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The introduction of Y to my mom was a complete accident. …………

Suddenly, she said she was coming to see me again.

"I'll go back during the Chinese New Year! Besides, what should I do if you come to my dad? The last time you came, I heard that my dad ate noodles at once. ”

"I told you, this time your second aunt brought me over by the way, and we'll go back together after she finishes her errands in a few days. Besides, you're more of a worry to me than your dad! ”

"Oh, what do I have to worry about!"

"The last time I saw you, you were almost skinny as a skeleton."

"I've gained weight now, don't you believe I'll take a picture of you and send it over?"

"How did you get fat?"

"The food in the company canteen has improved."

I couldn't convince my mom. Just call my second aunt.

The second aunt's attitude was gentle and resolute: "Yanyan, your mother's ticket was bought by your father, and he wanted to come to see you but couldn't leave, so he asked your mother to come." ”

I was speechless.

When I got home, I began to discuss with Y: it was unrealistic to let him move out immediately, and it was unreasonable for me to let my mother stay in a hotel.

"Just say I'm on a business trip?" I looked at Y in a daze.

"It's so easy for your mother to come here, and you're on a business trip?" Y smiled and said, "Are you so afraid that I will see your mother?" ”

I don't know what to say.

Of course I can't say it directly: because I don't plan to marry you yet, it's better not to let my mom see you.

It seems that the paper can't hold the fire, so I can only give my mother a vaccination in advance.

My mom was as I expected, and when she heard that I had a boyfriend, she immediately jumped high.

"Why didn't you tell me!"

"We didn't talk for long......"

"What for? How did you meet? Where are you from? How old is it? ”

After I dealt with my mother's barrage of questions, I stubbornly confessed: "Well, now we live together, and we live in my house......"

My mother was speechless for a moment, and then she also got up: "Huh? Oh. That's ......."

I know my mom must be a little distraught.

I've been a good girl since I was a child, and although she knows that unmarried cohabitation is common now, and she also knows that her daughter is almost 30 years old and has been in two relationships, but she still has a bit of luck in her heart, thinking that I may still be a virgin or something. When a mother is always like this, she has some unrealistic fantasies, and she avoids asking the truth like an ostrich.

But she quickly changed her tone: "I said that we just talked about it for a long time!" How do you live together! ”

"I didn't tell you because I didn't think it was time yet......"

"It's not time to live together! When do you plan to get your certificate? ”

As soon as I heard this, I quickly changed the subject, praised Y's education and performance, and hung up the phone with a sentence of "Why don't you talk about it when you come".

It was a nice day to pick up my mom.

Sitting in my car, my mother muttered, "A girl's family, it's hard to buy such a big car, and it's hard to watch you drive." Then he turned his head and stubbled with Y unnaturally: "Little Y, what did you just say?" ”

"Import and export trade, Auntie." Y replied with a polite smile.

"How's it going? Is the market good now? The financial crisis won't affect your income, will it? ”

I was at the wheel and speechless. If you want to ask about people's salaries, just say it, my mother-in-law.

"Make do, it's no problem to feed yourself." Y smiled modestly and cautiously.

My mom didn't speak. I know she was thinking: how can you just feed yourself, you have to be able to support my daughter together.

This guy is still-for-tat.

When I got home, I helped my mother settle in the small room next door, and Y showed off her cooking skills, which was appreciated by my mother.

"Really capable! There are very few men who can cook now, Xiao Y, your skills are quite good! My mom smiled as she served me soup.

"Auntie has won the prize." I looked at Y's smug face, and suddenly thought mischievously: Why don't you say that you have been married once, and you were trained by your ex-wife?

My mother continued to inquire: "I heard Yanyan say, you are 35 years old this year? How did you and Yeon-yeon meet? When did you start talking? ”

"Yeon-yeon didn't tell you?" Y bowed his head respectfully and served the soup.

My mom looked at him with a smile and didn't say anything.

The same question, she has to re-verify it from Y's mouth, in case I, an unfilial girl, are deceived. Even I could see that there was a hint of unkindness in Y's tone, and I couldn't tell for a moment whether it was intentional or if it was in his own nature. But it was a bit of a surprise to me. I have the impression that a considerate person like Y must be better at greeting his elders than me. So I didn't tell him anything in advance. As a result, his performance today is respectful and respectful, but there are a little thorns in his words from time to time, as if he has eaten gunpowder.

Of course, my mom is not a vegetarian either. After a meal, I touched Y's family to the door.

I was slightly embarrassed by the whole occasion, as if nothing was going on with me at this family dinner.

In the next few days, we went to work during the day, and when we came back in the evening, we had hot dishes and hot meals, I chatted with my mother, and after washing the dishes, she would peel two fruits for us. On the weekend, my mom said she didn't want to go anywhere, so she cleaned up at home, which made me and Y tired enough.

Then my second aunt came to pick her up.

Before leaving, my mother secretly stuffed me with 1,000 yuan, saying that it was for me to spend money.

I am very glad that she did not directly force the marriage this time.

After my mom left, my life with Y was back on track. Y didn't show any particular excitement and didn't ask my mom about his impression. Strangely, my mom didn't talk to me about her opinion of Y afterwards.

I secretly rejoiced in my heart, it seems that everyone's thoughts coincide: this relationship is still in the investigation period, and it is too early to talk about marriage. But when I think of Xiao M's words, I am full of contradictions: if we can't determine a unified goal, why are we in love and living together? Confidants or bed partners, in fact, we are not lacking.

Life is sometimes complicated, and it can be difficult to understand the truth for a while. I just need to be clear about what kind of life I want to live, and then go straight to the general direction. The torrent of time will tell the answer.

Y's behavior this time is still excellent in all fairness, and his character itself is so unfazed. But I always felt that something was wrong. I was a little unhappy with Y's substantial coldness towards my mom. But I'm not qualified to say anything about him. First, we are not in an unmarried relationship; Second, if the uninvited guest is my future mother-in-law, my face is probably not much better after some interrogation and interrogation.

Another truth that makes me feel quite depressed is that Y and I have the same idea, and we are not in a hurry to talk about marriage. I didn't expect Y to pursue me so eagerly and then resist marriage&mdah; A combination of pure self-interest, I was weighing him with a heavenly balance, and he was secretly examining me.

So did my score qualify?

I suddenly thought of something, and my heart was cold: L's matter must not be known to Y.

The idea of letting him act as a psychological backing for me last time was too risky, maybe people will see what the clue is, and you don't know if you kicked it.

Only then did I realize that the honesty and trust between Y and I was built on ice floe. With no sunk costs, divestment is a matter of minutes. If we were to break up, it wouldn't even be as painful as it was when I broke up with L.

I can finally explain why we both want and reject marriage: we are indeed longing for marriage, but we are not sure whether we are married to each other or not. It's like if I build a temple and prepare it for worship, I send a statue of the Buddha to be worshipped &mdah; I don't build a temple for the Buddha. Such an inversion of the cart leads to the absurd and contradictory mode of thinking of the egoist.

If love is selfish, then who doesn't love themselves the most? In this world, in addition to blood relatives, there is no innocent relationship that can benefit others without self-interest.

After understanding this, I seem to have matured a little bit again, and I have fewer unrealistic fantasies about emotions and marriage.