I had the worst in my heart - Xiao Hai really didn't look back.

This is an unimaginable difficulty, we all have our own families, we all have our own children, life seems to be pretty good now, but we are not rich, if this is the end, our three families are about to bear more than just two young children, the birth, old age, sickness and death of two old people, and more unpredictable futures......

Of course, financial constraints are not the most important, the most unacceptable thing for us is mental suffering, maybe we will quickly get out of the road, adjust our mentality, and face it again.

But what about the two children: the father is gone, the mother is gone, even if the grandparents love them very much, the three aunts seem to be their own, they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and there is no problem with going to school, but they have become a pair of poor orphans in this world, and they can no longer be coquettish in front of their father, laugh in their mother's arms, and lose their children's safe and intimate care in front of their most relatives, which will change their character and their outlook on life.

- Maybe they are strong children, who can transcend the reality of their father's departure and their mother's remarriage, and become two sunny and resolute teenagers. Under our careful care, the shadow given to them by the family changes when they were young has long disappeared, their happy life, hard work, and finally succeed in their studies to find their favorite girlfriend and form a happy family, maybe at that time Xiaohai has already got in touch with us, Xiaoyi has also had a new life, the two children forgave their parents for the absurdity of their youth, and can still love us as always, love their parents - their hearts are always full of love for life and relatives.

— But life may be a different story.

The reality of the father's departure and mother's remarriage, as well as the strange eyes in the village, the unscrupulous, unscrupulous sarcasm and sarcasm of the partners together, greatly stimulated the two young children, their young hearts were seriously hurt, so that their characters became more and more withdrawn, their hearts became more and more narrow-minded, they were sensitive, suspicious, other people's unintentional eyes, casual discussions will cause them incomparable damage, they closed their hearts, Like a pair of wounded beasts, hiding in a no-man's corner, licking and comforting their wounds alone.

They may even see the care of their relatives for him as a form of pity, a mercy of charity, and gradually they become timid, selfish, and conceited children...... With the onset of adolescence, they become rebellious teenagers, troubled teenagers, they are not willing to continue their studies, they are not willing to be bound by their relatives anymore, they are desperate to get out of this home that suppresses their emotions and brings them a source of pain, and they hate their father and mother who have ruthlessly abandoned them...... They have gone to society, with a withdrawn, rebellious character, a distorted and hateful mind, and the big dye vat of society will push them deeper and more miserable.

I can't forget the incident that shocked the whole country in 2011: a 12-year-old boy killed his own aunt and his two young cousins and cousins, for the simple reason - in order to discipline him, his aunt restricted him from surfing the Internet.

- On the surface, this is the direct cause of the tragedy, but in fact, behind it is the deformed character and distorted mind caused by the broken family......

Thinking of this, my back swished and chilled - it was really our families who supported each other and helped raise these two children, who can guarantee that they are not as ungrateful as his father, Xiaohai is a father who took him home in seven days, a baby who has just fallen to the ground in less than a footage, a handful of and urine from his mother, how many days and nights of hard work, Ao has worked hard, dyed his hair white, and worked hard to raise the child, how can he do such a thing for a woman