5. Oppression and nature
It's still the same, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info is also a variety of intrigue and the pursuit of profit. It's just that because of more simple and weak reasons, the bullying on campus is generally still a simple fight and mutual rejection. But because I grew up. So the situation is getting worse and worse.
I remember that I was an obscure, low-key and non-existent person, sitting in the back seat of the school, and there was a small boss there, who bullied the younger brother who was weaker and followed him in the back when he had nothing to do, and I occasionally rotated seats, getting closer and closer to their position, so that there was a certain degree of contact.
For example, although learning has not progressed much, but because of a small 0 learning machine owned by others, but it is not used to study, but as a game console to operate and play, at that time I don't know what the specific situation is, in short, my dad took me to buy a learning machine, so that I also started the campus game journey, in the classroom, have a lot of fun, but you know. You have good things, if you don't have the ability to protect them. Naturally, it will be plundered by others.
At that time, the little boss said to let me play with it. Although I am very reluctant in my heart, on the one hand, I don't want to play with others, and on the other hand, I hate this feeling of oppression after all, but my cowardly character is not good at fighting, and I don't know how to resist. And I'm also more afraid of the various forces behind his so-called. So when he can't hide occasionally, he will play games with a learning machine. Huh.
And the increasingly fierce conflict is actually because you don't dare to resist, and slowly he gets used to bullying you. Although it may be because I am a little introverted and weak, I occasionally have a certain amount of persistence and simple resistance, but because I don't know how to respond to him correctly. Let him become more and more arrogant.
And because of the material cowardice of nature, with the support of a senior village senior, a friend who occasionally played with my cousin, told me that there was no need to be afraid of him, and that there was anything to go to him. So, in an unknown period of time, because his bullying became more and more excessive, and slowly exceeded his patience, but he didn't know how to deal with it, so he found the senior student, whether he could ignore him, and then the senior student told me that I could tell him that he would not bully you in the future.
And I was stupid and naïve to think that this would reconcile very well, and I was a little excited and wanted to cry and told him that a certain senior said, he knows your brother, don't bully me in the future. Then, he said haughtily, so what. I don't really care about the feeling.
And because of the weak nature of my nature, and I don't know how to deal with these problems, I don't have a good use of my own support, so in addition to being able to avoid more oppression, there is not much help.
And in addition to the oppression of this little boss, there is also a bad children's oppression, belonging to a kind of guy who likes to bully people, often likes to say, don't leave after school, have the ability to fight each other, and are often frightened by these false information.
So in the midst of a day of conflict, because he himself is not very strong, so he told him very well, okay, then fight once after school, by the way, you can also call someone, you look for your support, I look for my support, so I took him to find my senior, and his support seems to be better than the senior I found, a little bit of weakness in the play and fighting.
So, the senior told me that you could beat him. Just fight, and as a good baby at the time, I didn't know how to fight, and I didn't have such a ruthless heart. So it was just a symbolic kick to him, and then I went back to the lesson.
It can be seen from this that in fact, a lot of oppression in schools is based on two types. One is the nature of the bad. Likes to constantly bully others, the site is cheap, so as to intimidate others, and dare not resist. But it's not very powerful in itself.,It's just because of the support of a little smart and a certain number of seniors I know in the school that I dare to do some bullying actions innocently.。
On the other hand, it is completely belonging.,Wandering in the schoolyard.,Often playing, eating, drinking, and having fun with older delinquent teenagers.。 Thus giving each other a kind of mutual, lawless self-support. A kind of momentum that no one has in his eyes, so that he is rampant and domineering in the campus.
For them,. In fact, it is very simple, on the one hand, protect your own interests with integrity, and don't be afraid of those who intimidate you. Find your friends, classmates, and go to support you, or your brothers and sisters.
For the delinquent youth who are separated from the society, you can rely on the police to deal with it, or the parents, or the brothers and sisters who are also separated from the society, to help you analyze how to decide on countermeasures.
Generally. When we are too young and ignorant, we also need to cultivate a certain amount of self-confidence, so as not to let the bad influence of too much oppression hinder our spiritual growth. Learn to recognize a lot of things in this world.
Jul 13, 2016 16:26:17,,,,,
And oppression, many times, is actually a bad display of nature, the excesses of ways and means of obtaining benefits and pleasures without considering the consequences.
Brainless children's thinking, never thinking about the consequences, arrogant behavior,,, and for such children, what is needed is strong coercion. Correct.
As for nature,
Everyone has their own aspirations, and everyone's nature is different.
If I ,,, introverted and introverted,,, faintly let people bully,
But,Slightly introverted.,With a little bit of cowardice and strength.。。 Perhaps, hehe, or rather an outburst of silence. hysteria
Anyway, I always feel that I ,,, a lot of things, and I don't have confidence and confidence, so I ,,, abandon all my life and fight for anything.
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