On New Year's Day after Chinese New Year's Eve, people did not reduce the flow of happiness and program in the plague that was about to ravage the country.

The Spring Festival exists because of heaven and earth, and in the world, perhaps only in the world of children, will it be more nostalgic and colorful!

Although the afternoon of the Chinese New Year is still winter, it seems to be much warmer in a more joyful atmosphere than before.

At this time, I saw a few slightly older and cheerful children, I don't know when, in the restraint of a new dress, like a lively and curious squirrel, with a skillful naughtiness, came to the courtyard of grandma's house again!

For the sake of my own children and other children to enjoy the joy of the holidays, I quickly seized the opportunity, just like keeping the beautiful birds, and prepared to take out all the toys in the house and distribute them as bait to the children who were playing in heaven.

However, I didn't expect that when I was holding the bow and arrow I bought at Yingjiang Temple for the second time, I saw my grandmother walking towards me, giving me a serious look, hoping that I would take back the toy again.

At that time, I understood that my grandmother was worried that she would break the children, or that they would take them. But it's a godsend for your child's social recovery.

Although, I think her obstruction is normal, after all, some toys have been taken out. However, for some reason, the moment I touched her eyes, I suddenly felt a familiar disgust pass by. Then, I didn't have time to think about it, so I pretended not to understand and hurriedly walked out...

When I came to the door, looked at the happy children, and then recalled the moment when I came into contact with my grandmother's eyes just now, I suddenly understood that the familiar disgust just now was the negative consciousness in my original subconscious, and in the corresponding eye inducement of my grandmother, I quickly reproduced my conscious experience, and awakened the conscious experience of my mother, and now my sister, and sister-in-law, who have passed away for many years!

Because in the past, I have grown up all the way to today, and the eyes that used to be like this have existed in my world for a long time. And today, this kind of gray eyes that are out of balance in the soul have long made me a god-like prodigal son, gradually transcending life, transcending reality, transcending life and death, and even transcending the cold and warm world of ice and fire...

Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, this is just a look at cherished objects, so why make a fuss? But in fact, from a psychological point of view, behind this kind of look, there is ubiquitous reproduction and green water duckweed that highlights fate. Just like the night of a waning moon, it can make the already dazed earth feel even darker in desolation!

Just like my former mother, my current sister, my sister-in-law, and today's grandmother. Behind their eyes, and the chaos and sorrow of their lives, there is actually an inevitable law on the track of connecting the previous and the next, which dominates the development of fate...

Because, this lack of sunlight in the eyes, in the phenomenon, seems to be a kind of sophistication and maturity, but in fact, because of poverty, ignorance, selfishness and growth repression, it leads to the fear of spiritual disability, which evolves into the blind pursuit of security, which leads to the experience of projection and material dependence and self-worth dominance in the radiation effect, which leads to self-centered subconscious revenge behavior. and mutation into the desire to dominate the weak, and experience the value and meaning of one's own existence, therefore, resulting in a gray psychology of ignoring external life in the chain projection effect!

Think about it, the radiation effect of such a state of mind is like a waning moon at night, although it is not big, but it hangs high in the air, but it can make its faint light radiate the entire earth everywhere!

Therefore, it is conceivable that when the child is in the countryside, in the rare state of mind of the grandmother, the child is actually equivalent to spending every day on the night of a waning moon!

Think about it again, if a child who needs space to grow up, if he is in such a night for a long time, it is also conceivable that the child will naturally be depressed and imperceptible, and it is easy to form a stable consciousness habit to radiate and highlight reality, resulting in the formation of closure and paranoia, and it seems incompatible with reality.

In fact, isn't that what children are doing today? And grandma, hasn't it always been the same? Even the mother of the child, to this day, does not there be some shadow of such problems? And didn't his grandfather also have a conscious split between paranoia and blind fantasy?

Therefore, not to mention children, who have grown up surrounded by such an environment for a long time, according to legend, even Qian Xuesen, the father of the atomic bomb, was detained by the United States at the beginning, and because of space limitations, when he came out, he had language and emotional problems. Not to mention children who are in the golden period of development!

However, in the hope of the lessons of the past, and in order to overcome the worries of the future, whether it is the past, or the present, or the future, as long as there is an opportunity, I will try my best to create a broader and richer space for the child, hoping that one day, the child can pass through the dark clouds, return to the true nature of the young dragon, and integrate into the sea that belongs to him!

Therefore, in order to help children improve their desire and ability to socialize. Although, when the other children were holding their own toys and playing happily, he was still the same as usual, with a little excitement and curiosity, still watching, occasionally moving forward one or two steps at a loss, but it was always difficult to integrate into the interaction normally like other children.

Therefore, with anticipation, I quickly handed him the candy and said, "Okay, can you give this candy to my sister to eat..."

Unexpectedly, although the child is very greedy for candy, he can always be like a sensible and generous spirit child, and hand it to the young lady next to him with a shy smile! The moment he turned his head with a smile, I took the candy and shook it in front of his eyes deliberately and said, "Do you want to eat candy?" When the child heard this, he squinted his eyes again and unceremoniously shouted for candy!

Seeing that he was so excited, I continued to tease, and when his desire to eat candy reached a climax, I changed my tone again, like a big man, while attracting his vision, I squeezed my eyebrows and said to him: "Take it and let my sister help you dial..."

When the child heard this, he immediately stuffed it into the young lady's hand like a monkey anxious general carrying out an order, and suddenly looked at the young lady who was helping him peel candy like a pool of still water...

Sure enough, driven by the benign conscious experience formed under the action of sight, taste, hearing and touch, the young lady immediately ran over and felt in the courtyard as soon as he entered the courtyard the next day, and without hesitation, he groped around in the young lady's pocket to find candy.

Therefore, on the same principle, I look for opportunities to throw candy and toys directly to more children, so as to use the temptation to lure him to naturally integrate into the interaction with children in order to grab the candy...

Because, at this time, his happy consciousness of candy has been successfully satisfied from his sister, and as a result, he has gained social safety and happiness consciousness. Let him initially experience the happiness of interaction and form the expectation of thinking consciousness, so that on the basis of a sense of security, because of the radiation of candy desire, in turn, let the young lady realize in his thinking consciousness that the sister helped him to pull the candy, and induced him to have a benign experience of security, dependence, trust, and satisfaction with the young lady. So as to open the subconscious to the greatest extent, so that the young lady is equivalent to representing happiness and satisfaction! Then, in the subconscious radiation effect, the benign experience of the young lady will be naturally projected onto other children!

This may be the case, and because he has established the benign operation of the three consciousnesses, so in his later days, as long as he sees the little sister, he is not only very happy, but also finally begins to take the initiative to give the little sister toys and ask to play chase and race with her.

Therefore, under this effect, the continuous radiation, with the increase of desire, makes him more eager to integrate into the group of children. So much so that in later days, I got mader and crazier in the game of chasing with other children!

Unexpectedly, what is even more surprising is that sometimes when there are no other children, he is no longer as before, silently moving within the familiar range, but because of the lack of children's company, there will be some boring and anxious emotions, and often impatient to ask us to take him to other children!

At this time, although he is in a rapid progress and cannot interact with other children normally, his desire to socialize has gradually approached the level of eager to integrate into social interaction with the steady improvement.

Therefore, the whole process of stimulating social desire, starting from the handshake to break through, to the consciousness link and projection of Sister Candy, and then directly to the initial interaction with the young lady to distribute toys. It also goes to the accumulation of conscious experience, and crosses to the deeper radiation effect of the subconscious, and achieves the initiative of thinking consciousness and the desire to integrate into the group of more children!

The whole process is based on the formation of conscious experience through the five senses and the evolution of basic social desires as the driving force. Formed in the corresponding environment, gradually sublimated and superimposed into the corresponding desire, and finally in the interaction of the three consciousnesses, the internal systematized thoughts and emotions are formed, which are manifested in the external behavior!

This phenomenon is also common in low-level animals, just like the common sparrows and hens raising their children, although they don't know these theories, but they also know that they use children's visual and taste functions to throw food around, in order to stimulate children's desire to prey, and gradually help them master the ability to survive!

The so-called things are divided by like, and similar are cohabited, this sentence is not only reflected in the body, but more importantly, it is manifested in the invisible psychological and spiritual level! It's like a typical case like wolf children and humans. Although the wolf child is the offspring of human beings, because of the raising of wolves, although they still belong to human beings physically, because the psychological consciousness is in the principle of environmental assimilation, the wolf child's psychological spirit and evolved ability, and even the physiological genes in the spiritual power, will be changed because of the assimilation of the wolf!

Therefore, when the wolf child's psychological development is finalized, even if he returns to human society and gives him superior conditions, he will be rejected because he is not of the same kind as humans, resulting in non-sameness. As a result, it is easy to quickly cause problems when it is difficult to integrate into society.

This kind of reality shows that the truth is universal in human life, just like dogs and humans are not the same species, but due to human training, the psychology is close to the same kind of thing, and the common phenomenon of non-similar cohabitation is formed.

This phenomenon, if reflected in the family, children, and parents, especially in the invisible mental, character, or spiritual, is also so common. Therefore, children will reproduce their parents' psychology, thoughts, and emotions to the greatest extent and unconsciously in the corresponding environment, under the influence of subtle and deliberate influence. and character that is difficult to know.

This kind of internal psychological, emotional, or spiritual reproduction between children and parents, because of the generational gap between children and parents, can easily lead children to integrate in their own contemporary times, and hinder them to better adapt to the society of their time to varying degrees, resulting in various real life problems.

Because, the deep psychology formed by this kind of psychology imperceptibly radiates in reality, which is equivalent to them using the experience of their parents' time to face the present things of their own time. As a result, this phenomenon will cause psychological conflicts, and it is inevitable that many psychological problems will occur.

Therefore, the positive and negative influences of this family of origin can easily be passed on to several generations in a state that is difficult to perceive. This is the main reason for the formation of the so-called family, or the family style of the same lineage!

Therefore, it is conceivable that during the golden time of the child in the countryside for more than two years, it is not only difficult to obtain a positive influence in the subtle influence of the original family, but in the invisible depression, not only subtly into his own psychological world, but even worse, in helplessness, it is irresistible to accept the projection of his grandmother's psychological consciousness, and form a corresponding psychological stereotype.

As a result, from the child's behavior today, it can effectively project the same paranoia, stubbornness, narrow interests, stereotypes, inflexibility, communication desire and ability problems that exist in the grandmother and even his mother. Ignoring and rejecting people and things that are not needed. At the same time, there is also the phenomenon of paranoid hearing and turning a blind eye that is difficult to change. Even in food, there is a phenomenon similar to a relatively fixed partial eating.

Could this be explained by mere coincidence? Can autism symptoms alone be fully explained? Can it be explained just because the child has an internal cause?

I think that even if a child has an internal cause of autism, his facial features are only keen, not mutated. At most, it's like a person who is just in poor health, but not sick. However, what happens if this person with poor physique is in a bad environment, or with someone who is sick with a cold? Conversely, although he has a poor physique, then give him a good environment, then what will happen to his body? I think this question should be self-evident!

Sadly, many people are often overly paranoid and self-centered, resulting in the vast majority of parents unknowingly, although passing on the advantages to their children, they also unconsciously pass on the disadvantages to their children.

Therefore, in terms of children's social reinforcement, I use the psychological assimilation effect of cohabitation, which is actually equivalent to using children of the same age to help him implant a sense of contemporary, so as to expect him to better integrate into their future era, so as to avoid the negative influence of the original family to the greatest extent!

Therefore, no matter what type of child they belong to, only by providing them with the experience that matches them, they will gradually form a social consciousness system that matches their inner psychological likeness, driven by their naturally generated desires!

Therefore, whether it is an autistic child or an ordinary child, even when training animals, in essence, they use the function of the five senses to stimulate conscious experience, and establish the corresponding inner psychology to act on the real world!

Because the thinking consciousness and the subconscious mind are formed on the basis of the explicit consciousness, the explicit consciousness is formed on the basis of the tactile sense of the five senses, and then in the interaction of the three subconscious minds, the inner spiritual system is perfected, and the radiation is manifested in the external behavior, emotions and even fate.

Therefore, the future or destiny of the child is mainly based on physiological differences and the formation of the corresponding environment. Therefore, only a better environment that matches the individual child can maximize and tap the potential ability of the child!