One, two, four, accumulated pain

After Shandan's work was implemented, she and her children's hukou were still in their hometown, and the unit asked Shandan's hukou to be transferred to Yongcheng as much as possible.

So, she discussed with Gu Haiping and transferred her household registration to the lot of Gu Haiping's unit.

Gu Haiping went back with a phone call, and Mr. Gu moved out of the hukou, but Gu Haiping had not yet coordinated with the unit to implement the problem.

The time for moving out of the household registration and settling down was one month, but the clerks in Gu Haiping's unit were not familiar with the procedures, so they had not implemented it for a long time.

urged Gu Haiping to find someone to handle it, but the relationship was still not straightened out, and it was originally arranged that the work must be implemented, which was a matter of course, but Gu Haiping did not complete this matter.

One day, Gu Haiping went home with a black face, sitting on the sofa sulking angrily. Shandan asked: What's wrong?

Gu Haiping roared: "It's not a question of settling down for you?! Go to that bullshit public security chief's house and look at people's faces!"

It turned out that one of Gu Haiping's patients said that he had a friendship with the director of the public security bureau, and volunteered to take Gu Haiping to visit him on the issue of shandan settlement, but Gu Haiping, who was empty-handed, was snubbed, so he was very angry when he went home.

Shandan said: "My work transfer is arranged by your unit, and the household registration must also be implemented by your unit, is it inappropriate for you to go to the public security chief's house by yourself?"

Gu Haiping stood up angrily, raised his foot and almost kicked the coffee table over, and the floor leather on the ground was scraped with a big hole.

When Shandan saw Gu Haiping's irritability, her heart suddenly became cold. Gu Haiping, who has always been gentle and elegant, encountered something like this?

She didn't say anything more, and the next day when she went to work, Shandan found the leader of her unit to come forward, and the secretary general took Shandan to directly find Gu Haiping's unit to negotiate on the implementation of Shandan household registration. Very happy - that afternoon, Shandan and Xiaoyu's accounts were in place.

Shandan has a lot of feelings about this matter, one is Gu Haiping's ability to deal with problems, and the other is Gu Haiping's attitude. The hukou has long been moved out and not implemented, and it has been delayed until it is about to expire before Shandan urges to find a way, and the things that were originally smooth and smooth were extremely complicated, and they were wronged and went home to be angry? It seems that it is the drag and fault of Shandan and the child.

It seems that the phrase "useless is a scholar" really makes sense.

Perhaps it was Shandan's repeated forbearance that indulged Gu Haiping's impatience, he was unwilling and would not think of a way to do things that were not difficult to do, and he also felt that he had to be involved.

Another time, it was a hot summer day, on the way home from work on Friday, a half-sized man from Xinjiang had been quietly following Shandan, opening Shandan's cross-body bag and preparing to steal, when he arrived at an intersection, Shandan stopped and waited for the red light to notice that something was wrong, and saw that the thief was pulling her backpack.

She pulled her bag back with all her might, and the thief found that he was exposed, so he began to snatch it frantically, tearing it up and snatching it from his wallet.

There are 300 yuan and a medical card in the wallet, and the loss is not too heavy. But Shandan was frightened by the thief's hideous face and actions, so she borrowed someone's phone and hurriedly called Gu Haiping.

Gu Haiping received a call and arrived at the scene after a while. When he saw the frightened Shandan, he didn't greet Shandan's safety, but said, "What's the matter? Why was the bag robbed?" with an expression of complaint and reproach.

Shandan was disappointed, what she needed now was comfort.

"The thief has already run into the park from here, and I saw that he has a few companions, and the money is not much, only 300 yuan, but the medical card is still in it. Shall we look and see if we can find the wallets they left behind?" Shandan did not express any dissatisfaction, and discussed with Gu Haiping.

"It's been snatched, can you still find it? Okay, let's go. Gu Haiping still looked unhappy.

The two looked for a while, but Shandan was not in the mood to look for it again, so they both went home silently.

The impact of this incident on Shandan is also there, and men - don't they come forward when a woman is vulnerable, hurt, and in need of protection?

The usual housework, pots and pans, and sesame mung beans are all handled by Shandan himself, and it is this virtue when he encounters a little big thing, which makes Shandan a little disappointed.

Where did his love for her go? He said that he would take care of her and love her for the rest of his life! It was not Shandan's fault that such a thing happened, it was not what she was willing to happen, and he had such an attitude?

The two didn't say a word when they got home, Shandan prepared dinner, the family finished eating silently, Shandan did his own housework, and Gu Haiping entered the study to do his own thing.

The next day, Shandan called Mao Dan'er about this matter, and the first thing Mao Dan'er said after hearing it was: "Sister, you're not injured, are you?"

This sentence made Shandan feel extremely warm!

Mao Dan'er also said: "Sister, you remember that if you encounter such a thing in the future, you must let go and don't fight with the thief, and you must ensure that you are not injured." It doesn't matter if you lose your money, you can't hurt anyone! Some thieves are outlaws, you must not rob him, remember!"

This is a real relative!

It turned out that their love was not worth a little affection! It was so vulnerable! What could she ask for? She became more and more disappointed.

Eating a little bit in the canteen of the unit at noon, Shandan lay on the bed and couldn't sleep thinking about the bits and pieces of her and Gu Haiping's acquaintance, they used to care so much about each other's feelings, they liked each other so much, what went wrong now, so that their hearts could no longer be together?

What made his heart wander? Is it just **? Is it the triviality of married life and the concrete destruction of their love? But if the two love for a long time, what is the point of a little bit of tediousness in life? Besides, all the trivial things in the family are done by Shandan.

The child's daily growth is recorded in his busy life, she always brings surprise and happiness to her parents, Gu Haiping should not have too much pressure on the specific burden. So what makes their love no longer succumb?

Perhaps, life is like this, there are constant ups and downs!

While Shandan was thinking, there was a soft knock on the door.

She got up and asked softly, "Which one?"

"It's me. Gu Haiping's voice came from outside the door.

Shandan leaned against the door. Tears gushed out like a torrent of broken gates. She didn't open the door, and let the tears flow, for him—she shed too many tears!

How could he bear her grief over such frivolous things, and what had he brought her?

"Open the door, I'll explain to you, okay? Gu Haiping prayed in a low voice outside the door.

She opened the door with trembling hands, Gu Haiping took Shandan tightly into his arms when he entered the door, and whispered in her ear: "I'm sorry! It's me who is not good! I can't worry about you, so I ran away." Actually, nothing, don't think about it, nothing really happened! You think about how I could be like that?"

"Nothing, then why don't you show me your chat history? Why are you panicking?" the words went through Shandan's mind countless times, but she never spoke.

She knew that she couldn't do without this man in her life! She couldn't let go of him, and she couldn't let go of this emotion, all her hopes, and all her ideals.

No matter what happened or not, she had only tolerance. Because she has no choice, she has long been a slave to life and feelings!

Think about the day when she was living for herself after all those years?

Shandan broke free from Gu Haiping's embrace and sat at the desk crying silently, no one could understand the sadness and grievances in her heart, and no one would feel it.

The disappointment of the bleak future, the disappointment of the emotional strife, this qiē has knocked her down and thrown her deep into the deep valley of sorrow.

But what can she do? In addition to tolerance and acceptance? Is it true that she leaves alone? She didn't think about leaving, such thoughts have flooded her mind countless times, but Xiaoyu's healthy growth is more important than anything else.

If Gu Haiping is unreliable, then is there still pure feelings in this world? She didn't dare to have any extravagant hopes.

Gu Haiping stood behind him and looked helpless, putting his hand on Shandan's shoulder to try to comfort her, but Shandan turned sideways to get rid of Gu Haiping's comfort, leaving him with a stubborn and stiff spine. She was a little disgusted with Gu Haiping like this, how could he break her heart? Even if the whole world failed her, he shouldn't let her down!

He is her sun and her sky!

Before they got married, they had an agreement that if one partner had a relationship with each other, the other could choose to leave at any time.

But now, she insists on giving birth to Xiaoyu, which has become a bond that she can't let go of in her life. She can sacrifice her life, but she must not lose her child's life! No matter what she faces, she should first be a good mother, a good mother.