In the above example, Boy S is unable to resist and protect his mother in the face of external threats. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

What kind of physiological force prevented him from protecting his mother's instinct?

This may have started with an extreme physical depression on his part.

It was in class and he suddenly wanted to poop.

However, he was afraid that he would be severely reprimanded by the teacher when he asked him (during class, the teacher generally did not approve of the students going to the toilet at will), and he would look at him strangely with his classmates.

So, he could only endure it.

To what extent?

Even if he was blushing, dizzy, and feverish, he didn't dare to ask the teacher.

In the end, it can only be solved on the spot.

In this way, it is enough to see that he has also reached such a degree of compromise with his teachers and classmates.

In this experience, it seems that there is no way to see the mechanism of his instinctive resistance.

Why didn't he dare to face the eyes of his teachers and classmates?

But as long as he is connected to the front, it is not difficult to find that this is closely related to his fear of the serious and chaotic crowd.

He was afraid that all eyes would be on him.

Because his eyes had seen too many people who terrified him.

There was another thing that was similar: his tablemate was an intellectually handicapped person who always bullied him.

It seems that he can't control his hand, so he always has to hit him a few times, and after the beating, he smirks and says I'm sorry.

He didn't dare to speak up, afraid that all eyes would be on him.

But this led to an obsessive-compulsive symptom in the future: occasionally he wanted to hit the person next to him with his hand for no reason, and then imagined many people scolding him.

According to the previous analysis, it can be seen that this strange idea is also a wish of his.

The reason is his "regressive satisfaction": from hating others to say that he is honest, to relying on others to say that he is honest to help him.

Because he was being bullied by his table mates and was helped by others, his classmates scolded his tablemates.

So, he relied on that feeling.

It's just because of some psychological mechanism that connects him to the state of mind of his tablemates.

He forced the person next to him to slap him, which was to absorb the pathological behavior of his tablemates.

Then, to cause others to scold, it was his desire to be scolded by others at that time.

It's just that he "wears two hats" and realizes himself.

But if you crave the sympathy and attention of others, why don't you dare to speak out?

There are too many contradictions and puzzles in between.

It's confusing.

But as long as you understand the essence, everything will be solved easily, and there will be no confusion at all.

This compulsive aggressive thinking is actually a "natural growth" process with twists and turns:

First of all, due to personality deviation, extreme hatred of the paternal masculine traits in one's own personality leads to fierce conflicts with masculine traits and the compulsion to attack. (Masculine here refers to a man's fierce temper and aggressive nature)

After progressive analysis, it can be traced that the cause of aggression and compulsion is to absorb the pathological behavior of childhood tablemates.

Then, the pathological behavior of the tablemate is absorbed, with the aim of arousing the sympathy of the classmates, scolding the tablemate, and gaining that sense of security of charity from others.

Therefore, there is a sense of security hidden in the compulsion of aggression, which leads to both love and hate (the subconscious mind needs security, and the conscious hates the compulsive attack) and cannot get rid of it.

Finally, the result of natural growth is that the aggression in the compulsion of aggression is the original form of the patient's counterattack behavior that once dared to confront the aggressor (the person who violates his or her instinctive sense of security), but was only exaggerated and feared by external cues due to accidental factors.

So, when the compulsion of attack comes, it is the same as when his table mates violate him.

He was afraid that other classmates would be ashamed to see him violated, so he swallowed his anger, which led to later attacks and compulsions.

If he calms down completely and doesn't pay attention to the classmates around him, he can burst out with instinctive resistance and fight back against his tablemates, and there will be no compulsion to attack

That is: when the attack compulsion comes, he should not feel ashamed and inferior; Calm down completely and not care and pay attention to the people around you.

There is another important reason:

That's how he was once suddenly pushed into a.

This chance experience led to his extreme resistance to pooping.

Suddenly, I forgot the memory that I was not afraid of smells before, and became extremely afraid of smells.

Therefore, every time he went to the toilet, he didn't dare to look down, he didn't dare to smell a trace of smell, so he could only hold his breath from beginning to end.

Therefore, in class, he was even more afraid to say things that he resisted so much.

But how can extreme resistance to defecation be associated with not being able to protect one's mother?

What's the connection?

At first glance, it must be unrelated.

However, there is one important common denominator that binds them together.

That's -- breathing.

He didn't dare to smell the stench when he went to the toilet, and he didn't dare to look at the dirty things.

He always had his head up; Inner seal the nose; Breathe rapidly with your mouth slightly open; Then imagine some exciting images in your mind to divert your attention.

Even after going to the toilet, I still forgot to let go of my nose.

A person's ears, nose, mouth, throat, and brain have certain things in common.

If the nose is congested, it may cause tinnitus, and also due to the lack of oxygen, it may cause headaches and dizziness.

Therefore, if he deliberately blocks his nose, his mind may produce abnormalities and even complex imaginations.

These complex imaginations that he generated when he went to the toilet were the original prototypes of his later obsessive thinking and the ideal of perfection (spiritual cleanliness).

Because he loses the instinctive pleasure of bowel movement, he gets a morbid pleasure of escaping the stench.

It is true that as I said earlier, the imagination that he "wanted to get better grades than all his classmates" when he was in school was the prototype of his later perfectionism.

But that's still psychological,

Now, the shift from the psychological to the physical is the most essential.

It should not be difficult to convert the specific transformation, and people with a little logic and leapfrog thinking should be able to reason.

Then, nasal congestion can affect hearing and may cause tinnitus.

Therefore, when he hears negative comments about others in the future, he will be very sensitive and anxious, and even lead to the occurrence of symptoms.

It is because of the amplifying effect of this tinnitus.

There is also an obsessive-compulsive symptom related to the ear, which can be called the "listening compulsion", which is similar to the common "afterglow compulsion".

The symptoms are: the patient often listens quietly for no reason, as if he wants to listen to something, but is afraid of hearing something.

The reason is that his "breathing" is almost interrupted, causing him to be unable to hear his own breathing, and his ears become extremely sensitive.

In the following chapters, you can see that breathing is a primitive sense of security.

When a sense of security is lost, people become particularly sensitive.

The nose can also affect the eyes.

For example, when a person cries and snorts, he can suck up cold tears.

When a person is anxious and panicked, the pupils will dilate and the gaze will be scattered.

This is a common occurrence among people who are socially phobic.

The inhalation of the nose is able to constrict the pupils and concentrate without avoiding the gaze of others.

If his nose is congested due to psychological factors, he will be particularly afraid of making eye contact with others; It's like he doesn't dare to look at the dirty stuff when he goes to the toilet.

The nose is also connected to the mouth and throat.

If a person smells a foul smell, his mouth will involuntarily leave or even grin.

But if he is so deliberately stuffy, his mouth will also be deliberately slightly open to help him breathe; But this breathing is rapid and unnatural.

It can be seen that in communicating with people, some people speak from the heart and without any obstacles, that is, they dare to inhale through their noses.

If someone else is unpleasant, you can perceive it not only by hearing, but also by smell.

Inhaling unpleasant words is equivalent to inhaling odors, and then using the explosion of the mouth to expel and release them.

The expansion of the mouth can alleviate the loud sounds heard by the ears.

You can also weaken the bad comments and flattery you hear.

The latter can only disguise themselves, stop talking, and be insincere; This is also a typical symptom of patients with depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it can also be said to be a superficial cause.

Suppressing oneself by disguising oneself leads to more superficial symptoms.

Even the painful expression of frowning and grinning at the onset of a patient with mental illness is a reappearance of the expression of being rejected by him during defecation.

The symptom was the stench, which had been "inhaled" by him irresistibly, and then eliminated with a frown.

If you don't understand it, don't associate it, the painful expression of frowning and grinning is just an expression, and it will not become an instinctive mechanism to eliminate the disease.

This extreme rejection of the filth of one's own body is a kind of physiological cut-off.

But as a part of the physiological whole, it is not allowed to be severed.

Therefore, he will have "dirty" compulsion in the future.

On some occasions, it is always inexplicably associated with dirty things, which leads to resistance to the normal environment of the moment.

The above-mentioned psychogenic shortness of breath will also cause him to not chew carefully and slowly when eating, and even think of dirty things.

Because he has some kind of association with dirty stuff and chewed food.

What's more, he lost some of his most instinctive sense of taste.

The instinctive loss of chewing pleasure correspondingly leads to his morbidly inflated desires later on, producing a series of mental illnesses.

Even when he encounters a small blow, he feels like chewing wax when eating.

People with mental disorders feel their minds swell at some point; Sometimes, it seems that some kind of physiological element is missing in the mind, which leads to mental illness.

It is also because of the physical and mental severance of "excrement".

When excretion comes, because it is too rapid, the subconscious mind thinks that all the dirty matter is concentrated on this point and cannot be released.

After excretion, the subconscious mind thinks that it will never come again, causing a kind of hollowness in the brain.

Another example is some people with pathological perfection personalities.

They rush to perform after doing something that they feel very satisfied with, and if they don't put their best foot forward; It will feel heavy inside; I just want to vomit as fast as possible; Otherwise, it will be uncomfortable.

This heavy feeling is caused by the physical and mental disconnection of "excrement", which leads to excessive concentration in the subconscious.

Perhaps, these remarks about "ear, nose and throat" are so naïve and superficial in the eyes of medical professionals.

And so it is.

Like a schoolboy who is excited about a novel idea he has discovered, and when he excitedly tells the teacher, the teacher says, "You're too tender!" Do you think it's that simple?"

However, I don't want to argue about which of these theories is more mature.

The results are definitely better at physiologists.

But they may have forgotten what I've been emphasizing -- the subconscious and the instinctive.

The connection between the ear, nose and mouth mentioned above is believed to be something that most people can naturally perceive and instinctively.

That's what I'm looking for.

As for the cells, blood vessels, and nerves between the ear, nose, and mouth...... Those are acquired, educated, and become conscious.

If they can see from the extensive analysis above, the role that external cues (including education) play in mental illness.

Maybe won't be disdainful of my superficial understanding of the ear, nose and mouth.

Back to topic:

This physiological disconnection can also explain a range of psychopathologies:

Pedophiles, often at some point, try to cut off the "virginity" in their hearts, and are extremely mature in disguise.

Foot fetishists are often unconsciously covering up their potentially defective feet.

……

These can explain how a person's personality is withdrawn and deformed.

But how does it relate to protecting mothers?

I think it only takes four words to connect the seemingly unrelated two.

"Hold your breath"