Chapter 120: The Disillusionment of the Buddha-Nature Mother
It is not easy to think about Xin's mother from her disdain for early childhood education to making such a change now.
She suppressed her temper and interrupted Xin's mother with a good voice as much as possible: "Mom, you are not conducive to the cultivation of her concentration. You can give her a toy, wait for her to have fun, play with it until she puts it down, and then give her a new toy. ”
Although her tone was as gentle and tactful as possible, her mother-in-law really lowered her face: "Didn't you teach her the same way?
Yan Rushun explained: "When I teach her the name, I don't hand her the toy, I just show her, so that she will understand that I am just teaching her the name of the toy." If I had to give her toys to play with, I'd do this-"
She picked up a triangle and a cylindrical block in her left hand, and stood in front of her daughter: "Jianjian, do you want triangular blocks or cylindrical blocks?" ”
Jian Jian stared at the two toys without blinking, as if thinking, and then stretched out her hand to the cylinder.
Yan Rushun didn't give it to her immediately, but continued to ask, "Do you want a cylinder?"
Jian Jian impatiently said "oh" twice, quite a bit of a harmony.
So, Yan Rushun repeated in a long voice: "Okay, let's play circle-column-body!"
Only then did he finally put the toy in his daughter's hand.
Jian Jian happily grabbed the cylinder and waved it around, as if it was already fun.
Yan Rushun turned her head and explained softly: "Mom, this can teach her to know things relatively quickly." Now she's having fun with the cylinder, and we just have to watch from the sidelines and praise her from time to time. Constantly changing her toys will make her confused and have no time to know her own toys, and second, she will mistakenly think that we are encouraging her to be inattentive and encourage her to treat everything in this way. If you make it a habit, it's troublesome. ”
"What habits do children have? ”
"A child's habits are cultivated from infancy. ”
Xin's mother snorted angrily and pouted: "As long as you have a lot of rules, there are still so many children, and it is in vain for you to tell him so much." ”
Yan Rushun laughed angrily: "But Mom, didn't you say that Jian Jian inherited Wei Yang's genius?"
"When Yang Yang was a child, I didn't toss him so much. ”
"Maybe you tossed him around like this when you were a child, and he is now the second Einstein. ”
Xin's mother is also a good debater: "I bet with you, Einstein didn't have such a toss when he was a child." ”
"Einstein was tormented a lot as a child, he burned his own laboratory, and he didn't even blame him, let him toss as hard as he could. ”
Xin's mother suddenly seized the loophole of her daughter-in-law, her face was happy, and her voice suddenly rose an octave: "That's Edison!"
Well, she forgot that her mother-in-law was a primary school Chinese teacher, and these examples were probably used by elementary school students in their compositions, and sometimes it's really hard to be foolish!
Yan Rushun felt that the daily debate with her mother-in-law was even more difficult than that of the university debate club.
After seeing the cunning of many children, she imagined how to prepare herself when Jian Jian grew up, fight wits and courage with the children in the rebellious period, and establish the authority of her parents with the crushing of strength.
Now she feels that if she continues to exercise for a long time like this, she will definitely not have to worry about how to crush the little fart in the future.
Thinking about it this way, my mother-in-law can also be regarded as a whetstone!
After the epiphany, Yan Rushun suddenly became angry or anxious about her mother-in-law, and instantly entered the Buddha-nature state.
If her mother-in-law argues with her again, she will come as a free sparring partner in order to keep her brain from being rigid. Therefore, when arguing, she didn't give an inch, but when the argument was over, she didn't take it to heart at all.
The mother-in-law and mother were still humming angrily for a long time, and she hummed a little song, what should she be busy with.
Xin Weiyang quickly felt something strange: "You seem to be in a much more cheerful mood recently?"
"Well!" Yan Rushun looked at her husband with a smile, "I don't see whose wife I am." ”
Xin Weiyang was coaxed into laughter: "Mom, didn't you feel sorry for you too much?"
&nbsbso。 ”
"And what about you?"
She grinned, revealing a mouthful of white teeth: "I have a lot of tolerance." ”
Xin Weiyang's gaze subconsciously stopped on his wife's chest: "It's really bigger......" Then he slid the distance of a palm, "The belly has also grown!"
"Xin, Wei, Yang, don't you want to live anymore?"
A blow to the divine palm of the Buddha has destroyed all the cultivated Buddha nature.
Speaking of which, Sister Wu and Sister Zhou both told her that it is easier to lose weight by breastfeeding in person, and Sister Wu even said that she had seen a customer who was breastfeeding, and she was sweating all over her body anytime and anywhere every day, and she regained her weight as soon as she came out of confinement.
And although she lost 30 pounds compared to before she went to the operating table, it was 30 pounds after she weighed 40 pounds, and she was 10 pounds heavier than before.
But these ten pounds can't be lost in any way.
She was busy with the children before and had no time to take care of it, but it was only after this time that she had time to pay attention to this fatal problem.
Although she told her mother that she was just an ordinary person and couldn't do everything, she would never reject being a hot mom with a hot body.
Look, even Xin Weiyang began to dislike her.
She pouted and was unhappy, Xin Weiyang saw that she had made his wife unhappy, and hurriedly coaxed again: "It's just a joke, don't take it to heart." ”
Yan Rushun turned around and ignored him: "I know that all you look at in school are youthful beautiful girls all day long, in comparison, the yellow-faced woman at home is nothing to look at." ”
This is a bit of a crime.
Xin Weiyang leaned down and said, "You know, I never had the heart to look at beautiful girls, otherwise I wouldn't have waited for you, my wife." ”
"This time, that time. Otherwise, why didn't you notice a woman's height, shortness, fat and thinness before, but now you see your wife's belly?" Originally, it was just a half-truth, but as she spoke, Yan Rushun suddenly became really aggrieved, "You don't want to think about why people get fat, I knew that I should find a husband who wouldn't dislike me for getting fat." ”
Xin Weiyang raised his hands and surrendered: "I said it wrong......!
"Don't talk to me about this! I'm a woman, not an adult. ”
Xin Weiyang couldn't cry or laugh: "You're not an adult, are you a child?" as she spoke, she reached out and stroked her hair, trying to smooth out her reverse hair.
Unexpectedly, when he stretched out his hand, he grabbed a handful of dozens of hairs.
He stared at his hands dumbfounded.
Yan Rushun wanted to cry without tears, and she was so angry that her lungs exploded: she now loses a lot of hair every time she takes a bath, and she feels distressed to death, and now Xin Weiyang is making her worse, and if she continues like this, she is afraid that she will become bald one day.
"You, you ......" she held her breath a few times, stomped her foot and threw down a cruel sentence, "Yes, I am a child, what do you want?
Xin Weiyang looked helpless.
Yan's mother just heard the last sentence, and hurriedly pulled her daughter to the nearest children's room, and scolded: "Why are you playing a scoundrel in front of Yang Yang? Yang Yang is good enough for you, you must know how to cherish it." ”
Yan Rushun has her own reasons: "From the time I was pregnant to the time I gave birth to the baby to the time I am breastfeeding, the hormonal changes in my body are faster than a roller coaster, isn't it normal to be a little emotional? ”
Yan's mother couldn't wait to wake up her daughter: "When a man comes home tired from work, he doesn't want to listen to your temper, but he wants to have a hot meal to warm his stomach, a soft voice and a warm ear, and women can be coquettish at most." You have gone so far, aren't you afraid of forcing Yang Yang out to find the junior?"
Where is my mother's backbone?
was holding his breath, and Xin Weiyang followed.
Yan Rushun straightened his back, pretended to be blessed, and called out in a long and delicate voice: "Master, you are back." Please wait while I bring you tea. ”
said Xin Weiyang's body shook, and goosebumps fell on the ground.
"Uh...... What's the situation?"
Yan Rushun rolled her eyes, squinted at her mother and asked, "Do you want to do this?"
Yan's mother: "......"
Xin Weiyang: "......"
At the same time, two people were shocked, and Yan Rushun walked out of the children's room proudly.
Yan's mother explained to her son-in-law embarrassedly: "This woman gave birth to a child, and her hormone levels changed too quickly, and she was emotionally shocked, and her emotions were ......."
Xin Weiyang wiped his sweat and smiled awkwardly: "I understand, Mom." Then he lowered his voice, "It's better not to be seen by my mother." ”
If his mother saw that Yan Rushun didn't make a lot of money, and he was still showing off his power on his son's head, it would definitely be another war.
I thought that Yan Rushun would be angry and forget it, but for three days in a row, she was expressionless towards her husband, with a cold war posture.
Xin Weiyang tried to break the deadlock, but Yan Rushun threw his hand away in disregard.
He couldn't help but wonder: What is his wife angry about, and how should he solve this situation?
When he was struggling with this eternal problem, Yan Rushun poured bitter water on Mei Bai who was chatting with her in the café.
The hair is falling out endlessly, the small belly can't be reduced, Xin Weiyang dislikes her, and her mother's posture is becoming more and more humble.
Mei Bai listened silently for a while, and suddenly changed the topic: "How are yours?"
It's sad to talk about this!
Yan Rushun made a bitter face, and said that the editor did not give a good recommendation position, and he considered changing the website.
Who knew that Mei Bai snorted with a smile, and said in a mocking tone: "Do you think that no matter who is in the recommended position, you can make a fortune? If you have this mentality, you might as well not write an essay sooner or later." ”
Yan Rushun was stunned for a moment.
She had never seen such a bitter Mei Bai, even if everyone had quarreled and argued before, Mei Bai had never treated her with such an attitude.
She wondered if she had made a mistake in her ear.
Mei Bai said faster and faster, and the more she spoke, the more she spoke, the more she was happy: "I know you are not convinced, but we have been friends for so many years, I don't hide it from you, many new authors complain like this, and feel that the editor is unwilling to give him a chance, otherwise he will definitely become a god immediately." And the truth is, I've seen people subscribe for thousands of dollars a day on the same recommendation slot, and someone subscribes for less than 10 dollars a day. Sometimes, it's not that the editor doesn't give face, it's that you don't have that strength. ”
Yan Rushun's mind was in a mess, and he didn't know what to say at all.
Mei Bai took a few deep breaths and fell silent.
The air seemed to freeze for two minutes.
Yan Rushun finally moved uncomfortably and asked, "Xiaobai, what's wrong with you?"
Then I saw a line of tears coming out of Meibai's face.
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