On the fifth day of Xiaohai's departure from home, there was still no news, and the family was still sad and bleak, day after day, everyone waited in despair, and waited for despair.

All my hopes and thoughts were exhausted bit by bit, and my sleepless nights continued to torment my nerves, so that my heart, which still had a glimmer of hope, gradually sank into the water.

Xiaohai's resoluteness and ruthlessness made me very angry - for so many days, all of us were worried about him, I couldn't sleep for him, he was with that woman and he was so happy that he didn't even have the heart to send a text message home.

I was so disappointed that I couldn't help but curse in my father's phone call—a kind of anger that hated iron but not steel.

But what, just like my husband said, "It's really scolding to scold him, we all don't do anything, just sit at home and scold!" ”

I couldn't see their shadows, I couldn't find the slightest news about them, and I felt a sense of madness in my heart, a sudden boundless hatred—I wished that I could have boundless mana, even if they were at the ends of the earth, I could catch him back and let me dispose of it.

But that's just a beautiful wish, and it will never happen in reality.

I put all my hopes in the law, and I don't believe that there is no way to punish such heinous prodigals. - Let them go unpunished, and recede all the burden and responsibility to others!

Full of hope, I turned to Baidu again and consulted around.

I was disappointed by the toss.

Baidu explained: There is no crime of abandoning his wife and children in the punishment.

Whether or not a person is guilty depends on whether he has committed a specific crime: if it is bigamy, it constitutes the crime of bigamy, if it is bigamy, it constitutes the crime of abuse or abandonment, if it is tortured or abandoned, it constitutes the crime of intentional injury, if it intentionally kills a family member, it constitutes the crime of intentional homicide, and so on.

If there is no specific act, simply evading the obligation of support, or having fornication with another person, it does not constitute a crime, these are only moral issues. Civil compensation can be claimed for damage caused.

That is, the person who engages in PO shoes is a person who is morally corrupt, but not a criminal. It can only be condemned by morality, but not punished by law.

Once again, I was thundered. For their own shallow ignorance.

I have always taken it for granted that this kind of dog men and women who have a chaotic relationship with men and women in the outside world have to suffer from the "pig cage" in ancient times, and in the current civilized era, they will have to suffer at least a few years in prison - let them (they) lose their freedom, lose everything, from being able to know how to reflect, in order to know their mistakes, in order to finally promote the harmony and stability of this society.

Isn't that marriage certificate with a bright red seal a guarantee of marriage, just a piece of waste paper!

I was so naïve.

I smiled bitterly at my innocence.

Perhaps this is also another kind of tolerance given by the law, after all, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, but people are not animals, people are a member of society, people have social responsibilities, and people are bound by nature. The ancients said that the husband should be "self-cultivation and family governance and peace in the world", noble character, responsibility to the family is the first priority, no humanity, not abiding by the norms, that can only be regarded as an animal, even inferior to beasts.

Everyone will experience marriage and family, and I really feel that the current relationship has shackled your emotions and your happiness, and you can choose to stand up bravely and end it openly...... Without saying a word, as soon as you left, like a turtle with a shrunken head, where did you put your wife who had been in bed with you for more than ten years, where did you put your parents who had worked hard to raise you, and the young son who was waiting to be fed, is this kind of man still a man?

Such a man should send him to prison and send him to the eighteenth floor of hell, so that they will never be able to turn over.

But in reality, when this kind of thing really happens, we can only do nothing, neither can we bring them to justice, nor can we cause them the slightest harm - what about moral judgment, they quietly go to another place to live, incognito, and live what they think is a new life, as for the resentful women and children at home, they have long been left behind.

If the law is still tolerant of such people, I can't figure out what will become of this society.

I am not willing to continue looking for the results I want.

I don't believe it, there is no way to punish such people in this world.

I really made Xiao Hai dizzy, and I was determined to find out the culpability for him.

After so many days of not being able to touch and see, Xiao Yi can still cut out and tear up all the photos he left at home, and burn them to vent his anger, I can only stare dryly - as long as I think of him and that woman being happy together, I will smoke all my senses.

I finally remembered that there is also a crime of "desertion" in the criminal law. It's really not good, I'll encourage Xiao Yi to go to the court to sue, I really hate him now - if the court files a case, Xiaohai can get it back even if he runs to the ends of the earth, even if he is in prison for a year and a half, I am happy, at least I don't have to be as crazy as now.

Worried, worried, but helpless.

I hurriedly continued to look it up on the Internet.

I was disappointed again when I checked it: Article 261 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China for the crime of abandonment: the maximum sentence is 5 years, and Xiaohai's scenario is not suitable - Xiaoyi has the ability to support two children, and he is not down to the extent that the law stipulates.

That is to say, even if we go to court to sue, we will not get the result we want - to get Xiaohai back from the ends of the earth.

Now there is still one last hope left: Xiao Yi is prosecuted for bigamy, and the current situation seems even more unrealistic: we don't know where the two of them are located, let alone collect evidence that they are together, it is really one of the conditions for the crime of bigamy one day: Pan Xiaoyan's pregnancy caused a real marriage, and it was really too late by then.

In fact, I didn't really want to find out the blame for Xiaohai, it was really the last trick after I had no way, and in desperation, I wanted to find Xiaohai as soon as possible with the strength of the outside world, so that this home still had hope of repair.