"That ......"

When the old monster Taurus stopped laughing, Niu Tiangou hesitated for a while, and finally mustered up the courage to say the question he had always had in his heart: "Then you say...... Is it possible for me to get together with girls like Cao Yanfang and Su Mohan? ”

Although the peony girl occupies the first place in his heart, but after all, going back to the countryside to do farm work has become a big obstacle in his heart, which will waste a lot of his precious energy, if he can be with Cao Yanfang or Su Mohan even if there is a little possibility, he is willing to consider fighting, because in this way, in addition to teaching, he can devote himself to reviewing high school courses, and will no longer be dragged down by farm work.

"Do you mean Cao Yanfang, a private teacher, and Su Mohan, who Teacher Tang of the Normal School has pulled you along and is now teaching in the town's primary school?"

"Hmm."

Uncle Taurus frowned, and then said, "To answer your question, we have to talk about the third form of conditional equivalence - gradient equivalence. ”

"Gradient equivalence?" Niu Tiangou listened to it, and it felt like it had a taste of mathematical geometry.

"Yes. Due to the physiological and psychological differences between men and women, their views on marriage and love are slightly different. Men are physically strong and independent, while females are delicate and dependent; Men want to experience a sense of independence, dominance, and self-esteem through marriage, while women want to meet the need for love and security through marriage.

Therefore, in addition to choosing women with the same conditions as themselves, men are also willing to choose women with lower conditions than themselves when the conditions do not allow, and on the contrary, women will try their best to choose men with higher conditions than themselves when the conditions permit, in addition to choosing men with equal conditions with their own conditions.

However, this 'low' or 'high' 'degree' will not be too large (too big will not conform to the law of conditional equivalence), and it will become a slightly inclined gradient state, so it is called gradient equivalence.

"In gradient reciprocal love, the woman will often take some methods to compensate for her gap, such as supporting the man more materially, or being more gentle and considerate and humble to the man in the spiritual aspect, being more diligent and filial to her parents-in-law, pleasing her family, and so on."

"I get it, gradient equivalence is the pattern of 'men are high and women are low' on the overall bar." Niu Tiangou nodded slightly, expressing his understanding.

"Hmm. For the most part, this is the case. ”

Seeing that Niu Tiangou understood, Uncle Taurus nodded with a smile, and then continued: "According to the law of gradient equivalence...... Oh, that's what you call the 'men are high and women are low' mode, you and Cao Yanfang or Su Mohan came together...... It's not completely impossible, but it's a bit mysterious.

"Hmm...... Let's talk about Cao Yanfang first. Her physical condition is slightly better than you (height), her material conditions (food and clothing), mental conditions (culture and education) are temporarily slightly worse than yours, and her overall conditions are slightly inferior to yours.

"However, because she has good looks, a standard height, a culture, and a job as a civilian teacher, the selection requirements will naturally be higher than that of a pure rural girl, according to the model of 'high men and low women', she will try to choose a young man with better conditions, although you may also be within her selection range, but it is not optimal, because short is after all the 'hard injury' in your appearance conditions, in her selection range, there are more young men who are taller than you and have a fixed job."

I see. Niu Tiangou couldn't help but feel gloomy in her heart, and her letter to Niu Dehua fully illustrated this point.

Seeing Niu Tiangou's face, Uncle Taurus Xing was relieved: "Of course, if she lowers the criteria for choosing conditions because of her frustration in her choice, maybe she will take a second seat to consider you." ”

Grandma's, speaking of which, isn't she still a "defective product" in her heart!

Uncle Taurus Xing sighed softly, and then said, "Let's talk about Su Mohan again." Her physical condition is equal to your 'misalignment' - she is taller than you, and you are better looking than her; The material and spiritual conditions (especially in terms of hobby language and writing) are also 'corresponding' to you. It should be said that the overall conditions of her and you are roughly equal, so Teacher Tang is enthusiastic about pulling a red line for the two of you.

"If you have a higher EQ than her and take the initiative to communicate with her more, you should be able to come together, but now...... Although her appearance is inferior, but she is a national teacher, with a stable fixed income, girls with such conditions are still scarce resources at present, and it is not for nothing that young men who fancy her this, according to the model of 'men are high and women are low', there is no problem for her to find a young man with better conditions than you in the future. ”

Although Uncle Taurus's words sounded a little frustrating, Niu Tiangou had to admit that his analysis was very objective and reasonable, and the later facts also proved it.

"Oh, I forgot, you once had a crush on a girl named ...... Lucy Yang's, huh? Speaking of Su Mohan, Uncle Taurus suddenly remembered her best friend Yang Yuling and suddenly asked.

"Uh......" Niu Tiangou was taken aback.

"Don't ask me how I know." The old monster of Taurus seemed to know what was going on in his heart, and pursed his lips, "Can you hide from me with your little 'fancy intestines'?" ”

"However, Yang Yuling don't even think about it, it's in vain to think about it."

The old monster of Taurus poured cold water and said: "Although her appearance, material, and spiritual conditions are completely equal to yours, and all the conditions are also matched with you one by one, but according to the model of 'men are high and women are low', you can't get into her eyes at all." Although she is short, she is as beautiful as a flower, and her charm is naturally much greater than that of Su Mohan, and she doesn't fascinate the lustful male animals around her?

"Besides, she is only 1.56 meters tall, which does not meet the normal height standards of women, which is the biggest flaw for her, how can she find a boyfriend like you who has the same flaws as her?

"You must remember that short girls are often very sensitive to height, especially concerned, most of them will never find a short boyfriend again, and they will take height as the most important or even the only criterion for choosing a boyfriend, for the sake of height, they will not hesitate to reduce all other conditions, because they know better than others the consequences of 'short union', so don't be delusional and self-inflicted."

This old monster!

Why is he delusional and self-inflicted? He didn't expect anything to do with her, he just secretly sent "spring" in his diary, and vented his "sass" in his sleep, what? Isn't it possible? Is!

Alas! It's sad to think about.

Nima, according to this conditional reciprocity, it is difficult for him to "equalize" a girl who has a job, grandma's, correspondence reciprocity, dislocation reciprocity, gradient reciprocity, no matter how "dislocation" and "gradient" he is, he can only "reciprocate" a rural girl who has no job!

It seems that he can only do farm work in the land, and no matter how much he jumps, he can't jump out of the palm of the land grandfather.

A short man, after all, is a dwarf, and the conditions for marriage and love are dwarf everywhere. A short woman with a job can find a tall man with a job, can you be a short man?

Bitter yourselves!

After listening to Uncle Taurus's condition reciprocity law and analysis of his marriage and love conditions, Niu Tiangou looked depressed, sighed faintly, raised his head, and looked at the lake of Bilian Pond with amazement.

"Ho-ho, are you a kid with low confidence?"

Uncle Taurus smiled: "Don't worry, your road to marriage and love is still very long, and you will go through many twists and turns, but as long as you insist on 'seeking wealth and cultivating your soul' and strive to improve your overall conditions, you will eventually pursue your own love and get your own happiness." ”

After saying that, Uncle Taurus disappeared with a wave of his hand, leaving only a puff of smoke......