493, crying and laughing youth

With the arrival of Xiaoyu's adolescence, Shandan is also actively adjusting her mentality, and she even thinks of her state when she was an adolescent.

At that time, Shandan Junior High School lived in the township middle school, and the food and lodging were so poor that they could not solve the problem of food and clothing, and they had to go home for three days in two weeks, which was three days to go home, and they were also inexplicably unhappy in this way, as long as they were unhappy, they didn't want to pay attention to people, and even sometimes they didn't say a word for two consecutive school cycles.

No matter how the mother approached, how she asked, or what she asked, Shandan was silent and silent, and the mother, who had always been a little impatient, had never lost her temper because of Shandan's adolescent rebellion, and she was so careful to deal with the child's temper.

Her mother helped her prepare dry food and wash and mend her clothes.

After Shandan had Xiaoyu, he deeply realized what it means to "lick the calf deeply", and the psychology of "reluctance" to be wronged by children can only be found after becoming parents. Only then did she understand her mother's forbearance, that is, she didn't want the child to go home once in ten days, and the child was unhappy.

Now, her children have also entered puberty, compared to her adolescence, Xiaoyu is a very slight rebellion, she often compares her heart to her heart, looking back at her own time, and her heart is grateful to her mother who can't read a basket of big words. If it were him, he might have blown up a long time ago. She also knows that adolescence is a bit of inexplicable emotions, unexplained anger, unhappiness, sadness, etc., and she doesn't want to listen to parents and teachers, but she doesn't have a clear understanding of it......

At this time, children can no longer listen to the principles of parents and teachers, and they have their own ideas, although these ideas are still naïve and unformed; They are no longer obedient to the words of their elders, and the hormones in their bodies are also undergoing earth-shaking changes, and they are gradually growing from an ignorant teenager to an adult.

How to survive adolescence safely and healthily is the key to whether a person's future three views are healthy, so Shandan feels a great responsibility, and she overcomes all her own difficulties while quietly accompanying her child and accompanying her to grow up.

She minimizes missionary teachings, minimizes involuntary nagging, and spends all possible time with her.

Xiaoyu is a child who doesn't like to cry, I remember accidentally knocking and touching when I was a child, Xiaoyu is flat mouth and passed, sometimes I have to be encouraged by my mother to "feel wronged, unhappy to cry for a while", Xiaoyu will climb on her mother's shoulder and cry, cry for a while, she will turn back to her mother and say, "Mom, I'm fine, don't be wronged." Then it's time to play with joy.

After puberty, I shed tears at every turn, and I liked to cry.

One day at noon, Xiaoyu called Shandan: "Mom, woo woo...... Mom...... Woowoo woo ......"

Shandan hurriedly asked, "What's the matter, Xiaoyu?" What happened to you? ”

"My clothes were soiled by a classmate. Woo woo woo -" Xiao Yu cried aggrievedly.

"Huh? How did it get dirty? Are you hurt? Shandan asked, with some concern.

"No, woo-woo-" Xiaoyu cried heartbroken.

"Then I'll go see you now and get you a clean dress? Are the pants dirty? Shandan asked eagerly.

"Oh, the pants aren't dirty......" is used: Xiaoyu slowly grew from a female man to a soft girl.

Shandan hurriedly asked the driver class for a car, rushed home to get his clothes, and then rushed to the teacher's dormitory where Xiaoyu lived in the school.

Xiaoyu's junior high school does not have a dormitory, so Shandan arranged for the child to take a lunch break in the staff dormitory where the school teachers stayed, and 15o yuan a month is not expensive. There are 8 people in a room, bunk beds, although the living environment is poor, but compared with the accommodation conditions of Shandan junior high school, it is more than a thousand times better.

Shandan hurriedly found Xiaoyu's dormitory on the 7th floor, panting. knocked on the door and went in, and saw Xiaoyu's crying face, but her mood seemed to be stable, she was half naked and hid in the quilt, and she actually showed a smile when she saw her mother coming.

"Come, put your clothes on, don't you have a T-shirt pajamas? How not to get dressed? Shandan asked.

"Too lazy to change." Xiaoyu grimaced.

"This kid! What the hell is going on? I was crying just now, and I was scared enough! It's raining again and it's sunny again? Shandan laughed.

"It's just that there is a boy who is crazy, and he scares people everywhere with a mop, and he scares several people, and dirties people's clothes, it's so annoying!" The girl in Xiaoyu's bunk said.

"Oh, it doesn't matter, boys are just naughty, I thought you were fighting with others, and you beat you with a mop and crying like that, it scared me to death!" Shandan patted his chest exaggeratedly.

"Mom, you're so funny! Hahaha! Xiaoyu actually laughed.

"Alas! You're funny, and you scare me with a big fart. Fast! Put your clothes on and it's time to go to bed. Shandan said with a smile.

"But, but...... He just slammed me, how dirty do you see the clothes? Xiao Yu handed over the dirty clothes with some grievances.

"Oh? It's just that dirty! I'll talk to your homeroom teacher and academic office, or the principal, and ask what this kid wants. It's easy to say that you get someone's clothes dirty, but what if it hurts someone? Shandan dressed up angry.

"No need, Mom, he's just crazy, I'll just stay away from him in the future." Xiaoyu is worried that her mother will make things bigger.

"Oh? Are you still wronged? If you want to be wronged, your mother can't forgive him, so you have to find his parents to reason and find a school to deal with this matter. Shandan said seriously.

"Oh, it's okay, I just felt wronged, but now I'm not wronged, Mom, you can go back to work." A child is a child, and Xiaoyu is a Ma Daha character, and she doesn't hold grudges.

The other children didn't dare to say much when they saw Shandan's serious attitude.

"Then if you say you won't pursue it, we won't pursue it, and the next time you see him, you will hide away." Shandan said.

"Well, okay, Mom, you can go back to work." Xiaoyu urged.

Shandan took out a wet tissue and handed it to Xiaoyu: "Come, crying like a little cat, don't you wash your face?" Come, wipe your face. Then he turned and walked away.

As soon as Shandan went out, several girls exploded:

"Wow! Your mother is so young and beautiful! One said.

"Wow! Your mom is so nice to you! Another said.

"Your mother is amazing! How dare you go to the Academic Affairs Office and the Principal? Admiring tone.

In the praise of everyone, Xiaoyu's vanity was greatly satisfied, and she fell asleep with peace of mind. 8