Section 447 There is a distinction between men and women
The crown prince of the king was born, and on the day of the naming at the end of the third month, the king had to wash his hair, bathe, and put on his royal robes, and the women stood on the east steps, facing the west.dt.com, and the young children were carried by the women of the world, and came up from the west steps, and stood on the west steps, facing east.
After the king named the child, the woman took the child and withdrew.
If the crown prince's half-brother is born, the lady will hold him in the main bed to meet the king, and the king will stroke the child's head and name him with a smile.
The etiquette of naming is basically the same as that of the crown prince, except that there is no reply between the king and the woman.
Name your son, don't use the sun and the moon as the name, don't use the name of the country, don't use the name of the dark disease on the body.
The son of the doctor and the scholar took the name, and he did not dare to have the same name as the prince.
The concubine of the great doctor was about to give birth to a child, and when the month of labor came, the husband had to send someone to greet him once a day.
After the child is born, at the end of the third month, an auspicious day is chosen, everyone washes and cleans, and the day before they fast, and they take the child and their husband to meet in the inner bed, and the husband treats her with the same etiquette as when the concubine first married.
After the husband had eaten, he removed the food and let her eat the rest of the food alone as a sign of preferential treatment.
Then he came to wait for her husband to spend the night.
When the concubine of the king gives birth to a son, she must go to the side room to give birth.
On the day when the child is three months old, the mother of the child washes her hair, bathes her, puts on her dress, and carries the child to the king.
If the monarch has any preference for this concubine, he himself chooses the name of the child; If it is not a child born to a favored concubine, it is named by the relevant officials.
In this case, when it is time for the wife to give birth, the husband should avoid the bedroom and find a room to live in.
As for the husband's daily greetings during the period of childbirth, and the meeting of the father with the child after three months, the number of courtesies is the same as that of the doctor.
If the grandfather of the child is alive, then at the end of March, the ceremony of the child to meet the grandfather is held, and the grandfather also has to name the child, and the etiquette of the visit is the same as that of the son meeting the father, but there is no word to deal with it.
A scholar's wife or a doctor's concubine who nurses the king's child may return home after three years.
Before returning home, the king received them at the palace and offered a reward as a token of his appreciation.
The son of the doctor was fed by a nursing mother, and the wife of the scholar was of a humble status, and she could only feed what she gave birth to.
Children of priests and doctors usually do not see each other until three months have passed, but some of them see each other ten days after they are born.
If the child is the eldest son, it is orthodox, and the gift of the master and the son is to meet before the husband and wife have eaten, and the father must hold the child's right hand; If the child is a concubine and is not orthodox, the gift of the master and son is after the husband and wife have eaten, and the father only has to touch the child's head when they meet.
When your toddler is able to eat on his own, teach him to use his right hand.
When toddlers can speak, they should be taught to answer.
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The purse on the body, made of leather for boys, indicates that he will be engaged in martial arts when he grows up; The girl's silk silk is made to indicate that she will grow up to work as a female worker.
When he is six years old, teach him to count and to discern the north, the south, the north, the west.
At the age of seven, it began to be given to men and women, boys and girls, to sit together at different tables, and to eat at different tables.
When they reach the age of eight, when they go out and enter the door, sit at the table to eat, they must be in front of the elderly, and begin to let them understand the principle of respecting the elderly.
When they reach the age of nine, teach them to know synodic and to use stem to mark dates.
By the age of 10, girls stay at home, while boys leave home to study with teachers outside and live in primary schools outside where they learn literacy and numeracy.
At this time, the clothes and pants worn are not made of silk to prevent extravagance; The rules that have been taught before must also be followed, and do not slack off.
In the morning and evening, learn the etiquette of sprinkling and sweeping, study simple strategies diligently, and learn to treat people with sincerity.
At the age of thirteen, he began to learn musical instruments, recite poetry, and learn to dance the spoon.
At the age of fifteen, they will learn to dance the elephant, learn archery and drive.
When you reach the age of 20, you will be crowned to indicate that you are already an adult, and you will begin to learn the five rites.
At this time, you can wear leather clothes, wear silk clothes, and dance the dance of "Great Xia".
It is necessary to practice filial piety and learn all kinds of knowledge extensively, but it is not enough to educate others, and it is necessary to work hard to accumulate virtue, but it is not enough to be a model for others.
When he was thirty years old, he married a wife, started a family, began to accept the fields and obeyed labor, asked for extensive advice, learned from impermanence, was humble to his friends, and began to associate with people with great ambitions.
When he reached the age of forty, he began to be an official, and he had to consider his suggestions and suggestions again and again, and if the monarch and ministers were in harmony, let him serve, otherwise he would leave.
At the age of fifty, he was appointed as a doctor and participated in the affairs of the state.
When you reach the age of 70 and are old and frail, you should retire.
Whenever a man prays, his left hand is on top and his right hand is on the bottom.
When the girls reached the age of ten, they could not go out like the boys, but they had to stay at home and be taught by the female teacher how to speak softly, how to dress up to be chaste, how to behave in order to obey, and also to teach them the things of female workers such as hemp silk, weaving, weaving, and weaving ribbons for the making of clothes.
They should also be allowed to observe the sacrificial activities, pass on the sacrificial utensils such as wine syrup, beans, sauerkraut, meat sauce, etc., and help the elders place the sacrifices in accordance with the etiquette regulations.
At the age of fifteen, a ceremony is held to signify that he has entered adulthood.
When he reaches the age of twenty, he can marry; If there is a special reason, it is possible to postpone marriage until the age of twenty-three.
If the Ming media is marrying and the six rites are complete, it is a wife who is equal to her husband; If there is no matchmaker to communicate by himself, and the six etiquettes are not complete, it is a concubine.
When a woman prays, her right hand is above and her left hand is down.
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