The so-called weak must be guarded, and the strong should not be seized. In this world, there are only two kinds of people who care about you, one is the one who really loves you, and the other is the one who really hates you. But either way, it's a driving force for people to forge ahead. Now that you have a goal, you have all the motivation. Buy a house for yourself and build a small world for a family of three. No matter how much you love, you can be happy and worry-free, and no one knows if you talk freely or go crazy, no one knows, you don't have to explain everything, and you don't need to be on guard from time to time.

The child fell asleep at night, Yu Yue told Shiyuan about it, Shiyuan was the same, not in a hurry with you, just one sentence, "There is no money now, the time is not right." ”

"There's no money to buy a smaller one, you have a big set anyway. “

"What's the use of a little set, the whole house stinks when you fart. How small is a single apartment?"

"It's okay to have two rooms, there are more than 100,000 yuan in the provident fund, and there is no pressure on the mortgage, I have calculated it, at most I have to prepare for the decoration. “

"Hmph, don't you just want my parents to live? “

"Is there something wrong with that? Where it is stipulated that a daughter-in-law must live in a room with her in-laws. “

"The elderly want to enjoy their families, and you are artificially cutting off the connection between them and their children. “

"It's funny, Rong Rong is just a toy they want to play with when they are bored?

"Just a grandson who doesn't love it like this, people still take it well when you're away. “

"You know when I'm away. Can he choose? Helpless, do you understand? If he wants to watch TV or draw for a while, your mother will have to drag him out to play, because she can't stay at home by herself, and she has to go to the duty room every day. What can the child do, being a grandmother's constant nagging and threats, he can only follow helplessly. “

"Don't be cold-hearted, you need your family to know how to cultivate? The uneducated old people in our family have all trained me, a college student. “

"Do test scores represent self-cultivation?"

"How can you not handle the relationship with the whole family if you are so qualified?"

"It's your whole family who doesn't want to deal with me, thinking that I am going to die at that time, and I don't need to pretend. “

"Why do you always think of people so badly, you have a bad heart, so you can't get used to this and look down on that. ”

"It's not that I think, it's that I saw and heard it, because your family didn't even bother to pretend, and they just showed it. “

"You just can't get over anything, you're too careful. “

"It's gone, if you don't mention it. Even if it weren't for that, there's nothing wrong with not wanting to live with your family right now. And rightfully so. “

"You just hate my parents. “

"Whatever you say, if you are afraid of being disliked, you have to show others your self-esteem, you are lazy when you are young, and you have to emphasize the dignity of reaching out to others to ask for money, hum. “

"Don't be so unconscionable, you don't live in someone else's house!"

"So I don't want to live at all, do you think I want to? And I can't move out on my own without a divorce? Besides, I paid for it, and I didn't live for nothing. I should have believed your words in the first place, I should have bought a house and got married again, but I was still full of gratitude to your parents at the time, thinking that it was not easy for rural people to understand the righteousness so well. It's wishful thinking, you can't help it at all, they are dog skin plasters, and they have to follow their son alive and dead. “

"That's the concept in the countryside, otherwise why would you give birth to a son? You think they want to live with you? Who wouldn't want to go back home?"

"Then go back? No need to complain, they don't have no home. “

"How long has no one lived in that house in my hometown, now many places are in disrepair, and they can't live in people at all, besides, if you want to live in the old house, the people in the village will die of laughter, everyone has gone back to build a new house in recent years, if my parents still live in the old house, people will comment on our two brothers, so useless, so unfilial. “

"Shall you do it?"

"To be rich?"

"It's not that you don't have money, how big do you want to build a mansion?"

"At least 300,000, and we two brothers have to pay. “

"Why do you want to come out?"

"After 300,000 yuan, don't they want to live in the countryside? The countryside is even more wasteful of money, and even the rice has to be bought back in the city. “

"I'm asking, why do you want your brother to come out?"

"They have all bought houses for our brothers, shouldn't our brothers build a beautiful house for our parents? “

"When did they buy you a house? Both are in their own names. “

"Can I take the house with me?"

"You really know how to calculate, the two suites here are the names of the two elders, the house in the hometown is still the name of the two elders, but the money is ours, not to mention whether Shi Zhai is willing or not, I don't agree, why? To put it mildly, I have lived in your house for so many years, and the money spent is consumer goods, and the daily expenses of the whole family have been spent, and your parents have not paid a dime, they all use ours, and in the end they say that the house is yours, I am thankful, and now I still want to ask me to pay for you to build a house, so who will buy me a house?"

"Isn't it just a name, and what do you care so about?"

"Hmph, to put it mildly, if you divorce me, I will leave the house, who will count the money spent before? My own money has not been enjoyed by my own parents, but I have supported the two elders with you, who has ever been grateful to me?"

"How much can they eat you? and watch the kids for you. “

"I never asked them to give up their lives to help me take care of the children, now the two of them are at home, and I still pick up the children by myself every day, take him to play, take him to study, what do they have to do? “

"I'm a man, where do I take care of my children at home every day, like what. “

"That's not good. The child is your own, and you won't suffer if you bring it. Don't say that I see through you, you are selfish, using traditional thinking to cover up your laziness. “

"So what are my parents doing? “

"They don't know how happy they are, how they can be bored, and every day they talk nonsense in the duty room and go for walks in the park. I'm surprised, how can you be so confident if you don't have a dime in your pocket? Your father is on duty every day, and he still looks like he is on top of those security guards, and people are older than him and know how to work, and it is not easy to work three shifts a day, and make some hard-earned money, how can you be embarrassed to face them when you eat people?"

"You just get up all day long to dislike my parents, this and that. They are also embarrassed, who wants to live by looking at other people's faces? In short, they bought me a house, I am very grateful, I will not go out to buy a house again, it will take a few years to buy, and the house will be old and replaced with a big set. Either they're here and where are they staying. “

"Change the big set? They come? If I want to do this for the rest of my life, I might as well get divorced! I'm afraid that people will dislike me and stand on my own, and I'm not without a place to live, so why do I have to live here? It's not a pie falling from the sky, I have to pay. ”

"You're only two years old now, how can I have the confidence to go out and buy a house, the doctor said that the three-year safety period of your type is the most critical. “

"You're procrastinating again, how long can you delay? Three years? Isn't it next year? I just need you to be sure, otherwise next year you will have to turn over the old things, do you think it's interesting? If it's confirmed, we can start to prepare, and the funds that should be collected will be recovered. “

"I still want to take it back, you don't know how difficult it is to collect the account now, many people's interest will be delayed for a few years, hey, my cousin's guarantee has an accident again, and he may have to help him pay back the money at the end of the year, hum, I haven't told you a lot of things, I'm afraid you're in a hurry." “

"What's the situation? Your cousin isn't there yet?"

"Yes, 300,000 people guarantee it, and it will be repaid next month, and he can't get a penny, so several people discuss what to do. Se Won let out a long sigh

"You're not afraid of my urgency, you're afraid of my scolding! No matter how much I tried to persuade you, your cousin was unreliable, he bought a car and gambled every day to go to nightclubs after making a little money, and he was a student girl at a young age, and he was not afraid of dying faster! Did you listen to me? Wasn't it that your father scolded him and went to sign it. Now that something has happened, let your dad pay it back. “

"You're not kidding, he's got a dime? You just said that the two of them eat us. “

"He doesn't have the money and is so confident that you should vouch for it? He is the one who has a good reputation, and it is we who are tired to repay the money? You are his tool, a tool for bragging and vanity! What has our lives been ruined by your two old men! Your cousin, when I was sick, I didn't even see a footprint, and a phone call came as if you owed him and wanted to guarantee and sign! 50,000 yuan? How many years can we save 50,000 yuan? How could I persuade you at that time? Husband and wife, if you have a problem alone, it is not someone else who helps you pay it back, it is me, it is my wife! “

"There's no way around that, I'm inexperienced, it's come to this. “

"The smartest person in the world is to borrow the experience of other people's heads to break the blood flow as his own experience, and the stupidest person is not to use his own experience to break the blood flow of his head to call it experience. Don't you see so many ready-made examples in society?"

"No way, I actually saw that he had a problem a long time ago, and he was too frivolous, so what can be done, brother, I have to die if he dies. “

"Then you will die now!" Yu Yue became angry

"Eh, that's not what it means, so many people signed at that time, can I not sign as a brother? What will that person think of me?"

"Are you their bridge all your life? Do you want to get us when you make money? If you want us to pay it back if you lose money, why is our country's banking system so non-standardized? I've been married to you for so long, I'm anxious with you and tired of you, when have you ever thought about thinking about your family of three?

"You can't be a man, you can't ignore your brother, you don't understand. There are even worse than me, everyone is righteous, and if you don't pay attention to righteousness, don't mix in this society. “

"Do you mess with the rivers and lakes? It also depends on whether the person is good or not? Obviously, the mud can't be on the wall. “

"You don't want to be so powerful, you are willing to help those who are useful, and you are unwilling to help those who are useless. “

"You're just messing around! You're rotting your life on someone else, and you're still going to win? What's the use of winning in front of me? You have the ability to win outside. ”

"Don't you just think that your husband is incompetent, and you don't want to think about yourself, if you don't get this disease, your work won't be interrupted, normally, I will be in my third year of high school this year. “

Yu Yue was speechless for a while, speechless.

Shi Yuan saw Yu Yue's face like paper, and knew that he was serious, so he hurriedly covered it up, "So it is impossible for people to have smooth sailing, people are also in difficulty, the quality of rural people is not high, and it is also an environmental problem to be able to eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, and besides, it is necessary for me not to pay it back, and it is even worse for me not to pay it back." “

Yu Yuexin was bleeding, but she still couldn't hold back and didn't cry, she didn't want to hear this, she just had nowhere to complain about a thousand grievances. She has always felt that even if her father-in-law is not a thousand, she will not scold, she will not look at it if she is not used to it, she should respect other people's lifestyles, she does not ask others to abide by her own set, to put it bluntly, out of sight is the best. It's just the attitude of the husband, encountering these situations, so that he is really at a loss, a person's strength is always limited, buy a house, how to buy a husband and wife do not want to buy? Look at friends can know people, look at relatives can know hearts. There are such a bunch of unreliable and unconsciously righteous relatives, Yu Yuexiao and his wife will be squeezed dry sooner or later. Yu Yue was really helpless, and she really didn't know how to solve the game. Divorce is the most helpless thing, obviously it is not a relationship breakdown, why take this desperate road? It is not a good thing for children. At this point, we can only solve the current problem first, and the soldiers will block the water and cover the earth.

"Well, your parents can't be in our house all the time. The issue of old-age support must be clearly explained, so as not to cut and sort out and mess up in the future. “

"No matter what you say, you have to raise it, you can't avoid it. ”

"I know, but maintenance doesn't say you have to live together. Didn't you Shi Zhai always fight for the old man to help him take care of the baby? I wanted to say it a long time ago, so I just lived with Shi Zhai directly. Obligations and responsibilities should be balanced, and when the two brothers are sick, we usually give some living expenses. ”

"You don't want the old man to live, Fangfang is so good at it, you know how expensive the two old ones are. “

"They usually don't fight for people, their baby hasn't fallen for a day, people eat and live in my place, they are helping them at critical times, two children are sick at the same time, they left without saying a word, leaving me alone with the baby. It's good enough for them, if ordinary people would have scolded them a long time ago. “

"Oh, the parents of the doll have to do business. “

"I'm sorry! I don't care about my own children who want money, so I take her to see a doctor, and when I'm done, I throw the old man with me, and our son should take leave to go home and bring it himself. Hmph, forget it, don't talk about the past, talk about the future. Since Shi Zhai and they definitely don't agree, then do it in the traditional way, one person for a year. You can't stay with us all the time, it's thankless, and it is said that the two elders are for us, and no one knows the actual situation. Now there is still labor, they are all like this, and if there is no labor in the future, they will directly kick it to us, and then they will tire you to death. “

"What do you say? My grandmother's two sons, the eldest teacher and the younger migrant worker, she followed the eldest one all her life, and my uncle didn't dare to have any opinions. “

"Then you go and ask your aunt if she has any opinions?"

"The little ones don't want her, there's no way, and if the big ones don't want her, it's too pitiful. “

"Can this be wanted? Funny, dear mother, who told you to be so good at reincarnation, this is the obligation. Didn't your aunt scold your grandmother for dying so unquickly all her life? What's the use of just scolding, you have to come up with a plan. I guess if your parents have been with you for the rest of your life, I'll definitely go crazy first. Oh, most likely, your mom is 100 years old like your grandmother, and then we're all dying in front, exhausted. “

"Then they don't say it themselves, we are so easy to speak, as soon as we open our mouths, we are at a loss, and we are driving people away. No conscience"

"It's because they can't figure it out, how can there be such confused parents in the world? Eat and play when you have food, you don't have the slightest sense of responsibility, do you want to go back to your hometown to live by yourself, or do you want to be alone for a year, or do you just want to be with someone? This must have a pension plan, right? If they don't say anything, it will affect our future plans, and I don't want to live in a daze. If you don't say it, they all pretend to be garlic, and you will suffocate to death alone. I'm not afraid to be a bad person, if you don't say it, I will say it. “

"Forget it, don't come out like this, so as to save my brothers and sisters from misunderstanding. However, it's hard to say, their money is still lending to me. “

"Then why don't you give it back? It's not that you can't take it out. “

"Didn't you just say that you would pay back a sum of 50,000 ......"

Yu Yue was silent for a while, she really hated that iron could not become steel. "Then sell our shares of the urban construction fund, how many people want it!"

"How can this be reluctant? ”

Yu Yue was also annoyed by his impulsiveness, and changed his mind and said: "Then collect a little money and come back, give yourself a little goal, you have to settle this problem before this year, and you can't tell your father and the two of you, the four of you make it clear in person, in short, you can't be so unclear." I've always thought it's strange that the people in your family never discuss, and when they push anything on you, they are all happy, aren't you tired? I'm not tired if you're tired. ”

"Hey, do you think I don't want to, I negotiated with them to pay some living expenses, my father is willing to pay 5,000 and deduct it from the interest, didn't he tell you about this? They don't understand how much they spend in a month, and all kinds of expenses are pressed on us, and they are all money that they can't see. They can't manage things without money, they can't manage things, they don't understand anything. Do you say I'm not tired? I'm depressed, but they're my parents, what can I do?"

"It's better not to deduct 3,000, if you don't want to go out, you can live by yourself, and how much living expenses should be shared equally between the two sons. ”

"It's not like the two old ones don't do things anymore, don't they help us take care of the children? Teach them to live on their own, where to live, and to build a house when they go back to their hometown. ”

"It's going around and back, if you want to cover it, you can cover it, it's not us dragging it, it's your brother who wants them to bring people. ”

"yes, so I can't decide. ”

"I am a very fair person, if they help me wholeheartedly, then we should also support me wholeheartedly, but people live in our family, but they live for their family, and the interests of their family come first. I know what they think, it's better if the two sons are balanced, and the good ones should help the poor. But the reality is that the two sons are completely in two directions, and he doesn't want to think about Shi Zhai's high income?

"Then what do you say? I was also suffocated. “

"Just say, what should I do? Just say, 'You have been in the city for so many years, what are your plans for retirement in the future?'

"Well, as soon as they opened their mouths, they knew we were going to drive them away. “

"Don't speak with emotion, if you speak with emotion, it will be reasonable and unreasonable. You say, 'If you plan to go back to your hometown and build a house, then sell our house, take 300,000 yuan and go home to build a house, and we will replace the rest in the city.' If you plan to retire in the city, then the two brothers will take turns, or you will live in the Lido, and we will go out and buy a house, or we will buy a small apartment for you to live in. “

"Then I'll try to communicate with them, hey, two old ones, it's also a big problem. “

"Why am I so awkward when I hear this, your two old ones are only one year older than my father, and my father still commutes to and from work on time every day, really, only in his fifties! In short, you should pay attention to what you say when communicating with your parents, for fear that your mother will look for death and life, and you won't be able to talk anymore when you cry. Sewon nodded silently.

In a family, the role of women is too important. When the man hesitates and hesitates, the woman pulls forward and drags backwards.

The way the child gets along with the grandmother is also scary, the space of being a grandmother is empty, she can't read TV, and she doesn't know how to find something to do, so she blindly stares at the child, and the child has to pass her mouth every time she does something, she just can't help asking, can't help chattering, can't help but point, and likes to pretend not to understand, the child sometimes gets very annoyed and will talk back, will kill her, she is not angry, hehee-haha, that looks like a pimpy dog, even a mother can't stand it, Yu Yue knows that she can't educate the old, she can only educate the young, and tell the child not to talk to grandma like this。 turned back to Li Yonglan and said, "Grandma, don't ask about everything, the child will be annoyed, he can do whatever he likes, you go to do your own thing, don't always stare at the child."

"Don't you look at that kid, what if you go to play with the plug?" Li Yonglan said in a heartfelt manner.

Yu Yue regretted talking a lot when she saw her demeanor, "He's so old that he understands that those things can't be touched, and he has a sense of safety." And he has his own things to do, not everything has to be accompanied by adults, and children sometimes have to move independently. You don't have to look at the prisoner, we live in the suite, and the children do everything under their noses, just grasp it. If you stare at it like this, of course the child is uncomfortable. Li Yonglan shouldn't listen, Yu Yue knows that she is unhappy, but others can pretend to be deaf and dumb, and Yu Yue will not condone it in educating children.

Drinking milk one night, one cup was yesterday's date, and one cup was the day before yesterday's date, naturally, Yu Yue left the fresher one for his son. But the child is always curious, and he has to ask for his mother's cup. Grandma hurriedly stopped him, "Don't drink that, that cup is stinky, leave it for your mother to eat." ”

Yu Yue immediately objected, "You can't teach a child like this, the child's thinking is very intuitive, if you ask him to give the stinky to his mother, he will form a consciousness, and the mother should eat the stinky and bad." Even if you want to make a difference, you should say that there is more of that cup, which should be reserved for your mother. Seeing that her daughter-in-law was in a hurry, Li Yonglan was submissive, but her face was unhappy. Yu Yue knew that she was unhappy, but she still had to say that this was for the sake of the child. As an adult, how you speak is too important. To cultivate children's gratitude, it is most important to teach children to be sensible.

The semi-annual review is scheduled for December 30, this time Liu Jingfang accompanied Yu Yue, Yu Yue was going to take her mother to Hong Kong once, and her mother went once when she retired. Of course, Yu Yue also has an important task, which is to return the ring and walk around the streets of Hong Kong by the way. At first, Shi Yuan thought it was a fantasy, "As long as you believe it so much, you will go there once, do you dare to go? and take your mother with you? Don't be abducted." ”

"It's not decided yet, we'll talk about it then. Yu Yue didn't bother to explain to him, did a good job, contacted the travel agency to clear customs, bought a train ticket, and then led her mother to set off.

On New Year's Day, the mother and daughter were in Guangzhou, full of emotion. There are so many unknowns in life, how could I have thought ten years ago that I would be associated with Guangzhou for something, let alone spend the New Year in Guangzhou... Everything in the world, whether good or bad, lies in a fateful word, and the fate is scattered. Don't think about everything you do to be rewarded, the rewards are often inadvertent. Don't always think that no one will know about the bad behind your back, and God will punish you where you care most. Therefore, love those who are worthy of love, forget, and must forget. Time is really a good thing, no matter how big the trauma is, it can be healed, and no matter how painful it is, it will pass. The pain of the words has been calmed down, and the past has become a story. Only those who never mention it touch the bottom of their hearts, and now, only children are the most important thing in Yu Yue's heart.

The review ended smoothly, Yu Yue did not hesitate to take her mother to embark on a micro-trip from Guangzhou to Hong Kong, the Guangzhou-Kowloon through train is really convenient, the customs clearance has been done, and it is really easy to travel freely. As soon as they arrived at Hung Hom Station, the mother and daughter arrived at the jewelry store directly, and the clerk led the two to the manager's room, saying that it was the manager's room, the room was too small to turn around, and the other party asked a few gossips and picked up the tools to take a picture of the jewelry, and after a while, the manager said, "No problem, you wait a while." The mother and daughter were waiting for him to handle it in the manager's room, and the mother and daughter chatted at this time.

"I'm so nervous, I'm afraid that he will deliberately say that the ring can't be returned if it is spent. ”

"I knew in my heart that I had thrown it in the box for half a year and never worn it again. “

"I'm not afraid, this matter has to be put on hold on the mainland, and I will scold you a long time ago. “

"So I'm also betting on whether Hong Kong is really an honest society, whether it's really so legal, and whether the promise on the receipt is a fart. “

"That proves right now. “

"Well, do business, say one is one, it's just that the mainland has done so many things in recent years, and people don't trust each other, so there will be such chaos. In ancient China, this was not the case, and most people paid attention to credit. “

"Where will you go?"

"Eat and drink, walk around, buy some medicine, and go home......"

The refund was processed quickly, the mother and daughter went all the way to the Hong Kong Polytechnic University, the university walked, the slogan "Occupy Central" was everywhere, but the campus was very calm, asking for directions was also very smooth, many mainland students of the Polytechnic University, Hong Kong students who met spoke Chinese can also communicate. I was deeply impressed by the Hong Kong Polytechnic University, if it is really a capitalist society, the capitalist is very prosperous in helping students and doctors, and every building is built with donations from the rich, which is not easy. Along the way, the mother and daughter went to the historical memorial hall. Compared with the GD Provincial Museum, the scale of the Hong Kong Historical Memorial Hall is not large, and it is not easy in this society where every inch of land is valuable. The design of the memorial hall is very reasonable, the knowledge system is quite comprehensive, the archaeological data is explained in detail, the mother and daughter spent most of the day here, they are not interested in large shopping places such as "Sasha, Taikoo Shing" at all, anyway, they can't afford to go, but the museum must be visited on the spot. With such a studious daughter, it is natural for a mother to follow the trend. Most of the people who go to the museum are students and foreigners, and the land guests rarely set foot in it, and the mother and daughter really have Yaxing. Yu Yue gave a full explanation, Liu Jingfang was very happy, and said that her money had not cultivated this girl in vain, and she had a lot of material in her mind! When she came out, it was nearly evening, and the mother and daughter went back to Shenzhen after strolling around Hung Hom Station, and they stayed in Shenzhen for a day and went home the next day. When he returned to his family, Shiyuan's face was incredulous, "No, it's really a retreat? You really go free? If you really go back, I don't believe it." ”

"Believe it or not, look at the circle of friends by yourself, and you won't know if the refund will be sent back to your credit card in a few days?"

"If you really call back, I'll give it to you!"

"You said, I'll give you a few thousand dollars back, hehe. “

After more than a week, the money was returned, and Shi Yuan was even more embarrassed, not only did he change a lot of his long-standing negative views on Hong Kong, but he even couldn't help but have some respect for his wife. Things in the world are not so bad, and in the era of the information explosion, we are easily misled by some demonized reports and unconsciously led by the nose. In fact, if you really want to understand something, if you have the opportunity, you can go to the field to see it, live for a while, get in touch with some things, some people, experience it with your own heart, interpret it with your brain, and don't follow the crowd. If you lose your independent thinking, you will become a pig even if you exercise all day.

Shi Yuan repaid 20,000 yuan in cash, which was not enough to borrow money from the bank in his own name, and finally paid off his cousin's bank loan. Now it has become that Shiyuan and his wife owe the bank 30,000 yuan. Shiyuan explained to Yu Yue like this, "I don't want you to take the money out, you are like this now, I am also afraid that you will be insecure, besides, I can't let him feel that I have the strength to pay back, so that he will not have any pressure at all, he promised me that he will pay the interest every month, and give him another year, and it is true that we have to pay back the bank, alas." Yu Yue didn't answer, saying that it was useless.

Approaching the winter vacation, Se Won communicated with his parents about the maintenance arrangement, and he said that he did not have a peaceful and frank attitude when he did this, but first positioned himself as an "unfilial son". This provoked his mother, and her set came in handy one after another, and soon the conversation could not continue, and the matter was not negotiable. The words came out again, and things froze. The father-in-law's attitude at this time is very critical, he agreed to separate from the young man, saying that he had long wanted to go back to his hometown to build a house and live in his hometown, Shiyuan almost knelt for his father's deep righteousness, and this year because of the relationship between his father-in-law and his daughter-in-law made him very embarrassed, and he was a face-saving person, and the villagers talked about him and made him lose face.

"You, usually arrogant and arrogant, look like a human king, it turns out that you are a strict wife, and you can't even control your own wife, what kind of man are you?

Shi Yuan felt very uncomfortable every time he heard this, and he always said, "She is already bitter enough, we can't go too far as men." ”

The fellow had already forgotten about Yu Yue's matter, and Jing Shiyuan hurriedly changed his words when he said this, "Also, your wife used to look quite gentle, and your father's temper was not good, it was too difficult to accommodate." ”

Shi Yuan smiled self-deprecatingly, "It wouldn't have been good, but some people stabbed the fire, and my father scolded Yu Yue, and the scolding was too unreasonable, and the words were ugly." She is like a pearl in her own home, her parents are reluctant to scold, being scolded by an 'outsider' like you, of course I can't stand it, you think it's the same as us, my parents grew up while beating and scolding, and they have long been thick-skinned. The fellow hurriedly said yes, it's not good to fan the flames again, so it can be stopped.

Although the father agreed, the questions raised were almost unrealizable, firstly, he had no money himself, and secondly, the children had no money. So it's not practical to say it. At this time, Shiyuan put forward Yu Yue's second plan, "I have thought about this problem, but if you don't say that you want to go back to your hometown to live, it's not good for me to say, I'm afraid that you think I'm driving you, we really don't have much money to be a little teacher, and now we can't take out a hundred and eighty thousand yuan, or we can sell this house for cash, take 300,000 yuan to build a house at home, and the rest should support my son to buy a house in the city, and I and Yu Yue's provident fund can also be used." “

As soon as the words were spoken, the mother protested, "You think beautifully, I dare to come after you and your wife buy a house in the city? Sell our house and replace it with yours? Do you really know how to calculate, there are two properties at once, and if you go back to your hometown to drive me out, then don't I want to sleep on the street?"

Shi Yuan's face turned red, "Mom, do you treat your son as a thief? Your son is so bad in your heart? This is talking about business, not anger, the actual problems of the two of you must always come up with a plan!"

"You people who have read books are so hard-hearted! You have forgotten your roots! Which family in the countryside is not old with a son, otherwise why raise a son?"

"It's not that I don't support you, the living expenses will be given, where are you going. Dad, what do you think?"

The mother's face was lonely, and the tears kept falling like beads with broken threads, and the father had to turn around when he saw her like this. "Shi Zhai has to have another one, no one will bring the big one, and it is even more impossible for us to go home to live with a small one, hey, it is important to bring people, and the child will be older in the future." Who told them to do such a business, work day and night, and who told him not to study at that time?" The father was indignant, and his face hated that iron could not become steel.

The mother cried even more bitterly when she saw this, "How do people educate their children? Brothers are so united? Our brothers are almost out of contact with each other! Everyone helps each other, but what about you? If I die, it doesn't matter what happens to you, I'm still alive like this, and it's not filial to let me look at it like this." If you are the eldest brother, you will not let go, you are better than him in everything, so you don't know how to promote your own people?"

"Mom, how do you discuss things like this? Shi Zhai's income is higher than mine, he is worse than me, he bought a car for 180,000 yuan, I can't even afford a car, you said that he is in the store all day long, you also want to see me on duty twice a week from six o'clock to 11 o'clock at night, no matter how windy, rainy and cold, you have to ride a motorcycle, at least the store does not have to be exposed to the wind and rain, don't you feel sorry for me? Their child has not been left behind for a day, my family Rong Rong, you have a way to take him wholeheartedly? Also, how can I promote him? He wants to have academic qualifications or not, ability or inability, technology or not technology, and his temper is not good, I am just a little teacher, ...... "Said Shi Yuan also cried.

"And said that you can't 'treacherously' your brother? Do you remember everything so clearly? Do you take it out now to settle accounts with your parents? They are in the store all day long, and there is no one to take the children, so we don't go, can you see it? Some of the eldest brothers directly bring their nieces to their own homes to eat and live, what about you? Shi Zhai is compared to you? You are both relaxed, how tired are the two of you? How many classes a week do you have? If you stand up and talk a few words, you will have money, not to mention that the difference is big when you are old. “

"Mom, we didn't hurt them because they didn't have a job or a pension! I'm tired of this kind of brain-based work, and it's not so simple to mix in the unit, and all aspects of the relationship must be handled well, and there are many troubles that you can't see. I'm not settling accounts with you, when did I care? You can't take Rong Rong wholeheartedly, I also admit it, Yu Yue's such a big illness didn't make you delay a day to take their children, right? She is so strong, she didn't tell you when she was tired, and she would trouble her mother-in-law. You have been with me for the past few years, and we have not let you pay a penny for living expenses, right? Shi Zhai took everything for granted, he never took the initiative to let you live with them, right? When Yu Yue was sick, their husband and wife also made everyone uneasy, otherwise how could she and my father be so unhappy?"

Hearing that Shi Yuan was talking about Yu Yue's illness, Li Yonglan was speechless, and his face was still angry.

"Don't talk so much, it's not easy to compare, the development of the two brothers is definitely unbalanced!" Qian Shengtian suddenly yelled. "Who told him that he didn't think about it at the beginning? I tried my best to help him, I couldn't buy it for 8,000 yuan in the exam, I couldn't go down in the second year of high school, and I got a bunch of gangsters who didn't study, and I was very angry when I talked about this!

Hearing her husband belittle her youngest son like this, Li Yonglan cried even more, saying that the father and son joined forces to look down on the youngest son and tease the younger son.

A conversation seemed to go on, and Se Won stopped talking.

"After the year, we moved to live in Stellar, and this year you have worked hard for a year, since it is two sons, then the plan of two sons. Father said solemnly.

Se Won didn't answer, he said that his mother might hold on to it, so he just looked at his father gratefully.

Li Yonglan didn't speak anymore, she knew that her husband's decision was difficult to change, and she would only be scolded by her husband if she spilled it again, so she had to smoke and match.

This family always deliberately avoids Yu Yue when discussing things, Shi Yuan doesn't want Yu Yue to come forward to be a bad person, but the father-in-law thinks that this is just Shi Yuan's own thoughts, and of course he will not reveal half a sentence in front of Yu Yue. In fact, Shi Yuan told his wife the outcome of the matter that night, of course, it was provocative, and the fierce confrontation during the period was only a passing one. But how smart Yu Yue is, she can guess it as soon as she hears it. She pondered in her heart for a while, and had a hunch that this matter could not be so simple, besides, it was just Shi Yuan who said this to his parents, Shi Zhai did not participate at all, which was equivalent to one party being blind, she asked, "Shi Yuan, this matter can't be confused, this is a big deal, the life problems of the parents in the second half of their lives, they must sit down and explain it clearly, so as not to fight in the future." “

"My dad has already decided, what else is there to discuss. “

"Now it's not as simple as his decision, he himself has to be supported by others, how can he decide? In the future, your two brothers will pay for support, naturally you have to make it clear in person, I know that you will definitely not be able to accept it written clearly in person, but at least you have to make an agreement verbally, otherwise Shi Zhai will say that your father and son have decided in the future, and he will be excluded. ”

"So what now? Is it possible to say it again?"

"Isn't it normal for family members to sit together and talk about things? Why do you have such a grassy expression? I think it's strange that you didn't call Shi Zhai to discuss this time, how can you decide when the parties are not complete?

"Who would be like you, simple things are so complicated, one person can have the final say, and my dad still has the final say. “

"Do things and be a man has to 'villain first and then gentleman', this is a big deal, not a simple thing, you said so lightly, ugly words must be right in front, so as not to be unclear in the future, thankless. “

"People in the city are so clear that they will not be united."

"Who in our family is not united? Everyone will have contradictions, and the key is what everyone will do after they have contradictions. You see that your brother is so provocative, and I am now cold and indifferent to your father, has he thought of remedying the relationship? If he will not apologize, he can express it in other ways. When my mother and my uncle quarreled, it was turned upside down! After less than three days, my uncle and aunt came to the door, and they didn't apologize. Then it came to pass, people came to make tea every day, brought their own tea and fruits, and over time you were a big gas and disappeared. Has your brother ever been so sincere? Has he ever come to the door once a year?"

"People are afraid that you will not give face, and it will be embarrassing. “

"No, I don't care. “

"You're just obsessed. “

"Forget it, I won't talk about it, in short, things either don't be done, or they have to be done clearly. “

"I'll talk about it in a few days, and I'll sit down in his shop when I do. “

A woman's intuition is anything but false. Sure enough, the next day, Li Yonglan walked into the study to chat with Yu Yue. Yu Yue was preparing for class, and she was a little caught off guard by her mother's sudden serious attitude, but fortunately, Shi Yuan had made some money to him the night before, and he knew it. However, the mother sat opposite Yu Yue a little helplessly. The first sentence of this opening, "Hey, I raised a son for nothing......" The word "er" has not been read, and the tears are falling down like a broken thread, Yu Yue knows that the person who is coming is not good. She handed her the tissue on the table, and listened silently. You must know that this is a strong mother-in-law, and suddenly "opening the skylight and saying bright words" in front of her daughter-in-law must not be as simple as venting her emotions.

"Se Yuan said he wanted to drive us away. The mother said as she wiped away a handful of tears. "He said that he couldn't afford us to be old, and he didn't want us anymore when we were old...... Woo, he doesn't want to think about who helped him up with such an easy day today, just because he is more good at reading, I am reluctant to let him work, stay in the school once a week and come back once a week must be ready to give him food, just because he can read, whoever can pay his tuition later, he can't, he wants to save face, he refuses to lose half a point in front of his classmates, how much does it cost to study in college, the people in the village who are out of society early have earned more than this, people are in their teens out of society, and the stronger family houses are built by sons, and they buy cars and houses for their parents to enjoy。 What is his ability? Compared to those masons, we thought that you children were still young and wanted to come to help, but we didn't expect that when the children were older, they saw that we were useless and drove us away...... Woohoo".

As soon as Yu Yue heard these words, she knew that her mother was scolding herself, and she was organizing language in her head.

Li Yonglan squinted at Yu Yue's reaction while crying, Yu Yue stopped typing on the keyboard at this time, and when she turned her face, she already had a solemn expression, "Shiyuan has discussed this matter with me," Yu Yue paused, glanced at her mother's expression, and saw that she suddenly stopped crying, and her mouth unconsciously synthesized a' O' shape, the whole expression froze, Yu Yue thought to herself, her mother must have repented of her intestines, she hit Yu Yue's idea that she would definitely keep people, but she didn't expect that the whole usually gentle daughter-in-law had such an idea, presumably her son was led away by her nose. "Shiyuan doesn't want you, he just can't speak. You know this better than I do, and a good thing will taste bad in his mouth. You see, you two have been with us for more than three years, and my father-in-law has been here for more than two years, and Shi Zhai and they have long had opinions about you, don't you know?"

Li Yonglan acquiesced, and said later, "It's the 200,000, since it's two brothers, of course it's 100,000 per person, why did they all give Shiyuan development?"

"That's right, he went outside and said that you are doing things unfairly, and others really believe it just by looking at this practice, don't you know? This money was given to Shiyuan by his father-in-law, saying that we have a relatively stable public position, and it is unreliable to give it to Zai Shizhai. “

"I know. Li Yonglan listened impatiently.

"Do you think we are very happy to take this money? It's not for nothing, the annual interest money has to be paid, and it's not always been able to be put there, a lot of time it's idle there, last year's market was a little better, and this year's economic situation is not good, it's difficult to collect, not to mention that the 50,000 yuan guaranteed by his cousin Shiwen has to be paid back, I didn't agree at the beginning, but my father-in-law forced Shiyuan to sign, and now if something happens, it's not me to carry it with him?"

Li Yonglan's face was red and white for a while, and then he scolded, "I'll just say that Shiwen's little bastard is unreliable in eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, and your father-in-law is a person who only has brothers and no family." When Shiwen's father heard that Shiyuan refused to sign, he said coldly that your father-in-law refused to help his brother, and your father-in-law couldn't stand the excitement. “

"Well, yes, now it's okay, it's our back if something happens. Do they have the slightest guilt in their family? They also said that he had lost money in business, and it was natural for him to be the eldest brother to help carry a little. Isn't it just a teacher? Of all the sisters in my family, I am the only one who has the lowest income, and if you are really good for your children, you should stand in front of others before they can directly talk to us and say, 'Don't ask them to sign, their income is not high, and my wife just had such a big illness that can't withstand the toss,' but do you have it?

"It's your father-in-law's mouth, he likes to blow everywhere, I have long said that you should be humble. “

Shi Zhai went outside to say that you two old patriarchs, saying that people are also for us, and money is also for us, bullying them to have daughters, and now your parents still have a little labor for us, and don't kick them when they are old and useless. We can't afford this kind of public opinion. In fact, you elders know best, their daughters you have not fallen for a day, but our sons are half-hearted, during this time the child has a problem peeing, go to the city to see a doctor, do you have a way to accompany you? It's not my father to accompany us? You didn't care about my illness, now my children are the same, what do other people's grandparents do, you can ask, many young couples work in three shifts, go out early and return late to clock in regularly, eight-hour work system, where do they have a way to take the baby? It's the grandparents who carry the beams of everything, and I have nothing to say if you can't do this, because I work by myself and do a lot of things by myself, which doesn't make you tired. Shi Yuan's life today is the result of his own efforts, of course, if you say that you can not let him go to high school, I have nothing to say, Shi Yuan is guaranteed to high school, as long as he wants to study, the school will definitely reduce the tuition through various channels, and the same is true for universities. But he must be grateful for the fact that you raised him until he graduated from college. But you are very fair, and you didn't treat Shi Zhai badly, and how much tuition you gave Shi Yuan also gave Shi Zhai to start a business, didn't you?"

Li Yonglan nodded, "Who knew that there would be that car accident, fortunately the person was fine, and then the car couldn't drive, Shi Zhai was taken by his father to work in the mine, how tired he was in those years." Doing business with his parents-in-law was put on the table again and didn't make any money, and he opened this milk tea shop after so many years, hey, two brothers, one is so smooth, and the other is so unsmooth. As he spoke, he wiped away a handful of tears.

"Now it's going well, at least you don't have to worry about your income. “

"It's just that we can't take care of our children all day long, and we don't just look at the children, it's really pitiful. “

"Yes, so we never fight, and if we do, it's obviously not fair for you to do that. “

"They also understand, and they don't understand that you have made concessions. “

The housekeeper fought hard for Shi Zhai and them, and Yu Yue couldn't listen to it, so she had to change the topic.

"But now it's up to you. Since you don't plan to do anything, you should come up with a plan, and you should always say what you think about your old age life and let us know? Young people also have their own plans, and if our plans conflict with yours, if you don't say it, it won't look good if we come out and stop it when we do something. “

"It's to help you bring people and reduce the burden as much as possible, but there is no way for their family to do this job. “

"So you might as well help wholeheartedly, and I'll solve my own problems. “

Li Yonglan took advantage of Yu Yue's inattention and glared at her fiercely, without saying a word.

Yu Yue's eyes had already seen it, and she understood that it was a problem with money. Of course, there is also the issue of atmosphere. Obviously, it's more like a home in my own home, and a family of five people eats every day and looks happy, but I don't see anyone every day when I go to them, you look at me and I look at you. My father-in-law had a bad temper, and I didn't dare to say anything when I beat her, but at least my father-in-law didn't dare to do it on Yu Yue's side.

"Mom, look at and discuss with Dad, what do you two think and what plans do you want to tell, and then make it clear to Shiyuan Shizhai openly and honestly, you say that we are juniors to plan, life can not be confused, it is to plan, see that you have always come to communicate with each other, used to such a pass, I am not used to it, since a family has been established, there must be a plan and a goal, and everyone works together with one heart and one mind. “

Li Yonglan was suddenly inspired by Yu Yue's sonorous words, "You have a point. I'll talk to the old man. “

"That's the best, you have to go home and build a house, you have to go out and buy a house, you have to have a plan, you have to take away an old one, in short, you have to think about it yourself. “

"Ah, do you want two brothers together? No, they're so busy, we just have to do this and tell him. “

"Mom, don't you understand? This is a major matter in every family, what does it matter if the parties don't participate? When the time comes, he will say that you have decided by yourself, what does it have to do with him? He will feel comfortable?"

"Hey, I'm afraid that the two brothers will fight if they don't say the right thing, the two of them are enemies, Shi Yuan and Shi Zhai fought to the death in the courtyard when they were in college, and both of them have a bad temper and are not good at talking...... Unfilial, my mother is useless, I cried to death. As she spoke, her mother's face was full of tears.

Yu Yue was stunned when he heard this, these words Shiyuan had never spoken, he always emphasized the family concept in front of him, brothers and relatives. Hehe, it's a comedy.

"Mom, now that both of them are older and have families, they won't be so immature, how can they talk well?"

"I'll try it, I'll ask Shi Zhai to come and sit at home. “

"Well, mom has any ideas, I'm a straightforward person who doesn't like to beat around the bush, to be honest, three generations live together, can you adapt to us or can we adapt to you? Living together is just mutual humility, and I think you should also have your own life, and don't always seem to deliberately follow us, we are actually uncomfortable. You've been in the city for so long, and you've seen that many families are different from your country, and there's nothing wrong with everyone, and it's not like this in the earliest days of tradition, and the system is changed by people. “

Li Yonglan nodded, "Yes, it's too different." ”

"If you do what you do in the countryside and what you think in the city, how comfortable it is, don't you like an unrestrained life?"

"Of course it's good, I used to endure everything in the countryside, I was afraid of gossip, I was afraid of being scolded by my in-laws, I was afraid of being laughed at by my sister-in-law, and your father-in-law didn't hurt people, and I was tired to death...... "Said the mother and a handful of tears.

"So, life will get better and better, those things are over, and my big illness will not pass. ”

"I told your father-in-law at the time that my daughter-in-law was in such pain that I needed to give some support, hey, I am a person who has no words and no opinions. ”

"Well, don't talk about that, the more you mention the sad things, the harder it will be to get over. Yu Yue waved her hand to signal not to talk any more, in fact, she didn't want to mention the past, it was useless to say it, and it couldn't change the essence of the matter. "Grass on the wall" has no truth, there will be no concept of right and wrong, and everything will only be said out of self-interest. And will never take the initiative to take responsibility, and will definitely find a scapegoat to shirk if you do something wrong. usually seems to be "heart-to-heart" with you, but it is often this kind of person who betrays you at critical moments. So Yu Yue never listens to what people say, only looks at what people do.

Li Yonglan got up, "Then I'll go steam rice." At the end of a conversation, Yu Yue was relieved. When you don't know how to be tactful and tactful, when you are left and right, you don't have to be annoyed by your own inflow and intransience, just talk about things, as the saying goes, "people are not as good as heaven", and it is better to treat each other with sincerity if you calculate everywhere. The concept of governing the family is very important. If you guide people with good thoughts, your family style will be majestic, and if you guide people with evil thoughts, you will compete with each other for profit, hypocrisy and intriguery. This home should be another realm in Yuyue's hands, how could she allow all the original copies of Shiyuan's past life to be applied to the new life? Marriage is the establishment of a new family, and it is the retention and dedication of two people, and it is by no means as simple as being a wife "integrating" into her husband's original home, but adapting to each other and transforming each other. At this point, it is not something that Yu Yue can grasp, and as the Chinese New Year approaches, Yu Yue has more troublesome things to deal with.

On the third day of the first lunar month, the three families accompanied their mother's family together, once a year, a etiquette, and they were chatting after they were full of wine and food, at this time Qian Xiaoying took Fangfang's hand and went out first, and the two of them just walked straight through Yu Yue, and their eyes were disdainful. Yu Yue knew in her heart, it must be her mother complaining in front of her daughter, Qian Xiaoying had a bad impression of herself, and she must have gritted her teeth with hatred. But Yu Yue had already excluded these people from his mood, and naturally ignored their "no one in his eyes". If they are really so filial, how can they not see their own mother once a year and lead their own mother to relax, go shopping, and eat? They feel in their bones that the "burden" of the two elders should be the matter of the Shiyuan family, and now that Yu Yue raised objections, it naturally became the target of public criticism. Yu Yue already hated this kind of person who got cheap and sold well, this is better, Yu Yue can justifiably not associate with them. It was close to dinner time when he returned to Lido, and Shi Yuan suddenly asked Yu Yue to go with him to Qian Xiaoying's house for dinner, Yu Yue glanced at him, "She didn't ask me to go." It's better that you don't go either. ”

"She called me and that's it. ”

"Then you go by yourself, I'm tired. Yu Yue is too lazy to say too much, in the first month, there is no need to quarrel for idleness.

"Are you going or not? What are you doing with such a high attitude? You have a lot to do. ”

"She didn't say a word to ask me to go to dinner all day at your aunt's place, and they didn't say a word to me when they left hand in hand, and they are also brothers-in-law, do you think she is so reasonable? ”

"You're just cautious, how shameless are you making me like this?"

"If you go, I will lose face, people don't take your wife seriously, you are embarrassed to be embarrassed by others, don't you want to invite her back if you go to eat others? I don't want to invite her to eat at home, I have given her enough. When he said the last sentence, Yu Yue said it word by word.

Shi Yuan jumped up, "Don't be so excessive! It's because you're careful that everyone doesn't associate with you, and who will dare to take care of your affairs in the future." ”

Yu Yue waved his hand, "If you want to go, go away, when have they taken care of my affairs." ”

As soon as Shi Yuan heard this, his heart was empty, so he called his son, "Rong Rong, do you want to go to my aunt's house to play, my two sisters are here." Rong Rong nodded, Yu Yue did not object, children need to be accompanied, don't impose the emotions of adults on children. Shi Yuanzhen just didn't look back and left with the child, Yu Yue felt uncomfortable, but quickly adjusted, forget it, having a husband who is so uncompetitive and doesn't know how to maintain the family is also self-inflicted, and there is nothing wrong with people, people must learn to manage their mood, especially not to indulge bad emotions, don't hide negative emotions in your heart, otherwise you will overdraft your health and life expectancy tomorrow. Yu Yue was very peaceful and started cooking and watching TV, during which Qian Xiaoying came to call, and Yu Yue was not in the mood to answer the phone. To be honest, if Shi Yuan refused to go, Qian Xiaoying would never dare to be so condescending, and Shi Yuan set off without hesitation, such behavior would only be more isolated from Yue. In a family, the role of a man is too important, what is the status of his wife in his heart, the family will consider the attitude towards his wife, a woman has no weight in the husband's heart, and the man's family will not take her seriously. From Shi Yuan's family's attitude towards herself, Yu Yue is clear, Shi Yuan does not have her in his heart, and outsiders can't understand it, and the attitude of his relatives can be expressed. If it was really just a misunderstanding, then the owner who invited the dinner would definitely ask Se Won to come back and pick up his wife, but no.

No matter what happens in life, there is no choice but self-love.