Yan Rushun is full of chicken blood and is ready to make a five-year plan.

Maybe it's because I've always paid attention to adjusting the relationship between work and rest, and Jian Jian's life time is very regular.

Except for taking a nap for an hour in the morning, taking a nap for more than two hours in the afternoon, and sleeping backwards at 9 o'clock in the evening, Jianjian's other activity time has been basically synchronized with adults.

This gives you plenty of time to play and learn interactively.

Yan Rushun arranged the day well:

After breakfast, I took her downstairs for a walk, and also did English enlightenment, biology class enlightenment, or chatting and teaching on what she saw and heard on the roadside;

Look at the sun getting stronger and stronger, just come back for lunch, have a little heart, and then do activities on the crawling mat in the activity room;

After lunch, play with toys, and then take a nap;

When you wake up, tell a picture book story and have dinner;

After dinner, I took her for a walk, to see the street stalls, square dance aunts, students in the training school, etc., in short, to let her see as much as possible about the world, and she also carefully explained to her daughter how everyone they met on the road lived, and what the ins and outs of everything they encountered.

Whether Jian Jian understood or not, or how much she understood, she thought that these insights would always help her understand the world she lived in more deeply.

Finally, I went home to drink milk and sleep, and ended the day's trip successfully.

Of course, to perfectly realize her arrangement, she can only wait for the weekend, after all, she usually has to "go to work". However, Yan's mother promised to do her best to comply with her request.

It's not ideal, but life isn't perfect.

Yan Rushun was a little entangled, and convinced himself that this was an acceptable plan, at least he could not only adhere to the early education of his children, but also ensure his code time, and make the family relatively harmonious.

She made up her mind to calm down and follow the plan well, stick to it, and prove that her decision to go full-time was irreplaceable for her children, but life began to toss one after another.

First, the mother-in-law informed the young couple that they must take the child back to their hometown in Qingcheng together, because Jian Jian's maternal great-grandfather is about to celebrate his eighty-ninth birthday.

Ten for women and nine for men.

The eighty-ninth birthday is regarded as the ninetieth birthday for men, so naturally it is not allowed to be sloppy. Jian Jian has been more than seven months, so she has to make a trip.

Although the drive is only one or two hours, and I only stay in Qingcheng for two days, I really feel like moving with my children.

There are a lot of milk drinking utensils alone, such as breast pumps, feeding bottles, bottle warmers, bottle sterilizers, etc., plus a large bag of diapers, soft wipes to wipe the buttocks, wet wipes to wipe the mouth and hands, change of clothes, special dishes and chopsticks, and portable folding cribs, etc., to fill the entire trunk.

I couldn't fit it like this, so I had to pile up two bags in the back seat.

Before getting into the car, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fought over the position of the car.

Xin's mother usually has very little contact with her children, and this time she wants to sit next to her granddaughter in the car, teasing the children all the way, which can be regarded as a joy.

Yan Rushun persuaded her to sit in the front row.

Although Jian Jian also has the experience of riding in a car, this is the first time to take a long distance, and she is not sure if her daughter can last for an hour or two of the journey, and she has prepared a lot of food and play to appease.

And this matter, she selfishly felt that her mother-in-law couldn't handle it.

But Xin's mother didn't think so, and insisted on sitting with Jian Jian by herself.

Yan Rushun originally wanted to fight again, but Xin Weiyang pulled her: "It's okay to let my mother take care of Jian Jian, you just come to take care of me." ”

She couldn't help but glance at him, meaning: You are so big, do you still need me to take care of you?

Xin Weiyang hurriedly added: "If Mom really can't take care of it, you can change your position." ”

As soon as he said this, his mother-in-law took advantage of the situation and shouted, "Okay, that's it", and got into the back seat of the car with a cat's waist, and then teased Jian Jian with excitement, and Jian Jian didn't seem to be uncomfortable.

Seeing this situation, Yan Rushun could only reluctantly sit in the front passenger seat.

After sitting down, hearing Jian Jian's giggles, she comforted herself again: It's good to be busy and sneaky. Her behavior just now may not be in the eyes of her mother-in-law to prevent her grandmother from making love to her granddaughter, and her mother-in-law did not directly put on a "unfilial" hat for her, which is already very polite.

Thinking like this, she also put down her burden and took out the prepared snacks with peace of mind.

Xin Weiyang stepped on the accelerator lightly, and the car drove smoothly onto the road.

Yan Rushun took a bite by himself, and also fed Xin Weiyang a bite, and the two looked at each other and smiled, which was a rare comfort.

However, this comfort did not last long, and Jian Jian in the back seat burst into tears.

Yan Rushun looked back, and Xin's mother hurriedly coaxed Jian Jian in a panic, but only received a cry that was higher than the other. Jian Jian didn't want to sit in the safety seat honestly, and stretched her arms in the direction of her mother.

"Oh, what did you do kid, just now you were smiling like a flower, and in a blink of an eye, your face changed, and grandma didn't do anything. Xin's mother nagged and shirked her responsibility.

Yan Rushun pursed her lips and exchanged a helpless look with Xin Weiyang.

Jian Jian is generally a very happy child, laughing a lot and crying less. Every time she cried, Yan Rushun would immediately step forward, check the situation, and comfort softly, and soon she would be able to calm down in her mother's soft voice. My grandmother was trained and slowly acquired this skill.

But obviously, grandma can't do it.

Xin Weiyang immediately pulled over: "Mom, you better change places with Shun Shun." ”

Xin's mother was very unhappy, but she could only get up helplessly: "Okay, okay, you come." This kid has such a bad personality, you have to teach her well. ”

A child who is only seven months old, how can there be any stubborn and unstubborn character, let alone teach or not.

Yan Rushun scolded in his heart, but he didn't say anything, just changed his position and untied Jian Jian from the safety seat. When I checked it, I found that she had poop.

Now I had to wipe my butt with soft wipes, then open the trunk, take out the basin and handkerchief, and then bring out the hot water kettle......

Xin's mother looked at the question mark: "What are you doing?"

"Wash your ass. Xin Weiyang replied with a sigh.

"What are you paying attention to when you're out of the house?"

"This is my mother's request, saying that if you don't pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene, it is easy for girls to get infected. Yan Rushun explained.

Xin's mother pursed her lips and said casually: "Your mother is poor and exquisite, how can she be so troublesome." ”

Just approved her daughter, and now she is starting to criticize her mother again, Yan Rushun was unhappy, so she smiled at Xin's mother without smiling, and said softly or hard: "Mom, it's okay, you sit and rest, I don't bother you here." ”

The implication is: I don't bother you to do it all the time, what are you complaining about?

Xin's mother glanced at her, snorted, and sat aside to watch her busy.

She greeted naturally: "Weiyang, you hug Jianjian, I'll wash it." ”

Xin Weiyang made a bitter face: This taste is really fresh and hot enough, if it weren't for his daughter, he would definitely run as far as he could. Now I have to pinch my nose and admit it.

When Xin's mother heard this, she immediately jumped up: "Oh, it's just a butt wash, why do you need two people?"

Her son is the pride of the sky, how can he be casually instructed by his wife to wash the children's buttocks?

Yan Rushun deliberately instructed Xin Weiyang in front of her, and at this time, she was even more virtuous and virtuous: "It's a little more convenient and faster, Mom, you have a good rest, let us take care of it ourselves." ”

Xin's mother leaned over and pushed her son away, complaining: "You don't know how to wash the child's buttocks yourself, you have to say that the two of you are good at washing." Forget it, I'll give you a hand. ”

Yan Rushun stopped her: "Mom, Wei Yang is Jian Jian's father, we should do these things ourselves, you can rest first." As he spoke, he gestured fiercely with his eyes.

Fortunately, at a critical time, Xin Weiyang still has responsibility.

He took the initiative to take Jian Jian, and at the same time persuaded: "Mom, we will be fine soon, don't worry." ”

Xin's mother glared at him and helplessly stepped aside.

When everything was cleaned up, Xin's mother naturally sat in the back row, but Jian Jian didn't do it, stretching out her arms and whining for her mother.

"An An, grandma will sit with you. Don't you know grandma?"

The little one just howls hard.

Yan Rushun was silent.

Xin Weiyang had no choice but to come forward: "Mom, it's the first time for Jian Jian to walk such a long way, and it's normal to be a little emotional." You'd better let Shun Shun accompany her. ”

The facts are in front of her, and Xin's mother can't argue if she wants to.

She changed places with Yan Rushun with an unhappy face.

Fortunately, Yan Rushun effectively comforted her daughter, and there were no twists and turns along the way.

The old family in Qingcheng is full of people in and out, and distant relatives and neighbors gather together, not to mention how lively it is. Xin's mother showed up with her son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter, and was naturally warmly welcomed by everyone.

Xin's mother proudly puffed out her chest and introduced her granddaughter to everyone: "The big name is Xin An, and the little name is An An." ”

Yan Rushun glanced at her and didn't speak.

By this time, Jian Jian was no longer ugly when she was born. Although the shape of the head is not round enough, it is much better-looking, and the body is fleshy, just like a New Year's doll, which is very cute.

A large group of relatives gathered around with a hula.

It was the first time Jian Jian saw this scene, and immediately fell into her mother's arms and refused to look up. Relatives don't talk about hugging, they want to tease, but the little guy doesn't give face.

A distant cousin of Xin Weiyang said: "Ouch, Brother Yang, your daughter is too familiar to be alive, she can't keep the child at home, you have to bring her to meet her relatives often, so that everyone can be affectionate." ”

The relatives next to him coaxed: "Yes, yes, relatives just have to move around often, Weiyang, you have to take An An back often." ”

Xin Weiyang nodded in response.

Xin's mother helped her son play a round: "He is busy with work, and you don't know it, of course you will try to come back if you can come back." ”

Everyone exchanged pleasantries for a while, and Mother Xin took them back to greet Old Man Fu.

After asking, a group of enthusiastic relatives and friends surrounded Jian Jian.

Wherever Yan Rushun goes, they follow.

One of the cousins still had a cigarette in his mouth, so he came up with a big grin and stretched out his arms to Jian Jian: "An An, cousin will report one." ”

Yan Rushun felt very uncomfortable, and the whole person was a gesture of refusal.

Xin Weiyang smiled next to him and said, "Cousin, they all say that smoking is not good for children, why don't you go outside first and then come in?"

The cousin smiled awkwardly, threw away the cigarette, extinguished the green smoke with the tip of his shoe, and stretched out his arms to Jian Jian again: "An An, cousin report." ”

lost the cigarette and still smelled of smoke, Yan Rushun refused to give him Jian Jian. It's just that this is a persistent elder, and he just accepted her criticism and suggestions very kindly, and it is said that he has done his best to be benevolent and righteous, and it is really hard to refuse.

Fortunately, Xin An turned his head and hid back in his mother's arms as usual.

Yan Rushun took the opportunity to explain with a smile: "She has been recognizing her life since she was three months old, and sometimes she refuses to ask her father to hug her, and her cousin forgives her." ”

The cousin still refused to admit the evil, and coaxed with several other relatives: "She just has exercised too little." Cousin and daughter-in-law, you have to let her get used to it more, just come and play with your cousin. ”

Jian Jian naturally screamed, hugged her mother's neck and refused to let go.

When Xin's mother heard this, she came over and said to her granddaughter angrily: "These are your relatives, what is there to be afraid of." Come on, come on, grandma hug you to recognize relatives. ”

On the question of whether to hold grandma or not, Jian Jian depends on her mood.

Obviously, Jian Jian is not in a good mood now, so she directly denies her, turns her head, and only recognizes her mother alone.

The relatives couldn't help but let out a burst of laughter.

said that she was her granddaughter, but she was not close to herself at all!

This made Mother Dexin quite angry.

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