Chapter 21: Good luck

"Don't say anything you need to make money, which one doesn't need to make money, you should take your own responsibility, I said I have a baby, what about myself, I have to find the old man to help me see, but I don't want to do it for a day. ”

"We have a mortgage, I don't have this problem, I don't have that difficulty, so you have to help me, what kind of logic is this? This is not the correct logic, all this daughter-in-law in the world, we must be self-reliant, so that we can support you, you can give birth to you before you give birth to you You think about this problem, don't lose a face when the time comes, my mother-in-law has to help me take care of the child, that is, she is not right to others, there is nothing wrong with this, what is wrong with this is that your own ideas are wrong, the family helps each other, treats each other with love."

"It's right to put love first in this family, but don't ask too much, don't kidnap morally, that's not right. ”

So I said do you want to break up, don't you think there's something wrong with that? You just want to break up, really, I said this eyebrows, I don't want to break up, I don't want to break up, why do you want to ask him? You know that your boyfriend is a poor bastard, you tell others, what you said is interesting, what do you say, my boyfriend is good at everything, just poor, I have to be honest when I see this sentence, how old is he, tomatoes are tidy and tidy, there will be no long things, how can you be so poor, what do you want?

My place didn't even afford to buy any. Such equipment that can make one's life stable, then this person is a problem of ability, you can call your boyfriend without saying this, he is not a problem of poverty, but a problem of ability, can it be replaced like this? Can this conclusion be deduced? In fact, there is a lot to say.

You're 35 years old today, and everyone must have heard it, this lady is divorced, right? And focused on explaining to our screenwriter why he divorced and had no children, saying that it was because he was poor, no need to explain, you have explained a lot just now, you divorced him like this before, because of emotional discord, and your ex-husband always quarreled, you gave the child to your ex-husband when you divorced, generally only in the child's winter and summer vacations, you can stay for three or five days at a time, and the child is not in the same city, but the distance is not very far, so you will also go to the child to see him, but the average child is likely to not see him for a few months when he goes to school。

I want to say that you are a qualified mother, and all netizens will not agree. It's not because you're poor that you don't raise your children, it's for this reason, what efforts have you made to improve your living conditions? If you don't do anything, is it a normal age to go to work? I have seen many sisters grit their teeth in pain after divorce, and indeed because of their own conditions, they are really not able to raise their children, and they will always think of some way out after working hard, so that they can be financially rich, and they can give their children more support, or take their children to their side, you will answer me, you have not done anything, no, you are very active in love.

And found such a poor boyfriend, you said that you plan to put your energy in the future to support his life, tell others, there were no children at that time because the conditions were not very good, so there is no need for the boyfriend who is now made, this boyfriend is 37 years old, has been dating for a year, the boyfriend is also divorced, the previous marriage, he has no children, right, said that he divorced because he always played games, in addition to moving to the house, it is estimated that he may have given a little money, let him use it for decoration, he has no long things. Said that my boyfriend's character is very good, the biggest drawback is poverty, and the previous divorce was because of playthings and irresponsibility to the family, you didn't say much, but the reason for the previous divorce was because of addiction to games, what does this translate to?

It's not going through life at all, and it's not responsible for the family and the wife at all, and it's been kicked by people, right? It's been a few years since the divorce, and he still has no work, in your words, I didn't work hard, I said what you do to work hard to improve, that is, your current skin condition, I didn't work hard, I'm still like that. Do you two really have some places that are very compatible? The attitude towards life is the same, but this is not enough, because he is poor, you tell him that you want to marry him, and you want a bride price of 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, but he doesn't know her well, she should really not have this, and the other is that he wants a child after she gets married.

Madam, I really want a child, he has no long things, you stand still, do you have the money to raise a child? I can convince you, what questions do you answer neatly, no, you didn't tell him, you said you want children, we don't have money to raise children, you don't have money, that means you can still earn money to raise, rich days can be flat, this is a normal day, but you can also afford to support them, as long as you give birth to the rest of the things are later, and then say that it doesn't mean that, what does he mean as long as you are on the list, do you believe it? I don't believe it, I think to me, everyone doesn't believe it, now you're in a relationship with him, is he still playing games? It's the kind of game that plays games and spends money on it, and I say it's not the glory of kings. You don't hear what I mean, let me tell you, maybe he also wants to be a RMB player, he has to have it, he has no money, so he has to stop being a RMB player, they don't have money?

He married a daughter-in-law, and he couldn't even get a little bride price, what kind of RMB player should he be. I understand everything, you don't want children, you want a bride price, but he wants children, and they don't give you a bride price, so you want to ask the translator and everyone should be with him, and you think about your future life scene. He's very poor, he just can't afford to raise children, he's not responsible for his family, there's nothing to be responsible for, you two are in love now, it's bound to behave better when you fall in love, right?

So now I also work, I also date you, and I only play games for the rest of the time, but after being married for a long time, aren't you afraid to follow the old path of his ex-wife? Don't use your mental head on the subject, you have nothing to do and think about it, how can you make a breakthrough in this work, make more money and see your children, and then support and support him more, he needs you more mentally and materially than your object in all aspects.

A man who is almost 40 years old is still playing games, seeking a little pleasure of success in the virtual world, and if he doesn't pursue it, he will live by drawing cakes? The heart is like stopping water and saying that this is the law of attraction, what kind of person you are will attract what kind of person, I have a happy lemon said that you think you are poor elsewhere, the first divorce, because this man is poor, maybe he has no children, in case of divorce, this child is not scolded again?

This condition is not good, and he has children, he doesn't want to have any more children, but her boyfriend is 37 years old, and he doesn't have children himself, he must want a child I heard that if they want to pit each other, they will get married, but don't have children, we have a clover, saying that playthings are the most terrible, and I can't eat anymore and want me to educate the next generation, not to educate the next generation to breed, that is, the statement can be said to be more ugly and then, I understand everyone's emotion, saying that they can't be together is friends, do you think this lady will believe me just now? In the end, he may be, then I don't want a bride price, I've been in it for a year, I have a feeling that I don't want a bride price, we are together, and then it is likely that my boyfriend will say it.

If you don't want a child, you want a child, then give birth, but whoever has one sheep is also herding, and two sheep are also herding, giving birth to a child feels like herding sheep, and raising a child feels like herding sheep. Then another one, as for what kind of life the child lives, what kind of education, what kind of place, this no matter what kind of life we are only responsible for, right, my boyfriend wants to wow, if there is a child, there is a child, there is a need, I want to say, no matter what the quality of the person is, but I want to give birth to me, I have to give birth, I sometimes use the right is not, so just say that this is the matter of playing games, playing games, how do I think to say it? Don't say anything else.,This game.,Maybe everyone doesn't know how to play games.,In fact, I sometimes play a game of what my feelings are.,It's a loser in life.,The best sense of security.,The best place of sustenance.,I mean a plaything is a person who is demoralized.,The game is a plaything.,People are people who play games.,People who are slumped in other aspects of life.,Their best dream sense of security will be in the game.。

Anything can be used in real life, and it's very ugly that you don't succeed in the game. You can satisfy this sense of existence with these wishes, you can play with it, but after all, what is it, all the illusory things are for yourself, especially big, especially beautiful soap bubbles, in real life, pick off your clothes, take off your clothes, and the soap bubbles burst, so, so what is the difference between a loser and an innocuous friend who occasionally plays games?

It's just that it's harmless to play games occasionally.,I think it's just a game of him at will.,It's just a game, right?I'm probably not in the game.,I don't care about winning or losing in front of this head.,I don't care if I can eat chicken tonight.,Because he's something.,It's a kind of relaxation in life.,All of a sudden's play is excessive.,What is the kind of plaything that is demoralized? I can't go to the game, because if I don't play the game, if I don't have any presence in the game, I don't feel like I'm a person in this world.

But I have to give the child to him, I am now, the child has always been with me, since birth has been with me to live, and then reluctant, but for the sake of the child's future, I am still more entangled in this matter, the child's father has a much higher education level than me, and then, whether it is from the economy, or this school district housing, and the child's future education may be better than me, I am still now.

There was a bit of a tangle between the eight hours, and the condition he put forward was that if it fell on his side, he would have to give him custody of the child, which was a kind of coercion. I think so, but I'm just playing together now, ah I know what you said you want to say, what you just said is very comprehensive, I believe we all understand, you want your children to go to better schools, receive better education, you you you want your children to have a better future in the future, we all know this, but the custody issue, because you told Sister Bian the details of this matter.