"If there was that person in the world, everyone else would be compromised! ”

"When you appear, everyone else looks like that. ”

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The tide of the times is always changing, only the expectation of love will not change!

There are so many beautiful declarations of love, but too many people are about to marry because they can't wait for that person to appear, and since then regrets have become a curse that haunts their lives.

Reading can be well arranged, work can be orderly, and the road of life can be walked according to a plan. But what can be expected when it comes to love, marriage, and marriage?

embarked on the road of blind date, which is the path that many people have chosen.

"Is there a male (female) ticket?"

"Nope. ”

"I must have been driven to death by your family!"

"Well, there are so many phases, it's just not suitable, now this is barely okay, it's a doctor, my mother said that he is a down-to-earth person at first glance, but I always think he is a bit machismo, always saying that he is busy with work, and thinks that housework should be a woman's business, hehe!"

"That's what a solid life?"

"I don't know, let's take a look first. ”

All the girls and boys with spring hearts, she (he) also had infinitely beautiful expectations for love, but after getting married, the reality made her (him) never go back.

Perhaps, instead of happiness, we will get destruction!

This is the basic principle in the love Bible, but it has changed in the mud of reality. From love to marriage, from not being willing to become a general, and falling into the mud in the persuasion of everyone.

Is it that every time I talk to my family on the phone, it is always the voice of my mother urging me to get married, and every time I face those seven aunts and eight aunts, they are worried about your increasingly unstoppable age, and persuade you to find a man to marry quickly. The family from the very beginning of the "thousands of choices" to today's "hungry food", how much makes you feel a little at a loss, so, lowering the standard is gradually implanted in your brain like a chip, and you are gradually a little powerless in love, at such an age, is it too late to fall in love?

In the face of several failed relationships, or the division and integration of friends around you, you have gradually begun to "focus on reality", and those colorful labels such as "handsome", "can play basketball", "can sing", "have a good body", "have a high education", etc., are like flowers knocked down by heavy rain overnight, wilting in your abandonment and finally rotting into mud. Those friends around you who have already had a home or the baby has been running all over the ground are also anxious for you: "You have to find someone quickly, and even the defective products will be gone!"

Shocked to hear, could it be that he had gotten mixed up to the point of taking in defective products?

But his heart, maybe still floating back and forth with his ex, maybe still staying in the corner of the crush cowering, after countless blind dates and countless tragic comparisons, finally met a similar person, although he doesn't look very thoughtful, the whole person is also relatively dull, a pair of thin lips always reveal a sense of coldness, or those small eyes have a feeling of cheapness no matter how you look at it, but people around you say that this person has a good family background, a stable job, and a high degree of education, or a returnee, how suitable are you two!

Yes, it sounds like a good fit from their mouths, but it doesn't have the ecstatic heartbeat that it had at the beginning. looked at the vicissitudes of life that was several years older than himself, and suddenly felt that he was really getting worse in love. It is said that if a woman is not married after thirty, it is a fine product, and if a man does not get married when he reaches thirty, it is the best, but why does such a superb product fall into his own hands?

Too much chicken soup for the soul tells us: "Don't look at face when looking for a man, you have to be able to live." ”

But what girl doesn't want to find a handsome guy who looks good, and how many men don't mind her appearance when chasing women?

Which girl is willing to sing energetically in KTV, but when she turns around, she finds that she is playing with her mobile phone with her head down?

What man wants to come home exhausted after work and face a lump of meat spread out on the bed!

Some people always can't help but be happy to post their marriage certificate in the circle, but they are afraid that their friends will say that their husband is too ugly, so they beat the other party's avatar into a mosaic and sent so many festive photos, but the husband has not even shown his face, and the only photo present was deliberately blurred. Sometimes I really want to ask her, since she knows that she cares so much about her looks, why would she get married in this way?

There are also people who sell their hearts for the so-called "future". It is said that if you want to mix in the army, you must either be a young master by nature, or work hard to become a master the day after tomorrow, if these two "masters" can't succeed, then you must be an uncle. A man who sacrifices his hue for his own superiority is the most despicable type of person he despises!

Those who marry for a certain purpose, everyone does not care about them, because they will be the means to the end. Those girls and boys who still have thoughts about love and are still single, don't let age mislead the choice, and don't let the future become a landmine for marriage.

Once, I naively thought that it would be a virtue, although I knew that there were several hurdles in my heart, but I refused to admit that I had taken the wrong path; Once, I thought that maybe there was really no handsome guy in this life, so I lowered the standard again and again; Once, I was teased by my teacher and close friend as having a "masochistic complex", that is, I never believed that I could meet a good man on my par. But the successive fiascos made me angry, and I said to myself with some negative anger: "I will never settle for the next relationship!"

Maybe those far-fetched loves, in the end, are just a passing cloud, from the initial vow to the final fall apart, a thousand words can not match one sentence: no reason, just don't want to settle!

Many girls are tired of work every day, and then desperately lose weight, shape their bodies, read books, attend classes, learn dance, tea art, makeup, and beauty, and shape themselves more and more like goddesses, but why should they settle for a person who they are not satisfied with? Isn't it just to meet him one day in the future, so that he can just be on par with him?

Once you encounter a friend breakup, for a long time, you still can't let go of your ex.

They always believe that they will get better and better, and forget that youth is fleeting, and the years urge people to grow old; they will always look for the right one according to their dreams, not cherish the right one in reality; they can't have the people they like, but they don't feel the ones they like. Some people say that their eyebrows are burned, but what do they feel like! In fact, who doesn't care about loneliness? They just don't want to force themselves.

With the passage of time, the desire for love has increased day by day, but he is unwilling to compromise, so he has been delayed until now.

Prepare yourself so that you can grasp it when someone you want to show up!

It is important to have courage and persistence, but only by making yourself stronger can you match those who are stronger; Only by standing higher can you meet people from higher places.

Will God give such a person a big gift? Both men and women can pursue their dreams, but they still need to be based on facts.

Love that is about to be completed because of age, or even marriage, is certainly wrong! Love that is lenient with oneself and strict with others is also a kind of sorrow!

If you don't work hard, no matter who you are, you will always have the same attitude of living in a dream and regret it for life!