In life, you must always have your own persistence

—————— the vast world is rolling red dust, and every encounter is worth cherishing with all our might. Because, we don't know when that familiar figure will come out of our world.

Watching TV, a man and a woman fall in love on the Internet, the woman leaves her husband and children at home to meet the man, and the two of them are like glue for a while, but the woman misses the children at home after all, so she wants to leave the man.

Tragedy arose, the man, in extreme pain, ended the woman's life with a knife. At the time of the arrest, I remember the man saying to the camera, "I love her so much that the thought of losing her makes me go crazy." ”

I have also seen men around him, because of one reason or another, his girlfriend separated from him, so he either stalked, or spread rumors and slander, and even directly destroyed his ex-girlfriend's happiness. In reality, there are many such men and women, who keep saying that they are in love, but in fact, they are just selfishly bound in the name of love.

In our lives, there will be many emotional entanglements. A section of the road has a section of scenery, someone accompanies the walk, at the next crossroads of life, that person may disappear. Leaving only the good memories of this journey and the melancholy of being alone in the future. It's just that life is still moving forward, and there will always be people who will appear in our lives at a certain intersection at dusk and on a rainy day, and continue to accompany us forward.

And yesterday, whether it was good or painful, has passed. It should be a good choice to look at the figure that is fading away, and cherish the beauty that that person once gave us in the memories of life.

The Buddha said that it took 500 times to look back in the past life in exchange for the passing of this life. So how many wishes did you make in front of the Buddha in your previous life? Since we met, since we had such a good memory, why should we be like enemies after breaking up? Although that unforgettable love affair is over, what it brings us should not only be pain. More should be comprehension, gratitude, and a beautiful vision of the person who will appear in life again in the future. Instead of anger that covers the heart with pain, and anger washes away the hatred of reason.

The encounter between people is the most mysterious arrangement of God, cherish each other when they meet, and there will not be so many regrets when they are separated. It may be that there is a weak emotion between each other, or it may be that they can't resist the power of reality. However, the road we have traveled together, the unforgettable embrace of each other, don't easily deny it.

Love is never a heavy and painful thing. If you can't be together, isn't it also a kind of happiness to smile and let the tears fall in your heart, and wave your hand to bless the figure that is gradually drifting away?

Love has always been a story of a thousand turns. It is only when we have experienced countless pains of separation and countless expectations that we will find that what we are looking forward to and hoping to have is the vaguely visible figure that suddenly looks back at the lamplight. It's just that the figure has long been separated from thousands of rivers and mountains, and separated from the surging flow of people.

The love of this life is coming to an end, if you are still reluctant to leave, then try to be a good friend. Collect the most sincere and fiery emotions in your heart and turn them into a light that can illuminate the way forward for TA, and accompany them when they are frustrated, share them when they are happy, and bring some sad blessings when they are happy, which is another kind of possession.

If you can't be friends with each other, then be the most familiar stranger. After all, on the road of life, each other is fortunate to have walked hand in hand. In a certain corner of the soul, there is still that unique feeling. To be the most familiar stranger, occasionally miss and sometimes sad under the same sky, but the love is over, watching the TA that once belonged to you fly freely in another sky and then the blessing from afar, it is not a kind of free and open-minded.

It's just that feelings shouldn't breed hatred in any case. When together, the relationship is real, and even if they are separated, the relationship does not necessarily become fake. It's just that life needs to choose, everyone has the right to choose and give up, and everyone also has their own values and outlook on life. Every time you meet, you don't know how much you asked for in front of the Buddha in your previous life, and every time you separate, the Buddha wants to give you a better arrangement in this life. So, there's really no need to be resentful and let hatred blind you.

"It's a pity it's not you", Liang Jingru's pure singing voice like a mountain spring sounded on a rainy night, which always brought people a trace of loneliness and loneliness. Our lives are all about going through a hundred turns of pain and suffering, and only then do we gradually mature and gradually comprehend. It's just that person, but he has disappeared into the sea of people.

It's just that there is still heat for each other in our lives. Between the hand-conductor and dancer farewells, there is still a vague taste of each other. It's just that the face that is still nostalgic has already put on a smile that blooms for others, and next to the figure that is still infatuated, there is already a new figure.

So if you can, try to sublimate the attachment and reluctance in your heart. Sublimation into the signpost of life, let us not be lost and fragile on the road of life in the future, let us still believe in the fairy tale about love in the depths of our hearts in the materialistic world.