34. Chapter 34
It is a big deal to appease Xiao Yi's mother's family, but what to do in the future is still a big problem.
Xiaohai running away from home does not mean the end of life.
Whoever leaves the earth in this world still turns the same way, three meals a day, hungry to eat, thirsty to drink, tired and sleepy to go to bed, sick to send to the hospital...... No matter how many changes happen in life, how to live this life has to be how to live.
Xiaohai with a wolf's heart and a dog's lungs, he can ruthlessly leave his father and mother, abandon his wife and children and the family stall, and run away with that slutty woman to live his own free life, but we can't be like him.
In the past few days, I have been thinking day and night: Xiao Hai is gone, how can Xiao Yi'an keep the child at home, and how the family should live.
Originally, I discussed with Xiao Yi, the parents took the children at home, Xiao Yi went to work in the Jia Peng Car Factory in the Industrial Park, how could it be three or two thousand a month, the expenses of the child and her own were solved, and the father still had a little savings, plus the Zhou Ji of our family, this day was tight and barely maintained.
Our sisters have discussed many times, in order to take care of the two children and the elderly, we have to be frugal in the future, buy what should be bought, forget about unnecessary and extravagant, how can the three families take care of the family, and when the two children are really older, they have the ability to go to school, everyone supports them together, and if they can't go to junior high school or high school, they simply go out to work, and they can always support themselves.
As for buying a house and marrying a daughter-in-law in the future, let's take one step at a time!
After discussing it with the two of them, I gave my father the bottom, mainly to comfort him and let him let go of his ideological baggage.
In the past few days, I have been calling home, comforting Xiaoyi, comforting my parents, and making myself exhausted, no matter how much reluctance I have, this kind of thing happens at home, and I can't shrink my head and not come out.
My brother-in-law called early in the morning and said that she had decided that she would not be able to work in the car factory, so she would stay at home so that she could take care of the two children.
"There are old men and old ladies in the family, why are you staying at home" I was anxious when I heard it,
"No, I'm worried about the eggs" Xiao Yi swallowed,
"What's wrong with the eggs! He's six years old, he doesn't need to be carried, he doesn't need to be carried, let us dad, what are you worried about? ”
"Alas! , you don't know the way, these days the egg ......"
It turned out that after Xiaohai left, we adults talked together, Ao Dan listened to it really on the side, although he was not big at the age of six, but he understood everything, and the adult's conversation made him know the truth about his father's runaway: ran away with a woman, never again, don't want him, don't want my brother, and don't want this family......
Children are terrified to the extreme, they have nightmares every night, talk nonsense, they are depressed during the day, they eat very little even one meal or three meals, they frown, they look sluggish, they always like to nest in one place and go out of their minds, they don't say anything, they look like they are preoccupied...... There is no innocence that children of this age should have, this is not counted, and I don't know which fast-talking woman said that she missed her mouth, a little girl in the village kindergarten shouted loudly in front of the whole class: Ao Dan has no father, and his father ran away with the YE woman......
The children are not sensible, and they don't know the meaning of the road without their father, so they all follow the coaxing.
How could the little child of Ao Dan stand such ridicule, immediately crying and going home, the next day he said that he didn't want to go to school, he was alone in the room, he didn't even want to eat, no matter how much he persuaded him, it was useless to say anything.
And he is more and more dependent on his mother, he is not in a hurry at a glance, he cries in a hurry, and he has to hold his mother's hand tightly when he sleeps at night, and he can't leave for a moment.
"Ao Dan has been sensitive since he was a child, I'm worried that he won't be able to stand the stimulation, isn't it really ruining the child, the child is so small, but the thing of a lifetime is ......" Xiao Yi couldn't help but sob.
It's really a sin, a little child, it should be carefree and innocent, and adults can't bear the sudden change, not to mention the child, this Wang Xiaohai really knows that he is happy and happy, where would he think of this.