Later, I realized that Shen Linglan's conversation with me that day was to ------- us all the people around her who opposed her choice of Chen Sanbao, and to explain why she was looking for Chen Sanbao. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info However, it seemed that I was the only one who could listen to her calmly at that time. Later, I relayed what she meant to people. to the effect: She also knows that Chen Sanbao is not very good, but she just has no temper with Chen Sanbao. Due to the setbacks of her past relationship, she is reluctant to pursue higher. She is ready to bear the hardships of life like Wu Yuezhen's second aunt, because this is determined by her situation, and she can't change it.

Even so, I still don't understand a few questions: How did Chen Sanbao make her lose her temper? How is her situation different from others, and why are people with low self-esteem the most confident? In addition, I still don't understand one thing, even if Shen Linglan is willing to go to hell, will her parents sit back and watch their daughter jump into the fire pit? By chance, I solved these mysteries.

One day, there was a shortage of people in the coking microcomputer room. After I got off work, our director asked me to go over and work an overtime. It just so happened that the microcomputer worker in this class of the coking microcomputer room was Bao Hongmei. Bao Hongmei is in her early thirties, she is already the mother of the child, she gets along well with Shen Linglan, Li Wenqi and others, they call her Sister Bao, and I also follow Shen Linglan and they call her so.

In the middle of work, I didn't reluctantly talk a few words, but when I talked about it, I talked about Shen Linglan, and when Shen Linglan was mentioned, Sister Bao had a lot of words, it turned out that she and Shen Linglan were from the same village.

When I expressed my incomprehension of Shen Linglan's choice of Chen Sanbao. Bao Hongmei sighed and said, "It's all because of Lily of the Valley's miserable life! I was born to give it to someone, and I don't even know who my own father and mother are." I was taken aback and hurriedly asked, "Is Shen Linglan being raised?" Bao Hongmei said: "Yes! I see that you are quite sympathetic, so I couldn't help but say it." Don't just talk to anyone. Hug a good person. just fell into such a family again, and Lily of the Valley suffered a lot. ”

Next, Bao Hongmei briefly told me about the situation of Shen Linglan's family. Shen Linglan's ancestors have been passed down for several generations, and by the generation of Shen Linglan's grandparents, the family has been very decayed, and the old couple only has one daughter, so they want to recruit a son-in-law to support the elderly. But this daughter was born mentally retarded. Most of the people don't know, but they are addicted to eating, but there is something delicious at home, and they will definitely eat it all secretly. Let you beat and scold and never repent. Therefore, I couldn't find a son-in-law who was willing to come to the door for a long time. Later, it was not easy to recruit one from a foreign country. is Shen Linglan's current father.

This son-in-law is literate and hyphenated, and he has some culture. When I first arrived, I was hired as a school teacher in the village. It's a pity that he only worked for half a year before he was replaced. The son-in-law had no choice but to take his hoe and go down to the ground. But this son-in-law was born with a weak physique, and he could teach, but he couldn't do physical work. Although the work is very practical, it is not worth the ordinary labor. At this time, Shen Linglan's grandparents were old, and the burden of maintaining the family fell on the son-in-law, who had no skills and didn't know how to make money. Naturally, the days go by year by year, not as good as the year.

A year after Shen Linglan's parents got married, they adopted Shen Linglan from the hospital. When she was brought back, Shen Linglan had only been born for a week. At that time, my grandparents were old, and my mother was crazy again. The task of raising Shen Linglan naturally fell on the shoulders of his father, and it was difficult for a big man to bring a child who was only a few days old. Breastfeeding your child is a big problem. At first, I asked a woman with milk to feed her, but soon no one was willing to feed her. Shen Linglan's father was ruthless and borrowed money to buy back a ewe, planning to milk it to feed Shen Linglan. But there were no bottles at home at that time. Shen Lily's father really didn't know how to feed the child, so he simply tied the sheep's four hooves, carried them to the kang, and then carried the little lily of the valley to the side of the ewe, and let them suck by themselves. Later, as soon as she heard Shen Linglan's cry, the ewe didn't wait for Shen Linglan's father to come to hug her, so she automatically ran into the house, jumped on the kang and lay down next to Shen Linglan, and let her feed.

When Shen Linglan was five years old, her mother added a little brother to her, which made the family happy for a while, and then slowly found out that the child was also an idiot. Shen Linglan's father pinned all his hopes on Shen Linglan from then on, and spared no effort for her to study, Shen Linglan was also very competitive, and was admitted to the secondary school after finishing junior high school.

After getting the admission notice, the father and daughter found that the family couldn't even make up the money for enrollment. The village party secretary knew about it, allocated some relief funds to the Shen family from the village, and took the lead in donating a little money to Shen Linglan, which helped Shen Linglan make up the school fees.

By the time Shen Linglan finished her five-year secondary school, her family was already in debt. In order to earn money for her education, her father was tired several times and was already sick. The mother was even more stupid. may be because Shen Linglan has been studying in secondary school for several years, and there is no delicious food at home. My mother started stealing food from other people's homes. And regardless of whether it is good or bad, as long as you can get it, you will take it and run. For this reason, he is often chased and beaten by some ignorant children on the street.

The Shen family was almost at the end of the mountain, and a well-wisher gave the father and daughter an idea, asking them to find Bao Hongmei, a girl from their village to marry in the city, because Bao Hongmei's father-in-law held an important position in a certain department of the city government, Bao Hongmei's father-in-law was very sympathetic to Shen Linglan's experience, and came forward to speak for Shen Linglan, and Shen Linglan was successfully assigned to the coking plant.

I was dumbfounded when I heard this, and I couldn't imagine that the skinny Shen Linglan was carrying so much hardship in life.

Bao Hongmei continued: "When Shen Linglan first entered the factory, she was most afraid of hearing other girls talk about her mother. Sometimes, when I listen to it, I cry out loud. I asked, "Why is that?" Bao Hongmei said: "People have a mother who hurts, but she doesn't have a mother who hurts and is sad." Lily of the valley has never enjoyed a day of maternal love, and after only seven days of birth, her mother gave her to someone. The stepmother is a fool again, she really doesn't know how she got over the past 20 years. I said, "Doesn't she still have a father?" Bao Hongmei said: "But women are more careful and thoughtful than men in things like eating and dressing, sewing and mending." As the saying goes: "I'd rather follow my begging mother than my father who is an official." "That is to say, keeping up with their mother's children will suffer less, not to mention that Shen Linglan is still a girl, and if she has something on her mind, it is more convenient to tell her mother than to tell her father. Seeing that I didn't seem to understand, Bao Hongmei said: "It's in vain to talk to you about the suffering of having a mother." ”

I said: "I understand one thing, it turned out that I couldn't figure out how Shen Linglan was looking for Chen Sanbao, but now it seems that it must have been influenced by my family." Bao Hongmei said: "You are right. At the beginning, I introduced her to Li Zhiping in the electrical workshop. ......" I asked, "Li Zhiping was introduced by you." ”

Bao Hongmei said, "You also know?" I said, "I heard Shen Linglan mention it, it seems that she admires that person very much." Bao Hongmei said: "Actually, she is willing to be a family." Just because her parents both worked in the city government, she didn't dare to look for it, saying, 'In the future, people will laugh at my family, and I have nothing to say.' I said: "As long as you do things reasonably and reasonably, so that others can't find fault with you, why should they laugh at you?" Bao Hongmei said: "No matter how good you do, your family doesn't fight for you, and sometimes it does make you unable to raise your head in front of others, so you have to look away yourself, not to mention that now they are all small families, and two people with children are a family." As long as your husband doesn't dislike it, just live with you sincerely. Don't worry about other people's jokes. The key is to pick a good husband, it mainly depends on his character, and it has little to do with his family background. Lily of the valley thought that when she found Chen Sanbao, her family background was not much better than her, so she should have nothing to say, right? But do you know that Chen Sanbao went to Shen Linglan's house for the first time, and what did he say to people when he came back? ”