After marriage, I knew the general situation of his family, his parents were alive, and he had two brothers and sisters, because the eldest brother always caused trouble and fought with others, there was no way, his father Zu Shichang retired from illness in advance at the age of fifty, and then let the eldest brother take over. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

With a job, the eldest brother Zu Chunxi is busy getting married and having children, his father's meager pension has to support a family of five, and he is also responsible for taking care of the eldest grandson.

My husband is the youngest child at home, and when my father was 39 years old, he accidentally had this little son, who was born nine pounds, which was really rare in that era to have such a big newborn.

My mother-in-law looked at me with reading glasses and said, "I was five or six months old when I was pregnant with Xiaoming, and he was motionless in his stomach. The doctor insisted that I have surgery to remove it, and I felt that something was wrong, and I had to wait until 10 months to say anything. ”

I thought to myself that thanks to my husband's mother's assertiveness, if she met me, she would only believe the doctor and listen to the doctor, then this big fat son would not have a chance to come to the world.

Mother-in-law continued: "At that time, I was seriously ill, was diagnosed with ** cancer, and almost couldn't get out of the delivery room, his father thought: It seems that he can't raise this child, so he contacted someone to support my old son, and his father looked at the big fat son and said that he couldn't bear anything, so my old son stayed at home." His father dotes on this old son in every way, and when he looks at this precious son, he smiles and spoils like his eyes. ”

The mother-in-law sighed and said with some pride: "My old son is also really considerate, he is well-behaved and sensible when he is a child, and he never makes trouble for his parents." After graduating from junior high school at the age of 14, he began to earn money to support his family. Later, I thought of the poverty situation of our family, and I was afraid of delaying my son to marry a daughter-in-law, so I planned to prepare the house first, and if I had a house, my son would find a daughter-in-law! ”

My mother-in-law quietly recalled: "I led my seventeen-year-old son, he was very thin and small, he was a partial eater at that time, and he didn't eat anything in general, and we went to the country where his father's brother was, and I was penniless at the time, so I borrowed money everywhere, and then went to great lengths to build a house." Before I could move in, I found that we couldn't stay in that place, because someone deliberately embarrassed us and couldn't get by, and that person was the little uncle's family that we came to join. ”

In fact, more importantly, the husband is working in a factory hundreds of miles away to earn more money, the eldest daughter is going to find her in-law's family over there, and the younger daughter is studying there to prepare for the secondary school examination.

As soon as the house was built, the mother-in-law decided to sell the house, but as soon as she wanted to buy a house, she was scolded by the sister-in-law and ran away, and the family even threatened: "Whoever dares to buy the house will never let him have a good life!" "The intention is self-evident, if he can't sell it or give it to them, or he can give some money symbolically, this should be regarded as a fat meat to the mouth, right?

"His family has four strong sons, and they all steal chickens and dogs, kick widows and dig up graves, really do all kinds of evil, and specialize in doing things that are very despicable in the eyes of ordinary people, I don't know if you have heard of smashing glasses? It's to take a few dollars of eyes, pass by you, and then the glasses fall off and break, and they slander people that you broke it, and you can't do it if you don't accompany it! This time, I think the problem is quite serious. ”

The mother-in-law thought for a while and said, "I'm most afraid that my old son will be spoiled by a few children in that family, and I'm even more afraid that he will be assassinated by them!" The children of that family were like bandits. ”

My mother-in-law still looked a little angry and said, "I am really unwilling to borrow money and spend my own efforts to build a house, and give it to others for nothing." Just when there was no way to give up, the noble man appeared, and the noble man secretly bought the house, and the price was not low, and then let me secretly leave the place with the money. For a long time after this, we were like enemies with your uncle's family. ”

Later, when my mother-in-law returned home, it was not enough to repay the arrears, so more than a year passed, and probably the two earthen houses in the family were too dilapidated and too small to live normally, let alone ensure safety. With no money at home, my mother began to raise funds to build a house again.

This time it was built a fairly high-level room, and a radius of a few miles was second to none (at that time, Beijing was just in vogue), the style was just for people to see, the house was less than half built, there was no money, my mother gritted her teeth: "You have to borrow to raise profits, and the house is built to stop here, don't you make people laugh to death?" ”

So the trustee found a relationship to borrow money at two cents, borrowed a few places, and finally finished building the house.

Money is easy to borrow, but debt is hard to repay! I borrowed so many foreign debts at once, and most of them were usurious debts, my father's pension was more than 100 yuan, and I couldn't earn 100 yuan by beating people, and my husband was selling some matches, cigarettes and other things by himself, because of the small profits, he only earned a hard money. The income of the year is not enough to even repay the interest.

My husband also occasionally resells motorcycles. Later, my husband's second sister gave up the idea of taking the entrance examination and simply gave up school and went home to open a kindergarten.

At that time, his family was a mining area in the ravine, equivalent to an ordinary township, most of them were still villagers, and they received 20 yuan a month for a child, and they had more than a dozen children at the beginning, in one of the newly built houses.

When the number of children gradually increased, his family sold pens and books, as well as all kinds of snacks. After living in Shenyang for a while, we found that there was a wholesale market in Naner in Shenyang that specialized in the wholesale of all kinds of things, and the things in it were almost home.

So, every time I go home with my husband, I wholesale a large number of snacks, and the satisfaction of returning home makes me feel very comfortable, and whether it is my husband's parents or my sister, I can't say enough gratitude when I look at those things, and my husband, who rarely speaks, said with a smile: "This is enough to sell for a while, and it is estimated that it can be sold until you come back next time." ”

Although I never got back a cent of the cost every time I gave it, but looking at their happy looks, I thought it would be more satisfying than they gave me the money for the goods, and I didn't want to get my money back.

I probably have a hobby of watching others happy, and every time I look at them happy from the bottom of my heart, it is as if I have received a great benefit, and the satisfaction in my heart is sweeter than eating honey. Of course, I have always regarded myself as a member of the family, and being able to contribute to the family is the happiest thing for me, and it is also something that I am willing to do.

Probably because my mother has stricter requirements for building houses, or the level of those who build houses is not good, and after the house is built, it will leak when it rains.

So every summer, my husband's family began to remove the asphalt linoleum paper on the house and put on the waterproof again. It's strange to say, how many experts have been invited, the problem of water leakage in the house has not been solved, and it has become the biggest heart disease in the family every year.

My husband's eldest sister finally got married before the age of 30, and the husband she was looking for was a mine worker, who looked pretty standard, with a square face, thick eyebrows and big eyes, close to one meter eight, but he was surprisingly honest, and people who were not familiar with him couldn't hear him, and he was straight to the point, without a little room for maneuver. He is a good hand at work, and he never knows that stealing a machine is a mental work.

Because Fang Yuan is such a big place, the old man's family has something to do, and the person who can do the work must be present, after doing it a few times, this Chenglong fast son-in-law said in a letter: "It's really nothing to look for, I will fix this thing every year, and I won't be too troublesome to spend that unjust money!" ”

The speaker had no intention of listening, and the words happened to be heard by the old mother-in-law, which stabbed the hornet's nest, and the old lady was unhappy all of a sudden, her nose was not a nose and her face was not a face, and she was bombarded with a burst of bombardment against her eldest daughter: "Who let him come?" I didn't come to your house to invite him, so why don't you need it? I'm looking for something to do? Who wants a house to leak? Is that human? Don't let him come if there's anything going on at home in the future, I can't afford it! ”

The eldest daughter persuaded her with kind words, but the old lady was still angry. When he got home, the honest Chenglong fast son-in-law was scolded by himself, and when something happened, he also learned to be obedient, arrived early, and then he was bored to work, and he didn't even dare to let go of a fart anymore.

"Dad bears one, mother bears a nest." The grandfather's father is honest and glued, never arguing with others, let alone having conflicts with others, and the mother-in-law is in charge of all matters in the family. The four children also have their own opinions, especially the daughter is stronger by nature, and she can't say that she is the master who covers the sky with one hand at home.

To a certain extent, the confidentiality work of my husband's family is quite strict, and if the conditions of the family and many things are not really necessary for me to know, I can generally keep my mouth shut, and often I see that their family is always discussing things endlessly, probably it is not convenient to have me, an outsider, right? Of course, what should be known will be known above board, such as owing a lot of usury.

That time when I went home, the second sister cried about the debt collection door, blocked the house and didn't even let the house out, she burst into tears: "It was not the time to build a house, the eldest sister-in-law borrowed 3,000 yuan with interest, the first year the eldest sister-in-law came to ask for money, how can our family have so much money, begging grandpa to tell grandma to make some money outside, and give the interest money first." In the second year, they brought me 400 yuan and said: If you think about it, you can't come up with the money, I will give you another 400, and you must return the 4,000 yuan to people at this time next year! Let's write a new IOU. After another year, the sister-in-law directly brought the creditor to her home and said directly: People are waiting for money, and I can't help it. Then he left in a hurry. This creditor is a man in his sixties, who follows his ass all day long and asks for money, and has to prepare food for people when it comes to the meal. ”

I really hadn't heard of this kind of thing, so I asked curiously, "What happened later?" ”

The second sister wiped her tears: "It's not borrowing everywhere, accumulating a lot, borrowing a big circle, some have a better relationship and say that they will use it first, and some will say that they will give you a little bit elsewhere, then you have to pay interest, and you have to recognize how much interest, otherwise the door will be blocked all day long, and the old man (her father has silicosis) will be sick if he knows it!" ”

She turned to her husband again, still sobbing and chokingly and said: "It's good for you, the house was specially built for you, and you went to Shenyang alone to hide and be quiet, and threw such a big mess to me, how difficult should my life be?" Sometimes when I wake up, I think that there is still so much famine to pay, and I have the heart to die. ”

If it weren't for me, my husband would not be far away from his parents and relatives, let alone throw such a heavy burden on the second sister alone. I really want to give birth to a lot of money at once, so that everyone's life is better, and then I am full of yearning and desire for money.

The second sister told me that of course there was really no way to do this, she burst into tears, her eyes were already crying like peaches, and she sobbed and said, "You can take a look at your house, can you lend us some to relieve it?" I could only nod solemnly. I knew I had this thing on my mind.

After knowing this, I was really worried about my family, so I broke my salary in half and spent every penny I saved at home as much as possible. As for borrowing money from my mother's family, I thought about it a few times, but in the end I didn't dare to speak, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to borrow it, and it was not a good feeling.