Chapter 116 - The Law of Change in Conditions 1
"Can you analyze it for me a little bit more?" Thinking of his divorce from Teresa Teng, Niu Tiangou really didn't know where the changes in his and her conditions were, and he really wanted to listen to it.
"Okay."
Uncle Taurus put away the thin book, thought for a while, and said, "Let's talk about the changes in appearance conditions first. After marriage, with the passage of time, people will get older, their appearance will become older, their skin will become rough and wrinkled, in short, they will change from young and beautiful to old and decrepit.
"The advantages of those women who were conditioned on appearance are no longer beautiful, the beautiful are no longer beautiful, and the young are no longer young, so some 'rich women' (or 'beautiful women fishing for golden turtles') type of marriages will have unequal conditions, and those 'preferred' 'wealthy' and 'golden turtles' may empathize with their wives who are no longer beautiful, and they may be indifferent to wives who are no longer young, and they may re-'favor' those younger and more beautiful women who revolve around their 'wealth' and 'gold' all day long, seeking new ** Attachment and physical and mental happiness.
"Although men and women will change and age in appearance, in the 'Lang Cai Girl' type of marriage, those women who are conditioned on their appearance will have nothing when their appearance is aging, and their erotic love is basically over, and aging men have wealth in addition to their appearance, especially those men who prefer appearance and wealth is in the period of gain (the so-called successful men), and when they fall in love with the 'second spring', they will still cling to their old age and decay, Is the wife with a yellow and wrinkled face indifferent to the beautiful young women around her who love money like bees and butterflies? Do they still pay attention to moral character?
"Of course not. If women dare to lust for their wealth, they dare to take away their appearance. Besides, those little goblins wish they could get rid of the 'original partner' as soon as possible.
"Next, they will use their more abundant wealth to 'borrow the equal' of those more tender and delicate women - they and their wives were equal to each other back then, just concocted in the same way.
"As a result, the old 'misplaced and reciprocal' marriages began to break down, and the new 'borrowed reciprocal' marriages began to reorganize, and divorce and remarriage were inevitable.
"This is the impact of appearance changes on marriage and love, and the most affected are of course those women who are 'rich and rich' - women are mostly abandoned for their declining appearance, and they are also good-looking, loss-oriented, happy, and sad."
After a pause, Uncle Taurus continued: "Let's talk about the changes in material conditions. After marriage, people's money, wealth, and family circumstances will change over time, and over time, marriage will of course change with it. ”
"Let's start with the poor men. Many poor men, when they first got married, had poor material conditions, so they could only be in love with them—they had no choice but to choose a woman with a mediocre or ugly appearance to make do, otherwise, they could only be like the one in your village...... Like a cow leper, he will be a bachelor for a lifetime.
"After marriage, with the improvement of economic conditions and the accumulation of wealth and the getting better and better of the family, the women in contact are getting younger and more beautiful, and the 'aesthetic' vision of men who are no longer poor has also improved. After some trouble, divorce and finding a wife became inevitable.
"And then there's the more affluent men. When they got married, they had more or less a wealth base and found a good wife, but as their careers became more and more successful and their material conditions became more and more superior, of course, they would become the object of more and more women who were younger and more beautiful than their wives. Especially those men who are rich and can't withstand the fatal temptation of the little women who are like bees and butterflies, the nature of men who "like the new and hate the old" and "like the tender and hate the old" will make them tired of the wives who used to be in love with each other, and go crazy to be obsessed with the coquettish and crispy lover, the fresh and delicate second wife, the charming Xiaomi, and the amorous lady......
"Look at the successful men around you, who live in luxury houses and take famous cars, how many of them have not been taken down by the little demons? How many haven't had scandals going on? How many don't have a backyard fire? How many of them don't have 'expensive and easy to make friends, rich and easy to wife'? How many can do 'wealth and not lewdness'? How many can achieve 'poor friends should not be forgotten, and bad wives will not go to court'?
"Needless to say, those 'rich second generations' and 'rich third generations' with good family backgrounds, marriage and love are like child's play for them.
"As for those men whose careers are becoming more and more unsuccessful, their material conditions or family circumstances are getting worse and worse, and even becoming impoverished or in debt, the conditions of 'rich and beautiful women' at the beginning have now become seriously unequal.
"For example, if you fail in business, or lose money in investment, or gamble and owe debts, or are laid off or unemployed, and your family is bleak and you have nothing, your wife will not be able to live with you. What's going on? To put it bluntly, I think you are poor, I don't want to suffer with you and want to climb another high branch, you dump her for millions, and she immediately goes with you - men are abandoned mostly for wealth, gain and loss, joy and wealth, and worry and wealth. ”
Speaking of this, Uncle Taurus sighed: "Alas! Ask the ancient love scene, how many can be sincere to the end? Those who make friends with sex, love with decay; Those who make friends with wealth will be exhausted and despaired. The sea is dry and rotten, life and death promise, how many crazy men and women in the world have been deceived!
"The changes in marriage and love are all changes in conditions. One poor and one rich, cold and warm are immediate; Materialistic desires are rampant, love is like paper! ”
After finishing a sigh and brushing his long white beard, Uncle Taurus continued: "Let's talk about the changes in mental conditions. In addition to more stable character, will, temperament and cultivation, knowledge, etc., changes in fame, power, family status, etc. will also lead to changes in marriage, especially changes in ** will directly lead to the instability of marriage.
"Those who are becoming more and more famous will be favored by many admirers, cheating and divorce are commonplace, and those famous celebrities are not divorced like child's play, remarriage is like playing at home, changing wives and husbands like changing dirty clothes and throwing stinky socks? Those men who are getting more and more powerful will be noticed by many women, and there will be constant scandals, aren't there many "three more" - directors, mayors, secretaries, governors, and ministers with more money, more houses, and more women? Those 'second generation officials' and 'third generations of officials' who have family power are even more virtuous than their ancestors.
"Once the fame is gone, the power is not there, or the family is in ruins, all the 'farce' of erotic love will die down and disperse like floating clouds."
After a pause, Uncle Taurus continued: "Finally, let's talk about the change of **." It is an individual's desire to get something or achieve a certain goal. People's ** is endless, but also constantly changing, a **satisfied, and will produce a new **.
"When a man is sexually hungry, he wants a woman, he gets an ugly wife who wants a plain wife, he gets a beautiful wife who wants a beautiful wife, he gets a lover who wants to be coquettish and crispy, he wants a tender second wife, and he wants to charm Xiaomi...... When a woman is hungry and cold, she wants food to wrap her belly, she wants warm clothes, and she wants a hut to cover her body; After getting food and clothing, I want to be rich, I want fish, meat, eggs and milk, I want silk and satin, and I want high-rise buildings; After getting rich, I want to be rich, I want to be rich, I want to think about the delicacies of the mountains and seas, I want to think of jade treasures, I want to think of villas, sports cars, airplanes and yachts; After getting rich, I still want to be super rich, I want heaven on earth, I want to go to heaven, I want to be free......
"People's ** is so changing, and every change may lead to the breakdown and reorganization of the marriage, do you think, can this marriage last forever, the sea is rotten?"