Puzzles and Treatises (3)

Although it has been mentioned before, it is better to take a look at Baochai's experience, otherwise it will inevitably be a little indebted, and it will be a bit verbose. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

Baochai's family has her mother, Aunt Xue, and her brother Xue Pan. Mother Aunt Xue is a well-informed person, and brother Xue Pan is a standard gentleman. The residences used to include Lixiangyuan and Yuwuyuan. And the positive and negative evaluation of Baochai has always been nothing more than appearance, talent, handling things, etc., and you can also take a look at it from now on.

Baochai appeared in the fourth round, and this appearance showed a mature female image in terms of appearance, talent, and handling, not like a teenager, that is, she was precocious and familiar in all aspects. In this regard, not only can we see from "Dream of Red Mansions" that Baoyu is alienated from her, in other words, Cao Xueqin also has a vague alienation from her, which may be related to Cao Xueqin's personal experience, and Baochai's social archetypal status may also be quite high.

Baochai entered Beijing for the draft girl, and the reason is not given in the book. The derivation may be as follows: 1. Baochai's own problems. The Qing Dynasty draft was strict, considering the seventh round of Baochai's illness, then the story of Chu Huai Wang's beauty cutting her nose would not appear; Considering the image of the fourth and twenty-eighth chapters of Baochai, then the story of Queen Wang Wan of Han Xiaojing will not appear. Second, Yuan Chun refused to help, or did not want to have competitors in the palace, or selfishly left Baochai to Baoyu, and the mother and daughter were dedicated to Yuan Chun understanding Mrs. Wang's thoughts. Baochai can't help but have a knot, such as saying in the thirtieth chapter: "I am like Concubine Yang, but there is no good brother and good brother who can be Yang Guozhong!" Note that Baochai's psychology is very unfavorable to her in Jiafu, this disadvantage is only caused by Baoyu alone, and this is late and wrong at the wrong time, making Baoyu like a "spare tire".

In the fifth chapter, it is said that "Baochai's behavior is open-minded, and when he obeys, he is not as tall as Daiyu, and his eyes are not dusty, so he is bigger than Daiyu and has the heart of the people" It is not easy for people to be evaluated like this, and the dust between personnel must be diligent and meticulous, unless the heart is not here. Then, Baochai's long-term residence in Jiafu will be compared with the young children in Jiafu and even the four major families, and Baoyu is undoubtedly one of the outstanding figures. Whether Baochai or the Xue family has this aspect of their minds is reflected in the eighth chapter, as analyzed above, because of Daiyu's disturbance and Baochai's reserve, the Xue family had to cool down.

In any case, Baochai in the eighth episode than psychic will be emotionally missed with Baoyu. She entered Beijing from a very high starting point, and the purpose of the draft girl was to climb the dragon and attach the phoenix, ignoring the people in front of her. Here's a look at the possible differences between men and women in their conceptions of time. Boys are easily constancy or emotional constancy in their concept of time. Whether he has knowledge or not, or understands philosophy, his mind may also be constant. Sometimes boys and girls are coaxing their children, and they don't know who is more childlike. But the boy's childlike innocence must be real, look at Baoyu's psychological age gap with Daiyu, and the girl's strength is repeated in many men and women. For some reason, a girl is sensitive to time, and it is difficult to remember every minute and every second, and she often forgets that the boy is still in place as time progresses. Therefore, girls are more realistic than boys. Perhaps men and women are forever suffering from jet lag, which is also a common problem in the heart of the young earth except for the mature. There is no right or wrong between men and women, only yin and yang; Just want men and women to know what to miss. In reality, some people will always think that girls are weak, and this sentence is wrong. First of all, girls are independent in modern society, and importantly, financially independent. Secondly, modern girls have a high level of maturity. Not only the post-90s, but also the post-00s are scary. Therefore, men and women are completely equal in feelings, which means that men and women are emotional, and those who are dynamic are not included; Note that this discussion of misrelationship is not included. And, in general, girls predominate. Because of the strong group nature of girls, modern group conditions can basically ensure that girls are completely free from psychological and physical harm; Female "assault exceeders" are not among them. There are two common types of boys pursuing girls: female fans and female ghosts. Boys who are "female fans" should be prepared for figs, because girls and girlfriends will label boys as green, and boys can use them as their first "paint" in life. As a veteran of the love field, whether the boy is successful depends on whether the girl is vain, because even the clear eye of the girlfriend cannot prevent him from making mistakes, so it makes sense for a poor girl to be rich. If men and women are reciprocal, girlfriends can be an obstacle. Because once a man and a woman begin to experience a relationship, girlfriends are equal to a third party. Girls often mistakenly believe that in the emotional Colosseum, they are a group of people, and the opposite is a boy alone. But be careful: the doors of the Colosseum of Feelings are never locked. The boy can retreat at any time, just look at his mind; At this time, it is very likely that the male student will have a constant hierarchy of relations between men and women - in the past, it was said that men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the paper, which may have originated here; At this time, the boy is very likely to retreat, on the condition that one of the other girls and the other boy have their own careers. After that, it may be a memory that girls often sigh about. If you are wrong, you may miss it. Girls don't actually have to, because the peerless Fanghua Teresa Teng and Anita Mui are all embarrassed, and the men and women who want to know about it are all regretful. Since then, girls have avoided looking at people with hunting eyes, which is both unreasonable and bitter. For boys, if the portion is insufficient and missed, it is taboo to think wrong and feel sorry for themselves. Because the traditional education of boys is convergence, and the modern society is full of indulgence, it will be very painful if you can't let it go freely, like Leslie Cheung in Hong Kong and Robin Williams in the United States. Once the boy has formed a strong heart, remember what Ding Wei said in "Bright Sword": "Fight it out and talk about it." "Because there are too many ancient and modern Chinese and foreign means, and the network is so developed, the specific content is searched by yourself, as long as you remember to find the signs, you will face it and wave it to break it, which is what men should do, especially in this era of pan-love that is not because of people but because of the public. China has been based on Taoism and kung fu since ancient times, although the Chinese people are not weak in this regard, and they learn more from the West in terms of emotional delicacy.

Back to the text: It would be fine if Baochai had no intention of this aspect, but everyone lived together and Baochai declared that the behavior of existence contradicted this. The eighteenth chapter helped Baoyu to narrate, and the nineteenth chapter did not forget to remind this matter; The twenty-first time, pay attention to the attack; The twenty-second chapter talks about Zen; The twenty-fifth laughing marriage; In the twenty-sixth episode, "we have deviated from something new", some people will say: This is not that people are not allowed to live. But in the twenty-seventh episode, Baochai secretly listened to Hongyu and Shen'er's private conversation, and at that time, his Jing Baochai blurted out: "Feng'er, I see where you are hiding!" She pointed out that Daiyu should be the first reaction of the subconscious, not without a cause. The subsequent "just bite a snake when you meet a snake" is terrifying. In Baochai's book, there are only two places where anger is like fire and sharp needles, both of which arise because of Baoyu. Although the flaws are not concealed, this section leads some people to speculate that the bird's nest was hidden in Daiyu in the forty-fifth round, which made Daiyu's condition worsen and tend to die early. The pros and cons of Baochai undoubtedly prove the existence of human nature, people are not sages - Baochai reads the books of sages and acts according to the principles of sages, but in the end, personal temperament exists, so the character can be unsatisfactory but can be full.

It can be seen that from the fourth time that she said that she wanted to draft to the twenty-eighth round of Yuanchun display arrangement, Baochai has been inadvertently carrying out all kinds of "insertion" activities between Bao Dai, until the twenty-ninth time, Jia's mother rejected Daoist Zhang's proposal to break Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue's plan. However, people are not as good as heaven, because Mrs. Wang's heart was depressed, causing Jin Chu'er to be angry in the thirtieth round, so that she threw herself into the well and died, Baochai had to go to Mrs. Wang in person in the thirty-second time to untie and send clothes. In the thirty-third time, Baoyu was beaten, and the thirty-fourth time to explore Baoyu's feelings, "the wrong way to persuade my brother" here completely staggered Baochai's life trajectory. Because Baochai can ignore the "golden and jade good fate" and start a new stove elsewhere, this stupid overlord can't end it with a sentence of "leave this and don't mention it", Baochai has no other way but to go down this not-so-bright road. It can only be said here that etiquette is not shallow to harm people.

In this regard, Baochai can't help but let go of the roles of men and women who are in love, since the thirty-fifth time Ying'er smiled: "You don't know how many benefits our girl has that the world doesn't have, and the appearance is still the same", to the thirty-sixth time, "Baochai just looked at the work, so he didn't pay attention, squatted, and just sat where the attacker was sitting, because he saw that the job was really cute, he couldn't help but pick up the needle and stab him for him"; From Ying'er to the attacking needlework, one is her maid and the other is her deputy, what Baochai doesn't love at this time is their needlework, what she loves is the distance between them and Baoyu, and what she loves is the position where she can sit next to Baoyu. In this scene, "I saw Baoyu wearing a silver and red gauze shirt, casually falling asleep on the bed, and Baochai sitting next to her doing needlework" should only be like husband and wife. At this time, "I suddenly saw Baoyu shouting and scolding in a dream: 'How can the words of the monk and Taoist priest be trusted? What is the marriage of gold and jade, I prefer to say that it is the marriage of wood and stone! This can be said to be the farthest love words that Baochai has heard in Baoyu's closest distance, and what else can Baochai feel besides "being stunned" and being stunned.

After that, Baochai and Dai all looked much more mature, Baoyu and Daiyu talked about their hearts in the thirty-second round, and Baochai's thoughts were heard in the thirty-sixth time, and the relationship between the three people stumbled and got on the right track. In the subsequent development, Baochai's strong strengths began to play a role, just like the seventieth episode of "good wind frequency borrows strength, send me to the green clouds" Baochai succeeded in saving the country in the case of facing insufficient and Daiyu. The forty-fifth round of friends Daiyu is personal, and the fifty-sixth round of the benefits of the whole Jia Mansion are recognized by both Baoyu and everyone. Because Baochai's biggest strength is to be able to manage the family, it is the management talent that Jiafu urgently needs, and her way of managing the family is a flexible way different from Sister Feng's quick knife, which is commendable. And Daiyu is not ignorant from the sixty-second round, but knowing and doing are two different things, like Sister Feng's evaluation of Baoyu "Although there is a Baoyu, he is not the goods here, even if he is ambushed, it is useless"; commented on Daiyu, "Besides, one is a beauty lamp, and it will be broken when the wind blows." Baochai can manage the family, but what he lacks is his reputation, and he has to do the exploration of "Empress E" in his heart.

In the forty-second chapter of Gengchen's book in "Dream of Red Mansions", there is a saying about "hairpin and dai in one" in the comment of "Fat Yan Zhai": "Although there are two names of hairpin jade, people are one, and this magic pen is also." By the time the thirty-eighth chapter of the book is more than one-third, it is written to make the two become one. Please look at the text of Baochai after Daiyu's death to know that the rest of the words are true. This seems to point out a clear path for Baochai.

The explanation of this "unity of hairpin and dai" can be seen from the text of the book, first of all, the relationship between the two hairpins tends to be harmonious, and the thirty-eighth chapter of Xue Baochai's "sarcasm and crab song" style seems to be like Daiyu's sharp mouth; In the forty-second episode of "Problem Solving", Baochai explained social principles with his own experience and Daiyu, which was common in society at that time; In the same time, "Baoyu watched from the sidelines, only felt better, and did not regret that he should not be allowed to take his sideburns, but should also be kept, and asked him to take them away for him at this time", reflecting Baoyu's desire for the two to live in harmony; From the forty-fifth episode of "Golden Ranch Mutual Dissection of Jinlan Language" to the fifty-seventh episode of "Aunt Ci's Love Language Comforting the Idiot", Hai Dai is like a family, which can be said to be the result of the efforts of the Xue family, which is the basic work of Confucianism in Chinese society. Secondly, if Baochai and Daiyu are considered as one person in the social archetype, it is also understandable, because a person can be condescending and respectful, then girls can also change, like the infant Ning in "Strange Tales from Liaozhai" can exist from laughing to not laughing, and the girl's reserve before marriage to presumptuous after marriage may also exist, isn't this the case with Xia Jingui in the book? Furthermore, the explanation of "Looking at the text of Baochai after Daiyu's death" in Fat Yan Zhai is not in a good way that Daiyu is still alive even though she is dead? Baochai's nature is like this, if it is intentional, it is really well-intentioned, Baoyu has a wife like this, why do you hate? Those "difficult to settle" are not necessary.

Baochai is a collection of Chinese women's virtues, although she has shortcomings, but as the sixty-third chapter of the reputation of the American flower peony, "Ren is ruthless and moving", everyone loves.

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