The "common people" of the army compound (3) (3)

Last night, God quietly sent a heavy snowfall to the city of Beijing, which was sleeping in the arms of Mother Earth, and the mountains were fat, the rivers were thin, the sky was low, the ground was thick, and everywhere was covered in silver. The www.biquge.info sky was just bright, and the fine snowflakes were still fluttering in the air, Yang Chuanfu walked carefully on the side road of Fuxing Road, and the fresh and cool air made people feel refreshed.

Because it was still early and it was a Sunday, there were occasional cars passing by the roadway, and there were few pedestrians on the sidewalk, and a few sanitation workers wrapped in thick cotton clothes mechanically waved their brooms under the street lamps to clear the snow.

Yang Chuanfu did not go to the place where the sanitation workers cleaned the snow, he liked to listen to the "crunch, crunch" sound made by the soles of his shoes stepping on the snow, and deliberately walked to places with a lot of snow. When I was a child living in the countryside, adults and children liked to snow heavily, in addition to knowing the truth of "Ruixue Trillion Year", adults did not have to worry about being driven to work in the field by the production captain, and it was rare to have a chance to rest and chat at home during the day, and the children also had a reason to run around in and out of the hospital, and they did not have to be afraid of being slapped on the ass when their clothes were dirty.

A gray cat walked unhurriedly in front of Yang Chuanfu, like an artist, drawing a picture on the snow with its paws that no one could understand.

Zheng Lina was afraid of the snow and the road was slippery, so she didn't want Yang Chuanfu to go out alone, worried that it would be unsafe for him to walk on the road, but Yang Chuanfu insisted on going outside to take a walk and take a look, he liked to enjoy the snow scene of the city.

Recently, Yang Chuanfu rarely walks on the road of rejuvenation, Fei Yuanqing quit his job at the publishing house due to physical reasons, as long as the weather is good, he will ask Yang Chuanfu to go to the nearby park to exercise almost every day or two, and the two of them also went to Lotus Pond Park yesterday.

Yang Chuanfu traveled all year round when he was in office, and when Qiu Ping was young, he took her to the park with Zheng Lina a few times, and later, including the past few years after retirement, he rarely went back to the park.

Fei Yuanqing is familiar with the roads when he goes to several nearby parks, sometimes he takes his little grandson to play in the park, and sometimes he goes to the park alone to find someone to chat.

On the road to Lotus Pond Park yesterday, Yang Chuanfu followed behind Fei Yuanqing's ass and joked: "Your brakes are broken, why are you walking so fast!" This year is approaching the end of the year, I heard some people say, this time is the rich to count the money, the lack of money leisure, we go to the park together, is there money or no money? ”

Fei Yuanqing slowed down and said: "What I heard is that when the end of the year is approaching, there is no money to make money, and there is money to leisure. These two statements are summed up together, that is, if you have money or not, you will still celebrate the New Year, and the rich may not have a happy year, and the rich will not necessarily have an unhappy year. Happiness is actually the perception of a person's inner world, which has little to do with the surplus and deficiency of external materials, or whether a person is happy or not does not lie in the vision of others, but in his own feelings. ”

Yang Chuanfu caught up with Fei Yuanqing, walked side by side with him and said: "'Professor Fei' is really worthy of being a lecturer, and what words have a taste as soon as they come out of your mouth." You're right, more money and less money isn't the only criterion for determining happiness and a good mood in life. However, sometimes you explain some truths very thoroughly, why don't you act according to your own reasoning in real life? I mean your family affair. ”

Fei Yuanqing smiled and said to Yang Chuanfu: "The words of the 'bureau' are very interesting, this can be regarded as a common problem for some people who use reason to educate others, I have been thinking about it for a long time and thinking a lot about it because I am not in good health recently, and I have thought a lot of truths, but these truths cannot change my behavior quickly, such as the premature death of my wife and the unsatisfactory work and life arrangements of my children. ”

Fei Yuanqing and Yang Chuanfu were talking, their mouths shook like beer bottles a few times, and when they opened the lid, they began to foam again.

Yang Chuanfu shifted from being downwind of Fei Yuanqing to going upwind of him, and said in his heart: "The sprinkler truck is working again!" He continued Fei Yuanqing's topic and said: "There are many things in the world that people can't change, and it's useless to think too much, such as people's life expectancy is limited, and from the day they are born, they press the timer to end their lives." If you always think that I will live one day less, you will be very pessimistic; If you can think of me living and earning a day, I will be optimistic. When we can't change the reality, we must learn to change the mentality, a person's life, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, joy is intertwined, and anything can happen. For many things, you should not be happy if you have it, don't be sad if you lose it, live in the present, cherish today, look at the clouds in the sky and the breeze is light, and look at everything on the ground. People's lives are actually like a glass of water, if you add a little sugar, it will be sweet, if you add a little salt, it will be salty, completely rely on yourself to adjust it. ”

"You said it very well, people of our age should say that there are many things that can be taken and put down. However, there are still many things that you have to face and deal with, and it is difficult to make a decision for a while. I have lived for more than sixty years, and now I am not afraid of death, and death is a relief; I'm not afraid to live, it's a kind of improvisation. What I am afraid of is half-dead or worse than dead. You once told me that there are countless 'yesterdays' and 'tomorrows' in a person's life, but there is only one 'today', so we should cherish the present, and I don't understand this truth. Fei Yuanqing said, "You told me last time that you can't regret changing jobs, this is a past that can't be changed, and I shouldn't consume today's brain cells for the regretful things I did in the past." Life is a trip that cannot be turned back, and every place that passes by and stays, whether good or bad, is a unique scenery that is worth recalling and cherishing. And, sometimes, the more winding the road, the more charming the scenery. If you think about it, it's true. ”

Yang Chuanfufu nodded: "Therefore, we should not sigh for yesterday, if we blindly regret or frustrate the past, it can only be that we can't get by ourselves." Many people sometimes can't control themselves and always use today's time to regret yesterday's events, which should not be. When you focus on the present and no longer regret the past, it means that you are relieved. I sometimes think that it is good to be a person in the world, although there are also bitter worries, there are also joys and sorrows, but when you are hungry, you can have food to fill your hunger, when you are thirsty, you can have water to quench your thirst, when you are sleepy, you can sleep in a bed, every day there are countless hopes that can be satisfied, and there are countless tomorrows to look forward to. Some people always think that what you want but can't get is the best, but in fact, there is a big gap between what you imagine and what you actually have, and what you already have may be the best, but you can't feel it. Everyone is a craftsman who creates their own happy life, the key is what kind of life attitude you adopt to deal with the world, and whether you can dig out the source of happiness in the land under your feet. Some people are too tired to live in the world, and they want to bow their heads to pick up money, afraid that the pie in the sky will not be able to catch it, and they want to look up at the sky, but they are afraid that the money on the ground will be picked up by others. There are also those who take power and money too seriously, go to great lengths and use all their means, always wanting to own them, but in fact being owned by them. ”

Fei Yuanqing listened to Yang Chuanfu's words, nodded and said: "Your words are very profound, some people just think too much about their own affairs before they ask for trouble. People are happy as soon as they are simple, but there are very few people who can master the method of happiness; People suffer as soon as they are complicated, but unfortunately, there are many people who fall into the quagmire of pain. ”

Yang Chuanfu smiled: "Very good, I hope your advanced theory can be in line with your practical actions!" ”

Fei Yuanqing continued: "I have a very good friend, who is also a demobilized cadre in the army, who works in the city storage and transportation company, engaged in logistics, and I am also very familiar with his lover, who works in the maternity hospital and engages in abortion. This friend of mine is not a big official, at the level of deputy director, but he has real power, he did not expect to be dismissed from his post in the organization and let him be sent to another unit as an ordinary cadre. His lover called me and said, Brother Fei, come over and persuade him, I'm afraid he won't be able to get over this hurdle. When I arrived at his house, I saw him sitting alone on the sofa, smoking desperately, flashing fires, puffs of smoke, like a tribute to the lost power. I know that the organizational adjustment of his work is due to the fact that he heard that the masses had reacted to his behavior and took measures in time. I sat across from him on the couch at his house, silently watching him smoke. After smoking a cigarette, he was about to extinguish the cigarette butt in the ashtray, I grabbed his wrist and said, why don't you smoke it, keep smoking! He stared at me with puzzled eyes and asked, what do you mean, you want the fire to burn me? I said, it turns out that you also know that you let go of the fire before it burns you! My friend listened to my words and was stunned on the sofa for a long time without speaking. I stood up and told his lover, "Leave him alone, let him think about it for himself," and then he went home. Later, his lover called me and told me that my comrade-in-arms, the former division chief, had been 'taken away' by the Commission for Discipline Inspection, and that my comrade-in-arms had been transferred out, which should be a fortunate thing, and that the organization was saving him. In fact, some people are like leaves, shaking their heads when they are proud, and they are swept away when they are frustrated. My comrade-in-arms may have had an effect on him, or it may have been the matter of the Commissioner that alerted him, or it may have been both, and he later figured out his own affairs, and now he is still living a relatively chic and comfortable life. (To be continued.) )