In my heart, "abandoning my wife and children" is really a heinous sin.

I don't know if I am lonely and unheard, or the people of this small city in northern Jiangsu where I live are simple, I have heard of husband and wife who are incompatible and turn against each other, I have heard of emotional derailment and divorce, and in the early years, I have also heard of young boys and girls who love each other who are unbearable to be obstructed by their families and elope together...... The married man ran away with another woman without saying a word, but there was never a mess of his wife and children at home.

Xiaohai is a typical abandonment of his wife and children, and his nature is so bad that it is really unheard of, and no one can tolerate it: it is really a breakdown in the relationship between husband and wife, you can stand up and file for divorce from each other, negotiate the distribution of property between each other, raise children, sign an agreement, and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to seal and sign - everyone has the right to pursue happiness, everyone is an adult, and there is something that cannot be dealt with calmly, but you have to choose to take this extreme path.

Xiaohai chose to run away from home without saying a word, it was simply not a man's doing, not only did we sneer at him, but even our fourteen-year-old son frowned at such things as Xiaohai,

"Mom, my uncle is too selfish and self-interested, he doesn't have a little responsibility, he is simply not worthy of being a man" These words came out of Xiao'er's mouth, and even my sister felt panicked on my face.

Xiaohai, you really let us down......

For so many days, I anxiously inquired about Xiaohai's whereabouts; While searching for this kind of incident on the Internet, I really don't know how to do it, and I was shocked by the search, I typed the words "abandon wife and child" on Baidu, and all kinds of strange things were like carp crossing the river, and like catkins in March.

There are unscrupulous husbands who abandon their pregnant wives, there are immoral men who abandon their seriously ill wives and marry new loves, and even leave a mess of debts or sweep away the family property and evaporate the world, leaving wives at home to guard their children, guard their broken homes, and live alone, and those poor women are at most scolding them in a post on the Internet, saying cruel words of retribution from the heavens, and winning a little sympathy from everyone.

Compared with them, Xiao Yi doesn't seem to be the worst one, she has a sheltered home, with our three sisters who are like brothers and sisters, and her mother's family to support her, and her parents-in-law stand on the same front as her, and Xiaohai seems to be "affectionate and righteous" - at least she didn't sweep away all the family's savings.

The deposit of 100,000 yuan is not much, but it can always resist for a while, which finally comforts my once melancholy mood.

I always thought that abandoning his wife and children was a heinous crime, and even if a man like this ran to the ends of the earth, he would be punished by the law and judged morally.

I have been indifferent for so many days, mainly because of my selfishness, although I am not ashamed of Xiaohai's behavior, but after all, he is the younger brother who grew up in front of me, even if he is not related by blood, I don't want to send him to prison and suffer from prison.

While appeasing my brother and daughter-in-law, I tried everything I could to save the family; While looking around for news of Xiaohai, I hope that one day he can change his mind and return to us, and everything will disappear back to the original point.

But who can know where things are going, I can't see Xiaohai's face, everything is impossible to talk about, I sighed, at a loss, and continued to look for Xiaohai's news, hoping that suddenly one day Xiaohai will stand in front of me well, calling my sister with a hippie smile, and then as if nothing happened, the days are still as calm as before.

But maybe it's just wishful thinking on my part.