Our birthdays are three months apart, which is actually a good thing, plus the birthdays of the three fat people, plus some festivals on both sides of you and me, I calculated, so that every three days is a festival, well, sometimes there will be two or three festivals a day, you can coordinate, you can coordinate. ”

"That's good. ”

"Today is our induction dinner, cheers everyone, well, this is a newly brewed fruit wine, the taste is okay, not dry, you drink more." ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue said, "You don't want to get me drunk, do you?" ”

Wang He smiled, took a sip hard, and said, "I'll drink first, and I'll get drunk first." ”

He turned his head to the three fat men again and said, "The three fat men eat more meat, you have eaten fried chicken for so many years, it's time to change your taste, follow me in the future, there will be something delicious for you." ”

The three fat men smiled and narrowed their eyes into slits, and said, "I hope my brother and sister will never leave." ”

"Okay, no problem, I won't leave, Mingyue, what about you. ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue knew that what he was asking was whether he would leave the three fat men.

But it seems to be answering, whether he will leave Wang He.

She crossed her feet shyly, but she kicked Wang He fiercely "gently", wanting to exert herself, but she was reluctant to exert herself.

However, the two continued to drink, but they also kept drinking.

The wine is a spicy thing, and it is poured into the esophagus through gritted teeth, like swallowing a knife. The color and taste of red wine are not serious, and it can't stand up to pondering in the mouth. The beer is slightly bitter and slippery, and the masses all reflect that it is like drinking horse urine. Not only is the wine hard to drink, but the sadness is yet to come.

The fragment lasted until noon the next day, restless. Each small bump in the foot magnified in the head, turning into a palpitating pain. You lie down with your head in your hands, and you take a big breath of the overnight fermented wine.

You know this feeling, you simply and crudely summarize it as a headache, and you wear a mask and explain to people passing by that I have a cold. In fact, discomfort has spread all over the body and limbs, I'm embarrassed to say that not only headache, but also stomach twisting, belching, dehydration overnight, weight plummeted three or two pounds, fatigue, everywhere I walked like stepping on cotton.

Completely crushed by alcohol, he was dying in bed. Any sound ray that enters your world is torture, and the signals received are transmitted through the nerves, all converted into an indistinct, dull pain that wraps around the head. Life was hard, every cell was sick.

Wine is just a medium, and what really attracts people is what is internalized into the spiritual level in the mouth. When drunk, the brain is groggy, the consciousness is disordered, and people enter a state of confusion and chaos, and in daily life, people are often required to be awake. The sober state and the drunken state are two very different worlds. Wine is like a key, with which one can freely enter and exit the two worlds. The motivation for entering the world of drunkenness can be positive or negative. The so-called positive, that is, carnival, pleasure, indulgence. We drink a lot of alcohol, and many of them fall into this category. For example, during the New Year's holidays, relatives and friends sit at the same table, everyone clinks glasses, and drinks two sips of wine, which is a celebration; for example, when a person marries a wife, gives birth to a child, and is the champion, he is very happy, and indulges himself in getting drunk once; for example, when he has nothing to do and has no worries, he opens a bottle of wine, sits on the balcony and drinks slowly until he is slightly drunk, which is enjoying life; this kind of drunkenness is going on vacation to a drunken world, and the happiness is over. The so-called negativity refers to forgetting worries and eliminating sorrows through alcohol. Of course, this is not uncommon, falling out of love and drinking two glasses, losing a job for a few bottles, life is not satisfactory in the world, and there are too many things that cannot be unredeemed by manpower for a while. It's uncomfortable to be awake, and you think about sad things all day and all night, so it's better to go and drink, and when you're drunk and dazed, you may be able to forget it. Even if it's "borrowing wine to drown sorrow and sorrow", it doesn't matter. After drinking too much alcohol, the aggrieved emotions accumulate to a breaking point, vomit, the stomach is relieved, and your emotions are also relieved to some extent. Emotions accumulate too much, and there is always a need for a breakthrough to vent. This drunkenness is an escape from prison, from a sober but painful prison of the world.

In fact, from the matter of drinking, you can see the difference between Eastern and Western cultures. As for the word Dionysian spirit, at a glance, it was introduced by the West, and China does not have this thing at all. The so-called Dionysian spirit is free and carnivalescent, it laughs at all the tragedies of life, despises superficial or false optimism, and although it affirms the tragedy of life, it emphasizes the need to transcend it, to confront and transcend fate, so as to affirm and enjoy life. Freedom produces art, so the Dionysian spirit is everywhere in art. Nietzsche's tragic spirit comes from the Dionysian spirit, which is also the characteristic of Nietzsche's philosophy. The Dionysian spirit, which is externalized to the level of life, is the active drunkenness just mentioned, i.e., revelry, pleasure, and indulgence. So there is no carnival and indulgence in China? Nonsense, of course there is. Does China have a Dionysian spirit? At least there is very little in the matter of drinking wine and singing the praises of wine. This can be seen in literature. In the same way, when it comes to drinking, the East uses wine to forget worries and eliminate sorrows, while the Western god of wine creates bliss and carnival. "When Western literature writes about wine, it often celebrates the spirit of Dionysus, talks about life and destiny, and is enterprising and positive. Chinese praise wine, often evasive, world-weary, avoidance of reality, inseparable from the level of personal life, is passive and passive.

Wine is the best regulator since ancient times, there is a saying that "no wine is not a feast", the maintenance of social relations is inseparable from the regulation of liquor, you must drink at the dinner, you should push the glass between each other, and change the glass; During the dinner, the exchange of feelings is completed instantly, and many people drink together to shorten the distance, so drinking can promote the relationship between people. A sentence with deep feelings, a mouthful of stuffy, shallow feelings, lick it!

In ancient times, "how to solve worries, only Du Kang" said, when people encounter unsatisfactory things, they can also drink a little wine alone, anesthetize themselves, and get drunk at that time to relieve their sorrows, after this node, people can calm down and think.

The essence is hierarchical order. Toasting and drinking culture are constantly determining their own identity and position, and the superiors persuade the subordinates to exert their authority. If a subordinate does not drink, it is a challenge to authority, and this disobedience will make the person in the position feel that he has lost his sense of control and feels "faceless". The subordinate toasts to the superior is to confirm their subordinate status, and it is generally necessary to drink two more glasses to reflect that the other party's status is higher than their own, while the superior can return the salute or not. Behavior is not equal. Forcing alcohol has always been only the elders forcing the juniors, the superiors forcing the subordinates, and Party A forcing Party B, the more alcohol drunk, the less power and the lower the status.

The characteristic of wine itself is that it can soften people's rational framework and stimulate people's emotional energy. The accumulation of human rationality is fixed at the level of society as a whole, which is incarnated into identity and hierarchy, that is, all kinds of rules and regulations in social attributes are actually the solidification of human rationality's response to reality, and the distinction of human identity and hierarchy is the result of human rationality. Then alcohol can dissolve these social barriers accordingly, and the degree of dissolution is directly proportional to the alcohol intake, which is directly related to the mode of intake. Therefore, experienced wine insiders can skillfully use alcohol to open the way like an icebreaker to embark on a journey of discovery. If a person in a high position takes the initiative to drink and persuade him to drink, it is a gesture that he is trying to close the distance, and a person in a low position toasts under the pretext of strengthening the status of a person in a high position, but in fact he is reducing the status difference. The meat jokes and political jokes that often appear in the wine party reflect this dissolution of the original rational order. But this kind of dissolution is also skillful, you come and go, nine shallow and one deep, all kinds of temptations and interactions. The response to all kinds of temptation can reflect a person's social experience and sensitivity and control over social barriers, others persuade you not to drink too much is a second force, a drink is a fool, this balance of proportion also depends on the environmental object, it is difficult to master the control, in the eyes of people in the wine bureau is the embodiment of a person's ability. This ability is not only emotional intelligence and intelligence, but also a reflection of social experience, so they find the thrill of exploration and the thrill of finding their limits in this balance. Outsiders don't understand what the meaning of this is? Joke about the body? What a bad taste! Is it a bad taste? From the point of view of lovers, the drinking game is a fighting field, and the fists and kicks that cannot be played normally can be used here, and they can be used here to cheat and cheat, and they can laugh and smile after the fight; this is also a big theater, where joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness are half-truths and half-truths, and the face is wiped and the face is not reconciled when it wakes up. People with too low emotional intelligence like me can't understand it. Then someone asked, people also drank before the dinner! By the way, it is even more obvious to look at it this way, for example, the primitive tribes and ethnic minorities, they have no conditions for five people to open a table with six people, how can they manipulate the wine culture? Then start a dance party and dance! You can get high around the bonfire, the vertical status difference is not obvious, and the horizontal identity difference can also be dissolved, and the guests from afar ask you to stay, and the race will fall! When it comes to dancing, you can end it, and you can also find out the common point of wine culture and dance party from here, and their way of expression is a kind of teasing. Dancing is a moderate flirt between people of the opposite sex, and alcohol can be a moderate flirtation between people of the same sex, especially between men. Let me first summarize my point of view: wine culture is essentially a kind of social interaction that dissolves identity barriers, which includes both vertical status difference and horizontal alienation, and this interactive expression is a kind of mutual teasing. In short, the argument is that wine culture is a kind of integrated flirtatious culture of human beings.

The essence of wine is a hobby, which has contributed greatly to the destruction of traditional societies in Africa and the Americas and the establishment of colonial culture in the globalization of the world. The earliest wine was very precious, because it was necessary to consume food, and it must have been used for sacrifice in Chinese society at the beginning of civilization. However, the Chinese concept of sacrifice is that the sacrificed person enjoys the intangible value of the sacrifice such as taste and color, and after the ceremony, the tangible value can be shared by the people participating in the sacrifice, and the wine can play a communicative role in building a community. Hobbies belong to the kind of cultural markers that are accepted by all classes of society, so different classes have different ways of drinking: the people at the bottom can enjoy low-end liquor and cheap beer in taverns, the middle class can feast on foreign liquor and brew wine in bars in addition to high-end liquor and beer, and the elite sip high-end wines, sky-high brandy, etc. in clubs. Sharing hobbies can quickly form a community consensus, and in layman's terms, "it can quickly get everyone acquainted", and this is exactly the need for government affairs and business communication - "fast and efficient" - people don't need to understand the communication object deeply, anyway, they can start a topic by drinking together, and can continue to have in-depth conversations for the purpose. Then the rules and values that everyone can abide by when drinking together will inevitably become popular - this is the ritual wine culture. I believe that the real purpose of the subject's question is to discover this kind of sake culture. The pace of society is accelerating, so is the emotion between people, and gender communication is also fast and efficient, so there are bars, nightclubs and other places.

There are two kinds of wine culture in ancient China, one is the wine culture between officials, mainly respect, and the other is the drinking culture of the people, the drinking culture of the people is very different from now, almost the opposite, that is, the wine table to find all kinds of excuses to drink, such as the wine order, poetry, the winner can drink a glass, because drinking in the previous society, for ordinary people is equal to the use of luxury, the current drinking culture is formed after the reform and opening up, because just when the reform and opening up, wine is still a luxury, in order to do things, it is normal to take it out and invite people, now how much wine you want, drinking too much and harmful, so people feel unhappyBut this habit came from when I was poor, and I can't help it. It doesn't really have much to do with ancient culture.

We often say that alcohol strengthens a person's courage, not that alcohol makes that person emboldened, but that alcohol intoxicates the guard (rational consciousness) who guards the instinctive self and frees the prisoner who has been eager to escape for a long time. That's why some people behave very differently when they are drunk, a usually honest person may behave in some rough manners, a cowardly and timid person may be a fool, a taciturn person will cling to you and talk endlessly, and some people like to brag and make promises to others after drinking. All manifestations convey nothing more than the transmission of 4 types of needs: sexual instinct, aggression, relational needs, and omnipotence. Because these four themes are the primordial substrate of the human subconscious, from the day of entering civilized society, man has to make himself subtle, because civilization has its definition of what a person should be. When we say that a person is drunk, we can actually think that he is "sober" and can be himself to some extent. There is a certain truth in the character of the wine, from the state of a person after drinking, you can know what he is suppressing in his heart, and what he wants but cannot satisfy in ordinary life.