Husbands and wives are always tied up in all sorts of things, especially halfway through the couple.

There is a gap between them, there are contradictions, misunderstandings, more or less affect each other's feelings, even if it is a little, they will make a comparison in their hearts: if they are the same as before, what will happen.

Of course, when choosing, people tend to avoid the important and lean towards the place they want.

When people are not together, they tend to think of each other's good, and when they are together, they often only remember each other's evil

He or she in front of him or her will definitely be slightly inferior.

As the days go by, the accumulation gets deeper and deeper, and there is gradually a gap and helplessness between each other......

This does not guarantee that Pan Xiaoyan is the last woman Xiao Hai chooses, and Xiao Hai will not be Pan Xiaoyan's last man.

The end result is: Xiaohai and the woman fall apart and each returns to their respective families.

But if it really comes to that point, who can guarantee that their original home will be able to accept them again.

If it's three or five months, or a year and a half, it's still possible, it's really a long time, and who would be willing to wait hard for the prodigal son to turn back.

If Xiao Yi finds the man he likes again or Pan Xiaoyan's husband also starts a family again, then they can only take the blame.

I came across this story on the Internet

The bloody affair begins and ends with a big heart's heart.

Hu and Sun are both from Jiangsu, when they met, Sun was less than 20 years old, and she was a female college student in her prime, and Hu, who was 14 years older than her, already had a family, one was full of youth, the other had a successful career, and the two sides were attracted to each other and fell in love. In 2009, after graduating from university, Sun hoped that Hu could marry her. Hu was very hesitant, feeling that his wife had been doing her best to take care of herself and her children at home for so many years, and even vaguely knew that she had a lover outside, but in order to protect the family, she still chose to turn a blind eye.

However, after all, his wife has entered middle age and is no longer young, especially compared with the energetic Sun in front of him, Hu has to admit that he has no resistance.

Under Sun's soft grinding, Hu finally decided to divorce, leaving the children to his wife, and he regularly visited the children and gave some child support.

At the end of 2011, Hu and Sun got married as they wished, but their married life was not as good as they imagined. From "Xiaosan" to "Main Room", Sun vaguely felt that something was wrong. It turned out that Hu went to see his children regularly after the divorce, and every time Hu went, Sun was worried. In her eyes, her ex-wife has become today's "little san". In Hu's view, the age difference between herself and Sun is an indisputable fact, and Sun can't keep it up, and one day she falls in love with other men with better conditions.

The more the two thought about it, the less calm they became, and the contradiction became bigger and bigger. Two years after marriage, Sun, who couldn't bear it anymore, sued the Beilun Court for divorce.

During the mediation process, Hu knelt down several times, and a forty-year-old man cried silently in the court: "For you, I have already failed my marriage once, and I don't want to fail a second time." But Sun has obviously made up his mind. In the end, Hu agreed to divorce, and the two reached a mediation agreement.

When leaving the court, Hu said with special emotion, "For marriage, temptation will always exist, and the key depends on how you choose." ”

The example is vivid, I really hope Xiaohai can see it - Hu Mou's heartfelt emotion in the story, yes, "the temptation always exists, the key depends on how you choose".

It's a pity that Xiao Hai, who dropped out of junior high school, and Pan Xiaoyan, who is illiterate, will never know the story of Lu Dao, and of course will not think about the meaning of it.