9. Praise and guide children's behavior

When my daughter sees me watering the flowers, she always has to water a few pots by herself before she stops. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 infoYesterday, it rained one day, and the flowers didn't need to be watered, and my daughter saw that I didn't water the flowers, so she said to herself: "Doudou still hasn't done the work of watering the flowers." After a while, when the pot came back, I knew that the pot was on the balcony, and Doudou couldn't reach it, so I asked her if she had watered the flowers. It turned out that she thought that the little quilt with all kinds of flowers needed to be watered just like the flowers!

My daughter always asks for my consent before doing things, and most of them ask: What does Doudou want to do, is it okay? Or: What does Doudou do for you, is it okay?

My daughter watched me make marks and write on the calendar. I moved a small stool and stood on it to scribble until the ballpoint pen ran out of ink, and said proudly: "Doudou has written all the ink, Doudou is a big child, can write so many words! Mom, is it?" "Amazing! Yes yes!" I didn't blame her. 2002.11.1

Doudou and I go to the supermarket to buy things, and we will look around, looking like a small purchase. When I get my own snacks, I will say to myself: "I can eat it only after I pay the money." "But that gluttonous look is very cute.

Eating fruits and snacks outside, as long as there are skins and packages that need to be thrown into the trash, she will always hold them in her hands. Once, I took an orange, and when she bought it, she was anxious to eat it, and she didn't see her peel it for a long time.

Once I also ate oranges, I was busy, my daughter sat on a small stool while watching "how does mom work?" while holding oranges in her hand and wanting to eat, the skin is thick and difficult to peel, she saw that I was busy, and did not ask me to help her, I found that she had not eaten for a long time, so I helped her peel it, and my daughter was grateful, "Mom is such a good mother! Mom is really a good beanie mother!"

Once my daughter was going back to the bedroom to sleep alone, I was reading a book, I heard my daughter calling her mother, I hurried over, the child said headache, I checked and found that the back of the child's head hit a big bag, and it was still faintly bleeding, I asked her where she hit it? Did it hurt badly? She said hit the bed, it hurt, I asked why didn't she cry? She said she didn't want to cry. I drugged her.

After a while, I accidentally hit the wall again, and this time my daughter immediately cried, but it stopped after two sounds. I said that if I felt wronged, I would cry again, and this time the child let go of his throat and cried sadly in my arms for a long time.

Every time my child is wronged or accidentally injured and she is in a bad mood, I will encourage her to cry out loud and cry out all the discomfort and unhappiness! After crying, I will ask her if she is in a good mood? Has she cried enough? My daughter does not like to cry since she was a child, and she always smiles and smiles, but for children: crying should be normal, just like laughing and eating, which is good for physical and mental health.

When my child cries, I rarely stop her, but give her caresses and comfort, so that she can cry out her unhappiness in the atmosphere of love, and immediately have a good mood. 2002.11.24

Recently, my daughter has moved a lot and wrestled a lot, and hit her head a lot. Yesterday I rode a bicycle very fast, I didn't keep up with two steps, she fell, scared the child to cry, and while crying, she said: "Last time the bag was not good, I hit another one, woo..." After a while, the child started riding again and told me, "You have to ride slower this time, but you must not fall again." ”

Recently, my father called back, and Doudou was reluctant to speak. I asked her why, and she looked thoughtful: "It's because... Hey, Mom, this story is not good, let's wait for Dad to come back and tell it. "Talking about him, maybe he's getting rusty.

Once my daughter asked curiously, "Why is Doudou my mother's daughter?" and I told her, "Because Doudou was born and raised by my mother." So Doudou is a mother and daughter. The daughter asked, "Who is Daddy and Mom?" I said that Dad is the husband, Mom is the wife, Dad is the Mom's husband, and Mom is the Daddy's wife. "This time my daughter seems to have figured it out.

My daughter competed to help me with the housework, and proudly said, "Doudou has grown up and can help my mother work!"

Once I put the vegetables soaked in water on the kitchen floor, and my daughter went to wash the vegetables, I told her to be careful not to get her clothes wet, she moved a small stool, washed them seriously, and told me to wash them in a while. When I looked at it, I found that the vegetables had been neatly placed in the leaky pot, and the vegetable pots were stacked underneath, which was very decent! It shows that the children's imitation ability, thinking, and hands-on ability are very good.

However, the floor was full of water, so I first praised my daughter for her ability, and then asked her what was the water on the ground. "I told her that there was no sewer on the ground, so the water would not run away, and the next time I finished washing the dishes, I called my mother to pour the water, and I never saw my daughter pour water on the ground again.

A friend gave her daughter two guinea pigs, her daughter now has to play, one day on the balcony with the guinea pig play, feeding and watering, but also with my hands to catch, I had to warn my daughter at the same time try to clean two small things, one day my daughter's chin is a little red, a question to know that it was the guinea pig bite, fortunately did not bite the skin! But the daughter did not take it seriously at all, according to the catch. I have the heart to give away the guinea pig, and my daughter is a baby, and I can't convince her at all, so I can only strengthen the care. 2002.11.25

My daughter looked at me intently, so I asked her, "Why don't you know me?" and she immediately replied, "Of course I know you, Doudou Mama." I said I didn't know you, Doudou, and she asked me seriously, "Don't you know your own daughter?"

My daughter helped me "comb" my hair. Suddenly she asked very strangely, "Mom, why does hair grow out of the hole?" and I told her that it was a porre, and that hair grew out of a hair follicle, and because it grew on the head, it was not called hair.

My daughter is a child who is very good at summarizing experience and abiding by the rules, she will think quietly and think about some things with her heart, and she will have fun and learn things in learning, eating, and playing. 2002.11.29