There is a widely circulated story that a husband cheated on his wife and proposed divorce, but he didn't expect his wife to readily agree, she said to her husband:

From now on, I will no longer be your yellow-faced woman, and I will no longer be your servant who does not have to pay your salary;

I can save money to buy clothes for you, and pick out a few clothes for myself;

I don't have to worry about your stomach anymore, I don't have to worry about your lungs hurt by smoking, my liver hurt by drinking, and I don't have to wash and vomit a mess of sheets for you;

I don't have to worry about who will have a birthday today and who will marry a daughter-in-law tomorrow, and I don't have to pay your parents every month;

I don't have to ride with you for half a day every year, carrying a big bag and walking more than ten miles of mountain roads, just to accompany your parents for a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.

Finally, the wife smiled and said to her husband: Yes, divorce, it is very good.

Many men only know after divorce that:

It turns out that the toilet bowl should be brushed frequently, and the dirty clothes should be washed quickly, otherwise they will stink when piled together;

It turns out that the child will not grow up by himself, and it turns out that taking care of the child is so bothered, and it turns out that he can't go anywhere with the child;

It turns out that housework is so heavy, it turns out that laundry, cooking, and cleaning the room are so tiring, and it turns out that the elderly have to run to the hospital often when they are old.

Originally... The wife, who is "idle" at home every day, has always paid so much for this family.

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For a woman, marriage is sometimes like an accelerator, making her life leap towards warmth and happiness, and sometimes, marriage is like a deceleration, making a woman's life quietly regress, from a carefree world, into a life environment full of torment like a fire pit.

Guo Moruo has a good saying: "If there are no flowers in spring and no love in life, what kind of world will it be." "Love is not the whole story of marriage, however, the absence of love in marriage must be unbearable.

Marriage is like a second "reincarnation" for a woman, and it is unfortunate that she has been divorced, and if she wants to remarry, she must be cautious and more cautious. How can a remarried woman marry a good man?

First, stay calm and have strong communication skills.

The charm of a mature man is that he can give women a sense of security, and when they encounter conflicts, they can calm each other down first, and then find an effective way to communicate.

Because, after the conflict arises, the relationship between husband and wife will be lost, especially the second marriage, so it is very important to learn to stop loss. Most serious men will have strong communication skills, and he will have the ability to "turn big things into small things and small things into small things".

A man who can restrain his temper and emotions has a higher emotional intelligence and knows how to love someone. If a man is short-tempered and not good at communication when he has a conflict with his lover, then the woman's heart will gradually wither and wither like a flower in the man's wood.

Second, if there is a conflict, we will introspect ourselves and not shirk our responsibilities.

Women are generally more emotional in dealing with others, and when they are angry, they tend to pay more attention to the attitude of men rather than the contradiction itself.

However, all her bad temper and willfulness may be wrong for people, and perhaps, she is just telling her husband that she needs care and love. So, in marriage, men have to learn to introspect.

A woman who has experienced a failed marriage is often prone to lack confidence when facing a second marriage, and will be in a passive position in love. Therefore, if a man knows how to introspect, he will understand her heart better.

Some people say that the charm of love is in men, and the wisdom of marriage is in women, but many times, men are the dominant ones in love and marriage. He can easily resolve women's entanglements and contradictions, and he can also make this family quickly change from a storm to calm.

A man who knows how to introspect knows how to empathize, is more likely to find contradictions, and does not shirk responsibility. Men with a sense of responsibility tend to care about women's feelings, and will not be selfish and only care about their own feelings.

Third, self-motivated in career and strong learning ability.

A motivated man, regardless of whether he has achieved anything at this time or not, is a "potential stock". Some women like to sit back and enjoy their success, thinking that they can only feel at ease by marrying the fifth diamond king, but they forget that if they don't work hard with a man, his achievements may not be shared with you.

A man is self-motivated and has a strong ability to learn, even if he has nothing at the moment, as long as he is willing to work hard, good days will slowly approach him. This kind of man can make women see the future and see a happy gesture.

On the contrary, even if a second-married woman marries a rich man, if he is not motivated, then he will soon squander his gold and silver, and let the woman fall into the abyss of poverty again.

The potential of love is unlimited, as long as a woman has a good vision and is willing to give men the opportunity to work hard, I believe that they will reap unexpected surprises in the future.

Fourth, have responsibility and strong problem-solving ability.

Men and women have lived together for a long time, and many things have become a habit. This habit slowly turns into dependence as the marriage lengths and seems unbreakable. But there are more crises hidden, such as boredom, quarrels, and so on.

If a second-married woman marries a man who has no responsibility, then when encountering these problems, the two may soon face a cold war. A man's problem-solving skills in marriage are especially important.

Second-married women are often very insecure in marriage, so when choosing a second-marriage partner, observe whether he knows how to manage love and whether he knows how to solve problems.

After marriage, even if his wife does not do it right, he will be patient and guide. A responsible man will allow a woman to pass the bottleneck period of marriage safely, and will make a woman feel more secure.

Fifth, husband and wife can grow together

No matter what age you are, you need to grow yourself. After experiencing the failure of one marriage, a woman will become sensitive and suspicious in the second marriage, so the growth rate of a man in marriage is actually a kind of management of marriage.

A woman is a rose in a greenhouse, and if someone takes care of it, it will naturally exude a refreshing fragrance. If she is allowed to blow in the wind and rain, the result is often only a sharp thorn.

A woman who is married for the second time longs to be pampered and pampered. The speed at which a man grows in marriage will affect a woman's happiness index, and when the distance between two people is widened, a woman's heart will be very uneasy.

Therefore, in marriage, the husband and wife must learn to grow together. Men even have to take the initiative to learn to stop and help their wives behind them. A marriage will only last if two people walk side by side.

Sixth, know the cold and know the heat, and give the other party a sense of security

As the saying goes, it is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover. In marriage, it is important to meet a man who understands you, knows you, and loves you. A good marriage can nourish a woman and make her radiant. When a woman decides to marry someone, it must be with the utmost sincerity.

A woman who is married for the second time pays more attention to the happiness in marriage and craves true love. A good man can give a woman warmth and happiness in this bumpy life, which will make a woman feel secure. After all, the most bitter thing is not life itself, but not meeting a person who knows cold and hot.

Therefore, when a second-married woman is choosing a man, she must see whether he knows the cold and the hot in life, and whether he can feel safe about the other party.

When choosing a partner for the second marriage, if you want to get the love and respect of the other party, you must learn how to love others, and you must learn to love yourself. In life, give each other more understanding and support, and less complaints and hurt. It is better to choose a good man, as long as you meet the right person, the marriage will definitely be filled with honey, and you can be happy for a long time.

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After listening to Mr. Li's analysis and sharing, Tian Feng agreed with his face, and Zhao Hong was also unusually supportive, but after going out from work, Zhao Hong suddenly asked with some confusion, "Do you say that there are men who are willing to marry a second-married woman like Mr. Li said?

"Huh...... I have a lot of shortcomings, and I have a lot of daughters-in-law, so it's good to adapt to each other, how can there be so much attention? When I dreamed, I had such a good man as she said!"

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