And those older unmarried men are even more picky, some people will ask: "Why haven't you married yet, I heard that girls are the most afraid of getting old, and they all hate to marry, and all good girls will marry themselves in their twenties." There are very few girls in their thirties who are not married, why? ”

The subtext of that kind of question is to say: "Is it abnormal for a woman in her thirties who has not yet been married?" Or, "Sad old girl in her thirties who has not yet married!"

Now some media reports are full of arrogant "three high" people, but they have nothing to be proud of, they are at best just a "love defeater" abandoned by love, and an unrealistic love cannon fodder!

When the last blind date probed me with this kind of gaze, I tried my best to hide my bad feelings, and after half an hour of perfunctory work, I gave up hastily. After this fight, I no longer want to passively go on a blind date, thinking that a passive blind date is the most embarrassing thing and hurts my self-esteem.

And this embarrassment seems to be only for women, so why don't those men have? You see, they don't seem to be bothered by age. Men are left to be called "diamond kings", and women are left like depreciated items, which will make relatives and friends follow the trouble, you talk about this is a modern society, why is it still inequality between men and women?

When I told this kind of trouble to my close friend Di Cuicui, Di Cuicui, who has always been bold and generous, and has done a prosperous career, sighed and said: "There is no way, this is also a social reality." Men are more and more valuable, and women are more and more depreciated. ”

I complained about the inequality between men and women.

Now a brief introduction to Di Cuicui:

Di Cuicui, my friend, married and happy woman, my best friend for many years. She has a bold personality, has the elegant name of her middle girl's husband, and has a small bathroom sales company. Although the company has only been open for two years, it is already thriving and has achieved remarkable results, which is indeed rare for Di Cuicui, who is self-made. And Di Cuicui's object, I am also familiar with it, I watched the two of them fall in love, and witnessed the whole process of two happy people from love to marriage; Even after Di Cuicui got married and gave birth to a child, I didn't leave behind, and went to the hospital to accompany Di Cuicui to take care of Di Cuicui. Therefore, the intimacy of two people can be said to be invincible, and it is also the most misunderstood.

Di Cuicui's family didn't say anything, they just thought that the two women were too good.

And some outsiders who don't know the details will secretly mumble that the two people are a little suspected of being gay.

After hearing about it, the two laughed it off, and it was better to do it as usual. In our words, it is rare to have a confidant in life, and a good friend should be cherished like a family member, and should also have a place in his own family like a family member.

Di Cuicui listened to my complaint and said: "Throughout the ages, men and women are different, and it is impossible to achieve absolute equality between men and women, just like men can't have children, and women can't grow beards." ”

I shook my hand and swore that she would never go on a blind date again even if she was single.

Di Cuicui said: "Yo yo, then the eldest lady, you just wait to really be an old girl!" It's just a pity, it's a pity! ”

"It's a pity, don't people have to be old? Is it true that those who have been married live forever? ”

"It's a pity that you are such a beautiful and kind person. It is not that married people are immortal, but that a happy married life makes people postpone aging; Single people are depressed and depressed, and they will age quickly. ”

I didn't believe it and said: "Forget it, don't scare me, I'm not scared, I've read some books, use my knowledge to live well, even if you don't get married, you can still live well!" ”

Di Cuicui opened her eyes wide and looked at Gu Xiaomi: "Okay, that's good, as long as you feel happy in life." But what do you do with your parents? ”

I shrugged helplessly and said, "Yes, in fact, the most difficult thing to explain is my parents, they are always urging, and I go on a blind date so passively, mainly to comfort them." Alas, it's hard to be a leftover woman! ”

"So as the saying goes, if a woman does a good job, it is better to marry well, as a woman, you must marry yourself when you are young and beautiful! I advise you to speed up the blind date, so as to save me from worrying! ”

I smiled bitterly and said, "Cuicui, why do you even say that about me, do I really have no place to breathe?" ”

Di Cuicui said with a straight face: "As a good friend, let's be honest, your current situation is quite dangerous, you are in your thirties, and you are going to get married!" If you don't get married, maybe you really won't be able to marry again, as a friend, I beg you, you can marry quickly, hurry up! ”

Dizzy! My wry smile deepened a little more, and I almost wanted to escape.

Alas, I find myself so tired, it's really tiring to be a leftover girl!

However, I also feel that as a leftover woman, I must also adhere to my own principles: if I can't find the person who has the same heart, if I can't have a good partner to make progress together in life, then I will be alone, even if I really stay forever!

Alas, what is love? What is the true meaning of love, and what is true love?

Similarly, what is marriage? What is the true meaning of marriage, is it money and material things? Is it the right match, or is it a mutual relationship? Does it include all kinds of society, or is it some subtle thing about society?