I don't know how long it took for Niu Tiangou to be groggy and confused.

In the midst of the illusory and ethereal, he seemed to have come to the edge of the Bilian Pond again.

The blue lotus pond is still the same.

The water of the pool is clear, and the ripples are like practice; The green lotus by the pool is like a cover, and the dew in the cover is like a bead; The surrounding area is surrounded by green grass and lush trees.

Uncle Taurus, with a fluttering white beard, was standing quietly in front of the lush grave.

"Uncle Taurus." Niu Tiangou came to him and shouted in a low voice.

"Divorced?" Uncle Taurus turned his back and asked softly.

"Hmm." Niu Tiangou's heart was heavy, his face became like a bitter melon, and his voice was like coming from underground, "I didn't expect it...... The erotic love in the world is so tortuous and changeable. ”

"Alas!" Uncle Taurus sighed softly, turned around, and couldn't see any surprised expression, as if everything was expected by him, "It seems that you really have to feel and experience the twists and turns and tribulations of love in the world throughout the whole process." ”

"Huh?" Niu Tiangou looked puzzled, and looked at Uncle Taurus in a daze.

After being silent for a while, Uncle Taurus said slowly: "The first two times, I told you about the two basic laws of erotic love in the world: the law of conditional equality and the law of conditional preference, these two laws you have experienced and experienced. Now you are experiencing and feeling the third law of erotic love in the world: the law of condition change. ”

"The law of change of conditions?"

"Yes." Taurus Bo thought for a while and said, "After people get married, over time, people's appearance, material conditions, and spiritual conditions will change more or less, quickly or slowly, and people's thoughts, feelings, and feelings (belonging to spiritual conditions) will also change, so the original equal and balanced conditions will be broken." When this new asymmetry and imbalance develops to a certain extent - when one or both parties cannot be satisfied, the marriage will break down (divorce) and then be reorganized (remarried) to achieve new reciprocity. This is the law of change in conditions. ”

Speaking of this, Uncle Taurus glanced at Niu Tiangou silently, slowly took out the "Erotic Love Formula" from his arms, and turned to the fourth page: "Take a closer look yourself." ”

Niu Tiangou turned his head and looked at the text on it in a daze-

"Recipe for Condition Change:

"Married lovers, married, and more in love. Married and lightly in love, the taste is the same as chewing wax; Married without love, in the same bed and in different dreams. Su Lian is like this, especially erotic love.

"Who is in love and has no love? The conditions change, or the appearance changes, or the wealth changes, or the soul changes.

"Color is fleeting, age is twilight, skin is easy to decay, people are easy to age, youth can not be retained, and the face is like catkins, which is a change in appearance.

"Money is easy to gain and lose, wealth is easy to rise and fall, family wealth is easy to rise and fall, wealth and glory are exposed, and the rich and poor often alternate, which is a financial change.

"Character is difficult to change, will is difficult to change, literacy temperament and demeanor are difficult to change, knowledge is difficult to change, and habits are also accumulated; However, thoughts are changeable, desires are changeable, feelings are changeable, and over time, eventually the character and will gradually change. Why? The times have shifted too. This is a soul change.

"If the appearance changes, the glamorous person loves relaxation and looks better; If the wealth changes, the rich will love Chongqing, and the future will be more wealthy; The soul changes, and the soul is different, and the period is even more.

"The conditions are slight, the feelings are light, and the erotic love is still sustainable; If the conditions are different and the feelings are different, the erotic love will change.

"The erotic love changes, the conditions change, the reciprocal balance is broken, and there is no other."

After reading these paragraphs, Niu Tiangou frowned, seemed to understand a little, thought about it and asked: "That is to say, marriage and love in the world will change with time, and marriage is just a temporary dynamic balance?" When the conditions of the two parties to the marriage change is not much different, or the change of conditions is within the limit of the acceptance of both parties, the marriage can be maintained, on the contrary, when the conditions of the two parties are getting bigger and bigger, it will inevitably lead to the breakdown of the marriage in the end? ”。

"It can be understood that way."

Uncle Taurus nodded: "Marriage changes all stem from changes in conditions. Marriage in the world has always been about equal conditions, especially erotic love. Temporary reciprocity of conditions can only maintain temporary marital stability; Once the conditions are not equal, the stability of the marriage will be immediately shaken and destroyed.

And the conditions of marriage and love are not constant, it will change with time and environment, before marriage, and even more so after marriage.

"People often say that 'time shifts' and 'time and environment change', time changes, the environment changes, people's appearance, wealth, and spiritual aspects will change - after marriage, people's appearance will gradually decline, wealth will rise and fall, spiritual conditions will be improved (such as the growth of knowledge) or decrease (such as the degeneration of character and thought), these will bring shock and change to the marriage - the party whose wealth has risen or whose spiritual conditions have improved will feel that the other party is inferior to himself, and the party whose wealth has fallen or whose spirit has decreased, the other party will also feel inferior to himself, As a result, the psychological conditions are not equal, and the hope of seeking a new reciprocity will have an impact on the marriage.

"There is also a situation called 'temporal displacement', that is, when time and status change, marriage will also change accordingly, which refers to the small number of people who have family power - the power of the family, that is, the power in the hands of parents or other members of the family and their position in society - and the family situation (mental condition) changes, and the corresponding conditions will change accordingly - the family will flourish and the conditions will improve; The family is in decline and the conditions are reduced.

In short, the conditions after marriage have changed, the two parties are not equal, and the thoughts, emotions, and even the character that is difficult to change will also change, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

"In the change of conditions, the change in appearance and the change in wealth are obvious, while the change in spirit is an invisible change that can only be known by feeling.

"So I'm going to focus on the mental change here. In the spiritual change, thought, emotion, ** is the most active factor, and the most easy to change and the most terrible is**, it is a special spiritual factor, not only affects the thought, emotion and the entire spiritual condition of people, but also affects all human activities.

"** strong changes of people, even if the appearance conditions, material conditions and other spiritual conditions of both parties do not change, their outlook on marriage and love, values will also change over time, the increase of experience, changes in the environment and change greatly, think that the original conditions (especially material conditions) can no longer meet the current increasingly expanding **, can not meet their own needs, not equal, will seek new satisfaction, new reciprocity, marriage will also fission.

"Many marriage changes in the world are caused by **, especially erotic love, because glamorous appearance, glamorous wealth, and glamorous soul all come from**, and the reciprocal conditions are only the result of the satisfaction of both parties, and if they cannot be met, the conditions will no longer be equal."

Hearing this, Niu Tiangou couldn't help but interject and asked: "That means that the change of conditions also includes the change of **?" ”

"Yes. ** is originally a mental factor, ** changes are of course also changes in mental conditions. ”

Speaking of which, Uncle Taurus seems to conclude: "Therefore, all marriage changes, except for the reasons why the parties did not know enough before marriage and found that the conditions were unequal after marriage, all stem from the changes in conditions after marriage, and the other so-called reasons are all excuses." ”