mean that I don't miss her.

When I became lovers with my second love, Arou, on the Internet, even though we never actually met, I missed her at that time and had the expectation of seeing her. It's just that our feelings are also the fastest to fade, after all, we have never communicated face-to-face, and we don't know each other well enough.

It seems that if you like it, you will miss it.

So, what's the difference between liking and loving?

It's easy to get jealous if you like it, but what about love? I don't know.

When I was with my first love, she was easily jealous, and I was also jealous.

After becoming a lover with Arou online, she may be a little jealous, but I will still be easily jealous.

With my dear, she seems to be easily jealous, but she can't seem to see it, and I can't tell whether she will be jealous or not, and I, will be jealous, but not so strongly. After all, she is my wife, and I will have a little more security and trust in my heart.

Well, she had read what I had written a long time ago, and seemed to know something.

I forgot what topic I started with, she proudly said that she still has the buckle of her first love, and I was not convinced to say that I also have the buckle of my ex, but she calmly replied with a sentence that shocked me very much: "Is it Gan and Arou?"

I expressed disbelief: "Honey, do you remember?"

She smiled naturally: "What's that." ”

Well, even saying my ex's abbreviated name so calmly in front of me (she doesn't know her real name, she only remembers my abbreviated name), it seems that she doesn't mind me having my ex's button.

Well, that's good.

Of course, I don't mind that she has the buckle of her first love.

After all, it's a mutual respect and a trust. We trust each other, that's fine, what else can we have?

After all, what is the difference between liking and loving?

I wrote at the beginning of this book that there can be many girls you like, but you can only love one.

This idea was deepened by my idol not long ago, because I suddenly remembered the picture of "Shanghai Sweetheart", and unconsciously revisited the last episode.

Unexpectedly, in the last episode, Da Lang, who recovered his memory, said to Meijia: "The person you like is not the same as the person you love, there can be many people you like, but there is often only one person you love." ”

Oh my God! I didn't even have an impression of that when I first watched that show. Now after revisiting it, I found that this sentence is so close to my emotional outlook.

Well, yes, I've always felt so.

Like, it means that there is a lot of happiness, but there is also a lot of sadness and anger hidden. For example, if we are very happy together, but one day we have a conflict with each other, what kind of choices will we make and even what actions will we make to like each other? Give up our ideas for the sake of liking, or will we go from liking to disliking dislike?

Love represents happiness and warmth, but it also hides more hidden dangers than like, and it is in all aspects. For example, we are very happy together, but one day, there is a conflict between us, and even this contradiction has involved two families, so what kind of choices will we make and even what kind of actions will we make in our love? Give up our stubbornness for the sake of love? Or will we go from love to disheartened love?

Love and love are both beautiful, but they are not easy to keep.

In terms of the thickness of likes and loves, love may be a little thicker than likes.

If you like someone, but the person you like has done something that makes you angry, the likeness of forgiveness is lower than that of love.

If you love someone, but the person you love has done something that makes you angry, the probability that "love" will forgive you is higher than that of "liking".

In other words, love is more inclusive than like.

Like easy to start and easy to finish. Because, there are too many choices to like.

Love is not easy to begin and not easy to end. Because, the choice of love, is extremely rare. Unless, not true love.

It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's not necessarily that easy to fall in love with someone.

is like Ma Yili's sentence: Although it is easy to fall in love, marriage is not easy, but do it and cherish it.

Well, I love my dear because I am willing to tolerate her, always look at her good and feel her good side.

From the perspective of husband and wife, I dare not say that I am a good husband in China, but I think my wife is really a good wife in China.

Here, there is no narcissism, only the longing for my family's dear poems.