Chapter Ninety-Three: The Lanterns Hung High in Front of the Door and His Son Returned Home (2)

Therefore, although it is not appropriate to compare your wife to wealth, to be honest, she is your real wealth and real interests. Therefore, there is a saying that wives and concubines are in groups and prosperous families.

As far as men are concerned, when your wealth is rolling in and the prosperity of wealth is unstoppable, your lover's little wife is also easy to come by, and it is also the time when your partial wealth is dying. But when the weak shadow is lonely, the north wind blows through the cold house, and the clothes are shivered by the thin people, don't talk about lovers, even your wife can't understand it. This wife is really going to sleep in someone else's bed, and she can't cover it, let alone suppress it. Therefore, if anyone sits in the sun, injure, kills, or robs, the relationship between husband and wife is very prone to problems, and guidance is the best way. Ancient China was completely suppressed and closed, so ancient China was full of sorrow, and the peacock flew southeast and turned into a butterfly to sleep. These are the tragic stories of the ancient Chinese, and now we should thank the new society and new system for giving people a sense of freedom.

This life is right and wrong, and it may be difficult. Therefore, you young people should cherish every day in front of you. People have good and bad luck, why should they have a thousand thoughts? Don't think about it so much, just live each day to the fullest. The widow said, looked at Chen Xue and said, "Your family has been red and white recently, you should be careful." ”

"What? What do you say, auntie? Chen Hong didn't wait for Chen Xue to speak, and asked first.

"Laifu milk, something is wrong with our family? What's the matter? Chen Xue asked in surprise.

The widow saw that the servants were no longer noisy, and did not answer the cause and effect, and spoke slowly and softly about numerology: "Then I will talk about it in the afternoon." Learning the eight characters is to learn the truth of life, why should the moon order be the first to discuss? A unit needs a leader, an army needs a commander, and the monthly order is the leader of a unit. If an army fights a good war or does not fight well, the commander is the key. Similarly, if there is a problem with an eight-character monthly order, then there is something wrong with this horoscope.

This is also the reason why the monthly order can only be protected and not suppressed. It's like a unit, where everyone elects a good leader. A good leader, when he is energetically leading everyone to work hard and do their careers, and you suppress him with a blow to the head, can the work of this unit be done well? Similarly, if an army is fighting, and the commander is leading the soldiers to charge, and you withdraw your troops at this time, can the battle be won? In the same way, the eight-character Zhongyue Order is the commander of the prime minister's overall destiny, and this commander can only protect and add his strength. and cannot directly suppress or restrain his power. This is the reason that the monthly order outline is only born and not suppressed, but it cannot be unrestricted without supervision, and the checks and balances are a kind of supervision mechanism.

For example, if a horoscope takes the official star as the outline of the monthly order, then it is the star of wealth that gives birth to him, and the one who gives birth to the star of wealth is the food of injury, that is to say, the food of injury is the source of the star of prosperity, and the food of injury is the god of restraint of the official star. Then this injury and food is the mechanism of supervising the official star, and it is the mechanism that restricts the unlimited charge of the official star, which is the method of using the god for the auspicious position in the blind hexagram, and it is also the reason why the official star is avoiding eating injuries and taking food injuries as the use of gods. Because the official star uses the wealth star to prosper. Hurt food is the source of wealth. If a horoscope has an official as the prime minister's outline, then it is necessary to find strong support in the horoscope, and this support comes from the star of wealth, if the official star of this horoscope is prominent. But the wealth star is weak, and there is no food and damage to the wealth source to control the arrogant momentum of the official star, so this fate is not a good fate. Although it was the official star who led the outline, it could not be inferred from the official appearance.

Back to life, if an entrepreneur leads an enterprise with neither capital nor resources, then even if the entrepreneur is extraordinary, he will not be able to do a good job in the enterprise, and the enterprise will not have the power for long-term development, and no matter how capable the leader is, he will not be able to do the enterprise well.

From these truths, we can see that when deducing numerology, we cannot look for jealous gods without scruples. The search for jealousy of God is just a fabricated idealistic idea. As far as the eight characters are concerned, the theory of support and suppression is unscientific, but it is only the imaginary theory of the ancients, which comes from the golden mean in Confucianism, which believes that where the vigorous should be suppressed, and where the weak should be supported and supplemented. There must be a way, there must be a way to support, you can't press when you see prosperity, and you can help when you see weakness.

So, let's follow this line of thought to analyze the theory of the suppression of the eight characters, and as mentioned above, we set up a person who is in charge of the natal chart with an official star. Take the Japanese lord Jiamu as an example, the one who kills me is the official killing, then the one who kills the Jiamu Gengxinjin, the Jiasheng July is the seven-kill pattern, and the Jiasheng August is the official pattern. If you use the theory of suppression, this official star is vigorous, then you have to suppress it, what to suppress? Only fire can restrain Shen Xinjin, and if we don't take the fortune star for the sake of the gods and directly take the food injury, then this horoscope must be a sick horoscope. Most people with this kind of fate are in prison, and Bo Xilai is this kind of fate. The reason for the problems of people with this kind of natal chart is very simple, when the official star is in charge of the destiny bureau, this person has leadership skills, the official star has a strong will for self-restraint, there is motivation when there is pressure, there is a sense of responsibility for motivation, and a sense of responsibility can be responsible for people and lead everyone. What is needed in this situation is the diligence and conscientiousness of the wealth star, rather than the arrogance of hurting food, being active and thinking, and being willful. People with this kind of fate are often prone to great success in life, go their own way, lack a cautious attitude, and a diligent spirit, and problems will arise sooner or later. It can be seen how absurd the theory of restraint is.

Let's deduce the help again and see how the support envisioned by the suppression theorists is used for the weak ten gods. Still take Jiasheng Youyue as an example, Jiasheng Youyue, Xin Jinwang, that is, Guan Wang, deduce with the five elements of the four seasons of prosperity and imprisonment, then this kind of fate is Guan Wang, Yin Xiang, Cai Xiu, wounded prisoners, and death. Now we use the method of suppression and support to set up, to help is to help the weak, and who is the weak in this natal chart? Of course, it is a tribulation, and it is naturally the weakest of the ten gods who are in the place of death, so what we have to do next is to help the tribulation, what can help the tribulation? Of course, it's water, that is, it's sealed, because it's the mother of calamity. Let's take a look at what this horoscope will look like if it is supported by the method of support and suppression.

When the seal in the horoscope is taken as a god, what does the seal represent? The ribbon is a symbol of power, fame, property, laziness, and thought. Bizai is selfish, stubborn, greedy. Divide, a symbol of brothers and sisters. A person who rules the natal chart with official stars, responsibility, fairness, and diligence are his nature, and if this kind of person only values power and reputation, he thinks a lot and thinks too lazy, and then strengthens his selfishness. Greedy, stubborn. So what kind of leader will this official be? It goes without saying that this is a greedy and lazy person who likes to fight for power and profit, can this kind of person be a qualified leader? Is there a future for such people? Self-explanatory.

Learning the eight characters to draw inferences from one another and carefully scrutinize the truth, Chen Xu ugly is not the time of the four seasons, the original gas is the soil, and the same is the land of the four libraries, and the power of the miscellaneous gas is very large. The soil in winter is a storehouse of gold, and the water in the soil in winter is also very strong. In winter, the cold wind blows bitingly, and the road is icy and pedestrians return, so the water is also very strong.

It is not the dry soil of summer, but the storage place of wood. At the same time, the fire in summer is also very strong, and the swallow's nest in front of the hall is empty on hot and dry days in summer. That's why the sun is scorching and the fire is blazing in summer.

The soil of Tatsu is the spring of time, and it is the place where the water is stored. At the same time, the wood in the soil in spring is also very prosperous, and the spring breeze blows drunk in March, and the grass and trees are sunny. So the wood of March is teething. It is green, and the wood is very strong.

戌 in September, the essence of the earth, the tomb of fire, at the same time the autumn gold is also very prosperous, the golden autumn September fire soil storage. September is the harvest season, and gold is naturally very vigorous.

It can be said that being born in Chenxu Chou is not the eight characters of the four seasons of the earth and the moon, and the three aircurrents in the outline of the moon are very strong and strong. It can also be understood in this way, a person born in Chenxu Chouwei is a person who is a four-season earth moon, and there are three commanders sitting in a headquarters in the moon branch. The three commanders are very strong, taking turns on duty, sitting in the bank. Therefore, when deducing the people who are not born in the four seasons of the earth and the moon, we cannot look at the moon branch of the soil alone, and the people born in the four seasons of the moon coexist in the three gases, which are complex and changeable, and the people born in the same four seasons are also complex and changeable. In practice, people born in the four seasons are also diverse, and they are subject to the influence of other gods and demons in the eight characters, resulting in diverse personalities.

The moon of the four middle moons of the meridian is single and not complicated, so most of the people born in the four middle moons are simple-minded, strong-willed, and do not have so many complex emotions, and the emotional world is not greatly affected by the outside world.

Yin Shen Sihai is the first month of a season, also known as the land of Simeng, which contains the post horse of the god of Lu. Therefore, most of the people born in the month of Yin Shen Sihai are born in the Quaker, and the original qi is very heavy, supplemented by miscellaneous qi.

We know that the wealth star in the eight characters represents the father, the official killing represents the son, and the seal ribbon represents the mother. We know that the star of wealth is the one who gives birth to the official, and the official is the one who gives birth to the seal, and the wealth is the one who regulates the seal. Put their relationship into life and understand it, and you will know why numerology is so fascinating. The children of the male life in the eight characters are the official killing star, and the children of the wealth star are sincerely born to the Yin star, what are the children in life? Children are the debt of the father, but the mother is not the debt of the children, and the children will be very comfortable when they see that the mother is idle, but if the father is idle and leisurely, then the children will feel very uncomfortable when they see it. Why is this happening? If you understand the eight characters, you will understand why the father has been paying for his children, but he can't get the understanding of his children. However, when the mother is idle, the children are very comfortable when they see it, and they provide for their mother with peace of mind, but they ask a lot of from their father. Why? Because as long as there is a fortune chart official star prosperous elephant, there must be an active vitality of the wealth star to help the prosperity of the official star, and the star is idle is not the best, the more idle the better, this is the eight-character official star freezer Caixing is the use of God, the star is the truth of the idle god.

In a family, when parents and children live together, the father is the most active, the busiest, and the most able to make money, while the mother is idle, just doing housework and not participating in anything, then the family is basically happy, stable, and orderly. The children's thirst for wealth is endless, and the star of wealth has worked hard until death all his life, if he has been in a state of dedication to his children, in this case, the children will be at ease, and the star of wealth as a father will also fulfill his own responsibility. Children will never think that the father earns more money, and the money you earn back is never enough for your children to enjoy, and the more the better, the more wealth, the more vigorous the official killing star will be the strongest, and the more dazzling the children's star will be. And for the mother of the silk ribbon, the psychology of the children is not like the view of the star of wealth, the mother can live at home as leisurely as possible, the children see the mother is more leisurely, the better it is to support the mother, the child is the duty of the child, the child is at ease to support the mother, see the mother is safe and happy, the child will have a sense of achievement, the more the official star shines, the more beautiful the ribbon is raised. Therefore, the more accomplished bureaucrats throughout the ages, the more affectionate they have for their mothers, the reason is because the official stars give birth to prosperous and ribbon stars, and the children support their mothers and dedicate themselves to their mothers without complaints, but if you let your children support their fathers in turn, the children's hearts will be very uncomfortable. Especially for people who have a prominent official star in the eight characters, and look at the eight characters where the official star is weak or even not obvious, this person is generally not filial and has no fear of his mother.

What is the reason? The reason is because Caixing is born and prosperous, and Caixing dedicates his life to death, and his children will accept it with a smile, and they will not have the feeling of not going. But when the mother is running around and working hard, the children will feel guilty, and they will always feel that it is their own incompetence and a sin to make the mother hard. On the other hand, if the wealth star is weak and cannot give birth to the official star, how can the official star take care of himself when he can't take care of himself? Naturally, there is no filial piety.

From this, it is not difficult for you to understand that if the official star is in charge of the life bureau, there must be an active strong and powerful wealth star to help him prosper, and the leisure and comfort of Yin Xing on the side is the best life chart.

Throughout the ages, the reason why the same fate is different is that it is very influenced by the six parents, and the father and mother are important factors that directly affect the children from early childhood. In the prime of life, the influence of his wife is greater, that is, the influence of the wealth star in the eight characters is very important, and the wealth star affects the advancement of the official star and the honor and disgrace of the official star. But behind a successful man there must be an active, energetic, hard-working and kind-hearted woman who is a good housekeeper. Of course, this successful person will also have a mother who understands the general situation, takes the overall situation into account, is wise and reasonable, and has high moral character. Wife Cai is a busy god who takes care of household chores. Yinmu is an idle god who presides over household chores. Only in this way can an official with outstanding merits, impartiality and avoidance of deviation, and high morality be born.

This is the reason why the eight characters command the overall situation with the official star, must take the star of wealth as the god of use, balance the official star with injury and food, and take the seal ribbon as the god of leisure and benefit.

Just look at the eight characters of successful people in the past to see why this is the case.

The eight characters come from life, and they are run in restraint. At this point, the gentleman glanced at the crowd and said, "It's time to rest, and I'll talk about it tomorrow." Then he got up and went back to the back room.

"Grandma, what's going on with Grandma's family?" Chen Xue looked at the back of Laifu Milk and asked.

"You'll find out in a few days." The widow left a word and went into the back room to rest.

Ermao and a few people stood up with their ears down, and they didn't hear a word from the back room for a long time, so they chatted for a while, and they also went to rest.

Precisely:

Colorful lights hang high in front of the door,

The son returned home.

Sitting on the high hall is the old mother,

My father is running around the world. (To be continued......)