Yu Yue hopes that she can cook fragrant meals every evening and eat them together when the children come home. But people really can't be reckless, poor housework ability, poor cooking skills, and Rong Rong is still young and needs to be cared for, plus he has to go to work, Yu Yue can't do it at all. In order to prevent her irritability from affecting the child, Yu Yue often asked her grandmother to take her back, and life needs to be adjusted, so that the child will be more cheerful. After a while, it turned out to be even better. Therefore, no matter whether the children eat at their own house in the evening, they must go to their grandmother's house to sleep at night, and their grandmother and grandfather will send them to study in the morning.

The child let his father-in-law and mother-in-law contribute money and efforts, Qian Shiyuan is very comfortable, after his parents died and the Zhai family helped, he did not have to bear the financial burden of his parents and was more comfortable, as soon as people were free, they were unconscious, and the rest of the time every day was not to accompany his wife and children, but to take care of himself and be chic, so the trick was repeated. Yu Yueshen thought that Qian Shiyuan should really be tired to death, he would die if he was unified, and if he let go, he would be chaotic, and his character should be put under some pressure.

On the first day of work, Yu Yue was a little nervous and ecstatic, and she kept reminding herself in her heart to be calm and calm, to deal with it quietly, and to make it bigger. I haven't seen it for a year, it's a little strange, the caregiver asks for warmth, the doubter asks for the long and the short, although Yu Yue is a little irritable, but her heart is soft, and she is very grateful to accept everyone's concern, and she also understands that there will definitely be this process, do not avoid it, and face it calmly. As the days went by, fewer people asked, and everyone gradually forgot about it. When Yu Yue went back, she had curly hair, no sickness, but it was different from before, she couldn't wear makeup, she was just facing the sky, Yu Yue still had some mental obstacles, fortunately, she went home after class, and rarely lingered in the office, but she became more and more sure that life would slowly become normal from work. Back at school, it was relaxing. The children went to school, went to work themselves, and life got back on track. The dull days that I didn't care about before are now precious.

Yu Cheng reported to the unit last month. Often when things are conceived and there is nowhere to go bad, good things happen. After graduating from university, Yu Cheng has been wandering in the big city, a typical "drifting" family. He is not ambitious, let alone hard-working boy, from a small family and a working class, and there are few great talents. Pampered since childhood, the ability is average and can't endure hardship, drifting for more than two years has not improved, to the back of the pragmatic, fighting nothing is better than fighting father. Last year, Yu Yue's illness changed many people's minds, people need to pay attention to the way out, in the system, 10,000 is not good, at least one point, you don't have to worry about no one to be sick and no one to support you when you are old. Last year, it happened to be a professional counterpart, Yu Cheng was very excited to sign up, the first half of this year, I read a few days of books, I passed the written exam, and there was basically no suspense in the interview, Yu Cheng was 1.84 tall, tall and handsome, and his appearance was amazing and star-like, plus his eloquence was good, four judges, three of them had seen, and he would not be nervous at all, so the work was solved very smoothly. The parents were very relieved, because of Yu Yue's matter, the long-depressed mood finally had a ray of sunshine.

As soon as Yu Cheng's matter was resolved, Yu Yue asked him to consider an insurance, he had this disease, and his family should take precautions. Sometimes, you feel lost, but at the same time you are "getting". Everything in the world has its own laws.

One day, when the house was burglarized and the thief visited the humble house, the mother and son were sleeping soundly in the bed, but fortunately they slept deeply without being disturbed. When he thinks of wealth and happiness, he is calm. Yu Yue thought to herself, how many things in this world end before trouble appears, if Yu Yue wakes up and takes a look at the thief, or is angry and entangled with the lost money, it will be another realm. Yu Yue was glad that she slept well and let the thief come and go gently, and both sides were fine. As for the money, instead of being angry and hurting the liver and adding knots, it is better to be free and easy. This man lives, and money is earned. Besides, the money earned can't be finally consumed. She was optimistic, but her mother couldn't help but analyze the various possibilities of internal and external thieves every day, and reminded Yu Yue from time to time not to be careless. Yu Yuezhi was well-intentioned, and she also said everywhere in her community that life was too boring, and there was always something to talk about, and these illiterate old ladies should be allowed to give full play to their amazing imagination and analytical powers.

In addition to pondering cooking skills in his spare time, he is reading and chasing dramas, since he got married, his heart has been troubled by mundane things, and he can't read quietly, Yu Yue is not an easy person to be calm, don't look at her on the surface, she is more in the face of malicious self-protection, and pretending to be too much is insensitive. People have to learn to release, but they don't see people complaining like Xianglin's sister-in-law, and catch one by one. Inner strength is not something that can be achieved by reading a few inspirational books, but it is to face the world gently after experiencing setbacks and pain, and continue to move forward. No one is obligated to do anything for whom, and the same is true for parents, who are raised until they are eighteen years old. Therefore, it is love for one person to be kind to another. Otherwise, there are two people who have nothing to do with each other. Since the other party is unkind, then no one should be entangled in anyone's injustice, since then, Yu Yue has isolated Shiyuan's family from the heart, and some are only polite and polite responses on the surface. Qian Zongyi said that only by learning to accept will you be stronger than your opponents. Yu Yue has long been tortured by a serious illness, and she must continue to accept all the injustices in the world in order to see the flowers that bloom in human nature. She believes that a decent person, even in the depths of desperate situations, is still decent.

In the past six months, although Yu Yue has become more tired physically, she has relaxed a lot mentally, and she doesn't have to be like Sun Wukong, with a tight mantra on her head, and she is afraid of Tang Seng chanting at any time, she is really tired of her mother's mouth that can never stop. Except for Shi Yuan's occasional entanglement and sprinkling, he is still very happy overall. Idle, Yu Yue strolled into the Shiyuan QQ space, Shiyuan's limerick poem was impressive, "Life is half, not only half, half and companion, today is reborn, Jun also brings the lady for a long time, knows Chang'an, embraces each other for a long time, and looks at each other for a long time." "The memories of the past seem to have vanished in an instant. Women are so easy to be moved, and women who lack love are still so. Yu Yue knew that all the love given by her parents could not be fully reflected in her husband, and her requirements were lowered again and again and almost nowhere to put them, and finally she understood that Shi Yuan was the real lack of love, and he needed a woman to teach him how to love and how to care. Shiyuan's original family can't give him too much attention and love, he is a free-range child, and he is used to doing everything alone and making his own decisions. And he is a captive baby, no matter where he goes from childhood to adulthood, he has the love of his parents to follow him, and if he does not do well in the exam, his parents will contact and visit the teacher, and even make any friends, where to play is also carried out under the close attention of his parents, and he can at least fully enjoy the company in an unfree environment, but he has also formed a habit that is easy to suppress himself. Bad is bad, since childhood, adults are always alert to their own perfection, selflessness, desireless, to be kind to others, reasonable, in the end, the more the pursuit of harmony and contentment, the more messed up, do not know how to think for themselves, for themselves. What's worse is that my parents are too doting, selfless dedication to everything, hard work, and unfavorable returns, so that this state will be uncomfortable in every way! Yu Yue understands the root cause behind all problems, but the impact of the environment in which he grew up in childhood is too great for a person, and it is not an overnight thing to change, and it is a subtle persistence.

Cousin Zhen said, "There are several couples in this world who had a good relationship at the beginning, and they all quarreled and quarreled, and they understood after a long time." "But quarrels are by no means the same, some quarrel in the direction of unifying opinions, and some quarrel in the direction of splitting feelings, no matter what, the quarrel will be in despair. Shi Yuan's tangled personality constantly stimulated Yu Yue's nerves, and he invited his parents to Shi Zhai's house, which was originally a matter of course, two sons, and the old man should go to whoever he wants. But when he came to Shiyuan, it seemed that everything was exhausted. He felt that his father was sick and should have been taken care of, he was the eldest son, and he was a scholar, but because of his wife's special situation, he invited his father at this time, in the eyes of outsiders, this is indeed not the son of man, therefore, some people who don't know the inside story or speculate about good things take the opportunity to put pressure, Shiyuan can't go outside to complain, everything can only be suppressed. As a result, his nameless fire broke out from time to time, and all the resentment and anger in his stomach were sprinkled on Yue. Yu Yue frowned, but his hatred for his parents intensified. Yu Yue will also explode when the words are ugly, her retort is usually to the point, if she doesn't say it, she can expose the essential problems to you, and when she is not polite, she even analyzes the other party's inner thoughts one by one, calmly like an inconsequential passerby. Those words made Shi Yuan furious, and her attitude was a mirror, making Shi Yuan embarrassed. Shi Yuan is simply naked in front of Yue, and his weak heart will become even more intense, chasing and beating fiercely. Don't look at Shi Yuan, who usually talks a lot and has a loud voice, if you really want him to talk about the right thing and convince people with reason, he shouldn't be able to say a word. In the end, it's just like a shrew. Shiyuan refused to relent, and in the end, it was a self-blame and grievance meeting of "not forgetting the class suffering", what "my parents were tired all their lives and finally bought a house for me, but they didn't even have a place to stay...... Where are my parents sorry for you, don't they just don't give you money? You live in other people's houses! Rural people are easy to bully, and they dislike others when they don't have a pension or social security!"

Yu Yue's face was disdainful. "Hmph, I was very wrong, what kind of rural people are kind and simple? That's just because they haven't seen money, the economy is not active, and they are short of materials...... Once the commodity economy invades, due to poor quality and insufficient ideological preparation, the essence of selfishness and narrow-mindedness and snobbish hypocrisy in the bones will be exposed, like a Pandora's box, completely unscrupulous. It is hundreds of times more terrifying than urban people who have been immersed in the tide of market economy for a long time. What will happen to traditional people, traditional people should have at least loyalty, filial piety, righteousness, and shame, and should have at least compassion, traditional people regard their daughter-in-law as their own people, and as a result, I am an "outsider" when I am sick, and I am busy driving me back to my parents' house. Now that he is well, he still pretends to be sick, and he says he is dizzy every day, and my relatives have seen him wandering the streets on a motorcycle several times, walking along the riverside road, and getting up early every day to exercise in the park. In the morning, my mother sent Rong Rong to study, and when she met your father riding a motorcycle, he turned his face away. My mother is also very angry, there is such a narrow-minded man? At least I should ask my grandson, right? If you don't nag me, forget it, I'm too lazy to tell you this, since you can't see it, I'll tell you, now it's my mother who is tired, and he's enjoying it. Your father doesn't know how to do anything at all, but your mother is concentrating on taking people from Shi Zhai, have they ever thought about coming to see their grandson?"

Yu Yue regretted it after speaking, except for venting her emotions, there was no benefit. Sure enough, Shi Yuan refused to calm down, "Your mother is narrow-minded, Shi Zhai and they have a lot of opinions, saying that they don't greet them when they meet your mother on the street." They didn't offend your mother, so they can't be guilty of hating them as a family, right? Your parents are just small-minded, so they cultivated a person who holds grudges like you. ”

Yu Yue didn't want to deal with it anymore, but when she heard this, she laughed directly. "Please, go through your mind before you speak next time, do you have the concept of being inferior to the elderly? You're not fashionable to the point where you don't understand human affairs, are you? Let's not say that my mother is short-sighted and doesn't see their problems, what does it mean that my mother doesn't greet them? There should be an order for this? If they call the elders first, will people pretend not to hear even if they don't see it? Take it a step further, they bully people like this, my mother should naturally have opinions, and she will be a person in vain without even resentment. If you change it to someone who doesn't have a quality point, you will be scolded on the street. Look at what low-level things they do, if my parents have to deal with them, they will be demoted immediately!"

Shi Yuan could only slam the door and go out, the tangle was still entangled, and the knot in his heart was difficult to open.

In the last few generations, let alone free love and marriage, they have never met a few times but have to live a lifetime, what do they rely on? But these two people are typical of the post-80s generation, they would rather be "two" than pretend, and would rather be indifferent than fake enthusiasm. When the love between the two begins to diminish, it is natural to argue. Shiyuan's personality is too easy to be taken advantage of, and he will only blindly use it. Yu Yue is also scathing, either endure or have no room for it. The tip of the needle is against Maimang, and no one is convinced.

The mother is considered to be more humane in this family, and occasionally she will make a phone call to ask Rong Rong, and sometimes find the right time to wait for Rong Rong at home after school. No matter how much Yu Yue doesn't like her, she will remember her well. Speaking of which, sleek people are still more pleasing, tactfulness means some kind of kindness, but Yu Yue will definitely keep a distance from her, the overly sleek aura on her body is unsettling, and the feeling of impeccable makes people stay away. An unsophisticated woman is accustomed to good times and is easy to be harsh, but the experienced woman is well versed in adversity and is lenient in dealing with the world. Yu Yue was full of a sense of smoothness in the first half of her life, and she was used to her life being full of sunshine, and her personality was angular. If it weren't for Se Yuan's family, she would never have felt this frustration, let alone become bitter because of it. But in fact, all the weaknesses and insecurities have been projected to the outside world by themselves through bitter words, and the world has given back to them as they are, and at the end of the story, they are still hurt. Young people are desperate to compete, and in the end, they hurt others and themselves. Shi Yuan and Yu Yue are both like this. A woman is good-tempered because she does not need to live with sorrow, but when she becomes irritable, she must be blessed by life. Yu Yue didn't like the way she looked now, she needed to heal herself.

Since you can't read the book, then follow the drama, and if you can't enter the WTO, you can escape the world. You don't have to think about watching TV, just follow the screenwriter's feelings, and then find your own feelings. Yu Yue likes historical dramas, and her preference for her profession is not a whim. This stems from the influence of the family environment, his father's literary literacy is not good, he is a typical engineering student, belongs to the kind of silent work, but his innate sense of mission makes him very concerned about the fate of the country and the nation, he has a dream of a thousand years in his heart, Yu Yue can always hear his father express various opinions at the dinner table when he was a child, sometimes cynical, sometimes hating iron does not become steel, he is not eloquent, and he is anxious when he can't express himself, just like that, his parents' words and deeds affect the child, Yu Yue grew up in such an environment, three meals a day are eating while watching the news, and the accumulation of natural knowledge is wide, Yu Yue is always late when he is in junior high school, One of the reasons is watching TV, sometimes I can't help but stay for a while when I see the highlights, Yu Yue can't remember this by herself, it was Yuan Meiren who said it, she grew up with Yu Yue since she was a child, sometimes she slept together, and knew the living habits of their family.

As Yu Yue grew up, his father's knowledge began to be unable to keep up with the child, and the situation was reversed. Family education is genetic, Yu Yue's great-grandfather was a first-generation Communist Party member, originally a normal student, secretly joined the party during school, and then began to lead the mass riots, a family of five brothers, five party members, four brothers and a daughter-in-law, but unfortunately all died in the party struggle. With such a family style, Yu Yue's grandparents and parents actively joined the party, and they were political cells that were passed down from generation to generation, but when they arrived at Yu Yue, everything came to an abrupt end, and the people in the temple were inherited as literati. Yu Baoping was very disappointed with Yue's "inactivity", he once hoped that Yu Yue would take the civil service examination or be selected for transfer, but in view of the erosion and disorder of the social atmosphere, he also quickly figured out that Yu Yue was really afraid of being a girl in the political arena! Overall, her father was still very satisfied with her profession as a middle school teacher. Nowadays, the solidification of the upper and lower classes has intensified, and the corrupt atmosphere and unfair social system have impacted the confidence of the righteous. The only red fourth generation of this family is a son-in-law, Qian Shiyuan. He has always been actively involved in the party, and his family has been poor peasants for dozens of generations, and it is easy for him to show off his talents, so can he climb up without any effort? Therefore, Qian Shiyuan always tried every possible way to move closer to politics in order to change his fate, and even occasionally was praised by the leaders, he had to be able to be happy for a long time, Yu Yue was noncommittal, and sometimes he teased him, but he paid silent attention to Shiyuan's efforts. As the saying goes, some people resign and return to their hometowns, and some people rush to the field at night, and everyone has their own ambitions.

But the growth environment is still very restrictive on people, when I first fell in love, Yu Yue said, "Most of the aunts introduced me to boyfriends and introduced civil servants", originally to make fun of Shi Yuan, but Shi Yuan was confused, "Everyone is a civil servant, you think it is great in the county party committee and county government, and I can also transfer it if I have the opportunity in the future." ”

Yu Yue was stunned for a moment, and then realized that Shiyuan still didn't understand this difference. "Do you think that all those who eat the emperor's grain are civil servants? We are just public institutions, and we are divided into three, six, nine, and so on in the system. ”

Shi Yuan paused for a long time and pouted, "Many leaders of the county party committee turned out to be teachers, and it is not easy to change careers." ”

Yu Yue glanced at him, "It's easy to think, in the past, the system was not perfect, how can it be so simple now, even if you go to the administrative department, you can only work, you are still a career establishment, how difficult it is to transfer to a civil servant, you have to be selected, and there must be no one on the top." Speaking of this, Shiyuan immediately became half a cut shorter.

Yu Yue was afraid that he would take it seriously, so he immediately changed his words and said, "I think the two teachers are very good, and they can still play together during the winter and summer vacations." ”

History teachers are always picky when they watch historical dramas, and Yu Yue is quite tolerant. Her ideas are more lively, and it is also because she has seen some research in foreign historiography, her thinking is not so fixed, she not only accepts the periodization theory of the Kyoto School of RB historiography, but also accepts the skepticism of the Tokyo School, and even the speculative historical novel writing style of Chen Sunsin and Inoue Yasushi is also very respectful. She is very willing to understand the views and arguments of the international sinology community, and seizes every opportunity to broaden her horizons and think outside the framework.

Documentary and archaeological data, coupled with reasonable imagination and inference, could it be that novelists or screenwriters have restored real historical fragments! Yu Yue's appreciation of the attitude of studying history through time should be based on a large number of reading materials, which is far from being only the official history, but also includes a series of "wild histories" such as the vast notes and prose records of the ancients.

Yu Yue believes that the mainland's historical dramas are constantly improving, which is related to the improvement of the screenwriter's level of literature, history and philosophy. History is not a heavy topic, it is not only a conceptual historical event, it is a vivid picture of countless exquisite details of life gathered together, Yu Yue knows that her level is not enough, her ability is limited, and it is difficult to make a big breakthrough in her profession, but she always has a clear concept in her heart, that is, she hopes that through the delicacy of historical dramas, the audience can fully breathe and understand the ancient world full of life. She is tolerant of certain mistakes made by playwrights, folklorists or choreographers, "Forgive everyone for their limitations, after all, history is in the past, all you can do is to guess as reasonable as possible, and be as reasonable as possible", she tells her students.

Students love to listen to Yu Yue's lectures more because of her rich knowledge connotation, tolerant academic atmosphere, and atmospheric research views. A teacher's personality charm is not only to focus on difficult points, but more importantly to guide students to a deeper and broader life experience. Yu Yue's class has never been fixed, and when it comes to what day, before class, he will definitely briefly talk about it, such as 918, in addition to quoting scriptures and classics when he goes to relevant content, he will also recommend good books, movies, good articles, and good authors to students, and once a graduate student looked back and thanked Teacher Yu Yue when he said, " Frankly speaking, Mr. Yu, I don't know what the content of my history texts is for more than a year, but you have recommended us a lot of books and movies, as well as the common sense of literature and history such as today, I have written it down, and I will take it to the university to read it slowly according to your recommendation. This is the person who has a heart, the teacher has a heart, and the scholar has an intention, so the effect of education really comes out. In fact, the teacher can't teach students too much knowledge, he should play a role in throwing bricks and jade, and he should be a leader in happy learning.

Reading and studying make Yu Yue's life full, regain the beauty of the past, it is not so difficult, go through a catastrophe, and grow a wisdom. When she doesn't have children, she chases dramas, and people chase dramas to watch the plot, and this history teacher chases dramas to see the whole. In a broad context, the truth of the world is just a little bit, the victors are born as the times require, only in adversity can we experience the happiness of being a human being, when there is no choice, perseverance is the only choice.

Yu Yue was the "talented girl" shouted by the boys in the department behind her back when she was in college, talented women are often too sober, and they are easy to fall into pessimism because of their sobriety, and fate almost made her lose her face, and now her situation is really the lowest point in her life. Yu Yue often encouraged herself, "I will not be afraid of anything in the future, I will be qualified to enjoy the best only after experiencing the worst, in life, all the hardships will not be in vain, all the blessings will not be in vain, there must be a reason why God has arranged this." Tranquility can go far, when the heart is calm, it will be difficult for the outside world to interfere with you, gradually, Yu Yue picked up the book again, books are good things, if you can read them, people can come out. Reading time, the years are quiet.

You have to watch TV and read books, but you can't get caught up in other people's stories and forget that you exist. Learn to be alone and treat yourself.

Yu Yue's insurance marketing life continues, and people must learn to use their strengths to manage their lives. So she goes to lectures whenever she has time, and she is now imparting knowledge at school and absorbing knowledge at the company. Not to mention, interlacing is like a mountain, and it is not easy to really understand an industry. This business is quite difficult to operate in China, which is related to the habitual blind optimism of Chinese people, which is a typical ostrich mentality, thinking that if you don't talk about it, you will naturally avoid it. In fact, people will die, it is nothing more than accidental death or death from illness, Yu Yue has heard many people say with a big grin, "If you will die, you will die, and you will not die if you buy insurance." ”

"If you die, you will die, but if you don't die, you will have to burden your family to bear the debt! You should save money, you really want something, at least reduce the burden on your family, you must know that how people are will not affect the unit, let alone others, and what can be affected is the closest family member. Yu Yue is almost equivalent to showing up to say something, and everyone who listens is convinced, but Yu Yue is worried about follow-up problems, such as the insurance company's impropriety in interpreting the terms. This kind of thing happens from time to time, and in the end, the insurance broker is not a human being. Yu Yue feels that the country should really rectify the insurance marketing and promotion, for example, many people don't like this way of paying in installments at all, and some people like to pay in a single way, so as not to forget. In the past half a year, the performance has been good, and Yu Yue has made some money and is more confident.

Life in the world, each has its own way of living, but don't impose it on others, no matter how good the relationship is, there are two things that cannot be persuaded, one is not to persuade people to divorce, because when others need love and warmth, unless you can give her, the other is to persuade people not to buy insurance, because when others need health or life-saving, you can't help anything. Knowing how to think about yourself is the real responsibility for your family.

The banyan is easy to get cold in autumn, and last year it was this time of year, and this year it is this time again. Being a grandparent is careful enough, is it really seasonal, the leak is easy to solve, vomiting will be troublesome, and if you can't take the medicine, you can only inject and hang the bottle, Rong Rong was admitted to the hospital for the second time. My mother would come to the hospital to help during the day, chattering. Yu Yue was annoyed when she heard it, but people finally knew how to show up when they were sick, and they did their best. The child will be brought back to his home after the medicine, and the child is sick and the mother will not be kind if she sends it to her grandmother's house, and the child needs the mother's consideration and love at this time.

The mother of the family sighed in the hospital, full of gratitude to the in-laws, saying that they were tired of taking the child, and when they went home, they had another face, chattering, "I don't know what the child should not eat, how can it be so serious! I don't know if I kicked the quilt when I went to bed at night and didn't notice...... Rong Rong's physique is not good, so you have to be careful. ”

Yu Yue knew that she was talking again, and she felt uncomfortable, so she said, "It's normal for children to get sick, which child doesn't get sick, it's easier to change the seasons, and it's not King Kong iron bones, and it's easy to infect each other in kindergartens." ”

Li Yonglan immediately stopped when she heard it, she is such a person, she always likes to explore other people's mouth, if she doesn't react, she will think you are stupid, you can continue to point fingers at Sang and scold Huai, if people refute it, they will immediately echo and cater to it, "Yes, yes, the food in the kindergarten is not good, and the children are not hygienic together, where can the teacher be so careful." ”

This hospitalization tossed for nearly a week, better than last time, after all, the child is older and knows how to cooperate, last time it was ****, this time it was just a hanging needle, and a little better to take medicine and be discharged. There was also a child who was more than two months old in the same ward, and at first I thought it was the child's grandmother, but when I saw the old aunt lifting her clothes to feed, Yu Yue and Liu Jingfang were stunned. In the past five years, the social atmosphere has changed a lot, there are countless people who exceed family planning, the rural population is too mobile to catch it, and it is basically out of control in the later stage, the baby's mother is 45 years old, the previous one is a son, more than 20 years old, and is preparing to get married.

After Rong Rong's illness recovered, his mother passed away, and life went on as usual. Yu Yue is always infinitely distressed when she looks at the child, she really wants to bring him to a better family environment, instead of living in an atmosphere of quarrels and abuse at every turn, life is full of gunsmoke, the two adults are angry, it is impossible for the child not to be affected. Rong Rong has some inferiority complex and timidity, due to backward motor development, poor hand and foot coordination, often ridiculed, under the vicious circle, social skills are not good, always play their own, never dare to take the initiative to find children to play, in the face of the teacher and aunt obvious indifference and resistance. Yu Yue doesn't care about anything, she is always anxious when facing children, and her heart is full of guilt. Every time Shi Yuan gets angry or is verbose, she is very irritable, and it is really difficult to control herself from being unreasonable, especially when Shi Yuan maliciously attacks and wantonly spreads rumors. Shi Yuan always denied Yu Yue and tried every possible way to suppress her, Yu Yue knew that behind these behaviors came from Shi Yuan's sensitive self-esteem, but those words still sounded unhearable. People who don't know how high the realm should be may not hear it, Yu Yue always suppresses his anger is not a way, if there is a blind is pure, it is the best, the so-called, "out of sight, fire is not born".

No matter what her husband is, Yu Yue has thought about it, even if she lives out alone, it takes money, and with this goal, she is more active in insurance. It's a pity that he is a liberal arts teacher, otherwise Yu Yue can make up classes to earn some extra money, although making up classes is a nerve-wracking job, but after all, there is no need for capital, the real knowledge economy. I only have envy for the main subject and science teachers, and it is difficult to make money in liberal arts, so they are all said to be retreat subjects.

Yu Yue's return to the normal track of life is also a little embarrassing, the change of thinking is sometimes easy for the patient, and what is even more difficult is the gaze of the people around her. Yu Yue is very aware of her current situation, the advantages she once had are now gone, and only a self-respecting and sensitive heart is still standing. Well, sometimes forbearance and clumsiness are just going with the flow, just acting in response to the situation. Don't just see the brilliance of others, but know that the efforts behind them are the root of everything. Don't say anything, do your job well, low-key and low-key, you are no longer the "school flower-level" beautiful teacher you used to be, don't always compare with the past, everything needs to start all over again, find your own direction in life. Every time she goes to work, Yu Yue rides into the door with a spring breeze on her face, and she is depressed immediately after class, and as soon as she walks out of the school gate, she begins to be gloomy and gloomy, which is too divisive. How she wanted to be a workaholic? But there were kids. In this way, I have to get in touch with those unpleasant family affairs, Yu Yue believes that all this is just a short process, there will be a new life beckoning to her, and the only thing you can do now is to make money, save money, take a baby, and wait for a suitable opportunity to buy a house and live a life that truly belongs to you.

The weather was getting colder and colder, and the physical trauma was starting to ache again. The most obvious on the eve of menstruation, a burst of convulsions, lymphedema began to be a little obvious after the poor blood flow in the arm, Yu Yue applied some ointment, and prayed every day that it was okay. The one-year medication deadline for Heroda was approaching, and the soles of Yu Yue's feet were already cracked and mottled, like the feet of a farmer. Before New Year's Day, two people went to Guangzhou for a re-examination, the situation was very good, and they could live a normal life after taking the medicine, and the re-examination once every three months should continue, and the first three years of three-negative breast cancer are very important.

The New Year is approaching, Yu Yue began to be helplessly anxious again, and the family of three has lived a happy life in a hard and trivial but calm and peaceful way for half a year. I don't know how long the simple happiness of a family of three can last? The mother hinted from time to time that she was coming after the New Year, no matter how she said it explicitly or hinted, Yu Yue didn't respond positively, and just listened, knowing that she couldn't stay with Fangfang, Yu Yue steadied her mouth and resolutely refused to take the initiative to ask her to come down.

"I can't help what she likes in her own home, and it's not my house, and I can't beg her to come or drive her away, of course, it's better not to come, it's not busy when she comes, and I have to worry a lot, and the two of them will quarrel more often. Yu Yue said helplessly

Yuan Meiren sighed vigorously, "No way, you can't leave her if you choose her son, they are coming, can your husband say no? ”

"I'm not telling him not to have parents, it's just that I'm just irritated when these days will end? ”

"There's no way, your own body is not angry, and the hostess has become the mother of the child, so that the family has a chance. Don't get entangled, it's useless to think about it, they are your husband's parents, they just raised your husband, she wants to follow her son, what can you do, traditional Chinese thinking is like this, it's too difficult for you to make an exception, and it's not in a big city, they have to follow their own way, your strength alone is simply not enough, just like my husband, he is simply a milk treasure man, he doesn't understand anything, he plays games every day, where is like a child's father, he bothers me more than a child. In addition, my mother-in-law is doting and ****, she has the final say on everything, I forgot to take a towel in the shower and let my husband help me take it, I can be scolded by my mother-in-law for several days, hey, my marriage is simply self-abuse, and I give myself the guilt. You, you have to make yourself better and better first, then you will have the initiative, and when the time comes, you can move out if you want to, and they can't say anything, the most important thing is to have money."

Yu Yue thought about it, so what, except for venting her emotions and feeling more comfortable, it didn't help. Yu Yue has no intention of isolating herself, and the situation she is in today is because she is too easy to get hurt, and she has to change herself in the face of everyone's strength. Milan Kundera says life has to go on as usual. Never think that we can run away from it, that our every step determines the final outcome, and that our feet are on our way to the end of our own choosing.

Entering the annual leave, the father-in-law and the mother began to slowly transfer to Lido, neither invited by the daughter-in-law nor invited by the son, Shiyuan was busy in and out every day, except for giving money to the family's affairs. And Yu Yue just watched indifferently as she brought a little luggage every day, and without saying a word, Li Yonglan felt very bored. In order to reintegrate into Shiyuan's family, the mother of the family behaved very actively and autonomously, as if she wanted to deliberately blur the boundaries.

As soon as the two old people came, Yu Yue began to get tired, the child used to be at the mother's place, and the pick-up and drop-off were convenient, and now the deaf is basically Yu Yue's own daily pick-up, the mother said that her foot strength is not good, and it will hurt if she walks too much, Yu Yue understood as soon as she heard this, she didn't have time to care about other people's "shrewdness", anyway, the child is her own, and she won't suffer if she is tired. As long as the mother is in pain, she will shout everywhere, and then the children will take her to the hospital for injections, buy medicine, take supplements, and all kinds of tosses. Yu Yue is also a person who is afraid of trouble, and she is even more afraid of people complaining endlessly, how can she be embarrassed to learn to be silent when she comes back after the ghost door is closed? As soon as she thought of the possible consequences, she immediately replied, "It's okay, I'll tell the Academic Affairs Office, try not to schedule the first class in the morning and the third class in the afternoon." “

Li Yonglan smiled on her face, and felt embarrassed, "It's true that when you don't have time, you can say it, it's okay to be so close." “

After going to kindergarten a few more times, Yu Yue found that most of the people who picked up their children from school were elderly. Parents who can pick up their children in person, in addition to teachers by profession, there are only a few full-time housewives left. Young people are working hard outside, and most families are based on intergenerational education, Yu Yue is very glad that her working hours are free and she can take care of her family and children. From this point of view, it is extremely cost-effective to marry a man who is a teacher as a wife. Not only is the wallet happy (the female talent has a low material outlook), but also the children (personally educated), the husband is even happier (there is no entertainment and the mind is simple), and the in-laws are happy (no need to take children).

Liu Jingfang washes and cooks for the children, cooks life, and never talks about hardship, as if everything goes naturally, Yu Yue will accidentally ignore her mother's feelings, and sometimes when she thinks of asking her mother, she is also understated. Qiuqiu said, "Auntie, this is cultivation. On the contrary, every time the mother-in-law does something, she will narrate it in detail from beginning to end, with twists and turns, overcoming obstacles, and thrilling, the result is that Yu Yue only remembers what her mother-in-law did, and ignores everything her mother does, Yu Yue realizes that this is human nature, and crying children have milk to drink. Being a mother is always for the sake of her children, and her mother loves Rong Rong completely out of reducing her daughter's burden and helping her. And my mother-in-law hopes that you will remember your kindness so that you can come back little by little. The traditional concept has long been reversed, but the traditional vices are still there. Many refined egoists say it is a trend when it is good for them, and a tradition when it is not good for them. The mother-in-law is a typical example, when the daughter-in-law needs to save her life, she is an outsider and has nothing to do with herself, and when she is old and sick, she needs someone to support her, so it is a tradition. The mother is too shrewd, Yu Yue can understand everything, and she also understands what kind of psychological characteristics her background will have, but she just wants her to intrigue with her mother all day long, but it is definitely not her ambition, Yu Yue is also an extroverted person, and her ambition is not short in the family, but she doesn't care about anything.

There is a local proverb that Liu Jingfang has been instilled in her daughter since she was a child, "Fineness and pride, mediocre." "It means that whether it is a person with a clear spirit or a kind person, it is the same on the balance bar of God, and you will never give more blessings because you are shrewd, and Mu Ne deserves to be unlucky. Life is full of ups and downs, gains and losses for anyone. Yu Yue would comfort herself with this every time she was depressed, and sometimes she would be a little idle, asking herself, "Do I always give people a feeling that I am very good at talking, bullying, and fooling? Could it be that I was the reincarnation of a pontoon bridge in my previous life, and I always crossed the river to tear it down when I was done using it?" After some introspection, I thanked for the pure days now. How about living well, what about living badly, no one is so free to care about you, and you don't need to pay too much attention to other people's lives, it's good to live like that.

A few years ago, Shi Yuanyang asked Yu Yue to help his cousin guarantee to buy a house, Yu Yue went to sign it, hey, people have to have some use value for people when they are alive, there is no risk in guaranteeing to buy a house, if something goes wrong, buy it yourself, it doesn't matter. It's not who I am, it's who I am. In such a system, having a unit means: "You can always be useful to people".

Self-education is important, it is a process of reinventing oneself and becoming self-conscious. Living and understanding yourself is the premise of running your own family well. If we ourselves live in a muddle and do not have a clear mind, then our children will be affected by us. If our situation is the opposite, our little ones will benefit from it. Live and understand yourself, take care of God's children! Yu Yue is deeply grateful for the disaster caused by this serious illness, she will no longer be the kind of little girl who can't stand the slightest grievance, and plays tricks around her parents when she has nothing to do. This process is full of suffering, but it is extremely exciting, she sees more and more powerful herself, more and more powerful heart!