Under the long-term subtle influence of some immature remarks, you may always feel that your father is not good enough. Now, I'm honest about spreading out the portraits of family members in front of you, and see what kind of portraits of your father will come to your mind.

Things to see about your father.

A. My main experience: In 1961, when I was four years old, my mother (your grandmother), as a regular worker of the state, took the initiative to respond to the call of the state to leave the county agricultural machinery factory and return to the hometown to farm with a family. When I was about seven years old, I followed my uncle up the mountain every day to cut down trees, and of course, at that time, it was important to participate, and all I carried back were small trees. A year or two later, I took my sister and cut down all the small trees that my sister and I could carry up the mountain, named Gao Jian.

In the summer of 1965, I and more than a dozen children of the same age went to the hill between the millstone village and the chai pit three or four miles away from home to cut down trees. At about 4 p.m., I was walking with my companions on a hill carrying a small tree of nearly four meters on my shoulder, when suddenly a strong wind blew and it rained heavily. At this time, I was pushed forward by the strong wind for nearly 10 meters, and was pushed in front of a ten-story collapse (cliff), only one step away - I was about to fall, and when my legs were trembling, I was pushed backwards by the strong wind seven or eight paces, at which point I lowered the tree on my shoulder, hugged a mountain pine tree tightly, and waited until the wind and rain had passed before returning home. Over the decades, I have had several brushes with death (e.g., in 1976 and 1980, when I was disconnected from power after two electrocution accidents, and in the summer of 1985, when I was bleeding from my stomach and my sister was on her way to the hospital on a bicycle, I had dark eyes and lay on the ground for 10 minutes before I saw the light of day). In addition, in the course of my life, I have also fallen into the land of right and wrong and various difficulties many times, but it seems that there is always power to help me in the dark, so I can always move through, and you can't help but be unconvinced.

In 1967, when I was ten years old, my father (your grandfather) was criticized in the "Cultural * Revolution" movement, and then went to work in the county "May 7" cadre school, stopped working, stopped paying wages, and the family's monthly oil and salt money had no source. I used my holidays and school days to follow my mother up the mountain to chop miscellaneous wood, and every morning I picked it up to the town eight miles away to sell it. I was already in town before dawn, and I was glad to sell it for two dimes, and then went home for breakfast and went to school. The second year improved a little: I was able to sell for three cents in one morning. Later, when I was in high school, I drew gourds in the same way, and I also used the firewood I cut during the holidays to pick up the firewood to pay all the tuition and miscellaneous fees.

On the afternoon of the day I returned to my hometown after graduating from high school at the age of seventeen, I threw myself barefoot into the hardest summer harvest and summer planting in the countryside for a year. I got up at six in the morning and worked until eight in the evening, and ate two meals in the fields. During the more than 60 days of summer harvest and summer planting, although I was so tired every day that I sometimes wanted to sit on the ridge and rest for a while: "Even if I rest for five minutes, it's good!" But I still didn't lazy for a day. My spirit of enduring hardships has won the praise of the whole village. Before the age of 19, he became a village cadre in charge of nearly 1,000 people, and in three years, he was stationed in five production teams (eating, living, and working with the peasants in his team). Later, my hard-working spirit and the achievement of "planting two acres of rice in a single day" caused a sensation in the whole township, and was written into a radio script by the town and widely publicized.

When I was 18 years old, I worked as a primary school teacher for a year, and I used heuristic teaching to inspire students' learning initiative. When I left school, my students spontaneously gathered and demanded that the teacher who took over "teach like a summer teacher" in order to teach them well. Interestingly, the successor teacher was also my teacher once, and he listened to what my students asked him and looked embarrassed. In the spring of 1978, I became the first student to take the examination after the resumption of the national college entrance examination (that is, the class of 77) to study at Guangzhou Financial College, and was loved by teachers and students during my study in the school, and was rated as an "outstanding cadre" of the People's Bank of Guangdong. The school asked me to stay on campus many times to teach. In January 1980, I was assigned to work at the county people's bank, where I served as a loan officer, head of the personnel secretary unit, and manager of an information company until January 1992. During this period, he was commended by the county people's government as an "advanced worker on the financial and trade front" in 1983, and was commended as a "financial red flag bearer" at the prefectural and municipal levels by the municipal people's bank and the industrial and commercial bank of China in 1982, 1985 and 1986. In 1988 and 1989, the department under my leadership was successively commended as a provincial advanced unit by the Provincial Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, and was commended as an advanced unit by the Municipal Bank for three times (annual).

On January 6, 1992, I was seconded to the Shenzhen Special Economic Zone Corporation, and in the face of extreme difficulties, it took three months to open up the situation and gain a firm foothold, and finally became the core and support of the company. It was not only unanimously recognized by the whole company, but also commended by the Shenzhen Municipal People's Government as the "Advanced Auditing Worker" in 1993. In the year since I left the company, the employees continue to tell the new general manager about who I am.

On December 4, 1993, I found the newly established Shenzhen Meilin Financial Services Society to discuss the employment intention, and after examination and assessment, on the 16th, I was hired as a loan officer with the second place in the overall score; on March 4, 1994, I found Hubei Financial Services Society, and the next afternoon I was satisfied with the general manager Zhuang Yu and others, and immediately decided that I would be the manager of one of the credit departments of the financial service cooperative, and I would continue to serve until the Citizens Bank took over and renamed Hubei Branch as the manager of the credit department merged from the original four departments. The Chief of the Planning and Credit Section and the Director of the Treasury and Credit Department left until January 2000. During my tenure at the Citizens Bank, I was commended as an "Outstanding Party Member" by the Party Committee of the Citizens Bank in 1997 and 1999, and an "Advanced Individual" in the Citizens Banking System in 1998.

To sum up, when I was a child, I was a good child in the eyes of my elders, when I was a student, I was the pride of my teachers, when I returned to my hometown to work as a farmer, I was affirmed by my parents and villagers as a hard-working offspring, and I occasionally taught and taught. Later, after studying in Guangzhou, he broadened his horizons, and in the following decades, he also showed the demeanor of a bloody man in positions such as state cadres, senior managers of enterprises, banking supervisors, and private businessmen.

Now let's talk about the hardships and glory of entrepreneurship.

In the early years, as a middle-level cadre of a first-class enterprise under the municipal government, your father worked with the workers to install 10,000-ton hydraulic presses one by one. He also used an umbrella to find housing for his subordinate employees, carried suitcases for newly transferred employees, and gave up household registration indicators for new colleagues. In addition, I have not hesitated to act as an agent for the leadership and coordination of subordinate corporate enterprises, and my salary is two-thirds less than that of my subordinates, but I have no complaints.

Do you know how many floors there are in the Sichuan Building? Your father climbed up one floor to another, knocked on the doors of various companies, and handed out his business cards all the way to the top floor. When Merlin Financial Services opened for three months, I had one-third of my clients, and that's how I earned it.

Do you know how much money you were fined by the traffic police for riding a bicycle on the streets of Shenzhen in the early years? Your father was once fined twice by the traffic police for riding a 28-inch bicycle in the wrong direction at noon in the summer of 1994 because he was in a hurry to meet a customer, wearing a straw hat that is unique to the Hakka people but not popular in Shenzhen, and riding a 28-inch bicycle in the wrong direction.

Do you know what reputation is? When your father's personal name was working in this county, it may have been more precious and reliable in the minds of the township and town fathers and villagers than the signboard of the county people's government at that time; in Shenzhen, a place where fish and dragons are mixed, there were also meetings of core members of many large companies, such as the Guangdong ×× Shenzhen Company and the Shenzhen ×× Co., Ltd., to confirm that "summer is reliable" When dealing with my unit (depositing tens of millions of yuan in huge deposits and handling related sensitive business), I was only confirmed and did not rely on my unit. As the saying goes, gold has a price, and personal reputation and credibility can be bought with money!

In the summer of 1992, the head office gave me a difficult task: to apply to the district environmental protection bureau for a "product production license" containing hexachloroethane, which is harmful to the human body. I sat in the office of the Environmental Protection Bureau for half an hour, and when I heard the staff say to a customer in a joking tone with a Hakka accent, "Why don't you go to ×× seafood restaurant for dinner at noon?" Then, I asked them about the possibility of applying for a certificate from a consulting perspective. The next day, I took the tea and mushrooms from my hometown directly to their office, and said: "My hometown is not a respect", and after a smile and greeting, I got the receipt of the certificate. Seven days later, when I saw the general manager of the company, who was 12 years older than me, looking at the "Product Production License", his face glowing red with excitement and his mouth that could not be closed, I was convinced that I had gained a firm foothold in the head office.

In 1992, your father went to a factory in Tianmian Village, Shenzhen, for 15 minutes to observe and worked out a performance-linked "Full Load Work Law" and "Auxiliary Material Factory's Plan for Improving Production Management and Encouraging Overproduction and Quality Protection." In less than a year, the program has become a management norm for five similar factories in the Pearl River Delta region of Guangdong Province (Foshan, Nanhai, Shenzhen and other places) to implement.

Recalling that at the beginning of the implementation of the plan, there was a lot of resistance, and an administrator who graduated from the factory with a master's degree reluctantly asked me: "What you wrote after 15 minutes in our factory works?"

I said, "You've been managing the factory for half a year, how long do you think it will take to make something that works?"

She blushed and dazed, not daring to speak again.

Do you know the meaning of "turning the tide of the tide"? During my work at the Shenzhen Minmin Bank (including the Financial Services Society), I took the lead in coordinating the handling and response of nearly 10 complicated financial fraud cases, including the "Anyan and Anwei Company Loan Cases" in which the loan principal and interest amounted to more than 200 million yuan in which the Central Political and Legal Commission issued instructions to "seriously investigate and deal with them," and the "Guizhou China Merchants (Shenzhen) Company and Shenzhen Taishan Company Mortgage Loan Cases," which involved both deep and wide cross-provincial projects. Shenzhen Eagle Industry and Trade Company pledged a loan of 27 million yuan with 30 million fake deposit receipts", the "Shenzhen Jianhua Company's car operation license plate duplicate mortgage case" involving a number of banks in Shenzhen, the "Huanglong Hotel series of loans and collateral were divided", the "Bao'an Welfare Bed Industry Company Suspected Loan Fraud Case" that has been entangled for several years and caused extensive impact, and the "Shenzhen Ningfeng Industrial Development Co., Ltd. and Shenzhen 38 Joint Stock Company's loan mortgage invalidity dispute case, and so on. Over the past four years, it has taken the lead in receiving and accepting no less than 30 investigations and inquiries from the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection and the Beijing Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection, the procuratorial and investigative organs of sister provinces and cities, and the public, procuratorial and judicial organs of Shenzhen Municipality.

This kind of party passively coping with the interests of the unit and often being suspected of being a party and co-defendant of a vested interest, while the other side relies on the public power of the political and legal organs, and occasionally there may be a game and contest mixed with the emotions and interests of the case-handling personnel, which is a dangerous and complicated collision process again and again. The experience can be described as treading waves at sea.

In 1998, the relevant departments of Bao'an District framed the so-called "four major fraud cases" in Bao'an, which involved the smallest amount of loan disputes involving our bank, to reflect my working environment.

On December 27, 1994, Bao'an Welfare Bed Industry Co., Ltd., a private enterprise in Bao'an, applied for a loan of 3.5 million yuan from our bank with three real estate properties in Bao'an Industrial Village as collateral. After the expiration date, the enterprise was unable to repay the loan, so the bank sued the Shenzhen Intermediate People's Court in 1997, and the Intermediate People's Court ruled in favor of the Bank on November 3, 1997, and the industrial village should bear joint and several liability for repayment with the mortgaged real estate. Dissatisfied, on the one hand, the industrial village appealed to the Guangdong Provincial High People's Court, and argued that the case was a fraud case. On 21 May 1998, the Provincial High People's Court rejected the appeal and upheld the original judgment. The Provincial High Court clearly pointed out that the contract in this case "was legal, the formalities were complete, and it was an expression of the true intentions of both parties, and should be deemed valid." …… As for the question of whether Chen Lianping constituted fraud, it is not within the scope of the trial of this case, and this court will not deal with it. On the other hand, the industrial village organized villagers to petition collectively during the party congress held in the province, which attracted great attention from the province and the city. In this way, the district political and legal departments regard it as a major matter for maintaining the stability of one side, file criminal cases and jointly handle cases among the public, procuratorial, and judicial departments. As a result, various means came out: Chen Lianping, the company's legal representative, was taken into custody and used special means to obtain testimony. The four people who handled the loan in our bank also made records of their inquiries.

What is even more bizarre is that on August 16, 1998, Chen Lianping, who was detained by the Public Security Bureau, actually wrote me a letter on special letterhead, which was sent by Chen Lianping's lover, in which he said: "When I arrived at the Public Security Bureau, I heard that you and Zhuang Yu, the general manager of the financial services cooperative, divided the interest difference of more than 700,000 yuan I paid, and you got 250,000 yuan. Give me back your share, and I'll keep you right. "Yunyun.

After reading the letter, I thought of going to the Public Security Bureau on June 16, 1998 to talk about the loan process, and the handling police officers flashed that I was a "Hakka elite" and "had two guts", and they had been rudely entangled with the loan handlers many times afterwards, and I felt that someone was acting for some purpose (such as determining that the loan was illegal). From May 4, 1998 to June 24, 1998, during the investigation of the bank by the public security officers, the leaders of the sub-branch and I first actively cooperated with the investigation, but later saw that some of the public security officers and policemen were more outrageous, and our attitude became more and more tough.

On October 19, 1998, the industrial village submitted an Application for Retrial to the Supreme People's Court, requesting the court to revoke the final judgment and transfer the entire case to the District Public Security Bureau for investigation. Subsequently, the industrial estate submitted a letter of complaint to the ********. Subsequently, the trial supervision division of the Provincial High Court initiated the trial supervision procedure. On June 18, 1999, we submitted to the Provincial High People's Court the "Opinions on the Application for Retrial by an Industrial Villagers' Committee in Shenzhen", firmly grasping the fact that the industrial village claimed that it had "only obtained a loan of 1 million yuan", indicating that the industrial village committee was aware of it and should uphold the original judgment.

At this point, the Provincial Court expressly ordered the Shenzhen Intermediate People's Court to resume the enforcement procedure.

On July 8, 1999, in response to the request of the Industrial Village Committee, which had returned to the negotiating table, I submitted to the head office of the People's Bank of China the "Request for Instructions on the Alternative Handling of the Loan Collateral of Bao'an Welfare Bed Industry Company", which was approved. On the morning of July 12, 1999, under the leadership of the Municipal Intermediate People's Court, the president of the ×× Town Court and the judge of the Intermediate Court waited at the door of my office early in the morning and invited me to go to the People's Government of Bao'an ×× Town to sign the Enforcement Settlement Agreement with the Industrial Villagers Committee of Party B* District and the People's Government of Party C ×× Town (the payer) on behalf of the Hubei Branch. After the three parties signed, the Municipal Intermediate People's Court immediately served the (1999) Shen Zhong Fa Zhi Zi No. B018-153 Civil Ruling, which was made on July 11, 1999, to terminate the case.

As one of the parties, Chen Shengli, director of the industrial village committee of a certain district, invited us to inspect the village appearance of the industrial village with great sincerity when signing the contract, and held a banquet for us at the best hotel in the district at noon. During the dinner, the village chief apologized to the bank and me.

On May 25, 1998, when the dark tide began to surge before the end of this case, I, as a party to the loan handle, wrote the following paragraph to my core subordinates with firm will:

"As a post training, the Provincial High Court's Judgment No. 170 is hereby provided for you to read. At the very least, the book can give us the following inspirations:

First, it shows the complexity of economic phenomena. As an employee in the position of economic management and planning management, he should constantly exercise the ability to extract the essence from the rough and the false and retain the true in the economic analysis and enterprise exchanges, and should abandon the practice of following the crowd and avoiding emotion.

Second, the complexity of Shenzhen's economic environment. After losing the case in the first instance, the appellant proposed and took quite extreme measures (as can be seen from the appellate brief cited in the judgment), and the three comrades who handled the loan withstood right and wrong because of their conscientious work and meticulous memory. It negates the argument that 'the notarization, registration, and approval of loans are illegal'.

3. The importance of safeguarding the interests of the unit. The Bank's defence was also quite competent. It grasps the two main points of the statement of 'sub-loan' in the appeal of the village committee and the "certificate" of the industrial village committee kept in the credit file, and shows that the voluntary act of the industrial village committee in mortgage negates the statement that it has been deceived, thus preserving the bank's creditor's rights. A "certificate" became physical evidence, and its value exceeded the sum of the principal and interest of the loan.

Through learning, we should gain something in the code of conduct. ”

Child: Recently, I looked at some of my work records, diaries and "1994-1996 Audit Materials" during my work in the bank, which is a "flexible measure" between a red light and a yellow light It is truly frightening, and the power to approve loans in my hands is also unbelievable: during the period of the Financial Services Agency, I was one of the two core personnel who could approve a single loan of 10 million yuan, and after the takeover of the Citizens Bank, the comprehensive response measures implemented in the face of the payment crisis were also enough to please. On several occasions, I linked my personal honor and disgrace to the rise and fall of my unit: When the bank was ordered to suspend business for rectification, I tried my best to coordinate with the People's Bank of China to reopen business; in 1996 and 1997, when the bank was facing a payment crisis, I submitted the "Instructions on Reducing the Penalty Interest on Overdue Loans in order to Assist in Replenishing Funds," and after the implementation of the report, I coordinated with the old loan households to assist the branch in depositing a fixed deposit of 160 million yuan; and in 1998, I submitted to the head office the "Proposal on Adjusting the Interest Rate on the Overdue Loans of the Bank" And with approval, more than 20 enterprises responded in the coordination again, and obtained a fixed deposit of 177 million yuan for the sub-branch, thus gaining time for the bank's survival.

Looking back, there is a sentence that I always want to say: I was born in a relatively happy era, and looking at the first half of my life, although I did not become a big official, I did great things; although I did not have the opportunity to go to the military battlefield filled with gunpowder, I personally experienced the intricate battle for survival in the economic and financial fields.

During the period of reform and opening up, Shenzhen's elites from all walks of life gathered in Shenzhen, and at the same time, there were also many very clever swindlers flocking to Shenzhen. Lending decision-makers not only have the power in their hands, but also have the responsibility to lend money as quickly as possible to achieve business performance. As a result, there is no shortage of entrepreneurs and fraudsters. Looking back on my more than ten years of struggle in Shenzhen, I was able to write this article very freely, which is enough to show that I am a man who stands up to the sky.

In the winter of 1993, when the joint working group of the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee and the Shenzhen Municipal Personnel Bureau decided that I would be a candidate for general manager of the Shenzhen Special Economic Zone Corporation, I knew that I could not do anything but did nothing, and within five days I took advantage of the annual leave of cadres to quickly become a loan officer at the Meilin Financial Services Cooperative, which marked the second anniversary of my transfer to the Special Economic Zone Headquarters and my official departure. Hence the birth of "Feel free to come to the floral shop".

People may inadvertently underestimate this flower shop, but its significance lies in the fact that in a city like Shenzhen, where talent competition is fierce and highly commercialized, we can still find a way to survive without begging grandpa and grandmother, and can completely support ourselves with our own hands with simple labor. It can be said that this flower shop is the stroke of genius of the father and mother who do not know how to do business, and it has made the huge mental pressure of my father since he was transferred to Shenzhen invisible, and since then he has taken a relaxed step and walked on the road of a leisurely life.

Do you know what it means to be calm? When your father first arrived in Shenzhen in early 1992 and received a salary of 480 yuan a month, he had endless joy at work. Because of his busyness, he spent the Spring Festival in Shenzhen in 1993, and by the morning of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the family had not even bought the rice for the New Year. In 1995, when I received a contract salary of 8,500 yuan per month at the financial services agency, and I was not happy when I received 80,000 or 90,000 yuan a month when the actual performance salary was the highest.

In my experience in Shenzhen, there has been a short period of coexistence of challenges and opportunities, and a short period of being a man with his tail between his legs, a period of being respected and having the right to have no money, a period of having the right to have money and a period of attracting attention, a transitional period of replacing new peaches with old charms and waiting to fade out, and the current period of raising flowers and grass under the leisurely and self-satisfied picking chrysanthemums and quinoa. No matter what the period, I can say that I have done it: first, consciously transform as quickly as possible. For example, immediately change from mouth-based organization and coordination to hands-on. Second, in terms of ideology and concepts, we should look at the years that have passed in the process of life stages, and neither nostalgia nor regret. As the so-called:

is not frightened, and the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court;

Go and stay unintentionally, with the clouds in the sky.

——I can say without exaggeration that to be indifferent to the world's fame and fortune, and the warmth and warmth of human feelings, this is the realm of understanding the true meaning of life and having considerable attainments.

B. My ABC of learning. I have always longed for learning: as early as August 26, 1964, my mother registered me for elementary school, which was called "Breaking School", and I sat on the wall in front of my ancestral house in my hometown, and when I met people, I would say, "How wonderful! In five days, I will go to school!" "When I was in high school, I was nicknamed "One Hundred in Five Subjects" because I scored a total of 498 points in five subjects in my final exam, which attracted the envy of many of my classmates. In 1972 and 73, when the county built the Fushi Reservoir in a town, during the Spring Festival, the Education Bureau organized teachers from all over the county to participate in voluntary labor, and my high school teacher brought my exam paper to the labor site in the form of a package of New Year's fruits, and left it on the dam intentionally or unintentionally.

From 1975 to 1992, I taught in primary, secondary and tertiary courses. Among them, more than 120 hours of teaching are taught in secondary school courses. From October to December 1983, when I was studying at Guangzhou Finance College, I completed the preparation of the fourth chapter of the lecture notes of "Industrial and Commercial Credit" of more than 10,000 words for the school. In September 1984, my first paper, "On the Relationship between Strengthening Fund Management and Improving Economic Efficiency", was recommended by Professor Wang Weimin, a famous financial educator and national model worker, to be published in the provincial professional theoretical journal "Guangdong Financial Research", and now a total of 360,000 words of papers, materials and documents have been published in professional journals at the central, provincial and municipal levels or adopted by higher-level competent units. At the same time, I also participated in three provincial economic and financial theory seminars with my paper as a "ticket". In 1986, I obtained a diploma in Chinese Language and Literature from Sun Yat-sen University. In 1994, I successfully obtained the title of economist in the first national intermediate and senior professional title examination. Since 1987, I have been a member of the Guangdong Society of Urban Finance, the Shenzhen Audit Society, the Shenzhen Institute of Engineers, and a member of the Shenzhen Financial and Economic Expert Committee.

C. My self-evaluation.

First, I have integrity, honesty and jealousy in my bones, which is what Li Yongqi said in "Outwitting Tiger Mountain": "People in the mountains have the final say, and a sincere heart can face the sky." But this characteristic is not only a great defect of life in a commodity society, but it also dooms me and others like me to be unable to do much in peacetime in the officialdom of the worship of hypocrisy. According to a scholar who studied the history of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, in his later years, he said that he had two kinds of qi: one was tiger spirit, that is, domineering - rigidity and principle, and the other was monkey spirit - flexibility. Looking at ***'s life, he is indeed a master of flexibly using these two qi according to the changes in the objective environment in which he lives. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, when he was worried that the United States would support Chiang Kai-shek, he showed that he liked American-style democracy more than Chiang, praised the United States, and said that he would go to the Mississippi Valley to investigate, which seemed to imply something. Later, the tiger spirit of the world was also displayed: in the struggle to resist US aggression and aid Korea and resist US aggression and aid Vietnam, he did not hesitate to meet the United States. This is what successful politicians (or officials) do.

I also don't know if it's right or not: a person with a strong tiger spirit and no monkey spirit, or a person with a strong monkey spirit but no tiger spirit, will not be able to succeed in officialdom and achieve complete victory in life. You see, Marshal Peng Dehuai, who was praised as "Who dares to cross the sword and stand up, only I am General Peng!", has both Yue Fei's loyalty and bravery, and Xiang Yu's domineering: In the military field, he was not afraid of the Kuomintang, the Japanese, or the American soldiers all his life. What a good guy this is - tiger spirit is written on his face. However, he did not have monkey spirit, therefore, he was an outstanding military strategist, but he failed to become a successful politician, and he was destined to be unable to eat fragrant and spicy food in the post-peace officialdom.

In layman's terms, politics (officialdom) is the art of compromise, but I disdain compromise, or I haven't learned the art of coordination. On the other hand, since I was a teenager, I was often praised by teachers and students because of my excellent academic performance, and I participated in too many social activities as a student representative in both elementary and middle schools (for example, I became a member of the "Revolutionary Committee" of the brigade in my hometown at the age of 11, which was very interesting), and I developed the feeling of standing out from the crowd. During my tenure in the bank, I was relied on by the unit because of my excellent work ability and work results, and became an important decision-maker and actual main executor of the unit beyond the authority of my position. Generally speaking, I am only suitable to be the first or second in command of the unit. When I do not hold such a position, but when I exercise the power of this position, on the one hand, a force is formed to resist and oppose me, either explicitly or implicitly, just as the ancients said: "When the wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, and when it is piled up on the shore, the flow will be turbulent." On the other hand, it leads directly to a smaller circle of vertical linkages and horizontal coordination. Frankly, I was a student who studied "Behavioral Relations" or said "Administrative Relations" and did not graduate.

Second, I also have outstanding problems in grasping the critical points between principle and flexibility, conservatism and flexibility, and rigidity and softness. Mr. Mao said that there should be a pine style and a willow style, which is the problem he is talking about. Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching: "Good is like water." Water is good for all things without fighting, and it is evil for everyone, so it is more than the Tao. Dwelling in a good place, a good heart, a good heart, a good word, a good word, a good governance, a good work, and a good time. The husband is indisputable, so there is no especially. "In modern times, there are also people who talk about the idea of water: the mountains are dignified and the water is round. However, if the water is round, I don't approve of it. You see, several idioms related to water can be seen: water and milk, like water tenderness - it is a bit mellow, but the following are different: water and fire are ruthless, water and fire are incompatible: the principle of water, the flood beast: describe the ferocity of water, the water drop stone wears: say the tenacious will, perseverance and determination of water, and like the flow of water: say that water is irreversible. Also, water flows downward: it is the principle and purpose of irreversible water, but it achieves this goal with a high degree of flexibility. You see, when the water hits a rock, it immediately turns around, and when it hits a high mountain, you have to dive underground, but in the end you still have to run towards your goal.

Third, my logical thinking ability is too strong and my visual thinking ability is relatively insufficient. The former led me to analyze the problem to the point, and the disadvantages were three points when observing. In this way, when interacting with people, they can clearly see the intentions and shortcomings of the other person, and have a sense of insight. These characteristics are also a big obstacle in communicating with people, which may be the true meaning of Mr. Zheng Banqiao's lament that "it is rare to be confused". Therefore, I am not good at, unhappy, and do not like to communicate with others more, especially when I have requirements for others, I am very shy and difficult to speak. When people look at the accomplished politicians, military strategists, industrialists, and wealthy businessmen in ancient and modern times, there is no one who does not seek help. In a commodity society, people who don't ask for others are not successful people. Being too embarrassed when seeking things is actually the idea of loving face, and loving face and being vain are twins. When it comes to face, the key is to build on strength. Two examples are thought-provoking: First, during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, not only did the Eighth Route Army and the New Fourth Army under the leadership of the Communist Party fight the enemy by eating weeds and tree roots, but even the Kuomintang Expeditionary Force under the command of Dai Anlan had to eat tree roots and banana leaves in the China-Burma Theater to survive. Second, in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China, Premier Zhou, as the prime minister of a big country, wore rotten shirts when he visited abroad. Every day at the end of the day, I took it off and washed it for my female comrades in the embassy of the country where I was staying, and they wept emotionally while washing it because our prime minister was still wearing such clothes. Let's think about it, is the handsome and dashing Premier Zhou a person who doesn't love his own face? And the lack of visual thinking ability makes it difficult for me to improve my literary quality by leaps and bounds, and the foreshadowing is always not deeply buried. Thirty years ago, I wrote a long autobiographical essay "Twenty Years of China" in Guangzhou, which was passed on to students who were in the middle of spring, and who were perhaps unrealistically looking forward to the birth of another great Chinese writer. At that time, I wrote in the article: In another 30 years, I will write "Forty Years" as a historical commemoration of my life's struggle.

Yes, I have experienced nearly 30 years of life experience, and I have personally experienced the whole process of the first 30 years of the motherland's reform and opening up. At the same time, he became both a victim and a beneficiary of social progress during this period. What a valuable historical testimony this is! How many interesting life experiences it has accumulated for me! As long as you have a little literary accomplishment, an epic historical picture scroll will come to life. And my complex experience in the financial services agency and the Citizens Bank is enough to write a long story about finance that is full of ups and downs, ups and downs, and fascinating. Why can't it be written into a book? People who know my experience and read my articles may be full of regrets. Of course, it is myself who should be most regretted.

Let's see, when I'm 60 years old, to see if I can do this well, it may be a good deed that is very meaningful to society and will affect my children and grandchildren.

Fourth, the inspiration of family education for future generations is:

(1) A good family education must establish a center in the family, and cultivate the same voice to educate children. It is not possible to artificially, take it for granted, and unconsciously set up the opposition between parents and the opposition between the upper and lower levels. Don't brag about yourself in front of your child, lest it lead him to subtly turn his father, mother, grandfather, or grandmother into a tool that he can choose and use to achieve his own goals.

(2) Whether or not you are willing to spend money on your children cannot be used as the standard for loving your children. Good parents will not give their children money to spend at will, and good children do not need parents to spend more money on education (in terms of educating future generations, the popular phrase "no matter how hard the child is, no matter how poor he is, he can't be poor in education", may not have a bad intention, but from the objective effect, it is a very wrong and very harmful slogan. Once the children and grandchildren lie in the pile of money and are pampered and cannot extricate themselves, it will be a great misfortune for the country, the nation, the ancestors, and the children and grandchildren themselves; and if a child is born with a stubborn child, the parents will not be able to make him a talented person even if they exhaust their billions of family fortunes, but will end up with both people and money and increase their resentment.

(3) It is very important to judge the direction of children's education, and you can't take it for granted and blindly go to the dark in the alley of "Jackie Chan" and don't want to turn back. Recently, when Professor Ding Zhaozhong talked about his experience of growing up with his mother, who received a master's degree in educational psychology in the United States in his early years, he proudly believed that it was his mother who never cared about how many points he scored during his studies, and often said, "It's good to take the test", which enabled him to develop his talent in the future and become a Nobel laureate in physics in his forties.

(4) Educating children is like the way of human existence, with unswerving will, perseverance, determination and perseverance, and not to be swayed by children's crying, laughter and noise. Fathers, mothers, grandfathers, and grandmothers who can't pass this pass will undoubtedly have to pay a heavy price.

(5) Elders should calmly analyze the reasons why "they are rich for no more than three generations". In my opinion, there are at least two types of elderly people who have to "pay" for this: one is the person who was very difficult in his youth, and after working hard to make a fortune, he no longer wants to see his children and grandchildren suffer and worship his children and grandchildren. The second is that when their children and grandchildren enter the road of life, their minds are full of humanistic thoughts, and at the same time, they have too high expectations for their children and grandchildren. Such people want to keep their children and grandchildren in captivity as the endangered South China tiger in the zoo. Just imagine, even if his children have good genes, it is in vain.

I've watched a lot of TV movies about Animal World, and many animals on the planet educate their children in ways that are far smarter, more effective, and more practical than humans. Why, because they know that if they don't improve the ability of their children and grandchildren to survive, it means the demise of their own people. Therefore, the wisest method is always used to educate children to surpass in inheritance, improve in tempering, and survive in competition.

Child, your grandfather didn't have the opportunity to go to school and read. First, when he was a child, he took advantage of the opportunity of herding cattle to listen to the teacher at the gate of the primary school and practice writing on the sand with a bullwhip. The second is to study your own after participating in the work. Later, he had the education level of graduating from junior high school, and he was able to teach me the "hats, theories, narratives, and fruits" that I should pay attention to when I wrote articles in high school. Your father was much better off when he was studying, and he successfully completed high school, but the college entrance examination was interrupted because of the national political movement. Later, when the country resumed the college entrance examination, he was admitted to the technical secondary school, and obtained a university diploma after working. When I was in high school, your grandfather bought me a "Pocket English-Chinese Dictionary" from his salary of only 48 yuan a month, and he gave me many examples and told me: "How important foreign languages are!" Later, I went to Guangzhou and Shenzhen and experienced the importance of English, but it was too late. My concern is whether my children and grandchildren will still not have much of a grasp of foreign language learning like I do.

Well, I commented on myself, and I said a lot endlessly, maybe Huang Po is suspected of selling melons.

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