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In any good relationship, you have too much self-suggestion, telling yourself that it is not good, it will also turn sour.

Now that I decided to let it go, I spent a lot of effort trying to persuade myself: that's not good, that's good.

Useful.

Of course, one of the most effective ways is to silently "denigrate" the other party in your heart:

l is just to treat you as a friend, at most you are a friend who thinks that all aspects of quality are okay and worthy of appreciation.

You're just snatching a little child's toy.

You seriously talked about breaking up this time, and he didn't keep &mdah;I think about it, I think it's strange.

I've had a lot of hands with L, but this time he understood I was serious. The few times before, I lived a normal life with Y in order to escape from him, and it can't be said that I was not serious; But L was always determined to bring me back, and watched triumphantly as I disarmed and surrendered. Now that he doesn't like me less, the key may be that I don't "love" him so much.

l The discomfort that may be there is also self-inflicted on him.

I also brought it on myself. I saw this early on, so in my relationship with L, I never believed in love.

We're all smart and self-conscious, so it's a game. We will always be in the safety of the rear, ready to withdraw at any time, such a maneuver is of course tiring, but it will not be damaged when it is cut off.

I am sure he must know very well my heart for L; Just as I know him.

However, I still have a little unwillingness to belong to women: has he never been a little bit of true affection?

Actually, I have the answer in my heart. The time that this iron rooster with poor character has paid me all these years, as well as money, pleasant and kind words, can't get off the stage to coax me, and every knowing smile we have when we are together is real. Even if we go around and around and hide the truth and reality, there are still some true feelings flowing out and intermingling together.

I just want to hear him say it himself. And yet it's ridiculous&mdah; he won't say it, I won't say it, and he won't ask me to say it.

So I won't ask him to say it either.

And they're all going to break up, what's the point of saying this? Only women care about these meaningless "ritual memorials".

In fact, I know that l does not give a lot&mdah;for people like him&mdah;I always believe that there are no advantages and disadvantages in a relationship, just whether they are suitable for each other. At the end of the relationship, I didn't feel aggrieved at all. That's enough.

It is enough for me to remember many years later that there was a man with a smile and bright eyes, who brought me the warmth of the Sicilian sun, and every day was a dream and a happy life.

This is separation without harm. Don't be like a sentimental Oriental and spit out any tree holes.

If life is the way I want it to be, that's the best way it ends.

I wore the watch that I gave me and sat in the restaurant ordering food. Y sat across from me, looking at the décor in amazement, and asked me, "How did you find this place?" ”

I smiled silently, and remained mysterious&mdah;I certainly wouldn't tell him that he brought me here. I still have two vouchers here, which are about to expire, so it's a pity not to eat them. So when I was passing by today, I came in with Y.

"It looks so expensive!" Y picked at his fingers a little helplessly.

I smiled and said, "It's okay, my wife has a treat today!" I have good news for you! ”

I'm right. In addition to the former S, I am the youngest manager in the company&mdah;and may also be selected for the executive backbone development program.

I will carefully consider L's advice, and after building this platform, I will choose to leave when the time is right in the future.

Y was very happy for me and raised the juice to clink glasses with me. In the dim light, the blue balloon on my wrist shimmered brightly.

I thought that L should still be wearing the watch I gave him, and I don't know where to spend the weekend with my wife and daughter.

Jun knows that the concubine has a husband, and gives the concubine a double pearl. Feeling lingering, tied to the red shirt.

In fact, there are still many wishes that have not been fulfilled: the most expensive buffet in the region, a date in Hokkaido...... I'm going to laugh and laugh with Y, and slowly fulfill all the promises that I haven't kept. I don't have any regrets for myself.

I took Y's hand and felt the warmth of his palm, and I told myself that one day I would forget many people and things, and only those hands would hold me forever.

Y and I are husband and wife, and in the future, we will share weal and death together, and we will form an alliance like an army based on the highest trust of blood bonding. When the real disaster strikes, we will shed blood for each other, and at this time, it is impossible for anyone else to challenge the position of husband or wife.

That's what marriage is all about.

How many people don't know anything about it when they hold the diamond ring and vow. Life will teach us little by little the commonalities and differences between human beings and animals and social attributes. Love is nothing but an accessory to marriage.

Therefore, love can also quietly bloom elsewhere.

What a painful realization.

I suddenly remembered the beginning of this story. Do you remember?

"Yes, I'm not young, 27 years old. I have been in love twice, both of which ended in long-distance relationships, and I am currently an older single leftover girl. ”

I met a man named L and it was love at first sight. He's my boss and married.

The sparkle in his eyes when they first met was like a pebble falling from a calm lake in the early morning.

I still remember the first time I saw L. And then it's like a bloody TV series, it's out of control.

Thankfully, there are moments that are timeless etched into my mind.

Could it be that I also doubted that I had never loved him?

After all, even I can't be sure.

I don't know what I'll leave for l. Maybe it was the relaxed mood of seeing a smiling girl running across the road like a butterfly to herself?

You were all I had

It's just that I look back at every step of the way

It's so lonely to go

Whenever I hear this song, I recall an unknown parallel world, the innocence of the beginning of spring, bitter and difficult step by step to today, there have been entanglements and helplessness, laughter and sweetness, pain and happiness.

Many things will be forgotten in the future, like a big wave sweeping sand.

The woman is like a river. She softly adapts to everything around her, allowing herself to succumb to the flow of her surroundings; Gradually, however, she changed the course of the river and eventually made it what it was.

I have allowed L to leave a mark in my life, and the waves will roll into the sea.

It is enough to have a look at what is left.

After thinking about all this, I decided to shake L's hand and say "thank you" the next time we meet. Treasure. ”

From a rational point of view, in fact, L and I are not suitable. Our personalities are too similar: we are not good at soft communication, we are not good at revealing our needs, and we are not good at taking care of each other's feelings; We all carry a hard protective shell on our backs, hiding our sensitive and soft hearts. So the partner who suits us should be gentle and peaceful, such as Y, and Mrs. L, whom I have never met; In front of them, we can be free and free. The initial attraction of love often arises from one of kind, but at the end sharp contradictions are inevitable&mdah;This is the cause of many lamentable disintegrations of marriages.

After the sadness, it is time to face a new life. All the softness in my heart will belong to only one man named Y in the future.

Returning Jun Mingzhu to tears, why not meet when you are not married.

This verse does not belong to me and l.