Chapter Ninety-Three: The lanterns in front of the door were hung high, and his son returned home

Keep the outline of the monthly order steady,

The ugliness of Chenxu is not clearly distinguished.

Such as a number of heads through the hiding place,

It is the leader of the outline.

In the evening, Chen Hong, Chen Xue, and Sanni came early. The three women are in one play, chattering non-stop. The east and west families are short of the family affairs of the people in the village.

"Xinghua has a letter." Sanni suddenly interjected a sentence and stunned all the people in the room.

Fan Ermao squinted at Sanni with two eyes in his heart, and he was impatient like a cat scratching in his heart, but what about Sanni's next words.

"Xinghua sent me a letter the day before yesterday, saying that they have settled in the city and are ready to buy a house. Listen, look at the apricot blossoms of other people, look at the sparse miles on weekdays, but do things without ambiguity, say that when you enter the city, you will enter the city, and you are ready to buy a house, see... "Sanni said with a pout, making a very envious look.

"You can go if you want, and no one will stop you." Chen Hong said angrily that she didn't want to hear about Xinghua.

"You slut, take gunpowder. It is said that other people's people have the most ghosts in their hearts, and you look forward to entering the city every day, but unfortunately your black-faced man won't take you there. Sanni is an elder, and she doesn't leave a back door when she speaks, and she slammed Chen Hong out of the door with a word, choking Chen Hong didn't say anything for a long time.

"This can't be said to death, maybe one day my uncle will take my aunt to the city to enjoy the blessings." Chen Xue didn't speak for a long time, and at the critical moment, he answered a sentence and gave Chen Hong a step down.

"It's a pro-three-point direction, breaking bones and tendons. As long as you two are relatives, you are all my way people on weekdays, and when you see your aunt, you will face her, are you still sisters? Sanni said to Chen Xue, pouting.

"Three women in one play. As he spoke, he began to fight. If you want me to say, except for Sanni, you two will stay in the village, and both of you girls will go to the city for a few years. Fight for which door's mouth. Stop fighting. Listen to me. The widow interjected, and the scene eased as soon as she said this. The three women craned their necks to look at the widow, their eyes full of doubt.

"Really? Auntie, in a few years will I be able to get out of this village? Chen Hong asked impatiently.

"Yes! Tomorrow your black-faced man will come back to pick you up. Look at Laifu's sister-in-law who said that she could go to the city, as if the anxious dog couldn't cross the river. Sanni scolded Chen Hong with a smile.

"Of course you're not in a hurry. My aunt said, as long as you stay in the village, it's useless for you to be in a hurry. Chen Hong said angrily, glanced at Sanni, turned her face and asked, "Auntie, don't bother with her." When do you think I'll be able to move out? ”

"Huh." The widow looked at Chen Hong and said with a smile: "Don't panic, don't worry, it's five years away, it's three years, and you'll move out." Southwest. ”

"Okay, okay." Chen Hongmei laughed with a flutter, "It seems to be true, even the direction has been said." After that, he lowered his head and pondered for a while, raised his head and said with a smile: "I know where it is, the county seat, and the southwest is the county seat." If you can go to the county seat, you can do it. It's finally time to be free. After that, he turned his face to look at Sanni and said with a smile: "It seems that my black-faced goods are still quite capable, better than your thin man." ”

"Strong, strong, strong! The ability to make people is also strong. Why don't you stab you to death. ”

"This woman is crazy, she will be stained with me tonight, what's wrong? Want to have a fight? ”

"Don't say it, don't say it. You don't make any noise. Either listen to me give Ermao a lecture, or you all go back to your own home. ”

"Sister-in-law, don't care. I'm like this, I make trouble every day, it's okay to make trouble, you give a lecture, let's sit here and listen, understand and don't understand, it's better than going back and counting the stars. Sanni said, and Chen Hong slanted a glance, and was speechless.

"That's good, what's the point of being noisy? Man! It's a day to be good, and it's a day to be bad. Why don't you live every day meaningfully? People live not only for themselves, but also for their loved ones. The meaning of life lies in what I have done for the people around me today. Can I do the best I can, within the limits of my ability? For example, honoring in-laws, many women don't know why they should honor their in-laws, in fact, there is a very simple truth, which can be clearly answered through the dialectical method of eight-character numerology.

In terms of the position of the in-laws of the female life in the six relatives of the eight characters, the daughter-in-law and the in-laws are opposites, because when the daughter of the eight characters of the female life is the daughter, the mother is the positive seal, and the father is partial to wealth. When she became an adult, she was married by a man as a daughter-in-law and became a man's wife.

In the eight characters and six relatives, the wife's mother-in-law is partial to wealth, and her father-in-law is a robber. Think about it, when a woman enters her mother-in-law's house, her status has changed, from the original daughter to the daughter-in-law of her in-laws' family, and naturally the relationship between the six relatives will also change.

You think about it again, it sounds a little messy, let's straighten out this relationship, simply put, the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law is represented by partial wealth among the eight characters and six relatives, and the father-in-law is robbing money. If you understand their relationship, you will understand why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along.

In the eight characters, wealth is the opposite of my restraint, and the daughter-in-law is the relationship between the mother-in-law.

We know that the mother-in-law is partial to wealth among the daughter-in-law's six relatives, so what is the son's mother among the six relatives? It is a positive seal. It is printed in the male hit is the mother.

When a man and a woman are united, a woman with the same mother has two identities. This woman is not only the positive seal of her son, but also the partial wealth of her daughter-in-law, this is the identity of a woman who becomes a mother-in-law. This mother-in-law is still the role of Zhengyin in front of her son, but when she comes to her daughter-in-law, she becomes a partial wealth.

Through the nature of the ten gods, you can understand why there is such a complex social relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

What is Zhengyin? Zhengyin is reputation, power, seal, house, and at the same time, Zhengyin represents enjoyment and laziness.

What is partial wealth? Partial wealth is great wealth, windfall, and wealth of all people, and at the same time represents wealth and diligence.

Through the nature of the ten gods, it is not difficult for you to understand that this mother-in-law is not good, this identity has two sides, in front of the son is the son's reputation, the house, the son's responsibility is to worship the mother to enjoy life, it doesn't matter if you are lazy, the capable son is to love to see his mother live a happy life. But the daughter-in-law is different, and the mother-in-law is partial to wealth in the daughter-in-law's life. What is the use of partial wealth, it is a machine for hard work to get rich, and the nature of partial wealth is to work hard and diligently to earn wealth.

The mother-in-law is a money-making machine in the life of her daughter-in-law, but she is a happy idler in the life of her son. This diligent and idle role makes a woman who has become a mother-in-law how to transform, so you will see that all the women in the world who are successful in the duty of being a good mother-in-law are not only an elder with dignity and reputation, but also a hard-working and versatile woman. is not only a loving mother who sits firmly in an idle high hall, but also a woman who is strict and housekeeping. Because the woman who is the mother-in-law is the machine that the daughter-in-law asks for, and the mother-in-law is the source of the son's reputation and house. Diligence and enjoyment are your duties and powers, and it depends on how you transform this identity. A woman who is a mother-in-law wants to successfully fulfill this duty. It's really not so easy to speak, so there are really not many people in society who handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law properly, and I am not a good mother-in-law.

As for the role of the father-in-law, the social phenomenon between the father-in-law and daughter-in-law can also be seen through the positioning of the six relatives of the eight characters. In the eight characters, the father-in-law in the daughter-in-law's fate is positioned as the robbery of wealth in the ten gods, and in the son's eight characters, the six relatives are positioned as partial wealth.

What is robbery? The nature of wealth robbery is the predatory possession of wealth, the accumulation of dispersed wealth, the attack and the domination of wealth, and the robbery of wealth has a selfish psychological tendency to get something for nothing. Robbery is the sister of the six relatives of the male life, and the brother of the six relatives of the female life.

What is partial wealth? As mentioned above, partial wealth is foreign wealth. Earned by hard work. In the four-person family of in-laws and daughters-in-law, he is the son's father and the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law. When transformed into interpersonal relationships and a kind of family strength, the role of partial wealth is the cornerstone of a harmonious and happy family. can rob money, but it is the gangster of this family, and he is a villain. Why do you say this, because the ten gods of robbery determine that this character is a-stirring stick of a family. The father of a son. The daughter-in-law's father-in-law has to earn money to support the family as partial wealth, and he also wants to share the wealth. This duplicity is not something that ordinary people can do well. The son regarded his father as a slave. It is the source of one's own wealth and the machine for one's own money, because partial wealth is what I receive, and I am the one who regulates wealth. The daughter-in-law regards her father-in-law as a brother, and when the brother comes, he either helps or shares something, and he won't leave empty-handed anyway. Therefore, the person who is the father and father-in-law must be a strong and capable person who can abandon selfish distractions. In this way, you can really do the role of a good father and father-in-law, which is not easy to do. How to be a successful father-in-law?

Back to the eight characters, but all the eight characters of a woman's life are printed in the front and the back and are extremely robbed, most of them can be a mother and mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mother-son relationship is handled very properly. On the contrary, if a woman's life is worse than a robbery, and the fortune star is chaotic and there is no powerful official killing star to restrict the life chart, such a mother-in-law is not good. This can directly determine cause and effect, and there is no need to find anything to use God to jealous God. As soon as you start with a full plate of taboos, the more you look for it, the more chaotic it becomes, and you can't naturally deduce the accurate eight-character numerology.

Similarly, if a daughter-in-law's eight characters, partial wealth is printed in the front and is incomparably robbed, it must also be a good daughter-in-law, the reason is very simple, the mother-in-law is strong and the daughter-in-law is blessed, someone presides over the housework and has a spacious and bright house to live in, so she can enjoy it with peace of mind. At the same time, most of the women with this kind of natal chart are hard-working and sensible people, because the rich man is diligent and the seal is in charge.

You must know that a daughter-in-law handles the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just like finding a gold mine, which is inexhaustible, and can earn back a few filial piety money for you after death.

And for a person who is both a father and a father-in-law, if the wealth is in the front and the robbery is in the back, he can also be a father and father-in-law. Because whoever presides over the fate of the fortune star must have injuries, food, comparisons, and robberies to help the wealth star earn money. Because injury and food are the source of wealth, and robbery is the driving force. The nature of partial wealth is to earn money diligently, and the nature of robbing money is to spend money impulsively. What a father and father-in-law do is to earn money and spend money, that is, to earn money diligently and to spend money impulsively without thinking. As long as you do these two things, showing your true colors of being both partial to wealth and robbing money, you will be considered dutiful, and your father-in-law will play the role of your father-in-law.

Don't look at the eight characters and think that it is a fierce god and a god of harm, but anyone who is prosperous with two fortune stars is not afraid of robbery, and the fate of the fortune star in front of the robbery is a very perfect destiny. The two stars of wealth are the cause, and the calamity is for; The two stars of wealth are trees, and the stars of robbery are fruits. The stronger the tree, the more fruit it bears. Therefore, there is no fear of more than after the catastrophe, the more children and grandchildren, the more wealth accumulation, the more prosperous the family, the richer the later the family, the more children and grandchildren are full, the more leafy and branched, and the fruits are fruitful for children and grandchildren.

In the same way, if a woman's fortune star robs the wealth of a woman in the front, the relationship between the father-in-law and daughter-in-law will be handled very well, and the reason is the same.

Look at the eight characters to learn and use, don't copy rigidly. If the official is not afraid of injury, the seven killings are not afraid of food; Positive wealth is not afraid of comparison, partial wealth is not afraid of robbery; Zhengyin is not afraid of partial wealth, and the gods are happy to see positive wealth; is not afraid of officials, robbing wealth and killing. The wounded officer is not afraid of the bias, and the god of food sees Zhengyin as if he sees his mother. Although their relationship is a restraint relationship, if it is said that the same sex is harmful, then the opposite sex is love. Opposite-sex restraint will produce affection, why the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious. Because the opposite sex will produce affection, the more you like it, and the more you deny it, the more you love it.

I smacked my mouth first and then spoke, but in life, if a man is very fierce and beats and scolds his wife and concubine, the less likely it is for the relationship between husband and wife to loosen. I'm not saying here that women are cheap, they like to be beaten and scolded, there is a truth of suppression and suppression. What is a wife to a husband? It's money. Some of the wealth is put on the surface, and some are in the pocket. A wife is money to her husband, and money is a good thing, and everyone loves it, and there is no one who does not like money, whether it is a man or a woman. A man sees your wealth and loves it, and a woman loves it when she sees your wealth. Therefore, the best way to be optimistic about your wealth is to cover it and watch it tightly. Natural suppression is the most powerful method, but excessive suppression can also lead to the phenomenon of financial resources running away.

Therefore, the Chinese like to use the method of suppression to deal with all affairs, and the Chinese do not like to use the method of grooming to solve the problem. For example, the phenomenon of buying and selling children, the reason why there is a phenomenon of buying and selling children in society is that the adoption system is not perfect, and there is a demand for adopting children in society, but there is no perfect and concise adoption system, and black-box operations are no longer inevitable. It's the same with wives, it's always okay to cheat under strong suppression. (To be continued......)