Chapter 9 Preparing for Pregnancy

I didn't slow down after returning to my hometown, and I wrote my thesis this year, and as long as the time for the thesis to be completed was not reached, I was still concerned about my graduate life. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info Xiao Bisheng newlywed, against the hot day the small couple or go to climb Putuo Mountain, the treasure temple on the top of the mountain is as cool as water, Yu Yue silently made a wish.

In the two months of summer vacation, the house life of the two house-in-laws is also comfortable, Yu Yue cleaned up the Lido's home and slowly returned to family life, and the biggest thing for the little couple is to make people. On this issue, Shiyuan seemed more cautious than Yu Yue, he said that you are eating out this year, and you can't always rest assured, and you can only have one child if you are a dual-income worker, so you should recuperate first. He inquired about an old Chinese medicine practitioner's method of conditioning his body was very effective, and he actively accompanied Yu Yue for an examination. The first time I did B ultrasound, I accidentally found that there was a teratoma on Yu Yue's left appendage, Shiyuan's face was not very good-looking, but fortunately, the doctor explained that teratomas are basically benign and there is no need to worry too much. I have been checking the follicles for more than a month, and the conclusion given after each check is that it is too small and discharged, and then the doctor prescribes a bunch of tonic drugs according to the checklist, saying that it promotes the development of follicles and makes it successfully conceive in the best state. After drinking the black and bitter Chinese medicine for half a month, Yu Yue began to protest, "I don't want to go, it's inexplicable, it's not that we can't conceive children, we used to be contraceptive, and now it's good to go with the flow if we don't go out, why do you make it like completing a task, it seems that every day things revolve around this matter." Are you annoyed?" Shi Yuan was always deliberately abstinent while doing ideological work, Yu Yue heard the doctor mention "clomiphene" in the conversation with Shi Yuan, saying that it was to promote follicle development, Yu Yue was already disgusted with this kind of human operation, she said that she did not agree to eat, and said that it was easy to conceive twins, Yu Yue hesitated for a while, but still shook her head. Seeing Yu Yue's resolute attitude, Shi Yuan babbled and mentioned teratoma on the side, saying, "It's hard to say whether the one in your body will affect pregnancy." Yu Yue glared at him hard, and Shi Yuan didn't dare to attack. Mom means to get rid of the teratoma first and then think about pregnancy, and it is best to go to a hospital in a big city, Yu Yue is afraid of going under the knife, so she didn't say that she agreed or denied it, Shi Yuan muttered, while saying that she was thirty, and on the other hand, she said that she was afraid that she would not be able to find Beibei if she went to a big hospital, and everyone had no experience in this area, so she couldn't talk about it. As soon as school started, the matter was put aside.

Yu Yue, who doesn't need to decoct and take medicine every day, happily took over the work of the head teacher, many people say that Yu Yue looks the most beautiful at work, it is true, this girl is full of passion, she only does things for the pleasure of her heart. The first class meeting was very successful, and the students couldn't help but applaud involuntarily, which really fully satisfied their vanity! Yu Yue is not a teacher who can talk big words, all the work she does after class is based on reality, and the advice she gives is also a proverb close to life, and the students like her not only because of her pure bookish atmosphere, but also because of her affinity to follow and seduce, and the realism of telling things when she speaks. In the past two years, the county education bureau has implemented an exchange policy for urban and rural teachers in order to balance teaching, and to evaluate professional titles, it is necessary to have more than one year of exchange experience in rural work. When it comes to the issue of professional titles, it is really a big problem for the education department in the country, the money is just a little bit, the state does not pay attention to it and has to pick and use, departments at all levels have no choice but to come up with strange tricks, trying to set up cards for the evaluation of professional titles. Qian Shiyuan was rated at the first level in the year of Yue Graduate School, and the education department really did things only on a whim, hey, I was entangled for more than half a year and suddenly came to a policy, saying that it was a teacher who asked the rating to hand in all the materials next week, which is obviously a bad move for the card people, and the superiors and subordinates are just asking for trouble in guessing and guessing, Shiyuan is naturally faster than ordinary people in the county, and when the teachers of primary and secondary schools in the countryside get the news, many people will be too late. He immediately prepared the materials, and had to make up the whole year's lesson plan, the more he wrote, the more annoying he became, and sometimes he couldn't help but throw it aside and call Yu Yue to complain: "If you don't evaluate it, you won't have time to write the lesson plan, even if you get it, what if you do? Those who came in five years earlier than me haven't been hired yet, and they are all backlogged there." Yu Yue persuaded him, "You do it first and then say, you can take it out at any time when you are ready, in case the policy suddenly changes, you don't know that the relevant departments just like to change the order every day, and change the leader and start a new set." Shi Yuan couldn't write it down several times, "Who still writes handwritten lesson plans with a single glance these days? This education department really can't keep up with the situation." While scolding his mother, he couldn't help but beg for comfort. Yu Yue was empathetic, took a leave of absence and went home to encourage him. This Shiyuan is also childish, as soon as his wife comes home, he is very motivated, the teaching plan is overspeeded, and he is not resigned to fate after handing in the materials, and the rating also needs to find someone. Shiyuan inquired in many ways, and after feeling the channels, he also greeted them one by one, no way, everyone does this, if you don't do it, it doesn't show that you are high, but it reflects that you don't understand personnel. It's too risky, but fortunately, this time it was evaluated, because, the next thing is to stop the evaluation for three years. Yu Yue's batch has to wait, and it is far away. The next policy is more resolute, and the evaluation is not hired, unless there is an exchange of experience in the countryside. In desperation, Qian Shiyuan had no choice but to apply to go to the countryside for exchange, and the two began to live separately, Yu Yue spent most of her time eating at her mother's house, and spent more time alone. Being a homeroom teacher is a boredom relieve.

Being a homeroom teacher naturally spends more time in school, Yu Yue found that her mentality had changed and she had become more mature and down-to-earth. The last time I graduated, I had a sense of loss that I didn't meet with my talents, especially when I brought my job search resume and was thrown aside by the principal on the spot, I really felt bullied, and I realized that public schools don't care about these, no matter how much honor you have in college, you can be a fart, if it weren't for the face of your parents, Yu Yue wouldn't have been able to enter this middle school. In the past three years, it has been difficult to adapt to the working environment of the school after class, except for the teaching staff conference, Yu Yue rarely sees colleagues in different classes, this kind of air that does not communicate and does not contact each other makes it difficult to get used to it, she is willing to stay in the crowd, even if it is just to listen. The strangeness and indifference between people make it difficult for Yu Yue to have a sense of belonging, she is easy to resist and awkward in everything, she is more depressed about people and things, and in the final analysis, her adaptability is very poor.

In the second year of coming, the school arranged for Yu Yue to be the head teacher, in order to better integrate himself into the new environment, and also for the convenience of Yu Cheng's study, Yu Yue applied for housing in the school. In the past few years, the employment situation has become worse and worse, and many young people have come back, and colleagues have visited each other to chat and play cards, go shopping or something. But Yu Yueai is clean and not very gregarious, and most of the time Yu Cheng is living, and Yu Yuelai does not have much time. At that time, there was one dormitory for one person, and when the door was not opened, Yu Yue definitely didn't dare to knock on the door to find someone to play. Most of the young male teachers didn't dare to joke with her, and they just talked to her in a proper manner. Qian Shiyuan later told himself that the male teachers talked about Yu Yue in private, and they all said that her family background was so good, and then they were stimulating each other. Young people are the sensitive years when ******** ponder lifelong events, and most of the boys who study normal are born in rural areas, and most of them are honest people who are content with the status quo, so the various versions of Yu Yue are unattainable for them. Qian Shiyuan said that he still had the courage to come to his parents' nouveau riche, but he didn't expect Yu Yue to be interested in even inquiring about their family's background.

Yu Yue is a woman who is too nostalgic to the point of being too slow, and she always remembers the past. In the year of graduate school, students from all over the world expressed their experiences to the fullest, which made Yu Yue feel that she was not so special, probably the public schools in the country are not bad, and the employment situation seen outside is really grim, so you should be content to have a job in the system. Therefore, this time the graduate Yue is less self-righteous. If you come to it, you will be safe, and you will not be tired when you wash away the frivolity on people.

To say that the first time I was a homeroom teacher was before I was in graduate school, in order to look serious and bluff the students, Yu Yue always used black and gray, until one time when talking to a boy, the little boy said casually, "Teacher, can you wear some colored clothes to class? Why do you deliberately look old? I saw you out for breakfast on the weekend, and it looks good to wear red." Yu Yue was ashamed, this little bit of caution still couldn't hide from the students. It's a little sorry to say that this class of students, just this year, Yu Yue and Qian Shiyuan talked about it, and there are always times when the students are treated badly in addition to sweetness. The second time I was a class teacher was this time, as soon as I returned to school for graduate school, I arranged the class, Yu Yue was full of confidence, hoping to have a good start, and dress up to return to her true colors. The students taught by the reasonable and unpretentious class teacher are polite and courteous, and the subject teachers all said that Yu Yue's class style is good, the students are sensible and respond quickly, and the interaction between teachers and students is very good. Many people may not understand the importance of the class teacher himself to the quality of the class style, but in fact, the class teacher's own character has a substantial impact on the students. Just like some snobbish class teachers, the students they teach must be polarized, one is the students who are cared for, and the other is the students who are left out in the cold, so that they are afraid and full of anger.

The first month of school is spent in a busy and busy way, Shi Yuan rarely goes home, people who don't have a car don't move freely, and they can't always ask someone to take care of them, and occasionally come back is also unhappy to break up many times, Shi Yuan always mentions teratoma, Yu Yue hates his anxiety, she is a melodious person, and she has been very irritated by Shi Yuan's nervousness and anxiety several times. Yu Yue reluctantly refused to cooperate, the more mad Shiyuan became, and the more he competed, the more endless disputes became. Yu Yue's cold violence has long been no longer a threat, and Shi Yuan keeps repeating it when he gets anxious, constantly holding on to it. In the middle of the night, Yu Yue was forced to run away from home, and he would not come to find it, a phone call to his father-in-law, confirming that he was asleep at his mother's house, so angry that Yu Yue couldn't sleep all night, and his parents were sulking, the most uncomfortable was his mother, she regretted that she didn't resolutely destroy this family business when she saw the young couple quarreling, and gritted her teeth with hatred. When I woke up the next day, my father complained that Yu Yue was willful and reckless, which made your mother sigh all night. Slowly, Yu Yue also began to learn not to pass on the pressure to his family, but Shiyuan seemed to see what Yu Yue's scruples were, and sometimes he did not hesitate to go to his father-in-law's house to complain and be angry in order to force people to comply, and make the family uneasy for this pair of enemies. At the end of September, Yu Yue had a serious cold, and in addition to having to fight hard in class, he spent the rest of the time listlessly humming and chirping. On the contrary, Shiyuan restrained a lot for this and took care of his wife wholeheartedly. The menstrual holiday that should have arrived at the beginning of October was not on time, and the young couple was afraid that they would get pregnant at this time, because they had taken too much cold medicine, and some children were worried at this time. Fortunately, there was a false alarm, and it is estimated that it is still the reaction of cold medicine to the body. After this time, the young couple went to several hospitals to find several authoritative gynecologists in the county, all of whom said that it would not affect pregnancy, and then prescribed some tumor marker examinations to check for cancer. ”

Yu Yue is also looking forward to a small life in her heart, looking at their bulging bellies on the street, she is particularly envious, and feels that life is full of hope, and women should have a child to improve themselves. She has been resisting those external deliberate preparations, but Shi Yuan is deliberately abstinent, Yu Yue understands that he wants a boy very much, so he is afraid that the probability of indulging in having a girl will be high. But as soon as I opened the search records on Baidu, I was disgusted and infinitely contemptuous, "What age is this, you read in vain, so uncivilized." When Yu Yue disliked him, Shi Yuan would immediately jump up and come up with countless examples to show that wanting to have a boy has nothing to do with the level of cultural quality, just a traditional concept, and finally ended with "Any man wants to have a queen!" Yu Yue didn't want to argue with him about issues such as "girls are also queens" or "you are yourself, don't involve men all over the world", because as soon as you oppose Shiyuan, she will argue with you endlessly, such as "Your parents also want boys, otherwise there will be no Yu Cheng, if you are an only daughter, it will be much more comfortable." Yu Yue spends most of his time quietly, but Shiyuan wants to touch people's bottom lines and involve his family at every turn, so Yu Yue is angry, "Do you have common sense? Did the county hospital in the 80s have B-ultrasound? At that time, family planning had not yet been implemented to one-child, and of course everyone would have another one if there was a chance." I'm not that alone, it's good to have a younger brother, at least someone can cure you! If you have the heart to take a shortcut, don't look for me at that time, our family doesn't stick to your son-in-law! You are like this, and you are not worthy of sticking! Your whole family is patriarchal, and you are not satisfied with having a boy, otherwise where do you need to resign and go to the sea, and the family will be separated for decades, how hard it is? Reading is to open the closed mind and change the way of thinking about problems, what about you?" After speaking, Yu Yue turned around and entered the room and turned on the computer music very loudly, and he chased and scolded outside. Most of the time, Shiyuan was looking for trouble, Yu Yue ignored him, it was his heart knot, it was difficult to open, as long as he didn't make a mistake against himself, he would turn a blind eye. Fortunately, we didn't have much time to see each other, and Shiyuan spent most of his time in the countryside.

My parents contracted a two-story dormitory building in the unit, and they became a second landlord in their spare time. In addition, my parents also reclaimed the wasteland around the dormitory building, not only growing vegetables but also raising chickens, ducks and rabbits, and the old intellectuals became "pseudo-farmers" again. When Yu Yue has time, he will also participate in labor, picking vegetables or something, and feeling the pastoral life. When my parents' green food is harvested, they will not hesitate to supply it to everyone, relatives and friends, and neighbors are full of praise. Shi Yuan muttered with envy, "Hey, I really want to subcontract with your parents, just the land, their location is too good, less than a hundred meters away from the market, it is really more convenient for vegetable farmers than anything else." If I let my mother do it, she can take it to the market to sell, and the peasant woman with a little income will be very happy, she is now complaining all day long, and she has not adapted to city life, she has no penny income for her younger brother and children, and she always lacks confidence to reach out and ask for money, Fangfang has a bad temper, and she is afraid if she is louder. Yu Yue's face was expressionless, "Then you go and ask them" Seeing that she was not enthusiastic, Shi Yuan was muttering again. He always complained that Yu Yue was not enthusiastic about his family for a while, he didn't like Yu Yue's silence very much, and he naturally thought that Yu Yue was disgusted and despised as long as he was silent. In fact, Yu Yue was not a self-acquaintance, she was silent because she didn't know what to say, and she was not used to the way of communication of rural people. For example, when a countryman eats at home, Yu Yue will always only introduce the dishes and then politely let the dishes go, and drink and eat together after cooking. And the Shiyuan family likes to push around, helping to pick up vegetables and meat to serve rice and soup, the whole table is full of men and drink, women are busy filling the guests with this and that and they don't care about eating at all, and the people who come are also very strange, can't they eat well? Eating is really a big deal for them! Yu Yue couldn't understand that when she invited guests to eat at home, her mother would sit down to eat well after she was busy with work, and her father would also help serve dishes and set up dishes and chopsticks, and the guests would not be so restrained, and they would have a very harmonious meal. In my opinion, eating is just a way to carry communication, and of course, it is also a process of cooking and enjoying food. Yu Yue does not have such a family environment, nor can he cultivate such communicative behavior, Yu Yue only likes to communicate with people who are in love, such as "déjà vu", and then "at first sight", "fate between people, blood is only one of them".

Shi Yuan didn't open his mouth in the end, but talked about it after drinking tea, and immediately denied it. "The family of the two brothers is not good, I have the final say! Besides, my mother herself doesn't mean that, and when I mention it, the two sides will become not people, and later my younger brothers and sisters will say, if my mother helps me take care of the children, you will be jealous? What do you mean? Besides, no one cares if my mother makes some money and is unhappy, and once there is a safety problem, they will all jump out? Everyone will accuse me of being unfilial, public opinion in the village is more troublesome, everyone will scold me, I have cultivated a salary, not to let my mother enjoy and let her work hard life, hey, people are difficult to do, thankless. My parents were stunned, "What kind of thinking is this? Is labor still suffering? This person, being useful to society is the greatest value." Yu Yue pouted, "His mother doesn't have any children, and she sits downstairs in the community every day and chats with people." Fangfang and his wife work in their mother's shop, and their children are with them. Shi Yuan immediately jumped up, "My mother has worked so hard all her life, you can't get used to her resting now, you are too much." Parents stopped talking as soon as they saw this formation, Yu Yue was silent, Shiyuan saw everyone's reaction, thinking that everyone was despising it, so he talked more and more vigorously, venting his dissatisfaction with the national government. "How can you understand the peasants? Do you know how hard it is to do farm work? Are you fortunate to be supported by the state, you are free from drought and flood protection, and do you know what kind of life a real peasant lives? There is no hope for hard work all year round, rural people have a hard life, you have to get up at three or four o'clock in the middle of the night to pick vegetables in the field, put together a burden and walk for an hour to sell in the city, now the conditions are better and there is a car to take, before hundreds of pounds of vegetables relied on two shoulders, the skin and flesh on the shoulders were worn layer after layer, once in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, my mother and I picked a load of celery to the city, that year celery had no price, sold until five o'clock in the afternoon, there was a lot left, the price was reduced to two cents and no one wanted it, many people along the street had the smell of meat wafting out of their homes, and my mother and I finally cried while throwing celery into the river。 Rural couples were forced to live apart for a long time, there were a few years when my father did not bring back a penny, the salary was deducted by the boss as a share, in those years my mother took the three sisters and brothers to do, everyone is very tired, tired can not cry, because crying is useless, my mother is cowardly and dare not fight, outsiders are all flattering, being bullied to the head dare not respond, can only take the three sisters and brothers angry, if our three children are not united and not arrogant, even water can not earn their own fields, so hard to the city to sell some food and often driven here and there by the city management, sometimes the scales and scales are confiscated can only cry and dare not speak。 Before my sophomore year of high school, I was in arrears every year of tuition, and every time I was named by the teacher, I was embarrassed, do you think I have no self-esteem? If it weren't for my father's turnaround, I might have graduated from high school and continued to work as a second-generation worker. What qualifications do you have to look down on them, they all rely on themselves not to steal or rob, so hard to raise a son who receives a salary to "shell into rice", can't you let them rest and enjoy life? Could it be that the peasants are destined to die of exhaustion for the rest of their lives?" Shi Yuan frowned more and more tightly the more he spoke, and his head was lowered at first, but after speaking, his head suddenly rose up, "You have a house in the city, it is because you are from the city, and how much effort we have to put in to be like you." It's not easy for us, please give some respect!" Yu Yue listened quietly, first sympathy, then calmness, and finally anger. This family is a master of bitter love dramas, and they are good at avoiding the important and passing on the contradictions. Isn't it just to divert attention and make people cry? This kind of hatred is unreasonable! Then again, what does this have to do with Yu Yue's family? "Where do we show that we look down on rural people? Why should I marry you?" Yu Yue asked him. "I can hear between the lines, you think I'm stupid, and you dislike them like this before they even live with you. "Yue Fei is really damned, his crime is so good! If someone wants to push it to you, the word 'think' is enough." Shi Yuan stood up, "Don't be cold, you just marry a rural person as a daughter-in-law, you have to accept it!" Yu Yue choked angrily. Dad spoke, "Don't fight each other, what are you doing for such meaningless things? It's not that we don't know anything about the countryside, I went up to the mountains and went to the countryside to stay in the most isolated and miserable Andu Township for four years, and your mother also sent down for a year, we also understand what you said, but the topic can't be so far. Don't be too sensitive, some words are just a normal response, don't always extend it. Mom interrupted Dad, "If you feel that you have a grievance, you can go to the county government to complain, we don't owe your family." Dad scolded Mom, "Don't talk about this pointlessly. But it was too late, and Shiyuan had to get up and leave with a "whoosh".

As soon as Qian Shiyuan left, his mother pointed at Yu Yue's nose, "Look at who you have found? Who have you found? There is something wrong with him, I subconsciously think that it is possible for his parents to be ugly and dare not look at it, but it is certainly not the kind of look that does not look at people, and my mother-in-law talks a lot like Tang Seng. I'm so annoyed that I repeat the same thing over and over again every time. Whoever has that patience, Shiyuan himself doesn't bother to pay attention to her, and at this time he talks like a filial son. Neurotic!" Dad sighed, "Shi Yuan is too much to win, he really doesn't know how to move forward, and some words are actually not suitable for being said in front of his father-in-law and mother-in-law." A lot of things can only be put in the heart, not propaganda materials. Mom sneered, "Look at the way he usually sits and sits without standing, are you afraid that others won't know that his ancestors were not upbring?" Yu Yue didn't dare to say anything, and if he went down, he would be despised. Dad asked her to go back, "The two husbands and wives have to communicate well, how can they be the same as the enemy class when they are both a family?"

Yu Yue held back the fire in her belly, and questioned Qian Shiyuan as soon as Lido returned, Qian Shiyuan refused to admit defeat, and the more he talked, the more distant he became, and the two quarreled upside down. Yu Yue didn't sleep all night, her eyes were red and swollen from crying, and the next day Qian Shiyuan went to the countryside without saying a word, just like someone who was fine. Yu Yue is heavy-hearted, and he can't stand others degrading himself so much, and there is nowhere to vent thousands of grievances. At that time, her best friend Meimei was in the field, and the preparation of the work back to her hometown had not yet been implemented, and Yu Yue's phone call was far away from quenching her thirst, Meimei would only comfort her, "No way, you have to learn to accept the person you choose." ”

The Cold War lasted for a while, Shi Yuan was in the countryside, Yu Yue couldn't find anyone to vent, so he could only be bored at home alone, and he didn't dare to show anything abnormal when he went to his mother's place to eat, Shi Yuan called Yu Yue if he had nothing to do, but Yu Yue didn't eat this set, Shi Yuan owed an apology, no matter what, be a man to be generous, not to mention that he said a lot of hurtful words, and devalued Yu Yue to worthless, the most important thing is that such a letter has been more than once or twice. Once my father's colleague came to play at home, a group of old guys talked about current affairs while eating, Yu Yue also chatted, and the uncle knew that Yu Yue grew up reading a lot of books since he was a child, and he went to graduate school, so everyone respected him very much. Suddenly, Shi Yuan's face darkened and Yu Yue said, "Have you ever read a book?" Such a question will be mistaken, people who can't figure out what books in the textbooks teach, no wonder the students don't like you!" The words were all cold, everyone looked at each other, Yu Yue reacted for a while before she was sure that this was said by Shi Yuan, she blushed, and her voice trembled with anger, "What do you mean? What do you mean that students don't like me?" In the first year of the democratic assessment, only I, the class teacher, had the highest score, and they were all evaluated by students. The more Yu Yue spoke, the more aggrieved she became, her parents kept making eyes and signaling her to stop, Shiyuan was unconvinced and muttered, "So immodest." The seniors present looked at each other and looked at the young couple like monkeys. Afterwards, Yu Yue's parents criticized Qian Shiyuan, "What should you say on what occasions, this is at least common sense, men are responsible for what they say, especially as husbands, you talk about your wife in front of everyone, this is tantamount to drawing conclusions to her, making people laugh at it, and more importantly, what is the benefit of pouring dirty water on your wife? Let's not talk about whether Yu Yue is so bad, we all know it in our hearts, let's say Yu Yue is so bad that outsiders demean her, you as a husband should stand up and defend it, why do you push your wife to be ugly in public?" Qian Shiyuan immediately smiled, "Where is it so serious, a casual sentence will be on the line and grab people." Who will go to the heart, the heart should be relaxed, why bother with a sentence or two, I talk too much all day long, if I care about every sentence, it will be exhausting. His parents shook their heads helplessly when they saw that he didn't admit defeat, and they didn't speculate for more than half a sentence. Mom's face was full of hatred that iron could not become steel, "You don't understand how to teach life, you, you are too short of people to be enlightened." Se Won stopped talking, his face was full of displeasure, and his father motioned for his mother to go upstairs and leave the two of them to their own devices. After returning home, Yu Yue proposed a divorce to him, Shiyuan apologized and apologized, and then put on a smile: "Wife, I'm just such a straw bag, you forgive me, besides, your whole family is against me, of course I have to fight." Yu Yue didn't pay attention to him for a long time, this time it's the same, his unscrupulous problem can't be changed at all, hurts people to the heart, and is full of negative emotions, blindly looks at the society very dark, feels unfair to everything, always feels that he suffers, is he so happy? As long as he gets home, he plays mahjong in the commissary downstairs and plays it all day and night, Yu Yue reminded him to make more friends at the same level, don't be so decadent, play mahjong every day in his early thirties, when will he play? You should be more with your classmates and colleagues, people should learn from each other, and you should have your own circle, which is well-intentioned, but Shiyuan rushed over with a sentence, "Don't you just look down on people, you think it's very cheap to play with those people downstairs who don't read, what ability do you have to look down on people, how much money do you have a month, a lot of people downstairs are bosses, people have more casual meals than you, what is the future of playing with colleagues? I'm the first to go to the third year of high school, they are better than me? Playing with them is a waste of time." Yu Yue's heart is congested, she wants a divorce, and when Shi Yuan throws his hands and goes out, he can not go home for a day, no matter whether Yu Yue is crazy or angry. In his opinion, women are just small tempers, they are already his people, and you have to adapt to them.

When Yu Yue is sulking in life, she will also reflect on herself, wondering if she is really uncomfortable with society? Is she really bad? Is there really something wrong with herself? An unprecedented sense of isolation permeated Yu Yue's body and mind.

Mom fell ill at this time, died of stomach pain, accompanied by vomiting, gallstones were found a few years ago, the older generation is like this, they don't want to trouble people, they hope that everything can be dragged and dragged out, and there is a big problem. Now the pain is mostly a double problem of cholecystitis and gallstones. Dad took her to a hospital in the provincial capital for minimally invasive, Yu Yue thought it was a minor operation when she heard that it was minimally invasive, she was indeed young and ignorant, maybe her parents have always been a tenacious and majestic image in her heart, unconsciously her parents are old, they will also be old, and they need to rely on their children more when they are old, Yu Yue didn't realize this, because her parents said that it was a minor operation for two hours, and Yu Yue didn't know how to take the car. Unexpectedly, there was an accident during the operation, and the two-hour operation dragged on for more than six hours, because a gravel fell into the abdominal cavity, and the doctor looked for a long time to find it, and almost had another operation. Yu Yue was so frightened that she kept crying, if there were three long and two short, it would be the biggest unfilial piety. What's even more stupid is that after the operation, I didn't know to rush to the provincial capital to take care of it. Fortunately, my cousin was here, and she and her brother-in-law went over to have a look when they had time. Shi Yuan just comforted and comforted Yu Yue, and he didn't support Yu Yue's idea of going to the provincial capital, he only said, "It's embarrassing for you to take the car, and you have to trouble others if you go." His mother's family is an outsider, and there is one more trouble for him to prepare red envelopes.

Children who grow up in greenhouses are naïve and have unrealistic expectations of people and things, so that they lack basic cultivation and experience in terms of human feelings and sophistication, and are not mature enough. And parents always blindly arrange, children do not have the opportunity to shoulder the responsibility with their parents, and do not know how to express love. The evil result of this habitual dependence is the children's indifference and dereliction of duty to their parents, and the disappointment and coldness of parents towards their children.

On the day her parents came back, Yu Yue was full of guilt, but her parents didn't mean to complain at all, and blamed themselves for not going to the operation earlier, and it was so serious that it caused trouble. Qian Shiyuan kept explaining to Yu Yue, saying that Yu Yue had cried for several days, and he didn't say a lot of caring words, telling his parents to go home to make up for his body. Yu Yue is so easy to remember the good of others and forget the bad of others, she was immediately relieved when she saw Shi Yuan's sincere face, "Maybe the run-in period of every couple is so difficult." She convinced herself.

The in-laws also came to see their parents according to etiquette, and after they went back, their father-in-law always couldn't help nagging Shiyuan and said, "Your father-in-law and mother-in-law have most of them, and there are so many relatives and friends who live in a hospital to come and see her to collect red envelopes. Shi Yuan was noncommittal, "But we must do our basic etiquette, and human relations are like this." This is not easy to compare, it is impossible to be so balanced, for example, I can only have one child in the future, Shi Zhai and they can give birth to two, is it obviously impossible for me to wrap a red envelope. ”

The biggest event in November is the preparation of the city's first primary and secondary school kindergarten teachers' teaching skills competition. At the end of the month, it was the county-level open, Yu Yue and Shiyuan were recommended, the two couples worked together like never before, one person in the study had a computer, each making their own preparations, sometimes discussing and learning, sometimes laughing and laughing, and the atmosphere became very relaxed because of the cooperation in work. On the weekend, the county's top young teachers gathered together, all of them were full of self-confidence and introduced themselves as heroes. Shiyuan and Yu Yue do not show themselves as husband and wife, and most of them do not understand their relationship, because Shiyuan is from the countryside, and Yu Yue represents the school. There are no husbands and wives here, only competitors, and everyone gives it their all. waited until more than 12 o'clock at noon to come out, and everyone didn't wait for the score, and the final result was Shiyuan first and Yu Yue third. This means that Yu Yue will not be eligible to participate in the municipal competition after two weeks, because only two people can be registered for each discipline at all levels in each county. Yu Yue silently accompanied Shiyuan to prepare for the work, and a few days later received a notice that the husband and wife should go to the competition together, because the second-place teacher abstained, saying that he was in his forties and embarrassed to compare with young people. The young couple began a busy sweet life for a while. On the day he arrived in the city, Yu Yue vomited all the way, and when he arrived at the hotel, he was retching and shouting about stomach discomfort. After a night's rest, the two went to the competition in good spirits, and the results of the competition came out at the end of the day, Shiyuan was the first in the city, and Yu Yue was the third in the city. Both of them were very happy, after all, it is rare for husbands and wives to compete together, and they are still so close to each other. Se Won's expressiveness and appeal are very strong, and the judges are attracted by his momentum, which is his merit and the reason why he can get Yu Yue's original heart.

The menstrual holiday in December did not come as scheduled, and after missing the appointment for half a month, Yu Yue bought a pregnancy test on New Year's Day, and the results of the test were very exciting, and she had.