Four hundred and forty-two
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Four hundred and eighteen
"Ah Xian, I also know that I said such a thing in your opinion is indeed shocking enough, but this world is very big, there are many things that we have not seen with our own eyes, but even if we have not seen it, we can't easily deny whether this thing is real or not, maybe what I said is not possible in the current Fengchen Kingdom, or even the entire Tianyue Continent, but this is not completely impossible, because there are always some people in this world who have excellent thoughts, They dare to try new things, will bring new revolutions to the unchanged society, maybe one day what I said will happen, at that time will change not only the status or situation of women, but also the process of social progress, maybe in the future all women can go to the streets from the deep house compound, can also get the respect of men, all these things will not be just our fantasies, if there is a chance I will contribute to such a social change, Ah Xian, If there was a day, I think you would do the same, wouldn't you?"
Lan Susu looked at Gao Xian, she also knew that although Gao Xian was a person with a true temperament to do things, but after all, the education she received since she was a child was completely different from herself, and the things he thought of were completely different from what he thought. They can slowly get used to being a woman but can also do what they want to do like a man or do better than a man, sometimes women are more delicate than men, and think about problems more long-term, so some things are naturally suitable for women to do, in this era not all women are incompetent, can only please men, but women do not get a chance to show their wisdom.
The reason why Lan Susu said this to Gao Xian is because she really wants to change Gao Xian's life, but because in her eyes, Gao Xian is not a person who is too deeply poisoned, her ability to accept new things is far better than other women, and she is a person who will not easily succumb to what she doesn't want to do, so in Lan Susu's eyes, Gao Xian is a person who is more likely to accept some new things. And Lan Susu doesn't want Gao Xian to stay in a small backyard in the future and share this man with other women, so Lan Susu hopes that Gao Xian can accept her ideas and will do such a revolutionary thing with her. Although Lan Sugen has always maintained the idea of following the local customs, but the more time passes, the more she understands that this era is too unfair for women, and she is a person from a civilized society who understands what is the most important thing, so Lan Sugen has no way to imagine how she should face such a life in the future, although Gao Changgong also said that she will only marry one wife in this life, which is her luck, but for other women, This matter has not changed at all, there are so many excellent women in this era, Lan Susu really can't bear to let their lives be buried like this, all the hopes of a lifetime are pinned on men, if men respect you, no matter what, they regard you as a wife, then maybe your life is just a few concubines, if men are mediocre and incompetent, only care about the beauty in front of them, spoil concubines and kill their wives, so a woman's life will be ruined.
If no one in Lan Susu's life let her clearly know that this matter has a chance to change, she would not be so persistent in this matter, but this matter can be changed, didn't she encounter an opportunity to change, there is such a person who is willing to wait for himself, help himself in his own crisis, for himself can be said to have given up a lot, sacrificed a lot, so Lan Susu believes that as long as there is one such person, there must be two or threeAs long as there is a good start in this matter, it will slowly develop in a better direction, so no matter what, what I have to do now is to start from the people around me, slowly change this state, and must not let women have no status This kind of thing continues, because there are too many aspects involved in this matter, so I must also promote such a change, whether it is for myself or for those women who are also women like themselves, Lan Susu does not want women to be just insignificant in this society, but hopes that women in the key ten branches can also be the mainstay of society, and women can also create a sky of their own.
"Susu, although what you say is what most women hope for in their hearts, yearn for, but this kind of thing is something that no one cares about, even if it is an external status like my imperial grandmother, the biological mother of the Son of Heaven does not dare to say such a thing, a woman is jealous like this, she is guilty of seven crimes, as long as a man is unwilling, he can abandon a woman at any time, if a woman is abandoned, then her life will not have any brilliance, If you don't die lonely in the poor countryside, you have to cut your hair and go to the temple to accompany you for a lifetime, Su Su Do you know why all women have blood in their hearts, but they also have to show generosity No matter what kind of nonsense their husbands do, they also have to maintain face?" Gao Xian looked at Lan Susu, although she didn't think Lan Susu's words were unreasonable, and even on the contrary, she also felt that Lan Susu's words were very reasonable, although she was opposed on the surface, but in her heart she was cheering for Lan Susu, such a life is the life she wants, but even if such a thing is yearning in her heart, she doesn't have the courage to chase it, because this kind of thing is not a person's business, but also a family thing, if a woman is abandoned by a man, So such a letter of resignation is enough to disgrace her family, if a woman disgraces her family, then the patriarch even has the right to execute herself, such a thing Gao Xian doesn't want Lan Susu to know, she just thinks that Lan Susu is a person who shouldn't experience those things no matter what, so some things should not be said, although Lan Susu looks cold, but in fact she is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and the reason why she does this is entirely because she doesn't want those women to have a miserable fate, But in this era, women themselves have no right to speak, even if they are dissatisfied in their hearts, they can only endure hard for a lifetime, maybe they will have a chance to see the head.
"However, Ah Xian's life is so short, but it has only been decades, these decades are nothing in the eyes of men, the wife and concubine at home, hugged left and right to enter the blessing of Qi people, what to say and do is just a few words, in the end it is the woman who suffers, the woman not only has to tolerate the man has other women, but also to take care of everything for the man, even including those other women around him, if such a thing is replaced by me, I can't accept it anyway, After all, a woman gives birth to children for a man, and women do everything inside and out of the housework, but what is the man doing, can he have some pity for women, and he is just thinking about how he will have more women, or how he will have other things, money, power, reputation, status, all of which are men's, but women will indeed sacrifice everything they have in order to help men, and in the end, they have not received the slightest appreciation, and they have been kicked away. In fact, there are many things that even women themselves are capable of doing, so why do you have to pin your hopes on men? Isn't it better to do it yourself, if a man really abandons a woman for such a reason, then this man is not qualified to have such a woman, even if a woman can live well by herself, she can shine on the road to the future, Ah Xian, why can we women do everything by themselves, even if they are not inferior to men, but they must hide their brilliance and live in the shadow of a lifetime. ”
Lan Susu looked at Gao Xian's eyes, he also knew that Gao Xian's words were still reserved, he didn't know why Gao Xian, who had always been very compatible with him, would strongly oppose what he said at such a time, this should not be Gao Xian's style, so at this time, what Lan Susu wanted to know was the truth of the matter, why Gao Xian would avoid such a topic, everything may only Gao Xian can give himself an answer, after all, although there are many women around him, but they are already deeply influenced by themselves. I don't care about this problem at all, although Mei Ying observes things carefully, but neither before nor now is her identity is not enough to get in touch with the root of this kind of thing, as for those male friends, Lan Susu doesn't expect them to give them an answer at all, if they don't perfunctory themselves, it's already good, after all, in their opinion, no matter what they do, although they won't give up easily, but even if they are such a thing, they must not want anything to change, right, So even if they didn't ask, Lan Susu knew that the answer they gave them must be insignificant, but Gao Xian was different. She is a county lord, noble status, and grew up in the palace since she was a child, if you talk about it, she may even be more favored by the queen mother than the emperor's daughter, to the extent that the queen mother pampers her, she must give her a lot of things, in order to be able to live more freely after getting married, so the queen mother will definitely be very attentive to her teaching, so, at this time, Gao Xian is the only one who can give herself the right answer, At such a time, since I have made up my mind to do this, I must not give up easily.
"Susu, you don't have to think about this matter, even if you want to do it, it may not be successful, not necessarily someone will accept your kindness, although this society says that women are lowly, but there are exceptions, you are the exception, you can't just because your fate has been rewritten by yourself, you feel that everything in this world will change, what you say has touched the most fundamental interests of many people, so they will never allow this to happen, Whether it's my imperial uncle or my imperial grandmother, if something like this changes, they will never sit idly by, although I don't know why the imperial uncle will be particularly tolerant of you, but such a tolerance is only for you personally, if you want to do something to change the overall situation, I still say that, you don't care about anything, such a thing can not happen, because the imperial uncle is now the emperor, whether you want it or not, this is a fact, If you really want things to change, then you should try to help the Seventh Prince, the Seventh Prince is a different person, maybe she will understand your thoughts and help you support you, what you want to do is not absolutely not allowed, but not now. Maybe the thing you want to do today will be inconsequential in the near future, and even you will feel that it is an inconsequential thing, and there is no need to change it, not because you can't do it, but because you will find that changing is the most detrimental thing to you. ”
Gao Xian no longer looked at Lan Susu, but turned her gaze to the vegetable field in the distance, at this time she also felt that she had no way to face Lan Susu's eyes, some things even if you want to do it now, you have the opportunity to do it, but after the time passes, you will change, and you will be shaken by what you have now, although Gao Xian doesn't know what will happen to Lan Susu's future, but at least now she wants to help herself out of sincerity, so it's enough and there's no need to say anything, Maybe if I continue to talk about it myself, I will really do something that is unacceptable to a big fake with Lan Susu's character, so it is enough to have such a heart as a friend, my own destiny is my own path, and I have to go on no matter what. (To be continued.) )