Definitions in brief

1. What is empathy, the author believes that empathy can be divided into several situations. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

1) Common psychological feelings, when encountering the same thing, the feeling situation is the same, so empathy arises.

2) Acting in the same way, raising and reacting in the same way when encountering a certain kind of same situation.

3) The ability to cognitively cognize, when one party encounters a certain situation, the other party can quickly respond to the amygdala through the signal source, prompting the brain to respond quickly and produce the understanding of the other party. and reflect the results differently.

Second, the response results of different species to different organisms are different.

1) The same general situation of the same species.

2) The performance of different individuals in the same species varies.

3) With the development of the times, the process, progress, and grandeur are different.

Let's take a look at the general development of biology.

There is life in all things in the universe, and every life has its own value and meaning of existence. In the omnipotent universe, what we humans can know at present is that there are the most species of life on Earth. The earth we have always lived in has a large number of earthly lifeforms, and to other lifeforms we are aliens. On the other hand, for us, other terrestrial life forms are not human beings or extraterrestrial life forms that we have been looking for, and in the course of history, human beings have never stopped exploring unknown areas and unknown spaces. For other living conditions, we don't know for the time being whether they have feelings, that is, whether they can achieve empathy. However, many organisms and animals also have a certain amount of empathy, for example, the same maternal talent is to unconsciously protect the young.

The author believes that the IQ of human beings has been tentatively defined as EQ and IQ, and empathy in emotions is a kind of EQ, and in the world of human existence, researchers believe that EQ is more important than IQ. EQ stands for Emotional Intelligence. Among the intellectuals and sensibility, some people are more rational, but those who are too rational are often inhumane, and those who are too emotional are sometimes too ignorant. Therefore, a better human nature should be rational plus emotional, that is, there should be feelings in reason. There should be reason in the relationship. Emotions are sometimes uncontrolled, a natural outpouring, which may be caused by some physiological properties, while rationality is transmitted from the cerebral cortex to the brain center by the response to the outside world. React by storing information through the memory it carries. Or, in their own memory storage, they can process the external situation by reacting to the spirit element, and then make the results of the corresponding processing of things. Of course, the result of processing is inevitably related to a person's growth process. It is closely related to the process of understanding this person from childhood to earth. In interpersonal communication: agreeableness, openness, extroversion, cautiousness, and the personality of each person in the process of understanding, such as love, altruism, tolerance, compassion, compassion, warmth and care, cooperation, respect and empathy, are all important. IQ is rational, EQ is emotional. It's a way of dealing with a problem, and in some cases it's a combination of both.

3. Let's take a look at some Chinese and Western scholars' perceptions of interpersonal responsibility and pain empathy in adolescents:

A large number of scholars in ancient and modern times regard self-reliance as an important personality trait or moral quality, and the literature review and conceptual defense of autonomy and independence have also found that self-reliance and autonomy and independence are different personality constructs, and compared with the independent personality constructs emphasized by Western culture, self-reliance personality is more in line with the characteristics of Chinese culture and Chinese, and is more suitable for the needs of the socialist market economy and China's construction of a harmonious society. However, there has been a lack of direct empirical research to prove whether self-reliant personality really exists in the personality of Chinese. Therefore, justifying the concept of self-reliant personality is a problem that must be solved in the in-depth study of self-reliant personality. Personality trait word is a scientific way to explore personality characteristics, it is preliminarily proved that self-reliant personality is indeed a comprehensive personality characteristic, for the content of self-reliant personality ancient and modern scholars and the present, the public has a relatively consistent understanding, in short, the concept of independent personality is not only the theoretical conception of researchers, but also the reality of personality characteristics used by the public to identify, which can obtain objective empirical evidence, self-reliant personality, research is scientific and reasonable. Based on the results of previous studies, it can be preliminarily concluded that the study of self-reliant personality is scientific and reasonable. Self-reliant personality is defined as a comprehensive personality trait, which is produced in the context of the whole society, and it is closely related to its development according to the historical and national conditions of our country. It is also the natural result of the problems that arise in the middle of the process of survival and development of the individual. He embodies the characteristics of human independence, initiative, responsibility, and openness.

According to the view of Western scholars, interpersonal connection and personal independence and autonomy cannot belong to the same level in the same dimension, so interpersonal self-reliance and personal self-reliance should be established according to the second viewpoint, and the independent personality is a dialectical personality trait, which is different from the personality characteristics of independence and self-reliance in the West. The significant difference is that it emphasizes both the personal content of not being dependent on others and detached from others, and the interpersonal content of being in close contact with others. At the same time, the nature of the individual content involved in the self-reliant personality is also different from the independent autonomy proposed by Western scholars. Therefore, the construction of self-reliant personality traits from the interpersonal and personal aspects can conform to the essential characteristics of self-reliant personality, and it is more conducive to distinguishing self-reliant personality from Western concepts such as independence and autonomy.

In summary, there are differences between China and the West in the process of adolescent growth, but there is a consistency, and their development and growth process are indispensable factors in history, politics, economy, environment, culture, and physiology. However, with the pace of change of the times, the development of a community with a shared future for mankind will lead to the unification of mankind, including: changes in political outlook, ideological outlook, cultural realm, spiritual world, living environment, emotional integration, family, etc., and the new generation of Chinese and Western young generals will be more integrated, and their integration will change the destiny of an era. The integration of cultural knowledge will allow Chinese and Western young people to have a new process of cohesive understanding, so that they can more easily achieve empathy, and the same pain empathy will naturally be higher and more perfect. The next generation will reach the cognitive and emotional process of great unification. Because they will realize that only when there is a good side in empathy, the affection of love can make the world blossom and bear fruit, human beings can have a virtuous circle, and the times can take a big step forward. In the face of the turbulence of the times, fraternity can maintain peace. People need a harmonious environment to share the joy of nature and man. Of course, at this time, the development of Eastern and Western cultures still requires the continuous integration of young people. At the moment, they still need a process.

Of course, when we say that everyone is not perfect, we mean that everyone's cognitive process is different, and the results of understanding are also different, and the process of understanding different leads to different results in interpersonal communication. In the middle of the cognitive process, it is still divided into several types:

1) Empathy recognizes sympathy for the other person, but does not react at all.

2) Empathy recognizes schadenfreude, and the heart is happy.

3) Empathy recognizes the unity of thoughts, expresses agreement and sadness, but does not help.

4) Empathy recognizes the unity of thought, expresses recognition, sympathy, and extends a helping hand to help.

Similarly, when encountering unexpected things again, the situation is different: anxiety, frustration, hostility, impulsiveness, sensitivity, vulnerability, etc., will affect the different pain outcomes of empathy. That is, the results of the reflection of the situation in the individual, between the individual and the individual, between the individual and the group, and between the individual and the society.

4. Interpersonal Responsibility and Pain Empathy in Historical Development:

The development of society since history is a long-term multi-primitive development, in the ancient primitive human era, the first is to survive alone, human beings are also a kind of animal world, there is no difference, things are lost, and the giver survives. In order to survive, human beings must be strong in life, be the master of nature, and face so many natural enemies, tigers, lions, snakes, jackals, wolves, scorpions, centipedes, man-eating eagles, and so on, how do human beings survive. Later, the human development combination made it possible for development to survive better, several people in a group, can develop in small groups, and then form families, and then evolve into small groups, divided into guards, labor, hunting, and, of course, responsible for finding new living space. With the progress of ideas, small societies were formed. Tribes, chieftains, patriarchs, etc., began to appear. After that, there were states, i.e., kings, giants, people, etc. In the middle of human evolution, human beings discovered fire, fire is a symbol of human civilization, through the consumption of cooked food, human brain structure began to undergo a lot of changes, human beings are getting smarter and smarter, human body structure has also undergone great changes, taking off the long hair on the body to evolve to a new climax of human beings. The most important thing in the evolution of species is the structural changes in the human brain. Mankind has chosen to move forward in the process of survival and extinction again and again, and the driving force for this progress is peace, living in harmony, unity and fraternity, and survival in combination. In the middle of evolution, the human brain has changed dramatically from the lower level of organization, and began to develop from the higher level, and human beings began to develop from squeaking to speaking, which is a new level of human development, and then human beings began to use words in the communication of ideas, until today's Internet. These are the culminating crystallization of human wisdom that has changed the fate of mankind. It has perfected the structure of human brain development and reorganization again and again, so that the language center, imaginative thinking, logical ability, and motor cells are combined into a three-dimensional space. Human beings' ability to understand is also constantly improving. In the process of reevolution, human beings have developed love, altruism, tolerance, cooperation concept, respect for others, empathy, mutual assistance, friendliness to others and other good interpersonal communication combinations, and then in the process of interpersonal communication, and constantly realize the importance of responsibility, and then under the premise of responsibility, people first have empathy, and one of the empathy is sentimental pain, because of the pain psychology so sentimental, because of the pain consensus so common emotions that are empathy. So, in the end, humanity chose peace.

From this, we deduce that the development of interpersonal responsibility and pain empathy is the product of the highly developed progress of human civilization, the consensus of human beings, and a natural response of innate wisdom and stored in human genes. In the redevelopment, empathy also has new unique qualities, such as trust, straightforwardness, meekness, modesty, compassion, etc., and the pleasantness of positive personality is significantly positively correlated with the openness of positive personality that represents imagination, aesthetic feelings, tastes new ideas, and constantly tests old ideas. In the process of human development and evolution, human beings have produced these beautiful ideological sources, which have left one beautiful influence after another in the history of human beings. And these are the high-quality characters and national characteristics that people produce in the process of daily life, as large as the country, and in the process of national development, which also represents a new stage in the evolution of high-material species. The Chinese dream and the world dream are also the biggest evolution, which turned the Third World War into a civilized war and a war of win-win cooperation. A constructive war on an unprecedented scale. From single to diverse, it reflects all-round development. He is also the result of these qualities, love, altruism, kindness, respect, cooperation, win-win, peace, enthusiasm, change, trust, meekness, modesty, compassion, positivity, etc. He avoids the erroneous interpersonal interactions that come with anxiety, frustration, hostility, impulsiveness, sensitivity, vulnerability, pain, disappointment, hurt, pathos, and other impulsive explosions of war, and he also brings irresponsible and painless empathy. Therefore, interpersonal responsibility is positively correlated with pain empathy. Regardless of the method, the end result is the same.

Of course, although they are all the same species, the species and varieties are different, that is, the genes carried by the human body are different, and there are differences in understanding.