The Drifter (77) - Decorating a house is an artistic task
Qin Shasha answered a phone call when she and Yu Yuanming were becoming more and more affectionate.
Far away.
A call that hasn't come in a long time.
The other party was her colleague from a long time ago, and invited her back to Suzhou, saying that she was now recruiting.
The years in Suzhou gave Qin Shasha a lot of good memories.
Compared with Longcheng, a small county town located in the hinterland of the interior, Suzhou is not only prosperous, but also a place where all kinds of new things happen. Not to mention the whole of East China, Jiangnan is rich and beautiful.
Jiangnan Province is called Jiangnan, but it is not Jiangnan in ancient times. Qianlong has never been here, but he heard that Zhu Yunwen, the Jianwen Emperor, once fled here. There is a small river called the Gorin River, which is said to be because he once passed by or lived nearby. The overall economy and culture are naturally very different from those of Suzhou.
And the salary of being a cashier at the Golden Dragon Hotel is not high, but it is just a livelihood.
The monthly income in Suzhou is not less than 6,000 yuan, deducting the cost of living, which is much stronger than that of Dragon City.
But if you go to Suzhou, the relationship with Yu Yuanming is difficult to say.
On the one hand, there is a good job opportunity, and on the other hand, there is a good marriage partner.
It's not good to give up one or the other, and it's impossible to have the best of both worlds. What to do?
So, Qin Shasha hesitated.
Yu Yuanming still has the same attitude as always: everything is up to you. You stay, of course. You are going, and I have no objection.
Qin Shasha understands very well. Yu Yuanming's seemingly ambiguous attitude is actually biased. If you stay and promise him to get married, it will definitely be so decided. If you go to Suzhou for three or five years, it may be difficult to say. After all, the two of them are not small, one is 31 and the other is 28, who can wait for a few years?
When she was hesitating, a message helped her decide.
She finds out she's pregnant!
After the two met, they quickly attacked, and soon entered the stage of passionate love, naturally cooked raw rice and cooked rice, and ate bowl after bowl.
The master said: Eating color is also a great desire for survival.
For Yu Yuanming and Qin Shasha, who are in their fighting years, this is even more so. I can't wait to stick together every day, resist the death, and do my best to rest.
Such a dragon spirit is fierce and youthful, and it will naturally produce results.
When she found out that she was pregnant, Qin Shasha felt a little flustered, a little surprised, and a little worried, if she didn't come early or late, this child came so coincidentally!
Obviously, the balance in her heart naturally tilted.
I also thought about beating the child, traveling lightly, and going to a foreign country.
I still feel reluctant to give up the gift of life and the crystallization of affection.
So, in the toss and turn, sorting out her thoughts and thinking about everything, Qin Shasha agreed to Yu Yuanming's proposal to get married.
So, the first thing had to start right away. That's to decorate the house.
The house was bought and also received. But it was not renovated, so it was not occupied.
Now, if you want to get married, you will inevitably need a new house to accommodate new people, do happy events, and become a new family.
In addition to the money factor, decoration is a comprehensive aesthetic and practical function of the choice question bank. It involves which designer to invite, what kind of design style to choose, and the grade, brand, specification, and shape of various building materials. A series of furniture, home furnishings, household appliances, etc. are all required questions in the multiple-choice question bank. The most troublesome thing is that these multiple choice questions, whether you choose A or B, or C, do not have an exact answer or a standard answer. It is related to the area of the house, the style of decoration, the owner's inner vision, and the actual construction operability. Opinions are the most difficult to unify, two people growing up in different environments, must have different preferences. Therefore, decoration seems simple, but it often becomes the birthplace of family conflicts and the fuse of tension in relationships, not without reason.
Decorating a house is the same as making a movie, it is the art of regret. That is to say, no matter how you plan, make a detailed plan, arrange it very scientifically and rigorously, how tightly the process is controlled, and how well the personnel arrangement is coordinated. In the end, you will still find some regrets, flaws, faults, and shortcomings. It's the same with making movies, the director seems to cover the sky with one hand, but in fact, the actors are not necessarily what you want (schedule, willingness, salary, partner relationship and other factors will be affected); the cost is not necessarily enough, props, scenes and even the plot will be affected; good shots can't even appear and must be cut. A good director is not only able to make the movie he wants to make, but also can make money for investors. The ability to balance various relationships, clarify and reconcile complex interests, even exceeds the movie itself. On the other hand, looking at the house, within an approximate time and approximate budget, to complete a thrilling leap from aesthetics to architecture, from inspiration to power, from visual beauty to practical functions, from external procurement to internal opinion unity! The most important thing is that there are generally many people who make movies, each performing their own duties and seeking their own position. There are only a few people who turn around to install the house, but the amount of process that needs to be completed is not small, and perfection can only be a legend. Therefore, in my opinion, decorating a house is actually in the process of pursuing perfection and finally getting an imperfect result. And that's true for most of life. With this theme figured out, you won't go crazy, get crazy, hysterical, and lose control of your emotions over a single detail, which in turn will lead to arguments, noises, and unpleasantness. However, at the same time, it should not be so-so and procrastinating. On the one hand, try to do a good job. On the other hand, accept imperfections.
Secondly, the relationship between the house and the family. There is no doubt that having a well-structured, functional, decently decorated, warm in winter and cool in summer is one of the warm and sweet material foundations of a family. However, is it the only and necessary thing? Not necessarily. Even the best houses are inhabited by unhappy people. No matter how good the mattress is, there are people with insomnia. Spacious, bright and palatial living room, the bedroom is also a hot war, cold war and lifeless. Large, upscale bathrooms often sit on the toilet with a person with a struggling face due to constipation. And the average house may also give birth to true love, family affection and warmth. It is important to decorate a good house, but it makes no sense to hurt the family relationship in order to decorate the house, and the gains outweigh the losses. A good house should be inhabited by a few happy people, and this is the good family we are pursuing. Don't compare, don't pursue flashy, don't lose your down-to-earth heart for the sake of gorgeous appearance.
Based on the above ideas and opinions, Yu Yuanming told Qin Shasha that you will be responsible for the entire decoration. I'm only responsible for paying for it, and it's up to you to do everything, and I won't complain even if it's wrong. That's what a valid license is!