The two-child policy was suddenly liberalized, how many people were caught off guard, Yu Yue really regretted it, she knew that she had no chance, Shi Yuan didn't say it, but Yu Yue knew that he would definitely have ideas. At this time, Yu Yue felt that he was really delaying Shi Yuan a little, because he had no chance to choose. In fact, in the past few years, it is obvious that there are many more children in the society, and it is most obvious when picking up children from school and going home. I really don't understand those experts who are engaged in family planning, and there is no specific plan for the liberalization policy, this is not a question of letting go of one child and two children, what age should it be, the current situation is that the post-80s do not want to give birth, the post-70s are still in a hurry, and sometimes the doll is picked up, and the grandmother or mother is often unable to tell the difference.....

But the current situation is much more serious for Yue than the problem of "second child". Since marrying Shiyuan, the money of the two has been used together, which is understandable, but the meaning of the two old ones is very different. For so long, Yu Yue gradually understood a truth, the reason why the two elders can use the money of Yue and his wife so comfortably is because they feel that Yu Yue lives in their room, that is to say, when Yu Yue is still ignorant, the two elders have already planned their future first. So as soon as Yu Yue fell ill, they immediately worried that Shiyuan would spend money for his wife and reduce his support for them, and naturally he would not have a good color for his daughter-in-law, just like this, they showed their sincerity without any scruples, all of this was clear in Yue's eyes, and after this incident, everyone naturally distanced themselves even more in their hearts. Shiyuan didn't understand, he just turned a blind eye, hoping that time could change everything, but he forgot that his in-laws and daughter-in-law were strangers, and they didn't have an emotional foundation and couldn't talk about how much affection was consumed.

Before the promulgation of the new "Marriage Law", Yu Yue had no concept of property rights, only family concept, she just had the foresight to plan the life model of a family of three in the future, but it was too idealistic, she forgot a little, the house was not hers, not even Shiyuan's, what did he promise to give Yu Yue an independent and free life? As soon as the two old luggage moved, not only Yu Yue, Wang Fang was stupid, but she didn't expect the situation to be worse than expected. As soon as the two old men who didn't want to support themselves and had peace of mind came, Yu Yue had no choice but to start planning the house. It wasn't until the promulgation of the new "Marriage Law" that Yu Yue understood that the efforts made in the Shiyuan family in the past few years were in vain, and even the law did not recognize it. A woman's sense of security cannot be tied to a man's belt, and it is even more fantastic to count on someone else's parents. So she must have her own things, and all this must have the support of Shi Yuan, Yu Yue is a married woman, no matter what she does, it must be a decision between the two, otherwise it will be for nothing.

"Love should be given to those who understand, it is worth it!" Yu Yue was angry.

"Your two old people are actually selfish, think about everything for themselves first, just be comfortable for yourself, and refuse to think about others at all. Those who refuse to support themselves and interfere in internal affairs are really disgusting. "Qiuqiu is also uneven.

"People think that Yu Yue lives in their house. Yuan Meiren's tone has changed.

"yes, that's the problem! They think I live in their house, so it makes sense to support them. It's okay to have support, at least there is a number, right? It's so unclear, and if it's gone, you just reach out and ask for it, which is too unreliable. Besides, why do you have to be crammed into a room with us? The country house is so big that it refuses to go back. I didn't marry for their house, so I didn't live in their house, but Shi Yuan refused to move out with me or divorce me, what a dilemma! If Shi Yuan didn't want me one day, wouldn't I be left blank and clean? The key point is that this 'pay' is too inexplicable and unworthy. This house is not mine anyway, so I'd better go. ”

"Let's go, divorce, don't shout all day long, either don't complain, or take action!" Yuan Meiren didn't know whether to scold Yu Yue or herself, "My attitude is like this, either endure or change!" Yuan Meiren is used to being submissive, and the sky is falling apart when she decides.

Her husband disagreed, no problem. If you want me to say that you are too bad and affect your husband", Qiuqiu analyzed, "Look, live with your family, your husband gives all the money to your mother, how powerful she is, you can only pay for what you want to do." What bullshit marriage law, it doesn't take into account the actual situation in China, even Yu Yue is victimized, let alone ordinary women. ”

"Eh, what do you mean that even 'Yu Yue is victimized', as if I'm not an ordinary woman? I'm a fairy? hehe"

"I mean your job," Qiuqiu glanced at him, "You didn't have a class teacher, don't you have a lot of extra time?" The main energy is at home, and you also have your own economic expenses, does anyone admit it? Women like us, who are unstable and very busy, either resign and take care of the baby as soon as they have children, or throw them to the elderly to make money as soon as they have children, which is not a helpless arrangement? Think about it, in case of divorce, the big deal is that you lose your youth, at least you still have a job to support you, and it is justifiable to take your children away, it is not the same with financial support, and buying a house is also a matter of minutes, but we are different, divorce is a break in the bones, and there is nothing. It's hard to support yourself, where is the way to have children? This marriage law is patriarchy. ”

"So the new marriage law is to tell you not to think about the worst, don't get divorced at every turn, I won't get divorced. Yuan Meiren gritted her teeth.

"What do you mean I think for the worst? There are so many men in this world who have changed their minds. Qiuqiu was not convinced.

"You just have too many negative things, you can't think about running a marriage well?"

"It's not negative, it's rational. No one is in control of what actually exists. Your current situation is something you can't grasp yourself, isn't it?" Qiuqiu looked at Yuan Meiren.

"You just think too badly of people, so you complain about women all day long. “

"You, you haven't met, but when you do, you know the difference between good and evil. “

Yuan Meiren had something on her mind, and when she heard these words, she just said to the tip of her heart, so she didn't bother to respond to her.

"So I have to get my husband right now, otherwise my dream of buying a house won't come true"

"Your husband is a filial son, and he doesn't dare to say anything even if he is wronged, so if you marry such a husband, you have to accept such a way of life. If you can't accept it, you will divorce, and there is no middle way. Yuan Meiren had another expression of looking at death as if she were at home.

"So I'm also thinking about what kind of way to achieve my goal, and my goal is not to divorce, but to divorce their family's way of life. ”

"Hmph, you, it's like this for the rest of your life, you can't do without Qian Shiyuan, and you're not independent enough. Yuan Meiren glanced at Yu Yue with disdain.

Yu Yue was uncomfortable listening to this, and retorted, "Who in this world is inseparable from whom?" ”

"Of course, it's best not to get divorced, who wants to build it with their own hands and destroy it with their own hands? I have no way to get a divorce, if I have children, I will not divorce if I live or die. Huang Zhiqiu's face was lonely.

All three of them have sad tears, but they are all the same stronger, yes, women are willing to show their good sides, and then hide themselves and lick their wounds.

Yuan Meiren's marriage had problems as early as the end of last year, but she refused to say anything, and occasionally only said a few words, Yu Yue knew that she wanted to save face, and she was not easy to ask.

Yu Yue had already heard that Guo Susu, the mother of Yuan Meiren, was not an ordinary person, a natural "actress", and it was a miracle that she could match Yuan Meiren and her son with one mouth. In the past few years, Yuan Meiren's family has been deceived of more than 800,000 yuan, saying that it is to build a house together, and what is even more amazing is that he can take the money away without even writing an IOU.

Yuan Meiren has always been a short-term protector, and her mother and sister-in-law tortured her and didn't dare to say it, and she also posted happiness everywhere on Weibo and WeChat, showing affection, and showing off not with her husband, but with her mother. In fact, the county seat is so big, who wouldn't know the details of her mother. Guo Susu's eyes lit up, everything she did was straight to the interests, when Yuan Meiren returned to the city by car, no, her mother would not hit her idea, before that, because of jealousy, she went everywhere to talk about Yuan Meiren's details, saying that the money she earned was "eating", which means doing ** in the local area. Later, when the Yuan family's money was almost squeezed, he began to have crooked ideas again, and then Yuan Meiren's car was equipped with navigation and hidden cameras, and then Guo Susu went everywhere to say that Yuan Meiren was cheating and preparing for divorce, and this plan was all carried out step by step.

Guo Susu was very unusual when she was young, a woman with a very clever mouth, born to eat by eloquence, was very restless before marriage, and after marriage, she couldn't help but hook up with her brother-in-law, after the divorce, she could make a big boy who was more than ten years younger than her dead heart to her, and after marrying Xiao Xianrou, she also went to YN alone to sell drugs, all of which helped hide drugs and cross the border, and her psychological quality was very good. It is really not easy for a woman with two children, Guo Susu is a female hooligan, under the pressure of life, she has no courtesy, righteousness and shame, she hooks up everywhere, cheats and abducts, and the daughter she teaches is just as bad.

Guo Susu seems to be particularly insecure, and now he has several houses under his name but does not live in them, renting houses everywhere, sometimes moving several places a year. Thanks to Yuan Meiren's endurance, but her character, she holds back everything, she is also disdainful of Yue's attitude towards dealing with family problems, she is not used to hearing Yu Yue complain, she will say, "Yu Yue, you shouldn't talk so much about your family, the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, even if your in-laws are not good to you, you can't say it, you have to say that your in-laws are good when you go outside, and then they will be ashamed after these words reach the ears of your in-laws, and they will be good to you in the future." ”

Yu Yue said with a shocked face, "This is your theory? You are simply aiding and abusing! I will be good to you, and I can't be ashamed if I won't." Why do people think they should be good to you? You will only let them see your vanity and intensify their torture of you, but you don't dare to say it anyway, what are you afraid of? People are not so conscious and self-disciplined, or everyone is a saint, so the greatest constraint comes from the moral supervision of people by the elders and villagers. If they know that you have an opinion and will resist them, they will not dare to take an inch, at least they will have scruples. “

"You can't talk about different personalities, and you always think about other people's bad things and you won't be happy. ”

"You call it fake happiness, whose life is flawless, women have to communicate more, discuss more to have ideas, and manage their lives better. ”

"I don't like to talk about it, the more I talk about it, the more painful it becomes, haven't you heard the story of the 'wounded monkey'? The monkey was not killed by the wound itself, but by his own continuous opening of the wound. ”

"That's right, so it's appropriate, not like Xianglin's sister-in-law, so I only tell my family and girlfriends, because I know that you will give me more advice, give me a lot of examples, help me sort out my thoughts, it's useless to do things behind closed doors, it will only become more and more extreme. ”

"I don't say anything, I'm either put up with it or divorce. I am like this, I will use my kindness to expect your change, if not, then I will not look back once I decide. ”

"I think it's incredible, you think you're kind, people think you're just cowardly, just vanity. ”

"Whatever they want, I'll be like that. ”

"So what's going on now. ”

"It's okay, I decided to divorce, I won't look back. It's no longer worth cherishing, they're hopeless. ”

"You've decided, what about the child? I don't think your husband will be okay, and if you move out with your husband and don't fight with your mother, you'll still be very happy. ”

Yuan Meiren shook her head, "Impossible, my husband is a milk treasure man, he doesn't understand anything, everything is arranged by his mother, he has been controlled by his mother all his life, he doesn't go out to work, he has no financial resources, he relies on his mother's pocket money every month, such a man is useless! When a father refuses to hug his daughter, I don't want to be his mother, I want to have a normal man." ”

Hearing Yuan Meiren say this, Yu Yue was speechless. No matter how you say it, Qian Shiyuan is still very good at being a man, willing to work hard. Yu Yue knew that Yuan Meiren's words would be irreparable.

"Is it a divorce by mutual agreement?"

"No, it's me who won't leave. You know, it's about money. “

Yu Yue acquiesced, "Your mother didn't even let her write an IOU at the beginning, and she didn't have any legal awareness, and now she is in trouble." ”

Yuan Meiren was silent for a moment, "I didn't let my mother write it, I said that it was all a family, why did I divide it so clearly." ”

Yu Yue was speechless, this is another theoretical portrayal of Yuan Meiren's "don't think badly of people". I remember that Yu Yue talked to Yuan Meiren's mother on the phone a while ago, originally talking about insurance, and the aunt of the Yuan family started crying when she talked about it, complaining that her daughter was cowardly, incompetent, and infinitely compromised, and would only force her own family and wronged herself to fulfill others......

"That's troublesome, I don't recognize the law without an IOU. “

"No, they don't dare, many people know that it is our family who gives money. “

Yu Yue doesn't want to argue with her, Yuan Meiren must be strong, and she will never lose to you in her mouth. In fact, the matter has not been resolved from the end of last year to most of this year. After eating the lawsuit, the two court sessions could not be resolved, and the collegial panel waited for more than half a year, and now the marriage can't be divorced, and the money can't be returned, her mother came to a more desperate one, and fled directly to the Philippines with a son and a daughter.

Character determines fate, what will happen to a person's life, what kind of person he meets is predestined, what kind of character will meet who and what happens, this is the so-called fate. Yu Yue felt that even if it wasn't Qian Shiyuan, it was Liu Shiyuan and Wang Shiyuan...... Anyway, it's definitely this kind of person. But life can be managed, you can choose, you accept Qian Shiyuan, you accept his present, not the past, the past environment cannot be replicated in the current life. Staying away from his family makes it possible for two people to establish their own family life.

Taking advantage of Shiyuan's good mood, Yu Yue brought up the matter again.

"No, why can't your brain turn around? My parents are going to follow their son no matter what, didn't you just solve the problem of their pension and resettlement? Why do you still want to buy a house?"

"Buying a house is an established policy, and it has nothing to do with who your parents eat for a year. “

"So where do you want to buy it? “

"Tianhe Mansion, I went to take a look, there are more than 90 square meters, less than 600,000, the down payment is 20%, our provident fund is enough, there is no burden. “

As soon as he heard that his wife even asked for the place and housing price, Qian Shiyuan became serious.

"Can people live in more than 90 square meters? Why should I live in more than 90 square meters when I live in 160 square meters? I'm stupid!"

"Don't always think about yourself, I want to live, more than 90 square meters are enough to live, what do three people want to do so big, your family can live in 160 for five people." “

"Who doesn't have parents, why don't you want my parents?"

"Then I also want to ask you, why do I want your parents? I don't owe them, does that law say that my in-laws must live with me?"

"They live with their sons, not with you. “

"Hmph, I don't think they can't do without you, it's that you can't do without them, your family thinks too strangely, since you can't do without each other, why let your children get married, it's not best to sleep with your family as before!"

"What are you talking about? There are a few daughters-in-law who don't live with their in-laws, but you are special? Shouldn't your brother live with your parents when he finds a wife?"

"That's their business, my brother has a bad temper, and when he got engaged, he wanted to buy a house outside and get married, but my brother and sister didn't agree, she liked to live in my parents' house, can't it? Everyone has their own choice. “

"Yes, everyone is willing to live with your parents, why don't you want to live with my parents, you just hate them for having no money. “

"I don't want to fight with you, just help me work hard, I've been married to you for so long, and you don't have anything decent for me. It's all a small favor to coax the children, what about the family's plans?"

"Can't I have room for you in such a big house? I'm so poor now, and you let me buy a house, it's too much pressure. “

"It's not for you to buy a house, it's for us to buy together, there's no pressure, it's just that the money from the provident fund is taken out and used. “

Shi Yuanyi waved his hand, "I won't buy it." “

"Then get a divorce. I worked on my own. “

"What do you mean, hysterical! You're all about the house, and you don't want anything?"

"Yes, the house is the premise for the marriage to continue, I don't want to drift around, your parents are at home and I am uncomfortable. “

"You think they're comfortable with you?"

Since you are a filial son, you should know that the greatest filial piety of a child is to make the old man happy. “

"As soon as you buy a house, the contradiction will become public, and there will only be more troubles than now. “

"Aren't you just afraid that your brother and sister will come to trouble? “

"That's right, you know that people are not fuel-efficient lamps, and if you are not filial to your parents, you are not qualified to inherit property, where will you go to reason when the time comes. “

"Then you live with them, and I live outside. “

"Isn't that a divorce?"

"Isn't that what you want? Yu Yue began to screw

"Why are you full of hatred, who has offended you, as if the whole world owes you!"

"I don't want to do this either, but I can't get out of it in front of them all day, and I'm restrained, because I know that my restraint is for the rest of my life, and if you don't give me some hope, I won't be able to restrain myself, and I'll go crazy. “

"It's okay to buy a house, but it's not okay for more than 90 square meters, you go and take a look again, I'll consider it if it's about 110." “

"I don't want to put too much pressure on myself, the house is for myself to live in, I have seen it over there, it's pretty good, it's quite petty bourgeoisie. It's too expensive to buy a big one, and I don't want to borrow money to buy a house. “

"Anyway, it's too small, if you want to buy a decent one, you have to have at least three rooms. “

"Don't think too much about it, even if I buy three rooms, I won't leave it to your parents. If you still want to bring your parents into my life, then what's the point of me buying a house, I'm tired of giving them enjoyment?"

"Don't talk about it, I won't buy it without three rooms. “

After saying that, Shiyuan went out without looking back. Leaving Yu Yue alone to be crazy in all kinds. Yu Yue was in a bad mood and went to clean up the house, turned out a bunch of reading notes, looking at these notes that he couldn't even recognize his own handwriting, Yu Yue couldn't help but fall into deep thought, in the past few years, from a book to a belly of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the degradation of women's IQ is due to cumbersomeness, there is really nothing wrong at all. The same person, but two worlds.

Halfway through this matter, it was obvious that it was yellow again, Qian Shiyuan refused to discuss it again, and Yu Yue had no choice but to act at the opportunity, and when he was free, he would go to see the house more.

Another summer vacation, this time Yu Yue took Rong Rong to Guangzhou to recheck and travel. Without those trivial things, the family of three is very relaxed outside, Yu Yue really hopes to get out of that small town, but it is too unrealistic, no one did it back then, but now it is a family, and it is not an industry elite, and no one wants it outside. Some things, just think about it, but it's difficult to do, Yu Yue thought that she might follow the old path of her predecessors again, and the so-called hope of changing your fate was pinned on your children, and people were immediately depressed. She remembered another voice in her heart, but do good deeds, don't ask about the future.

After returning from Guangzhou, Yu Yue found that the incense burner resting on the balcony was gone. This is what my mother usually uses to burn incense, since she passed away Zhai, the incense burner has been kept like this, Yu Yue doesn't love this formalism, and she doesn't continue to burn. Now that the incense burner is gone, it must have been put away after the mother came. Yu Yue sighed, and Shi Yuan happened to hear it, "Oh what?"

"Oh, nothing. "Yu Yue doesn't want to make extraneous branches.

"Unhappy when you get home?"

"Probably, hehe. “

Shi Yuan didn't bother to say anything, for fear of opening the conversation and Yu Yue came to discuss the house with him again.

Yu Yue knew what he was thinking. Looking at the empty incense burner, the corners of Yu Yue's mouth couldn't help but show a sneer of disdain, there was no mercy in her heart, how much she snorted, how much incense she burned was a waste.

Over the past few years, Yu Yue feels that her heart is invisibly much stronger, and people say that she should get up where she falls, but Yu Yue's current mentality is good, she will lie down first where she falls, and she has become much more solid.

Shi Yuan's decision made Yu Yue very disappointed, you must know that a piece of paper cannot be exchanged for real relatives, real relatives must have paid love and hardship, pain and pity, walked with me, and came through thick and thin. This feeling of helplessness and powerlessness permeated her whole body, and Yu Yue wished that she could put on her wings and fly away. There are some people and things that you know are wrong, but you are powerless to change them and you don't want to compromise, and your troubles come from this. In fact, the only thing you can change in this world is yourself, and as a result, you either adapt or leave, and there is no third way to go.

Shi Yuan turned a blind eye and blindly avoided, in his eyes, his wife's emotions were willful, and he would naturally succumb to the cold, and there was nothing that he couldn't adapt to after a long time, and he would naturally not be able to do it when the time came. And Liu Jingfang is different, seeing that her daughter is depressed, the mother is anxious, she discussed with her husband to give Shiyuan some courage, so that he always has no money to shirk.

Yu Baoping did not agree at first, he was a traditional concept, he always did not want his daughter to do something out of the ordinary, different things, but seeing that his son-in-law did not care about his daughter, the in-laws lacked morality, and his daughter's desire to buy a house was so strong, even if the Chinese did not have the tradition of buying a house for their daughter, they had to open up.

Liu Jingfang said, "Baoping, now the society has changed a lot, and there are many people who buy houses for their daughters, you see that our daughter has had cancer, Shiyuan's family style is so bad, in case one day, we will divorce her when we are old and have no scruples, so what will their mother and son do? While we are still able to help her realize her wishes, even if we give her a guarantee, if we can wait until Rong Rong grows up, we will be relieved." “

Yu Baoping nodded, he also agreed, but he was afraid that his son-in-law would make a decision with this. "I'm afraid that buying a house for my daughter will become the fuse, and when Shiyuan refuses to live with their mother and son, then this matter will be troublesome, if the two of them divorce, public opinion will say that it is our parents who instigate our daughter, and to save face for our daughter is to slap my son-in-law in the face, I am afraid that it will be thankless, and things will get worse and worse. If we come forward to win over Qian Shiyuan, we must have him agree, otherwise won't this family be divided? If the marriage is to continue, the matter will have to be resolved satisfactorily. ”

Liu Jingfang was also worried about this, and communicated with her daughter about the troubles of the two elders. Yu Yue comforted the two of them, "Mom and Dad, this house is the touchstone of marriage, if he refuses to buy a house, then there is no need to say much, what his plans are basically clear." We are not without conditions, if a husband resolutely refuses to have joint property with this wife, it means that he does not think about his wife at all, and only plans for himself, to put it bluntly, just to prevent you. Besides, a husband and wife don't even have joint property, can this marriage be stable? We are now so noisy because of inequality, and this inequality is preconceived self-righteousness, he said that the house is for the two of us, I am really grateful to his parents, so I don't care about any red tape dowry and the like, I knew that his parents were coming, I proposed to buy a house together, and I am not greedy for vanity and want to be greedy for other people's houses, I am just greedy for a free and easy environment. Don't be so afraid, people, the weaker you are, the more people feel that they are easy to bully, Shiyuan refuses to buy a house, he just wants to suppress me, he thinks that I am nothing more than retreating, and he uses this as a coercion to hope that he cares more about me. Hmph, that's wrong, I'm not the kind of woman who scheming to ask for comfort, counting on men to pity you and defend you, forget it, Mom, I realized a truth when I was sick, isn't the more pitiful people are, the more sympathetic people are, and the stronger they are, the more people take you seriously! I have thought about it for a long time, didn't Shiyuan just think that I couldn't buy a house without his signature? It doesn't matter, the house is written in the name of my parents, it just so happens that my father's provident fund can be loaned until he is 65 years old, and he already has more than 100,000 yuan in it that can be used directly, don't worry about the rest, I will find a way, Yuan Meiren still has a sum of money from me, I have made some money in the two years of insurance, and the house is not expensive, I am sure to buy it. ”

"Then why bother, just write the names of the father and daughter, you can take out the provident fund you have already had, so that you don't have to go to cash, and there is no pressure. Yu Baoping looked at Yu Yue, a little unbelievable of his daughter's thoughts.

"It's not safe to do this, write the names of the father and daughter, that means that Qian Shiyuan also has a share, parents, to put it mildly, if I die, this house will leave you two with infinite trouble. Shi Yuan will definitely be instigated by his family to make trouble with you, and when the time comes, I will be tired to death, and the house I bought all my life will not become his wedding house. Besides, my heart is not balanced, his parents refuse to write the name of their son and daughter-in-law when they buy a house, why do my parents want him to buy a house? Shouldn't the things in his parents' names be given to his son and daughter-in-law? According to the traditional concept, a son and daughter-in-law should be their own people. Yu Yue began to be aggrieved again when he said the latter sentence, and the tone was inadvertently lengthened.

"Don't be so crow-mouthed, you think too much, too pessimistic. But this money is not completely out of us, but our names are written, and Shiyuan will make more trouble when he knows about it in the future. We are also afraid of disputes when we get old. It's still in the name of the father and daughter, and even if he has a share, he only has half of the share in your name. "Yu Baoping is most afraid of causing trouble.

"Dad, I'm not pessimistic, I'm rational, I'm very open-minded in the face of life and death. What's wrong with the support of my parents buying a house and being my daughter? Don't put the cart before the horse, I have the obligation to support you, but you are financially independent and secure, so I have invisibly ignored it. Because of this, Shi Yuan felt that I should give them the two elders of the family as a matter of course, and the theory was 'I am weak and I am reasonable', I was willing to do it, but now I feel that it is not worth it. Think about it from another angle, why are you so worried about Qian Shiyuan, and you are afraid of him?"

"Then the two of you must communicate well, so as not to use Shiyuan to play on the topic in the future. “

"I can't communicate, he's against it, and he doesn't want to cooperate at all. If they treat me as their own and love me and help me, I will not have a sense of belonging, and I will not want to leave, this is a very simple logic. “

"Hey, things are like this, I knew why I had to do it today!" Yu Baoping fell silent, he was also a helpless person, and the gloom was on his face. "In any case, we parents should come forward once, for you to make a scene, and listen to his meaning, so as to be benevolent and righteous. “

"Okay, I said that he is very tough, you don't believe it, don't be angry with him then, he will end up saying that his mother will force him with me. “

"If you should be forced, you have to force it, two people live together, it's normal to have differences, whether he has the determination to live the rest of his life with Yu Yue, just look at this time. As a woman, Liu Jingfang can understand her daughter's feelings.

Taking the opportunity of Yu Yue returning to her parents' house on the weekend, Yu Yue brought up the matter, and Qian Shiyuan felt like he was being coerced, and he was unhappy to discuss it at the beginning. But he also knew that as long as Yu Yue had this thought for a day, he would not be able to get around this matter for a day, and Qian Shiyuan was not defenseless.

After the meal, Yu Baoping started first, "Shiyuan, Yu Yue's idea of buying a house is not a day or two, it stands to reason that Yu Yue should have a guarantee when she marries into your family, but the reality is like this." We are the woman's family, and it is impossible not to think about our daughter. You are also a parent, you should be able to understand. “

"We didn't object to your marriage at the beginning, let alone a lion opened his mouth, you are a democratic marriage. Life is lived by two people, don't even want yourself for others. In-laws and daughters-in-law don't get along with each other, and this has been the case since ancient times, and there are many examples of the next generation not living with the previous generation in modern society, and your thoughts are about to change. It is a good thing that Yu Yue has the idea of living her own life, and you as a husband should also contribute to your own small family. Liu Jingfang couldn't help but answer.

"Don't push me, I don't have any money right now. There were problems with the groups outside, and I was also anxious. Se Won tried to change the subject.

"I didn't give you an extra burden, Tianhe's house is just right, and it is close to the school in the future of Rong Rong, within 600,000, our provident fund can be completely handled, and you don't need to pay an extra penny in cash." Yu Yue wanted to emphasize in person.

"What about the decoration, what about the parking space? “

"Let's buy it first, step by step. “

"I can't look down on such a small house, I have already said that if you want to move out and live, you have to be decent, otherwise even my father will look down on me, so incompetent. “

"I'm not living for others to see, it's okay to be comfortable, and besides, you have a 160 house, it's okay for outsiders to know, don't be too strong in front of your parents. “

"You're comfortable and I'm not comfortable, I'm getting smaller and smaller, and my quality of life is declining. “

"The house is small, but the quality of life will definitely go up, and I have my style of running a house. “

"You can be busy without the help of the old man, don't complain when the time comes. “

"Last year, your parents were not there, you saw it, I managed it well, even you have changed a lot, we have a lot of tacit understanding, as soon as they come, you go back again. I don't want you to bring your old life to our later lives. I'm going to take the initiative to change, so you should at least cooperate. “

"What are you doing with so much talk, you just don't want my parents. “

"There's nothing wrong with this, Yu Yue didn't like to live with us since she was a child, our children have always been very independent and assertive, and it's not wrong that she likes to have her own life, and there are more young couples who don't live with their in-laws. Besides, she has no obligation to 'want' your parents, and your parents didn't 'want' her when she was sick. Liu Jingfang couldn't help but interrupt, she hated Shi Yuan the most for pouring dirty water and disaster water on Yu Yue.

"Don't talk about the past, talk about the current problems", Yu Baoping saw that Shiyuan was about to refute, and quickly interrupted his wife's nagging, the mother and daughter were both sharp, Qian Shiyuan couldn't stand the excitement, he didn't want to make extraneous branches. "In short, the status quo is that the two generations can't get along, living separately is good for everyone, although we don't support it as parents, but we can understand, for the economic pressure you said, it's not a big problem, although our old couple doesn't have much money, but it's okay to support some, next month Yu Cheng is engaged, the third floor will decorate the wedding room, and when they are decorated it's your business, I will have a son and a daughter, and there are not many children, I can help as much as possible. ”

When Yu Baoping said this, Yu Yue had scolded herself 10,000 times in her heart as an "unfilial daughter", and other girls understand the importance of marriage, and realistically find a good family not only without their burden, but also take care of their family. As for himself, he found a burden and dragged the whole family into the water. Hey, youth has been eaten by dogs!

"Dad, it's not just a matter of the economy, you also know that my family is complicated, my two old people have no financial resources to rely on their sons, we move away and they immediately know that their sons are raised for nothing, you think it's as simple as giving money, and the old people want to enjoy the joy of family. “

"You save it, is my son their comforting tool? Yu Yue couldn't help but discern it.

"Don't talk so much, listen to others first," Yu Baoping scolded Yu Yue.

"The economic pressure I am talking about is not simply buying a house, I have to support two elderly people, the older they are, the more they need to prevent diseases, my dad has to pay 10,000 yuan for medicine and injections every year, and my mother's leg is often injected for three or two thousand a year, I have to guard against Yu Yue's body as a husband, how tired I am. Also, my parents mean that the house in their hometown still has to be built, and they now have a little money to use it to prevent old age and disease, so they hope that the two sons will pay for it to be built, and it can't be scrapped like this. “

"Hurt people!" Yu Yue muttered, Liu Jingfang glared at her daughter, Yu Yue stopped, Shiyuan also pretended not to hear, and continued, "I can't be in charge of my parents' house, I suggested to them last year to sell the house, part of the money was taken back to build a house, and part of it supported us to buy it again, but my parents disagreed, they didn't feel safe, and they were afraid that no one would take care of it in the future." They are different from you, and they depend on their sons for everything. So if we have the ability, we can buy the house ourselves, and don't fight the idea of that house. “

"I didn't ask your family to sell the house, and we can't afford it. ”

"My parents must live with us when they are old, they will come wherever you move! Where will they live if they buy such a small house? I can't make it clear that I don't want the elderly to live, I have made it so clear!"

"Then I might as well not buy a house!" Yu Yue still had half of the sentence "I'm tired of giving them enjoyment" and swallowed it alive. "You only think about them, why don't you want to think that I don't feel safe? I buy a house to have a sense of security, you can't just think about yourself, I don't have pressure to buy a small one, I can't stand the pressure. “

"Can't you try to get along with my family? Wouldn't it be better to live together and help each other? Don't buy a house and use it to enjoy life, how good do you think it's fun to be a house slave?"

"What do you think? Who destroyed the relationship first? Besides, if you want to get along, you have to keep your distance. “

Yu Baoping and Liu Jingfang's brows became tighter and tighter, and when they heard their daughter mention the fact that the relationship between the two parties did not get along, they interrupted her, "Okay, okay, that's it, you discuss it in private, don't quarrel as soon as you speak, family is not a battlefield, everything must be communicated sincerely by both parties, in short, I will support you if you decide to buy a house, I will give it to you when I retire next year in the provident fund, and you don't have any pressure, if you decide not to buy a house, hehe, I will save more." Go back, go back, don't quarrel in my house, the neighbors on the left and right will hear the bad influence. Yu Baoping waved his hand and impatiently drove them home.

The two of them got up awkwardly and went home, without saying anything all the way, and when they got home, the two of them sat on the sofa and boiled water and made tea, and they didn't speak. Both of them thought about how to get started.

Shi Yuan knew that he couldn't hide, so he thought that he could put it off and let the time dilute his wife's strength to buy a house as much as possible. "Don't force me, even if I buy a house, it must be the kind that improves the quality of life, you see them buy a house, they are all small sets for large sets, large sets for buildings, buildings in buildings for independent buildings, independent buildings for villas, I can't live worse and worse!"

"You live in a big set, why do you buy such a big set for the second set, it's just a change of environment, why do you want to be so complicated?"

"If my house is not changed to my name, it will be a matter sooner or later. Se Won's expression couldn't help but become heavy.

"Hmph, it's good if you know, and you keep saying that your parents buy you a house. Even if it is, you only have the right to use, not the right to dominate, to put it bluntly, it is a "Golden Lock", a golden shackle. ”

"I know everything, but how do I speak as a son, and what will the parents think? ”

"That's why it's your parents' problem, I think we're rational enough. I didn't have the idea of hitting your family's property, and it wasn't a pie that fell from the sky. ”

"That's too ugly for you to hear. ”

"I'm more sharp, what do you want to do so politely in private. ”

"I'm a son, and I'm not like you. Public opinion will drown me. “

"Actually, it's no different, Yu Cheng and they will also buy a house outside in the future, will my parents still pull him and hold him, isn't this funny, there are more sons in society who don't live with their parents. If you can't pass this hurdle, you will be regarded as supporting your wife to buy a house. “

"Now the house price is sky-high, the state has been regulating and controlling, it has not risen much in the past two or three years, I have only lived in this house for less than ten years, there is no need to rush to buy it, it will not be expensive to buy it in two years. “

"I want to live out and it has nothing to do with whether your current house is new or old, I don't want to live with your parents, and I don't buy a house to speculate, not to support myself, I want to live, you hear clearly, don't have so many illusions. “

"Okay, the most practical problem, we moved out, I have to support the expenses of the two families, do you think I will have no financial pressure? Let's not talk about whether Shi Zhai and Xiaoying will encourage their parents to sell the Lido house, even if they don't, my parents live in Lido and have no money, so they can only ask me for money, how much do you think Shi Zhai will support his parents? When the time comes, my parents will help them take care of the children, and we will pay for the maintenance, you won't be unbalanced? And you will be at a loss, who told you to move out by yourself. If we have money, we can ignore it, but the reality is that although we are dual-income workers, our income is only a little bit, and sometimes we can't do anything if we don't want to care. I really didn't have the courage to move out, and the cost of both sides was unimaginable. You're going to be a wreck."

"I'll spend on my side, and you'll do it yourself for your parents. Hey, I'm surprised, aren't they going to help Shi Zhai take care of the children? “

"Do you think people will do what you want? My parents like the environment of Lido, won't they bring their children to live in Lido? Hmph, Lido's house is theirs, they can do whatever they like, and even my sister will bring her children when the time comes. If you are here, they will not dare, if you are not there, it will be your parents' house, and of course. We put our 'welfare goods' here every year, so you are not afraid that they will bring them back? You won't be depressed when the time comes? Not to mention that a lot of your 'supplements' are still here, and my mother will take them out and cook them to eat, can you know? Besides, if this is the case for a long time, my house will get older and older, and then I will lose more than I gain. “

"Of course I'll move my stuff. As for what they want, that's not for me to decide. Oh, that's why I said that this house has nothing to do with you, do you have a say? If we buy the house ourselves, it's a different story entirely. Your parents are so capable of buying a house in the city, so they should have the ability to live in the city. Whoever lives in the house should pay for the strata fees, water, electricity, and gas,...... When the time comes, they will understand how difficult it is for sons and daughters-in-law, don't use 'grandpa' for everything. How much money should we give, Shi Zhai must also give, why can't he not give it?"

"Won't he give you a way?"

"Scoundrel!"

"He could say that my parents lived in the Lido and helped us clean the house and do the housework. “

"Funny, we're not in the Lido, why did his parents tell us to clean it? Besides, it's not our house. Yu Yue pondered for a while, "Shiyuan, you just don't want to take out your provident fund to buy a house after talking so much? Do you want to say that you are afraid of pulling your whole body? Those are not reasons, why should I bother with things that haven't happened yet? What will happen to deal with me again after I move out? I'm like this, what am I afraid of? Don't you give up eating because of choking." ”

"If you don't want the consequences, I can't think about it, I won't buy it from you, I advise you not to think too much, you should be pure-hearted. “

"How can I be pure and have few desires when I live in someone else's house? Forget it, I'll ask my dad to buy it, and you can sign an agreement when the time comes. ”

"What agreement?"

"To make it clear, you didn't pay for this house, and it has nothing to do with you. ”

"Why should I sign it? I have a share in your name, and your money is my money. ”

"Do you want to be ashamed?"

"If you want to buy it, you can buy it, I won't sign it anyway. I have a bunch of bad things myself, Qian Shiwen, my cousin, there is a problem with that money, and I want to repay the loan. After saying it in one breath, Shi Yuan swallowed his saliva.

Yu Yue was stunned for a while, "Hey, I told you not to sign, that unreliable guy, what can you do if you don't want to listen?" Hmph, you went to the bank to sign alone, it's all your parents' vanity that hurt us." You, you just don't shed tears when you don't see the coffin. ”

Yu Yue said as he spoke, Shiyuan's head lowered unconsciously, and the expression on his face was invisible, and Yu Yue couldn't help but feel infinitely desolate in his heart.

"So what are you going to do? We don't have any money. ”

"I am also coordinating, I can't take out the cash, and the bank refuses to renew the loan, so I may have to borrow from the bank in my name and help him repay the loan after I solve it. “

"Ah, what kind of stupid way is this, what he owes to the bank is now going to become what you owe to the bank, do you have any brains? and interest. You can't do that, you might as well find a way to get together and let him write us an IOU. “

"I'm also trying to put a little pressure on him, and it doesn't matter if he pays back the cash, he said that he will pay the monthly bank interest. “

"Do you believe what he says? I guess you'll be the one who comes out, and you're too naïve. “

"What's the solution? I don't want to sign either, it's hard for my dad to go back to his hometown, and my uncle complains about him, saying that Shiyuan won't help Shiwen vouch, so the others won't be even more willing, isn't this harming him?"

"Then let your dad pay back the money!" Yu Yue was angry and aggrieved, "If you don't listen to your wife, you will suffer in front of you, your family is a harmful person, and it is vanity that has tormented our little family!"

Shi Yuan frowned, with an expression of not wanting to discuss it, and Yu Yue also realized that things were stuck here.

I didn't mention this matter for a long time, but Shiyuan still borrowed money from the bank to pay off Shiwen's loan first. He said that even if it was a year later, in case Shiwen's work improved again, he would repay the money himself. Yu Yue sneered in his heart, that is a dou who can't be helped! Knowing that Shiyuan refused to listen to his words, Yu Yue didn't bother to talk anymore, and he could only accept such an ending if he was uncomfortable, who called him a phoenix man, a bunch of burdens made it difficult for him to move an inch, and he could only crawl forward.

There is a promotion in the new building on National Day, the sales lady called to take Yu Yue to see the house, Yu Yue took her parents and children to see it, Shiyuan also went to take a trip in desperation, and he was entangled on the side, the big set could not afford it, the small set was not enough, and Yu Yue was too lazy to respond to him.

"Rong Rong, do you want to live in a new house?"

"Want, where are you going to live?" the child asked innocently, Yu Yue also knew that the child was just exploring a novelty, but she still told the child her plans very seriously, as if she wanted to strengthen her confidence, she was afraid that she would retreat.

Rong Rong listened to the dancing and arrived home after a while.

"Rong Rong, tell Dad that we want a new house. “

"Daddy......" Before the child could speak, Shi Yuan jumped up from the sofa, "Don't you force me!" “

After snatching white, Shiyuan reacted so violently, Yu Yue was unexpected, her face was flushed with shame, and the child was also stunned.

"Can you please stop being so loud, and we didn't say anything wrong, and didn't let people express it?"

"You are this topic all day long, are you annoyed, I just won't buy it after I said it, you have the ability to buy it, go and ask your parents to buy it." Instead, Se Won raised his voice an octave, "When the time comes, the family will break up!"

"Who are you threatening? It's you who won't cooperate. Don't think I don't understand, you just want to be a **** and set up a memorial arch, and you have to take advantage of it if you drive me out. “

"You're too strong. ”

"Forced. “

"I've told you so many reasons why you can't buy a house, and there are so many things I have to guard against. ”

"Don't talk about the reason for choking and quitting food, everyone will die, do you do nothing because you know that you will die in the end?"

"I'm different from you, I come from the countryside, and the burden is heavier than yours, and it's impossible for me not to think about the whole family. “

"Forget it, if I don't tell you so much, if you don't want to, I'll figure it out myself. “

Shi Yuan was still repeating his various reasons over and over again, Yu Yue took his son into the room, closed the door, and didn't want to hear anything. There is a wound in my chest, a pain in my heart, and the road behind me has to overcome all obstacles by myself.

Yu Baoping and his wife responded to their daughter's request, and it was imperative to buy a house. Yu Yue asked for his father's name on the house, "Even if I am so ruthless towards Qian Shiyuan, I will not be soft." Yu Baoping was a little uncomfortable, he was not used to doing such a shrewd thing. Yu Yue hated iron a little, if it weren't for his parents being so weak, how could he be played like this by the illiterate people in the countryside?

Yu Yue's 'awesome' is purely forced, she is not a submissive person, so she is destined to become strong sooner or later after being bullied, this is a process of 'learning fine'. The darkness and subtlety of life are by no means explained by a sentence of 'negative energy', only by flowing through the filthy river of human nature, can people's hearts become strong and invincible.

The parents' financial management will not expire until the next year, and Yu Yue must wait for this money, and the matter of the house will be delayed for the time being. Yu Cheng's marriage was placed in front of him, and he got engaged at the end of November, and his parents were physically and mentally exhausted.

Li Yonglan still comes here occasionally, nothing more than to use the child as a shield, and then chirps crookedly about all kinds of gossip, about her illness, and about her own thoughts and opinions, Yu Yue doesn't want to hear it, she can't believe that there are such uninteresting people in this world. When she was away, the child never asked a word of grandma, which shows how failed she was in the child's heart. It's because she's a person who only has herself and no one else in her heart.

The child is not anyone's toy, it's not that you are afraid of being tired and don't want to take it and ignore him, and you want to find someone to relieve your boredom when you are bored and use it to play. Seeing Yu Yue get up to cook, Li Yonglan grabbed the child and asked all kinds of questions, most of the time Yu Yue could only endure it, and had to politely ask her if she wanted to have dinner here, but as a result, the situation became that the daughter-in-law cooked and the family waited to eat, and the child sometimes ran to the kitchen to ask his mother to play with him, and this scene was even worse. When Yu Yue was embarrassed, Li Yonglan would say 'magnificently' to help, but she couldn't help but look cold, as if she was saying, "See how you can do it alone?" Yu Yue was also angry in her heart, when the mother didn't come, the children played quietly alone, and the children liked to stick to their mothers as soon as the mother came.

Yu Yue's disgust is really unbearable, once she directly put down the spatula to play with the child, no matter how the mother talks, neither she nor cook, and when she can't help but ask Yu Yue why she doesn't cook dinner, Yu Yue will tell her where to take the child to eat for a while, the mother saw this situation, so she had to get up and go back, and as soon as she left, Yu Yue immediately picked up the spatula and started work. Although Yu Yue felt that this matter was unkind, it was better to be stupid than to be inactive. Be a man, don't be yourself, if you feel uncomfortable, you must learn to relieve ventilation, and don't blindly be a good person.

Li Yonglan looked at this situation and thought about revenge, and gossiped about Yu Yue to her relatives in private, "I can't do anything, I'm lazy, and I refuse to cook the child's food, so I make the child hungry, and I always go out to eat, how unhygienic it is, and it costs money, hmph, how can we do it without us?"

It happened that day that Yu Yue's girlfriends had a party, and they wanted to bring their children with them, and the moment the key of the housekeeper came in, Yu Yue was a little surprised, it was dinner time, but she reacted immediately, and said politely, "I was about to take the children out for dinner, class reunion." While talking, he left with the baby as if fleeing for his life.

When he went home at night, Shi Yuan sat on the sofa and played with his mobile phone again, and when he saw his wife and children entering the door, he immediately split his head and covered his face, "What do you mean, my mother has to go out to eat once it is rare, and you refuse to give a meal to the old man, you are too much." “

Yu Yue immediately understood, "Didn't your mother tell you that I was going to take the child to the class reunion tonight?" I made it clear to her, and she didn't tell you?"

Shi Yuan was stunned for a while and didn't reply, Yu Yue immediately understood that it was the family's mother's statement that avoided the important and trivial, making his son think that his daughter-in-law was deliberately avoiding his mother-in-law. "Otherwise, look at WeChat, Ami and Qiuqiu have posted photos there. After speaking, Yu Yue took her son into the room, and immediately turned around again, "Next time your mother wants to wronged me for something, please look at WeChat, I don't have so much strength to explain to you." Se Yuan didn't speak, and his face was red and white for a while.

Yu Yue likes all kinds of posts on Weibo and WeChat, that is, keeping a diary, the mentality of life account, she likes to do these because she is afraid that no one will remember after she dies, this point of caution is incomprehensible to Si Shiyuan, sometimes she will dislike and say, "Yu Yue, you put everything there, there is no sense of mystery." In order to keep his ears clean, Yu Yue shielded Shiyuan, saving him from always being disappointed. So many times Shiyuan wants to know what Yu Yue went out to play, so he can only look at Yu Yue's girlfriend's WeChat.

After the winter, Liu Jingfang's symptoms of lumbar disc herniation became more and more obvious, not to mention low back pain, and often paralyzed legs. She has a strong personality, she always can't stop doing here and there, after Yu Cheng's engagement is over, she wants to go for treatment, do a physical therapy to relieve it, don't be tired when her son gets married. During that time, Yu Yue went to accompany her mother as soon as she was free, but physical therapy did not work, but it became more and more serious, she couldn't sleep at night, she was restless, Yu Cheng persuaded her mother to go for surgery, but Liu Jingfang was a character who was afraid of troublesome others, and always said that it would be good to lie down more, and then changed to a hospital, sometimes good and sometimes bad, and it didn't work when I was discharged. No one has had a good year this year, Yu Yue felt that she had really wronged Yu Cheng's wife, and she was about to marry in, but her mother-in-law fell ill first, but fortunately, she was not only a college student who graduated from this college, but also had a reasonable personality, and she was also busy before and after, Liu Jingfang was already regretting Yu Yue's marriage problem, and she was very comforted to see her future daughter-in-law so sensible.

Qian Shiyuan said sarcastically when he saw it, "Yu Chengzhen will find a wife, you see that people haven't married into your family yet, so sensible." If only my mom had been so happy. ”

Yu Yue snorted, "People, they are all mutual, there is no love for no reason in this world, and there is no hate for no reason." Yu Cheng is in the field, his wife lives in our house, my parents greet each day with hot dishes and soup, shh It's not easy to be alone in the field, even if it's someone else, you should give some warmth, let alone a family. ”

Qian Shiyuan didn't speak, he knew that it would be boring for him to talk about it first. Yu Yue didn't want to pressure her husband, but who made his family unsuccessful? Sometimes Shi Yuan also sighed, "Your younger brother and sister seem to have good quality and are knowledgeable." ”

"I was also well-informed. ”

"You admit you're not, aren't you?"

"The environment makes character. So I don't like who I am, and I want to go back to where I am. Yu Yue glanced at him, Shi Yuan didn't speak, and Yu Yue didn't plan to reopen the topic.

Aunt Xiuyun went to Yangxin Garden to report last year, and she laughed at herself and said that she had dedicated her life here and finally came back. I think she was an ace waiter in the nursing home back then, and she gave birth to five children, like Yu Yue, their family also lived in the dormitory of the Civil Affairs Bureau. She said, "There are advantages to living with children, but there are not many friends who can talk at a certain age, and they are very lonely all day long, and people are disgusted when they are old, so why bother fighting?" Liu Jingfang was very calm when she said this, she said that she had worked in the Civil Affairs Bureau all her life, and she was also very open to these. Yu Yue said, "This is all determined by the economic foundation, like you, you can look at the situation with your children, you can get along with home care, and if you are unhappy, you can go to Yangxin Garden to care for the elderly." And my mother-in-law is impossible, if she is not financially independent, she will always want to rely on her children, and she is insecure. So I am most afraid of this kind of person, I don't like to rely on people, and of course I don't like to be relied on. ”

Liu Jingfang's illness can not be delayed any longer, she has been in pain for several nights and can't sleep, she said that she feels that her legs are swollen, very swollen, but in fact, the shape of her legs is still good, and everyone is afraid that her condition will worsen. After the Lantern Festival, Yu Cheng insisted on taking his mother to a hospital in the city.