"On the road of love, we will not always be so smooth. Love is also a course, and it turns out to be a course, so there are times when you pass and you don't pass. In fact, love is also a mechanism that is wrong. Therefore, on the road of love, we may encounter more than one scenery. So, would you rather marry an older leftover woman or a second-married woman? Let's take a look at what the men really think!"

Mr. Li carefully taught his own experience and arranged the work by the way.

Zhao Hong and Tian Feng listened with admiration, and they happily accepted the task when they heard it. It's like being beaten with chicken blood, and I went to investigate......

In fact, the reason why a considerable number of leftover women become leftover women is not because they can't get married, but because their own conditions are too good, such as high education, high income, white skin, beautiful appearance, long legs, etc. What's more, they themselves are quite confident in their own conditions, so they are more demanding of men, and even perfect, and they don't look down on men who are slightly inferior. Therefore, in the process of such a choice, they can't make it high, and they let themselves be left with the low.

The second-married woman is after experiencing a failed marriage, the second-married woman's emotional experience is richer and more delicate, and she can take better care of him in her future life with the man, and there will be a lot less family conflicts. But most second-married women will have a child, which has become a stumbling block to their marriage.

Male A, 33 years old, divorced

"I can accept a divorced woman, after all, I am not the first marriage myself. My bottom line is that I can't take a male baby, I have a son myself, and then someone else's son, I can't afford to raise it, and if a girl is better, she will get married when she grows up. In fact, divorced women now do not worry about getting married, as long as there is no drag oil bottle. ”

36-year-old male B, divorced

"My conditions are not very good, and my ex-wife ran away with someone else. Now I'm doing architecture, and to be honest, as long as a woman is willing to marry me, I'm satisfied. I don't care if she's divorced or not. It doesn't matter with kids, I love kids. The point is, someone has to look up to me. I still earn a lot of money to support my family. Hey, I don't know when I'll find the right woman. ”

Male C, a normal office worker, is 32 years old and unmarried

"Choosing a second-married woman or an older leftover girl is not a question of whether the other party has ever been married, but a question of who I need more at this stage. Most of the second marriages don't believe in love anymore, and may just find someone to live with. If I need a virtuous helper, I may choose a second-married woman who knows how to take care of the family, and if I need someone who can help me in my career, I may choose an older single strong woman.

The common denominator between older leftover women and second-married women is that they are both second-hand goods. The difference is that the former has not experienced marriage, and the latter has experienced marriage. If a man wants to be rich, he may wish to consider an older leftover woman, and if he has no money, he may wish to consider a second-married woman. ”

The small owner of a company with a small business divorced at the age of 35.

"The so-called leftover women just have no law to recognize their de facto marriage, and the difference between the second marriage is that there has been no registration, but the de facto marriage exists, in the past few years, I would rather marry a second-married woman than marry a leftover girl, in the last 2 years, I would rather be single, than marry a second-married woman and a leftover woman, what virtue do they have, as long as the man who is not too stupid knows, the honest man has been deceived and afraid, and the scourge is enough. ”

"Leftover women are malleable, and second-married women are realistic and emotional. ”

"I've found that most girls nowadays don't have anything but one person. But they don't want anything but death. Love is just an ATM password, marriage is just life insurance, everything has to be protected and no premiums are paid. This ATM has no money to go to the next one, this one is not guaranteed, that one is still single, more than 10 or twenty years later, there is actually a sentence that men are not good things, and they will marry an honest man when they see that they are dying. She is not dead after the honest man dies.Personal suggestion: love, marry first make the terms of rights and obligations clear, men and women are equal, rights and obligations are equal, and it is better to give up than to divorce badly. ”

"I can live alone, and now a lot of girls can't be messed with. As long as you say that you like her, every day, all kinds of festivals, all kinds of buying, buying and buying for your reference, you can be with you after you pay until she is satisfied, and then eat, drink, sleep, play and play, plus all kinds of buying, buying, buying and parents, brothers and sisters, expenses are all paid by you. If you dislike this kind of behavior, she will break up, and many men can give her such a life anyway. If you want to get married, you can: the house, car, and property must be transferred in her name, and there will be a bride price and a beautiful wedding. The whole process is paid for by men...... said: Marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat...."

"In the past two years, I suddenly met a number of female Kochi who graduated from famous universities overseas or in China, and they completely broke the concept of what a female doctor is, they are smart and capable, they do things decently, and they are dressed like other female white-collar workers in this city, so I am really envious of them. ”

Another colleague of mine, in the popular phrase, is "Monkey King", but she has recently moved out of her small apartment and moved into a rented house with her 9-year-old partner.

"What are you afraid of, I took the initiative to seduce him", she said to Lian, "I just can't see you, I sigh all day long that it would be nice if I were a man, is it a woman who doesn't have the right to chase a man, I just fell in love with my current boyfriend anyway, what if he is 9 years younger than me, even if I find a man who is 9 years older, can I guarantee that I will enter the safe from now on?"

We congratulate our colleagues who have moved into a big house with their little boyfriend, even if it's rented, so what, life is just a few decades. ”

It stands to reason that contemporary women, as long as they are educated, willing to work hard, and will not be a problem to support themselves, then, first of all, there is no marriage to find a meal ticket, so, in fact, the range of choices for contemporary women is much wider than that of ancient women, especially women who have the ability to buy their own houses and cars, which means that the possibility of you choosing a man is more boundaryless, for example, you can choose a literary young man who can only support himself to play the guitar. If you must consider the brand of the car, you must consider whether there is your own name on the real estate certificate, love, marriage, it is difficult to start, since most women do not have a plan to grow old for the rest of their lives, then, boldly pursue the man they want, it can be regarded as living up to the good days and long nights.

Why are men becoming more and more passive? Because any culture leaves a way for women to retreat, for example, the boss is too perverted and the body is not very comfortable, and women can easily say that the old lady is gone, but men can't, and if they retreat, they still have to support their families.

This led to an elite man like a founder, when he wanted to take the initiative to "strip naked" for himself on Weibo on Singles' Day, the public applicants were all Liao Liao, because another woman said that he had no savings, he was still in the entrepreneurial period, and if his career failed, he would not be able to support his family.

Finally, an active elite man appeared, many people turned out to be indifferent onlookers, and even women including the pioneer woman did not applaud him, so do other men who are not elite and unsuccessful still dare to take the initiative?

If you use secular standards to consider, the proportion of successful people among men is only one percent, and everyone else is a loser, a man is defined as a loser by the current society is pitiful enough, and women don't give men a little confidence, they may really only become desperate otaku. Since society has become so cruel, women, why bother yourself, if you don't want to spend the next Singles' Day, just be an active woman in this year.

When men enter the era of passivity, women can only run into the era of passivity, in the face of this era when men are more and more passive, women learn to take the initiative, which should be the same valuable ability as reading a female doctor!