Chapter 23 Assimilation of Family Consciousness

The continuous spring rain finally made the plague like a god of war preparing for a thousand years, sweeping the world with the power of beacon fire. Another example is that in the strategy of the princes of the Beacon Theater, they successfully turned the home that humans once waited for into a prison waiting for them...

This is a disaster for humans, but for microorganisms, isn't this a manifestation of superintelligence? If human beings can enter their world like Mu Jianlian, I believe that they will be able to find that they can also match or even surpass human beings in many places.

In the same way, if from the perspective of Darwin's theory of evolution, the monkeys of the ancestors of mankind were eaten, trained, and imprisoned in the zoo by humans, and in the pretext of human appreciation and health, what kind of mentality and wisdom will those human ancestors who are full of spirituality face their descendants today? When people are laughing at their various forms, will they also feel ignorant and helpless for their descendants in the ridicule?

Isn't this phenomenon, in turn, similar to the self-righteous accusations and accomplishment appreciation of many parents in the name of loving their children?

If it is the other way around, then many so-called adults, in the eyes of children, may not be strange and unreasonable? And there are also many indescribable confusion and helplessness that make them unspeakable?

I think that while people ignore this, I have to admit that for many parents, perhaps it is this ignorant and selfish and self-righteous mentality that causes a lot of sadness that makes people proud...

Therefore, if in essence, human love, even including all life feelings, and all behaviors, is to satisfy the conscious experience formed on the basis of the five senses and touch, and in the three consciousnesses of each other, upgrade and evolve ideals or thoughts, and unconsciously pass on their positive and negative desires to the next generation, intentionally or unintentionally...

To put it simply, all human ideals or thoughts and behaviors, in fact, are in essence on the basis of the five senses and touch, the formation of sublimation and evolution to satisfy oneself, only a few virtuous and wise people, can jump out of this narrow self, in the essence and reason, the truth as the center, others as the center. So as to liberate your heart and your destiny in the true sense!

So to put it bluntly, many souls who think they are noble and noble are actually the result of the disguised sublimation of physical desires. It can even be said that the so-called spiritual ideals are only slaves of the body. Perhaps because of this, for children, the five senses embedded in their bodies are their pipes to the world and the bridge to their destiny.

Especially for the autistic group, in terms of their own differences, it is precisely because of the problem of this pipeline, or this bridge, and the lack of repair by the corresponding environmental engineers, that it has gradually led to more problems!

For more than 100 years, with the development of psychology and physiology, human beings have largely recognized and recognized that psychological problems and physiological problems have inseparable mutual influences. That is to say, physical problems can lead to psychological problems, and conversely, psychological problems can also cause physical problems. If the influence of the integration of body and mind is negative, then how can the so-called law of cause and effect that all laws are empty, but cause and effect are not empty, be embarrassed?

Therefore, this phenomenon of physical and mental interaction, especially in the field of autism, caused by physiological differences and acquired environmental problems, leads to psychological, behavioral and emotional problems, which fully illustrates that the body and mind must inevitably happen in the law of cause and effect!

Therefore, in order to prevent it from happening and for the child's physical and mental growth to grow smoothly, Xiaobao, who is only three months old, has a keen sense of touch and taste in his body, which affects the formation and experience of a sense of security, so he can only sleep peacefully in our arms!

If, from the current point of view, he is obviously different from Brother Dabao. Because my brother is too keen in hearing, vision, and smell, he is good at hearing and visual functions, and because of his keen sense of taste, he has some partial eating phenomenon. and due to the dullness of touch and the separation of mother and child, and the indifference and paranoia of grandmother, which leads to weak family attachment.

Unexpectedly, my grandmother was caused by the paranoid family, high frequency, reprimand, and complaint, and other tones, tones, and phrasing, just like designed, perfectly hitting the child's keen hearing, and became one of the main triggers for the child's acquired environment for autism!

And the grandmother's self-righteous discipline behavior, because of the higher level, and constantly play the mentality of repression and mutation to drive the weak, resulting in the child in her bamboo seedling scepter Dafa, so that the great grandmother, selfless, unintentional and ignorant teaching, finally let Dabaoru experience loneliness in a thousand years of adventure, and practice a powerful autism magic skill...

At this time, Xiaobao's younger brother was already having an obvious tactile sensitivity when he was born. The keen sense of touch will directly lead to his deep self-feeling, and the formation of the corresponding three consciousnesses, which will affect his whole life in the radiation effect!

This may also be why, on the night of his birth in the hospital, his desire to suck breast milk was very stable at first, but because her paranoid grandmother and mother always blindly followed the nurse's advice under the authority effect, and ignored the temperature required by the child due to individual differences, resulting in the child because of his keen senses, and suddenly because of the temperature problem, it is more difficult to adapt to the world outside the womb, resulting in a rapid refusal to drink milk and constant crying!

Although hungry children, because the temperature cannot match themselves, the child's blood and digestive metabolism problems, resulting in a lack of appetite, resulting in the child in the constant crying and difficulty sleeping.

However, when I picked him up, because of his sense of touch and taste and the temperature of my body, he felt safer and closer to his mother's environment, his blood flow was smoother, and he quickly fell into a good sleep.

The next day, in order to test my guess, I went to other delivery rooms to check on the other children, and found that their children were not more than mine, or even less, but their appetite and mood were normal and stable.

Therefore, after learning about the situation, I began to worry that Dabao had induced autism due to auditory internal factors and acquired environmental problems. I think that Xiaobao is obviously keen, so he should pay more attention to it, and he can't repeat the mistakes of the past and make a peerless Shuangjiao!

For this reason, in order for the child to grow up more healthily, I held it until dawn almost every night in the delivery room for nearly a week. Although I was not in good health and often sweated, I still persevered in exhaustion for the sake of safety. Although it is hard, although my grandmother also asks to take care of their mother and son, I think that after all, I am almost 60 years old.

Besides, it may be more suitable for the child to sleep at home with Dabao for the time being, after all, the child has almost never left her. Even if there is a problem with her personality, which induces and aggravates the child's autism and leads to the conflict of the child's consciousness, because of long-term habits, the child at this time is still more dependent on her. Besides, a few years have passed, Daya has been injured, only in the past few days, at most, Xiaoya has been slightly injured!

At the same time, I also considered that if my grandmother stayed in the delivery room, and the mother and daughter joined forces, and then they were always self-righteous like embroidery, and then embroidered such a delicate little treasure with potential problems, what should it be?

So, after a few days of thinking about it, we were finally discharged from the hospital after a few days without any other choice. But when Xiaobao returned home, the situation of night trouble, not only did not improve with the change of the environment, but became more and more serious...

Almost always can't wake up during the day, but at night I often can't sleep in the whole night crying. And I'm too busy with work to take care of it. Therefore, this situation leads to neglect. So, I didn't pay attention to it at first!

But as there was no sign of improvement, I began to tell the mother and daughter in my worry: "This child is always like this, you take the child to the hospital to see..."

However, unexpectedly, her grandmother said in the same old tune: "How many children cry, how many children are not like this?" What is even more disappointing is that the child's mother also said with Ya: "My colleague's child used to cry..."

Then I asked, "What about now?" ”

She listened and replied, "Don't cry now..."

Unexpectedly, after hearing her answer like this, I was suddenly silent, and I didn't know how to say more. Although I am still a little worried, I think that it may really be as they say, and it will not cause any problems.

Therefore, if you think about it, it is inconvenient to say any more, so let's observe it for a few more days and see how it goes! However, as the days passed, the relentless time did not seem to make the child show any signs of improvement, but still maintained his original emaciation in crying.

Seeing that the children still did not get better day after day, I was worried and scared, and once again persuaded and asked them to take the child to the hospital for a look!

At that time, I calmly told them, "Go to the doctor first, and if it's okay, we'll be relieved." If there is a problem, it can also be prevented in time, so that the problem can be better minimized. If you don't go to the hospital now, if a small problem becomes difficult to manage, the family will regret it for the rest of their lives..."

Then, while giving examples, I looked at their still plausible attitudes, and continued: "Under normal circumstances, children will not cry so much if they are not uncomfortable, think about it, even if the pig is full and comfortable, it will not bark..."

At this time, the mother and daughter, although they seemed indifferent, may have felt that I was so serious, and they began to worry about it. Then, I lost no time in saying in the continuation of the presupposition: "Maybe many people think that the child is just crying, but if the child is difficult to sleep in crying because of stomach pain or other things, and it is difficult for the body and mind to develop normally in the difficulty of sleeping, it will easily lead to physical and mental problems for a long time, and affect the formation of character and directly affect the fate of his life..."

Although, these seemingly empty truths, in fact, aren't they exactly the case? In reality, many children with autism have gastrointestinal absorption and metabolism and sleep problems. If the child has a long-term stomach ache, which affects the nutritional metabolism problems, and leads to the physique, spleen and stomach, and even affects the entire physical and mental development, so long-term, even if it does not induce autism, it is easy to cause other physical and mental problems.

Isn't it a very realistic example that today, the child's uncle is so weak? When my uncle was a child, just an accident and serious illness had already significantly affected the development of his body, is it really not related to his current physique and his illness?

If there is a relationship, has such a relationship affected his fate today?

I think, this self-evident question, coupled with more than one lesson and experience, why are they still obsessed?

Therefore, if you think about it again, if you stand in the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, intestinal problems can cause metabolic disorders, metabolic disorders can lead to a decline in the function of the spleen, stomach and other organs, and a weak spleen and stomach will deprive the lungs of qi, which can easily cause a series of problems such as lack of qi, lazy speech, difficulty in speech, sleep, and so on.

If this situation continues, it will inevitably affect the child's language development and emotional and behavioral problems. Just like a flower, when it comes to opening up, what will happen to the symptoms of these potential problems? In fact, many children with autism also have such a great and evolutionary process, and many similar phenomena. For example, you can say that you are not interested in talking, you can watch it without interest, and you can play it without interest!

I think that adults, if they are in a state of physical and mental interweaving for a long time, it will inevitably appear, and many of them are similar to autistic children!

Therefore, even if I am an adult, all parties have already matured, but at the beginning, because of physical problems, there were many similar emotional behaviors. It can be seen that once this situation appears in the children in the golden development period, then it is conceivable what kind of results and hopes will be brought to the children!

Many children with autism are barely trained to speak, and they often have difficulty changing their breath, as well as showing lack of emotion and rigidity. They are even more so psychologically. Not active, bad temper, lack of interest in many things, sleep, picky eating and many other problems.

If we conduct a general analysis, although there are individual differences, due to the corresponding acquired environment, the lack of matching, and its factors directly and indirectly affect the development and operation of the internal organs, resulting in psychological and behavioral problems. In the end, it gradually affects intellectual development, and the golden period of development and rehabilitation is missed, resulting in many problems that are difficult to reverse for life!

Fortunately, her mother is a female champion after all, so it is easier to understand these truths. Coupled with my several requests and indoctrination, the child was significantly better on the evening of the day he returned from the injection. What's even more comforting is that as the child gets better, he finally slowly sleeps normally, and with the increase in weight, he begins to grow up healthily and become more and more cute!

At that time, in the hospital, the doctor said to his mother: "The child may be deficient in vitamin K, if this is the reason, it will cause the child to have intestinal colic, and there is no vitamin K in breast milk..."

Later, under the advice of the doctor, he had an injection, and since then, the child has quickly improved and returned to a normal state!

If it is normal for them to hold their children and cry at the beginning, and do not pay attention to them, then it is very likely that the children will not only affect the development of the body, but also affect the development of psychological and emotional emotions because of the keen sense of touch and vitamin K deficiency, so if they continue, it is undoubtedly equivalent to creating the internal causes of autism!

If in the gap of the nurturing environment, when external triggers appear, then it is naturally easy to be like his brother on the basis of internal factors and external edges, and because of the acquired environment, acquired autism will be induced again! And his brother Dabao, as well as their mother, and even their grandmother, all the performances today, aren't they exactly like that? It's just a different degree!

Therefore, if you think about today's Dabao, the reason why autism is induced, if you look at it from all kinds of signs, is it really just a keen sense of hearing that can explain it? Doesn't it have anything to do with the acquired environment?

During the Spring Festival, when I thought of Dabao earlier, when we spoke a little louder, we would suddenly look nervous and red. Therefore, I have explained and asked his grandparents several times to pay attention to their voices and tones when talking to their children. However, I didn't expect them to behave almost the same as children in this regard, listening but not turning a blind eye. In the end, I was in a helpless entanglement, like a pale and powerless passerby, watching everything in front of me slowly happen...

Because of Dabao's affairs, whether in the past or now, I have explained, told, suggested, and asked them more than once. Even now, tell them how to use dietary modifications to achieve the potential of the body to help recover from autism.

However, almost all of them are still in their old self, even like an encyclopedia, always justifiably doing whatever they want. Even if they were asked to stew eggs and put some leeks, they seemed to come here occasionally in the middle of half pushing and half pushing in order to accommodate me!

What I didn't expect was that the child's grandfather was still on the phone, and seemed to be full of grievances and said: "I see that you are not good with children, are you?" Even later when talking about Xiaobao, he said: "The doctor is not right, there should be everything in breast milk..."

When I heard this, I almost didn't even have the strength to breathe, but if it weren't for his mood, I would have liked to climb back with the air waves at once, and then point to his nose and ask him to tell me, "How can I bring it?" So since you say that there is everything in breast milk, is there any stupidity and ignorance in it? ”

What's even more infuriating is that I often intentionally or unintentionally use the principles of qigong or psychological suggestion to stroke the child's head like other parents, but to this day, my grandmother still treats me as an ignorant prisoner, and scolds me with an indifferent and rigid expression: "What are you doing by touching the child's head? ”

However, for the sake of the ignorant atmosphere of the family, I didn't bother to say much, and then in a perfunctory way, I said a little angrily: "I said that you don't believe it, then you go and ask the doctor tomorrow, why am I touching the child's head?" ”

Although, I thought about it here, but I couldn't help but add, "Can't I touch the child's head?" It's made of mud, and it breaks when you touch it, right? ”

I don't know if she didn't hear clearly, or if she was worried that I would lose my temper, anyway, when I saw that she didn't react again, I quickly got up and walked to the room!

Sitting in the room, I thought about the child's time in Anqing before the Spring Festival, and I felt that I was angry again, because the child had a cold reaction at that time. Although I added clothes in time to keep him warm based on my experience in traditional Chinese medicine, he got better quickly, but he still hasn't recovered after all. Therefore, as long as you continue to do a good job of keeping warm, the child will naturally recover completely.

Therefore, because of the child's rapid improvement, the medicine I bought has not been taken, and the phenomenon of a little runny nose basically disappeared the next day.

However, when I went home during the Spring Festival, three days later, when it was my grandparents' turn to take them to sleep, the child who had just had a cold might be afraid that he would sweat and reduce the quilt, causing a severe cold and fever. Unexpectedly, what makes people even more angry is that I didn't expect Dabao, Xiaobao, mother, grandmother, and even me to be inexplicably one after another, as if they were in a hurry to cultivate into immortals, all of them rushed to catch a cold!

At the beginning, I really wanted to tell them again what to pay attention to when this child sleeps, especially when sweating, only to cover more, not less. However, his grandparents and grandmother's pair of Immortal Wind Dao Bone Mandarin Duck Sect, I don't think it's okay not to say it, and it may not be useful if I say it. If you disturb their cultivation again and make them go crazy again, then the Spring Festival will be even more fun...

Because of this, in the gift of the plague god, when the evil in the east and the poison in the west rose again, finally on the morning of the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, my grandfather and uncle and I went back to our parents' home, hurriedly took the child with fever and runny nose again, and returned to Anqing, which had already become a ghost town...