117 - Food Regiment
From the second half of 2001 to the first half of 2002, Yu Yuanming and several colleagues formed a small team to eat, often eating and drinking together, and the relationship was very good.
There is Yu Yongchun, a reserve group trainer, Zheng Xiao, a supervisor, Yuan Xiaoping, and Yang Fangning, who was promoted to supervisor first and then demoted.
Originally, this small team only met occasionally to eat together, but I didn't expect to become more and more close to each other later. Sometimes we eat together at noon, and we have to eat dinner together, more than family. The most interesting thing was that when I had dinner one day, I found out that I had eaten three meals a day together. Rice noodles in the morning, home-cooked food at noon, and a small elegant house in the evening. We had a great time chatting that night!
There must be a reason for a group of people to be together, either for a purpose, or for a real relationship. Or there is a secret that is inconvenient to speak.
After many years, this small team has long since disappeared. In the years that followed, various grievances and grievances, overlapping interests, overlapping and tearing emotions led to a lot of dirty, hatred and resentment between people. Then after being sifted and washed by time, they gradually drifted away in their respective lives. These names and real people who have existed are just a kind of archive of memory. And it's in a wrinkle deep in the brain, and I inadvertently think I've forgotten it. It was only at a certain moment that I suddenly remembered it, and I salvaged it, and found that although many of the past times were mottled, they were still very clear. After careful analysis many years later, Yu Yuanming found that this seemingly unconscious aggregation turned out that everyone had their own needs for warmth! That is to say, the existence and disintegration of the small eating team was not accidental, but in a sense, it was inevitable.
Let's talk about Yu Yongchun first, a full-time undergraduate graduate, a tall and handsome group training teacher. He was born in a rural area and went to university in another place, but was assigned back to his hometown. The feeling of not meeting Huaicai is particularly strong, the lights of Shanghai Tang, the modern foreign style and the old decay of chemical factories, day after day without change, are completely two worlds. In order to squeeze into the last wave of welfare housing, I hastily married a blind date who didn't love each other. Married life without an emotional foundation soon turned into a vulgar family bloody drama, with trivial disputes, and the two simply divorced. When the divorce was not yet in trouble, the unit began to be laid off and diverted again. When my heart was full of all kinds of messes, my brother-in-law introduced me to the insurance company and said that it was a reserve training, so let's try it! It is not more about the recognition of insurance, but an escape from the old life.
The family is still in a long-term cold war, occasionally hot war, and there are no children, so I don't want to go home. There's nothing to look forward to when you go home, cold pots, cold stoves, cold sofas. Having a few friends outside drinking and chatting is much better than the atmosphere at home.
Let's talk about Zheng Xiao, Zheng Xiao and her husband were originally workers in the same unit, and they were both laid off. My husband went to drive a taxi, and she came to do insurance. The common people of China are like this, and they can bear every blow in life. No matter how many difficulties they face, they can hide their pain, start anew, and be satisfied with the happiness and stability of a porridge and a meal. But after Zheng Xiao came to do insurance, things changed. The common language with my husband is getting less and less, and it is becoming more and more unpleasant to look at my husband. Because compared with the men in the insurance company, her husband seems vulgar, uneducated, can't wear clothes, and his speech and behavior are not at all the same level as the leader and the male teacher. What's even more annoying is that you talk to him, and he still refuses to accept it: I drive a taxi every day and am tired and tired, and I may not wear a suit and tie? Do you know that I don't have time to pee when I'm busy? You call me to talk about demeanor? How can I say it? You say it's better to pull a man, but if you pull a woman, I will have to endure it. When she got out of the car and couldn't find the toilet, I took a bottle of mineral water to catch the urine. Then tighten it and throw it away when no one is around. I can't eat on time most of the time! I often pull a few mouthfuls and then shout out! How do you say I got my stomach problem? It's not for this family!
The two husbands and wives sometimes don't see each other in a day, and during the day, Zheng Xiao is visiting customers and holding meetings. In the evening, I went home to tutor the children with homework, and my husband got out of the car again.
The child is very curious and interested in computers. Zheng Xiao doesn't understand, but Yu Yongchun understands very well. So, I asked the child to learn computer from Uncle Yu. Of course, it is the simplest and most basic use of some skills.
There is also a Yuan Xiaoping, Yuan Xiaoping is a married and child-bearing houseman, so it stands to reason that he should go home! But he just liked to drink with Yu Yuanming during that time. He has been in business for several years and has always been a full-time salesman. The performance is good, but the number of employees cannot be increased. The personality is actually more wooden, the mouth is clumsy, and there is a lot of saliva. The image is not good, the sharp-beaked monkey gills. As the old saying goes, if you have no flesh on your face, you must be a monster. The meat pronunciation here is "as". In the Chongqing dialect, there are meat called Ru, and there is also called Quack. Yuan Xiaoping gives people the feeling that he is not a monster, but an honest and honest good boy. He especially likes to listen to Yu Yuanming's yellow jokes, and likes to go to business development and massage with Yu Yuanming. In fact, it is some inner obstacle of the ego that longs to be released. He joined this small eating team, which is a kind of need to seek organization and huddle together for warmth.
And he felt that Yu Yuanming was very experienced in playing friends, and wanted to get some methods. Yu Yuanming is not good at telling him the truth, and he has not succeeded until now.
At the same time, there is a newcomer who happens to have an affair with Yuan Xiaoping, and he needs some companions to share and discuss.
This newcomer named Huang Jiao is a little girl who has not been in the company for a long time. He is not very old, but his mind is very mature. It's not pretty, but it's quite energetic, his home is in the countryside, and he bought a house in the city. is very assertive, but I didn't expect to come to do insurance under Zhou Hai's coaxing. Zhou Hai couldn't be busy, so he threw her to Yuan Xiaoping and helped bring her. After going back and forth, she finally understood the cause and effect, and her resentment towards Zhou Hai turned into a liking for Yuan Xiaoping.
Later, I learned that this Huang Jiao was not a mortal, but a young lady.
But she is indeed a very thoughtful woman, who saved the first money to buy a house and went ashore with her life and began to make a decent living. is indeed capable, and after several tosses, he went down to Gongzhou to start a new life. And to what extent Yuan Xiaoping and her story have developed, Yu Yuanming does not know.
Yu Yuanming himself needs it even more, most of the team are mother-level players, and they will definitely not be able to play together. With a small squad of several people, every day is nourishing and fun. Of course, the money in the pocket is almost spent.
Since doing insurance, Yu Yuanming feels that his income has indeed increased, but his consumption has also increased. It's renting a house, buying clothes, running around, buying gifts for customers, singing, eating, clubbing, and massaging outside. There's not much left for a month, and of course, the comfort level is not at the same level as in Peach Blossom Town.
I once saw a sentence in the process of reading a novel, and I deeply thought that it was describing a young man like himself: there is money to coax girls to bed, but there is no money to marry girls home.