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How much I don't want to write about my wedding.

During the Chinese New Year, I first went back to Y's hometown to set up a banquet, and then on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, I went back to my house non-stop, and set up another one, tossing the old people on both sides enough. Physically and mentally exhausted, Y and I are together, and the circle of colleagues should not be a big fanfare, and go back and invite a good friend to have a meal.

The wedding in Y's hometown, of course, must follow the local customs. When I set up wine at my mother-in-law's house, I didn't have any opinions, even if I put on the heavy makeup of the village aunt, put on a cheap performance costume with red sequins, and was chased by a group of little children to compete for a bouquet of flowers...... I smiled at it. It's just that at the banquet, I can't wait to turn my face behind my back so that the crowd doesn't see my appearance.

This is my wedding. My parents stood cramped on the stage to speak, and there was a lot of commotion underneath.

I suddenly remembered that at Little M's wedding, I made a bet with L: in the future, when I get married, there will be a more handsome groom than him standing next to me; l stinky fart said that if the groom is not handsome enough, he will come to the rescue himself. I laughed dumbly: Now this kind of scene, even if L comes, it can't save the scene&mdah;My wedding is not as good as Xiao M's!

I pinned my hopes on my mother's wedding reception.

I rented a wedding dress from the internet, hand-picked the wedding company, followed up on the setup and process, and asked for the details of the packaging of the guests' wedding cakes&mdah, but Y told me that his budget might not be enough.

"The gift money for the wedding in my hometown is not as much as I expected," Y said honestly, "Now the price has risen, and then a lot ......of drinks have been added, which is a bit overspending." Look at your mother's wedding, can some things be simplified, such as lighting, I think it only takes ten minutes, it's not necessary, it's so expensive......"

My face sank: "Y, you promised my mother, you will give me a decent wedding, and you will pay all the expenses." I didn't say a word about the wedding in your hometown, how to do it and how much it cost. I'm more concerned about the weddings on my mother's side, all of them are friends from my childhood and acquaintances of my parents, and you know the family situation of our family, so I can't lose face in front of them. ”

"That's good! How can you lose face! You're just too sharp, and there are some things that you don't want and don't have any effect......"

I don't want to reason with Y, I know I can't explain it to him again and again. I directly flipped through his wallet, took out his bank card, and stuffed it in front of him: "This year, my year-end bonus has been transferred to you, if the money is not enough now, please take out the corresponding amount to make up for it." ”

Y jumped up when he heard this: "How can I do that!" That's a fixed deposit, which will be used for future household expenses. ”

"Getting married is also a family expense."

Y said with a sad face: "It's not necessary......"

I stood up and shook off the next sentence: "If you don't think it's necessary, then I won't get married." ”

Y grabbed me and got angry: "Can you stop being willful?" For so many days, I have been busy booking tickets for my parents, booking hotels for relatives and friends, settling accounts with wedding companies, and entertaining old classmates to drink until dawn. Do you like this wine? Anyway, we also received the certificate, and the banquet was also set up in our hometown. ”

I know this is angry talk, but I'm really angry.

I'm now in your bag, the turtle in your urn, right? You think there's nothing I can do about you right now, do you?

I broke away from his hand and walked straight into the living room, where my parents and Y's parents were sitting on the couch chatting.

I took off the ring on my hand and left it on the table: "Dad, Mom, Y said that this wedding is going to be canceled." Everyone looked at me in astonishment, and they ran out to pull me: "Don't make trouble!" ”

My parents-in-law first reprimanded Y, and my parents also reprimanded me, and then the parents of both sides asked, "For what?" Y replied preemptively, "Nothing!" I've been too tired these days, and I've had a little conflict! It's okay, it's okay! As he spoke, he pushed me into the back room. I sneered in my heart: You also know that you don't have the face to talk about money? Wouldn't you be too hypocritical? However, I didn't poke him&mdah;after all, it's the New Year, and the wedding is coming, don't let the family hurt the harmony.

As long as the problem can be solved.

Y started a cold war with me again. I came out of my parents' room at night and slapped a wad of cash in front of him:

"That's enough," I said coldly, "and I can't miss a single link." ”

"Where did you get the money?" Y was surprised.

I stared at him fiercely, and felt like my heart was about to bleed: "My parents gave it." ”

These tens of thousands of dollars are actually the private money my mother gave me. She said that her daughter was getting married, which was a little bit of her parents' heart. I didn't mention the lack of money for the wedding reception.

"How's that going to work! Can't ask for your parents' money! Y said loudly.

"Then you're paying for it!"

"I didn't say it! The question is why not save what can be saved! Your parents' money is not money? Can you understand something! ”

I couldn't continue to communicate with Y, pointed at him angrily, and roared with tears: "My parents want me to marry off in style, and they want me to marry happily according to my own wishes, they don't care about money!" You don't come out, they can come out! They are out, but you still have to stop me! Do you think it's important for my parents to save money or make me happy? If you do this, not only will I hate you, but my parents will hate you too! ”

Y was not excited: "Calm down!" First of all, I didn't say that I couldn't say the money, and secondly, I just suggested that you reduce some unnecessary expenses, and we can discuss what to do. Think about it yourself, it's not easy for your parents to raise you for 30 years, and now that you're married, why are you embarrassed to use their money? ”

"It's a matter of attitude, okay?" I was still furious, "I'm not unreasonable, I'm angry that you couldn't do what you promised me, or temporarily changed your fortune and discounted it!" Especially in your hometown, I haven't said a word about what you do, and when you get to my house, you have to cut back on the funds, which makes me very cold, you know? ”

"I didn't think so! And I'm also very economical in my hometown......"

By this time, my dad was already standing in the doorway. Y and I looked back and stopped.

"Your mother is asleep," my dad whispered, "Don't quarrel during the Chinese New Year." ”

I knew my mom definitely didn't sleep, and I knew that my mom must be crying if she didn't come.

I was suddenly heartbroken, and I couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground to get into: the daughter you have worked so hard to raise for 30 years is now married, which makes you even more sad.

Y stood up and went to apologize to my dad, but my dad didn't say anything.

I sat in the room dumbfounded. I gave up, I compromised.

That's it.

The wedding was reduced by about 15% according to the budget, and there were no spotlights and bridal entrance corridors. I asked for it to be canceled myself, and Y finally said, "If you really want it, keep it." I shook my head. When Y and I walked hand in hand on a dark red carpet, I laughed at myself Why should I be so persistent&mdah;Everyone is married to him, what are the little shrimps and crabs still making waves?

My wedding, I don't want to remember it a second time in my life.