Sure enough, after a few days of "one, two, three", as soon as it was time for Jian Jian to get up, her whole person was manic.

At first, I also reminded myself to maintain a gentle but firm attitude, and within a few minutes, my face was cracked and my voice soared - the process of urging was too easy to make people anxious.

Jian Jian also asked, "Mom, why are you angry?"

"I'm not angry. She felt that she was already very restrained, she just gritted her teeth, and she didn't directly fry the meat with bamboo shoots, so what else?

Jian Jian insisted: "But you're just angry." ”

Yan Rushun: "......"

Well, she also knows that her state is wrong, but every time she is in that situation, she can't control it, knowing that it is not right, but she can't help but spew out the depression that is full of depression, and the result is that every time in addition to harvesting a crying Jane, she is harvesting a daughter who is even more grinding.

When she calmed down, she began to reflect on the incident.

Her experience as a kindergarten teacher taught her that once she fell into the vicious circle of "scolding and complaining is useless but only scolding and complaining" of some parents, it will be completely over.

One method doesn't work, be sure to be flexible and flexible until you find the right one!

At this point, Yan Rushun is ambitious and will never die.

She first used the method of coaxing the child to walk, telling stories while urging Jian Jian to get dressed.

The initial period of time did have an effect, firstly, it may be that this form of dressing while listening to the story is relatively fresh, and the little girl thinks it is fun, and secondly, in order to hear the follow-up of the story, Jian Jian will move from time to time under her urging.

Although it took a lot of saliva, I was able to dress myself with the help of my mother.

And the mother and daughter started the new day with talk and laughter, which seemed to be very beautiful, like the soothing and fresh "Morning Song".

However, after a few days, this wonderful music changed its tone.

Jian Jian returned to the state of procrastination again, Yan Rushun held back her anxiety and reasoned with her over and over again: "Soon you are going to kindergarten, there are twenty or thirty children in a class in the kindergarten, but there are only three or four teachers, do you think the teacher can guard you anytime and anywhere like a mother?"

"No, you can't. "Playing tricks is cheating, the truth is still understood.

"Then in kindergarten, your mother can't help you by your side, and the teacher can't take care of you, so what should you do?"

"Then you stay with me. ”

"Mom and Dad can't be with you in kindergarten. Because I was accompanied by teachers and children. ”

To put it mildly, I reluctantly put on my clothes, as if it was a great difficulty.

After a few days, he didn't listen to the reasoning, pulled the person up, but the little guy fell directly to the bed: "I haven't slept well yet, I still have to sleep, I still have to sleep." ”

Yan Rushun is angry.

As a last resort, I returned to the origin of "one, two, three".

But that's not the way to go!

Jian Jian can get into the habit of asking her mother to urge her to jump, but she can't keep whipping her ass with a small whip all her life.

Hmm, maybe something else in its place, like an alarm?

Yan Rushun had a flash of inspiration and immediately bought an alarm clock on the Internet.

The next day arrived, and in the evening, Jian Jian played with the alarm clock as a new toy for a long time, and swore that she would get up on time - this was not the first time she had made a guarantee, Yan Rushun could only secretly pray that this time it was true.

On the third day, Yan Rushun encountered Waterloo again.

What a disheartening disheartening!

It dragged on for more than two months, and everything else went well, but I couldn't get through this matter.

The feeling of anxiety is like that of an escape who is trapped in a watered secret room but never gets out, and little by little he is hit and disappointed, and finally he will enter despair.

Such emotions are, of course, dangerous.

Yan Rushun decided to give herself a breath, so she asked Mei Bai and Qi Qing to come out to meet.

When she arrived at the dessert shop in the agreed shopping mall, Qi Qing was already there, and Mei Bai was still nowhere to be seen.

The captain had a great time in the large ocean ball pool next to him.

Qi Qing greeted the little girl: "Jian Jian, do you want to play with the ocean ball too?"

Jian Jian's face yearned.

Yan Rushun sighed: "Forget it, last time she was specially asked to play, but she sat in it and didn't walk or climb, just sat inside and bumped, it was a waste." ”

"What's there. Children need time to get used to, right?" Qi Qing waved her hand very generously, "Jian Jian, don't pay attention to your mother, just play if you want." ”

"Forget it. Yan Rushun is still worried, "Her athletic ability is not very good, she has no sense of self-protection at all, and now she is easy to fall when she walks, she breaks her chin every time she falls, and she is always pushed and cried by children when she goes to slide the slide." The children in the ocean ball pool are crowded around, and they have to make her cry for a while. ”

"What's this? I'll just ask the captain to protect my sister. ”

The captain is absolutely athletic, nimble with his hands and feet, and has a lot of strength, and when he barely calms down all day, he is almost hyperactive.

The two children had met several times before, and the captain also loved Jian Jian's sister. If the captain is watching and driving, maybe Jian Jian can have some fun?

Thinking about it like this, Yan Rushun was a little moved.

Qi Qing said again: "You, you have to give the child a chance to exercise." The more you don't exercise, the more you can't improve. ”

These words persuaded Yan Rushun.

Think about the ocean ball pool is basically padded inside, the protection measures are good enough, if you don't dare to let go in such a place, then where else can you find a place for her to practice?

She finally let Jian Jian into the ocean ball pool, and watched her daughter move clumsily and cautiously in it, with the captain guarding her, and couldn't help but sigh: "Maybe I'm worrying too much, or I should learn from you Seventh Master, be a little more free and easy, so that the white hair will grow a little less." ”

Qi Qing smiled: "It is natural for parents to worry about their children. I see that you are in good shape now, at least your face is much better than before the New Year, and I want to ask you if you are in good spirits on happy occasions. ”

There are happy events.

At least there is no mother-in-law and mother-in-law at home, and Jian Jian can no longer be left and right and develop some bad habits. Although I can't get dressed for the time being, everything else is getting better.

Thinking of this, Yan Rushun smiled from the bottom of her heart and shared the events of this time with Qi Qing.

Qi Qing sighed: "You should have done this a long time ago." ”

Yan Rushun pursed his lips: "Although I used to think that there were many problems in the old man's troubles, I didn't expect it to be so serious." You don't know my mother-in-law, obviously she didn't listen to me and made Jian Jian have a fever, but she refused to admit her mistake, so forget it, I don't have to listen to her say 'I'm sorry', but she actually threw the responsibility on my head. I couldn't take it anymore!"

"Fortunately, you stopped the loss in time, otherwise, it might end up like a friend of mine. Qi Qing sat upright, her tone was light, but Yan Rushun felt that it must be a great thing when she heard it.

When she heard this, she immediately got goosebumps.

Qi Qing said: "A friend I know, a child is allergic to seafood, she gave her mother-in-law a special instruction, but her mother-in-law felt that she was too spoiled to the child and was too fine. When she went out to buy something, she deliberately made a seafood for the child to eat, and the child was sent to the hospital for rescue. ”

Yan Rushun sighed for a while, and then asked, "Things have come to that point, your friend's mother-in-law should be taught a lesson, right?"

Qi Qing couldn't help but sneer: "Does your mother-in-law regret it?"

Yan Rushun remembered Xin Weiyang's words at that time and said: "Although she is a dead duck with a hard mouth in front of me, she should still regret it in her heart." ”

Qi Qing shrugged: "Even if there are regrets, I'm afraid it won't be too much." Do you know what the mother-in-law said after the child's accident?"

"How?"

"She blamed her daughter-in-law for not speaking clearly, something is going to happen to her grandson, and she wants to find her daughter-in-law to pay for her life!"

"Why is she embarrassed?!" Yan Rushun felt that this was simply a fantasy, and unconsciously pounded the table in excitement, "That's also her grandson, she doesn't lose her conscience when she says this?"

Qi Qing only put the dessert a little farther away, and asked with a smile: "You can't understand, right?"

"No, you can't. "Probably not any normal person.

Qi Qing said again: "Then I'll tell you about the follow-up." My friend almost divorced her husband for this matter, but later for various reasons, she still got by and got by. The next year, her sister-in-law gave birth to a child, and her mother-in-law didn't say anything, even if she didn't understand why, her sister-in-law told her to do what she did, and she was very careful. ”

Yan Rushun Qi said: "How can this be? Could it be that the mother-in-law favors women over men?"

If that's the case, it's rare.

Qi Qing smiled and shook her head: "You are wrong. It can be seen that although you are married, you still don't understand the mentality of most mothers-in-law. ”

Yan Rushun didn't quite agree with this.

Qi Qing has never met her mother-in-law, and she has not only fought with her mother-in-law in real life, but also cooperated with her side by side with laughter.

For the attributes of her mother-in-law, how can Qi Qing have a deeper understanding of her?

Qi Qing knew that she didn't believe it, so she immediately analyzed with her: "It's actually very simple. This mother-in-law loves her son and daughter, and hurts her grandson and grandson. However, there is a problem here: the cost of a son having a grandson is very low and the risk is very small, while the daughter is different, because the cost of a woman having a child is very high and the risk is also very high. Therefore, she didn't dare to toss her grandson at all, but she dared to toss her grandson with confidence. ”

Yan Rushun thought for a long time and didn't understand: "But what is the reason for her tossing her grandson?"

Only by proving that the daughter-in-law always makes mistakes can the family be brought under her baton. ”

After being silent for a few seconds, Yan Rushun smiled bitterly: Don't say it, these words are really transparent!

If you think about it carefully, many times, the mother-in-law actually talks about Jian Jian's affairs just to fight with her.

On the other hand, her mother is much more careful with Jian Jian, and many times even if she is angry with her, she has to take the child into account first, and then reason with her.

She didn't see the subtleties in this, but was pointed out by Qi Qing, an outsider.

I really don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain.

She couldn't help but be embarrassed and curious: "Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years." Compared to you, I think I'm really stupid, but how did you do it, Seventh Master? Why are you so clear-minded? Teach me two tricks. ”

"It's very simple, because I saw through marriage through my parents from the very beginning. Otherwise, why do you think I don't get married and spend money on surrogacy - in order to avoid being endlessly trapped in these things in the future, and lest I accidentally become a bun or a bad daughter-in-law. ”

yes, that's chic.

However, this must be supported by sufficient financial resources.

Yan Rushun realized that it may have been a long time ago, when she and Mei Bai were still stupid, Qi Qing had already made a very far-sighted decision for her life with great courage.

People are more shameful than people.

While she was sighing, Mei Bai finally arrived.

At a glance, Yan Rushun and Qi Qing exchanged a look: she was too thin and haggard!