[079] Wen Xiaoyu and Dong Ye's understanding

"Dong Ye likes what you do, you do it, she likes boxing, you really go to boxing, people with a family background like you, run to boxing, how much pressure do you have to bear, in fact, I didn't expect at the beginning that you and Dong Ye can be better for so many years, and you can really get to the point of talking about marriage, I have never met Dong Ye openly for so many years, just chat in private, or get together secretly, and don't let all of you know, but we are getting older, it's time to get married, but Dong Ye has a premarital phobia. ”

"You have proposed several times, in fact, she wants to agree to you very much, and she also approves of you, but because of this premarital phobia, she refused, and she regretted it afterwards, but she really didn't know how to deal with it, she was very anxious during that time, and even had anxiety disorder, and before she promised you to propose, she traveled for a long time, remember, that is, when he went out to travel, you met me at Zheng Chenglong's dinner."

Qingqing smiled slightly, and continued, "Actually, she didn't go out to travel in those days, she went to receive treatment, she had to treat her premarital phobia and find the best psychiatrist, but she didn't dare to find it from Z City, you people are too powerful in Z City, it's not good to find out, and if you receive treatment, if you want to solve these problems, you must tell all the things she hides in her heart, and she doesn't dare to go from Z City, so she found me, This is also the first time since you fell in love with her that she really asked me to help her do things. ”

"It seems that she is the same, at the most critical moment, the person who thinks, the person who believes, or me, of course, my sister has something to find me, I will definitely help her, I know her situation, so we don't dare to make an appointment from Z City, I found another city through the fire knife, and made an appointment with a very famous psychiatrist, so we hit it off, and she decided to go out on her own travel lie to receive treatment."

"The effect of the treatment is very good, the doctor is very famous, a week of treatment, basically she has been able to figure it out, figure it out, the knot in her heart has been untied, for marriage, there is not such a big reaction, in fact, at that time, she can come back, but she doesn't do it, she decided to try you for the last time, it is, then get married, in fact, I was quite curious at that time, I asked her, if it doesn't work, what should you do? Did you break up with Wen Xiaoyu? Let me tell you, the original words she gave me at the time were that if it didn't work, she would break up, she said, she wouldn't gamble the rest of her life on whether you would change your mind, I want to see how persistent you can be, and whether she can bear it. ”

"I was puzzled at the time, I said to Dong Ye at that time, I said Dong Ye, you two have been for so many years, you are not young, if you want to get married, then you really get married, don't try again, Wen Xiaoyu has paid enough for you for so many years, if you try like this again, then you really break up, what should you do, are you at this age, do you want to start again? We're not seventeen or eighteen anymore. ”

Dong Ye didn't explain to me specifically at the time, she said that she was going to try you, if she was not satisfied, she would not marry you, it cannot be denied that there is indeed a reason for Zheng Chenglong, your relationship with Zheng Chenglong is too good, she saw with her own eyes how Zheng Chenglong treated her daughter-in-law, especially before marriage and after marriage, and before getting married, she couldn't see anything at all, she didn't expect that Zheng Chenglong would be like this after marriage, so she was afraid, she also said, Although the treatment effect has been significant, it still hasn't completely cured her phobias and anxiety, and she still wants to prove you again. ”

"But at that time, I always took these words seriously, but now that I think about it, in fact, she only said part of it, that is, if you are really disloyal, she still has a spare tire." There was a smile on the corner of Qingqing's mouth, "She has a spare tire that she can hold in her hand, although you Wen Xiaoyu is good to Dong Ye, but what you can't deny is your machismo, all your self-centered character, this is not to blame you, because your family conditions are indeed very superior, and your character is like this, you are very proud, so no matter how good you are to Dong Ye, Dong Ye is actually very dissatisfied with you, especially, the two of you quarrel, you never bow your head to this thing, every time she coaxes you, After all, she is also a girl, she is very tired, she has told me many times, and the feeling you give him is not like a boyfriend many times, but more like a son. ”

"But she also knows that no one is perfect, there will always be shortcomings, it is impossible for everything to be so smooth, and you will always grow up, so on the whole, she is still willing to marry you, after all, it has been so many years, and she must have invested a lot of feelings from you."

"Do you know why your father doesn't like Dong Ye? In fact, it's not entirely because of Dong Ye's family background, your father is not the kind of person who is particularly snobbish, he definitely wants you to marry the right person, but it will definitely not destroy your happiness, but why did your father always dislike Dong Ye at the beginning, in fact, like your father, these old rivers and lakes, have experienced too many people and things, although Dong Ye has been well hidden and disguised very well, so your father still doesn't like her, that is a natural feeling, intuition, understand? ”

"Actually, Zheng Chenglong doesn't like Dong Ye either, the reason why he doesn't like Dong Ye is not the same as the reason why Dong Ye doesn't like him, Dong Ye doesn't like her because Zheng Chenglong and you are good brothers, and the style is too bad, and he is still violent to his wife, which is very bad, but Zheng Chenglong doesn't like Dong Ye, Dong Ye can feel it, Zheng Chenglong and you will definitely not say it, after all, you are his younger brother, your relationship, he will not say that Dong Ye is bad in front of you, although Zheng Chenglong is a loser, but he has been for so many years, It's stuck in the pile of women, so a lot of Dong Ye's disguises, maybe you can't see it, Zheng Chenglong can feel anything, Zheng Chenglong is not a fool, just an out-and-out loser. ”

"But he just has feelings, but there is no evidence, Dong Ye also told me at that time that she felt that Zheng Chenglong didn't like herself, and it was all because of your Wen Xiaoyu's face, so Zheng Chenglong didn't say it, and kept letting her, but Dong Ye didn't like Zheng Chenglong either, and said that sooner or later the two of you Huo Huo would be completely finished, this is in my heart, and you and Zheng Chenglong are indeed quarreling because of Dong Ye."

"Actually, at the beginning, I didn't want to get involved in this matter between the two of you, but the problem is that Dong Ye felt that no one else could do it, she felt that at this time, only I could, because she understood me, and the two of us had the same experience, if you can resist the temptation of both of me, then she will be completely relieved, she thinks that if she can resist me, she can stop anyone, she listed me as your ultimate examiner, and begged me for a long time, this time to help her, it is the second time I really help her after she fell in love with you."

"This is not blowing, I Qingqing as long as I start, there is no man who can't be taken, so many years, it's all like this, as long as I fancy the man, I can hold it in my hand, I've never been dissatisfied with dumping people, I've never been dumped, she begged me to help him at that time, so I feel that she has occasionally written a magic shock, I also think that the reason she gave me is a little untenable, I have always felt weird, but now I feel that her real thoughts at that time should be to give herself a reason to choose you or leave you, In fact, whether she chose you or her spare tire at that time, she was still very hesitant and entangled, but she hid it from me again, in fact, at that time, she was already very shaken, you know? ”

"Her spare tire should be a big cat, these years the big cat is there again, there must be no less bad things about you, think about it, when Dong Ye is not there, you and Zheng Chenglong, as well as the big cat group, how many things have you done together, if these things are known to the big cat, he will definitely tell Dong Ye, then you say, Dong Ye doesn't trust you, there is a reason, after all, you Young Master Wen, the girl next to you, that is too much, so long, so many years, Dong Ye has not completely agreed to you, I think the big cat has never played a good role in the middle, he is ready to have some human evidence or something, it will definitely make Dong Ye dare not believe you, and if the big cat is really Dong Ye's spare tire, after so many years, he has also been used as a spare tire for Dong Ye, that is the most real reason why Dong Ye tried you for the last time, whether to marry you or not, she must have been moved by the big cat, she is choosing. ”

"I'm a person, one is one, two is two, what do you say, Dong Ye's feelings for you are definitely more than the big cat, but compared to the aspect of personality, Dong Ye definitely prefers the big cat who can listen to her, rather than you who are so machismo, but on the whole, his love for you is more than that of the big cat."

"Dong Ye also knows that the big cat is not a particularly honest person, so she won't believe all the words that the big cat said to Dong Ye."

"Everyone has their own ideas, their own selfishness, just like Dong Ye never told me about him and the big cat, I never dreamed that for so many years, Dong Ye hid the big cat, even I don't know a little bit, to be honest, if it wasn't for Dong Ye really leaving you in the end, I can't figure out these things until now, until she really left you, I figured it all out."

"When I first approached Zheng Chenglong, I actually came to you, when Dong Ye begged me so much, I definitely wanted to help her, that was my best sister, and after all, it has been several years, and the time I drank in the bar again, you couldn't recognize me and I was normal, so I made a lot of preparations, through other people's arrangements, close to Zheng Chenglong, and then close to you, but I didn't expect you to really dare to refuse me, you know, I Dong Ye drank with you for the first time, and I originally went to fish for you, but because I played dice, I didn't play with you, In the end, I was so angry that I was unconscious, and I didn't even add your contact information, and when I went to test you this time, you really didn't remember me. ”