It was the same afternoon again, and the gloomy sky, like a child who was extremely wronged, flashed faint tears in the midst of suppressed fear!

In the gust of cold wind, our father and son were already walking on the pedestrian street of Renmin Road...

I remember that when the child first arrived in Anqing, although he was willing to go to the underground shopping mall here, the child's performance when entering the shopping mall was always in a slight mechanical rigidity, and his demeanor was erratic. It didn't take long for him to go down, and the tasteless request came up again!

It's the same almost every time, when I go to the long underground mall, I look absent-minded and listless, like a tired tramp, and in my clear eyes, I always move forward with a little sluggishness, distraction, evasion, and depression, aimlessly...

At first, we all thought that we would get used to it by bringing it a few more times. But I didn't expect that after going there a few times, I didn't want to go down again, let alone have a playground there...

However, in order to find the reason and make an effective breakthrough, under my deliberate arrangement, today's children, under my coaxing and deception, finally entered the underground mall again...

The moment I entered the underground mall, I found that he had not walked a few steps before his old expression reappeared. With an aimless look, it is difficult to find the curious, pleasant, and active behavior of children of the same age from him.

On the contrary, after a few minutes, he began to lower his head again, like a woman admiring her own steps, staring below and continuing to walk forward, intentionally or unintentionally.

Seeing him like this, I tentatively said to him, "Look ahead..." But, no matter what, he can tease me so much, and finally in the process of progress, he can bring some comfort to people. Because the autistic child can interact like this, it is like the soul has received nectar.

Even so, he is still not stupid in the underground mall, so why does he have to go up again in less than three minutes? If we talk about noise, then isn't there also noise above? It's not his intuitive sensitivity that causes a repressive reflex in the midst of repression, right? Because of the closed nature of the underground shopping mall, for people with keen intuition, they can indeed feel the existence of oppression, especially its echo frequency, which is obviously different from the existence of the ground.

Therefore, if this is the case, then it can be shown that the perception of his mind is also beyond that of ordinary children! Then it can also be said that this is mainly the psychological problems caused by the original consciousness caused by the noise and depression, rather than the immediate escape caused by the sharp sense of hearing.

So, if that's the case, it might be easier to solve.

Thinking of this, I saw that he was still walking forward with his head held high, I think you should be high, see how long you can go. Unexpectedly, when he came to an exit, he suddenly returned to normal and pointed to go out again. For a moment, I wondered how I could get you out? If I listen to you, won't I call you daddy?

It can be seen that seeing him so strong, I can only repeat the old trick and say: "Dad has a stomachache and wants to go to the toilet..."

Then I deliberately asked him, "Where is the toilet?" Let's go back to the front, do you want to pee? He listened, shook his head slightly, and said, "No..."

Seeing his well-behaved reaction, I patted his head and thought to myself, he might be smarter than me. Because I didn't expect that his "no" before meant to pee. But after I told him to shake his head and say "no, no, no", he quickly learned to use "no" to express himself while shaking his head. And I also know that saying "pee" means that I want to pee.

However, I saw him walking and walking, and seemed to be bored again, and began to appreciate his steps. Then, with my head tilted again, I asked, "Where is the left hand?" ”

Sure enough, he lived up to his father's expectations, and immediately raised his left hand when he heard this. Then I asked, "Where's the right hand?" Still listening, he raised his right hand again. When I said where the eyes were, he was embarrassed to touch his eyes, and then I asked where the nose, ears, and eyebrows were, but when he heard the eyebrows, he suddenly dropped his ears and nose as usual, squinted his eyes, touched his eyebrows and laughed.

However, less than three minutes after I stopped, he rekindled his old feelings, and in silence, he continued to bow his head. Seeing that he had repeatedly relinquished, I said to him again, "Look to the left... Look to the right... Right... On the left..."

In short, I deliberately spoke faster and faster, so that his reaction was in such a state, that it began to disturb his original consciousness, and let the new consciousness of the underground mall take the opportunity to enter his subconscious...

But, in any case, it seems that although he can follow my instructions and try to keep up with them, he is always permeated with boredom, perfunctory, and evasion. Even if I deliberately asked him to look down, although he also deliberately looked upwards in reverse, his negative eyes didn't seem to change in the slightest. To make matters worse, it wasn't long before he was listless and tired.

When I saw his tired reaction, I seemed to understand that the child's obvious tiredness and avoidance behavior may really be the repressive nature of the underground shopping mall, which induces the original repressive consciousness and various reactions caused by the noise echo frequency. Because when we went to the train station to pick up my uncle on a rainy night, the underground station, although it was quieter, he was still in the midst of rejection, and asked to go up countless times.

In a similar situation, a similar reaction occurs, which can indicate that there must be a similar cause or the same cause, causing a radiating reaction.

Therefore, it can also be explained that it may be that the child's three major consciousnesses are sensitive to physiological hearing, respond to noise, and the association induces the previously associated subconscious repressed information. The reaction projected on the underground mall. Under the dual negative effects of body and mind, the relationship directly caused by the noise of the underground mall induces the intuitive perception of the mind, and the subconscious or unconscious behavior and emotions occur!

When it was difficult to determine this analytical reasoning, we finally turned back and walked to the underground playground at the exit. However, in the face of many games, no matter how much I coaxed, he still listened and turned a blind eye as usual! In addition to constantly asking to go up, it seems that this place is like a hell about to collapse, and it seems to be impetuous and restless in anxiety.

Faced with such a situation, I was depressed and wondering, looking at his tired and anxious eyes, I kept asking myself, why is the child like this?

However, no matter how much I observe and judge, first of all I believe that he is not his mental consciousness cognition, and his conscious perception of everything that he runs away from here because of fear and fear. In that case, the only possibility should be that the environment here induces his subconscious information, which leads to the psychological problems of the conflict between body and mind and the three major consciousnesses!

I think that if this is the case, then he should be able to sleep in the security of my arms in exhaustion and depression! On the other hand, if he is tired and depressed and has difficulty falling asleep in such an environment, it may be due to the sensitive response to sound caused by his keen sense of hearing, which leads to fear of the existing environment, and induces a sense of fear in the existing subconscious, which is caused by a physical and mental reaction...

If the fact is that the reaction is caused by the noise problem, then it can be shown that the individual differences in his physiological hearing, the conscious perception formed, are somewhat similar to those of autistic people in the United States. Tianbaoding, the perception formed, and once again felt the repression of the underground mall, which induced the original repressive consciousness of the subconscious.

And at the beginning, Gran. Tianbaoding is using his own individual differences, in the conscious perception, although due to improper recovery, resulting in the closure and human perception, but because of this, the conscious perception is transferred, resulting in the ability to perceive the emotions of animals. Therefore, the world's first humanized animal slaughtering equipment was developed. And in the course of her career, she has a lot of reputation and academic achievements. And her success is a valuable asset to the society, but for herself, it is actually a history of blood and tears of the soul!

Therefore, the deformed achievements she has obtained in establishing individual differences are a success that many normal people can hardly achieve! His story can also show that real autistic children, if they are from their point of view, should actually be normal in nature. The reason why they have many thorny problems is mainly the acquired environment, which is difficult to achieve a growth environment that matches their differences, resulting in psychological and behavioral problems. Because of Tempo. Grandin's success is a testament to this! However, how many autistic children can be so lucky in reality? Can you be like Gran and Tianbaoding, who have gone through hardships to enter this realm beyond ordinary people?

And my child, in fact, with Gran. There is undoubtedly a big gap in Tianbaoding. Because he is only keen, and there is no mutation. Therefore, there is no doubt that this is the basis for his existence beyond ordinary children. It is also because of his behavior that is reflected by his sensitivity to sound, so in terms of physiological differences, he belongs to a similar type to her.

The difference is that although the types are similar, there is a distance between them to the extent of their differences. Although Gran. Tianbaoding also has visual acuity, because she can judge from the eyes of the cow, through thinking consciousness, she can perceive with conscious consciousness, and can understand the psychological emotions of the cow. But because she used to be too sensitive to the internal perception of the body, she was immersed in self-experience and formed autism.

My child is mainly auditory, because of the acquired environment, especially the auditory stimulation caused by my grandmother's personality, and psychological depression and intimidation, which induces acquired autism, and tends to psychological problems. Therefore, in this sense, the simultaneous action of vision and hearing can obtain a deeper three-dimensional perceptual experience of conscious consciousness.

The child's hearing is normal, but too acute, which is confirmed by us after birth. As for his visual acuity, if we look at his penchant for observing transformed animals, there should be the same visual acuity. This kind of normal and overly sensitive is actually an abnormally developed function, not a pathology, but it will induce physical and mental problems due to the improper acquired environment.

This acquired environmental phenomenon of children, this is like a piece of jade, which is used as a whetstone by a peasant woman who does not know the truth, she only knows that this stone is not as good as other whetstones, but she does not know that this bad stone may buy a knife that she will never use up in her life, it is the same reason. So she doesn't know what to do, she will only complain about the stone, and ignore its hidden value!

In terms of hearing, children of the same type, like women, are generally more sensitive than men, so they are more likely to feel emotions, and they are easy to become sentimental and delicate and rich. The difference is that this type of autistic child is just more developed than a woman. Therefore, it is possible to imagine the psycho-behavioral reactions they form with their environment. The difference is that girls and boys may have biological differences and are quiet, which may be the reason for effectively reducing the ratio of girls with autism induced by the acquired environment to boys.

Boys are active by nature, but because of their sensitive or mutated sense of touch, there is an overstimulation of the environment, which causes the conscious to experience fear or mutation, which leads to the induction and formation of autism. Coupled with the neglect of the acquired environment, and under the depression formed by the triple action, the closure is formed due to the escape from pain, which gradually affects the physiological level!

Therefore, when I think of this, I seem to understand that at that time, in the absence of understanding, the individual differences in the strengths of children belong to them, but due to the lack of protection and guidance, they induce acquired autism...

Therefore, I believe that if the child was not in the countryside at the beginning, if it were not for the grandmother's personality, if it were not for the separation from his parents, although there is a keen sense of hearing, I think it would not be easy to induce autism, which leads to today's difficult to remedy situation! Because, although the child is too sensitive than ordinary children, he is still in the normal range in nature, and there is no abnormal variation, so in essence, he is just more outstanding than ordinary children, so therefore, if he is given the corresponding environment, not only will he not induce autism, but also because of the matching environment, he will be able to achieve extraordinary exertion!

Therefore, on the other hand, if there is an abnormal response to the five senses and touch, then the child will inevitably form the corresponding abnormal three consciousnesses and show more problems. However, even if the five senses are in the normal range of children, as long as they are too acute, it is easy for children to be in the environment that lacks corresponding growth, because during the formation period of thinking consciousness, it causes a lack of self-correct cognitive protection ability, and in the acquired environment, it leads to three major consciousness problems dominated by conscious experience.

Therefore, when I think about this, I think that if the child is not because of the immediate fear caused by the acute perception of hearing, but because the environment induces the psychological conflict caused by the original conscious fear, then he may be exhausted due to the psychological conflict. Naturally, it's easy to fall asleep in the immediate environment...

If the child can really fall asleep in such an environment, I think that when he wakes up again, he will like everything here from now on because of the absorption of information from the subconscious mind, which will immediately turn into the mind, and even unexpectedly...

Because, it's not impossible ...

Because, this is the natural law of the Heavenly Dao...

Because, this law governs the entire universe...

And my children also belong to the universe, but it is just a small universe. So, the operation of his body and mind is the same as the operation of the whole universe...

Because the period after the child wakes up before going to bed is in a state of transition between sleep and wakefulness, and it is also the natural state of operation of the body and mind to eliminate mental interference to the greatest extent. In fact, this is also the principle of hypnosis to obtain the best state. The difference is that I am now ready to use the child's natural reactions and scenarios instead of artificial hypnosis.

Although he can't keep the whole process in a hypnotized state, in the short two hours after he wakes up before going to bed, he will also be in a hypnotized state, allowing his subconscious to absorb and integrate into the existing environment, and control his future behavior through the power of instant transformation into the heart!

Although the two methods are different, once in this state, the effect is like a glass of water being divided into two vessels. It can also reduce children's physiological responses, thinking consciousness and conscious consciousness to the weakest state, and let the subconscious mind get the maximum activity and openness, so as to absorb external information without barriers to the greatest extent, and act on real life...

So, on the couch in the noisy and lingering basement restaurant, I held the baby in my arms, and soon fell asleep in surprise and surprise. When he was lying in his arms, especially when he was about to fall asleep, at that moment, I was really like holding a fragile dragon egg, like a scorpion willing to raise its child at the cost of death, sitting there like an iron pestle, enduring the pain in my back, afraid that he would suddenly wake up and dare not move lightly.

Because this is a great experiment, this should be the time when all things sleep together. Because, when he wakes up, it is very likely that he will be like a warrior and successfully recover the entertainment kingdom that once belonged to him...

With the flow of time, maybe it was the favor of God, maybe it was the baptism of the breeze and drizzle, the child was finally in my arms, after sleeping for more than 40 minutes, and then still in the wind and rain, when the mother was still on the way to deliver the umbrella, finally slowly woke up...

The child who just woke up saw his mother coming in the wind and rain, and still as usual, in the joy of the new and the old and the strange thoughts, he threw himself into the arms of his mother again...

Looking at the hard-working mother in front of me, in order to give her more comfort to her soul, I kindly sent her a photo of the child sleeping in the dungeon. Now, in order to make her feel better, I said to her by default: "If nothing else, the child may be willing to go to the underground mall to play in the future..."

Sure enough, in the unexpected and expected surprise, on the third day, when I consciously brought it to the entrance of the underground mall again, the child stood there and looked at it, and finally walked up the elevator without resistance under my suggestion, but let him choose freely!

When the playground was presented to him again, when I brought him to the game console again and asked him if he wanted to play, although he no longer expressed resistance and evasion as usual, it did not mean that he wanted to play. So, just when he seemed hesitant, I stuffed the coin I had prepared into the game console of the car race. The child who was excited to stomp his feet, he finally began to try to play.

But what surprised me even more was that no matter how he was asked to play the game before, he not only turned a blind eye, but even worse, he was more decisive than resisting to drink medicine and wanted to leave, but today, not only did he have a new breakthrough, but more importantly, after he started playing, he was out of control. In my excitement, after he played a few rounds excitedly, he took him to other game consoles, and as a result, his performance, his interest, except that he was not very familiar with how to fully control the buttons, but in other aspects, there was almost no difference from a normal child...

If it weren't for my own experience, it would be hard for others to believe it, even if I was educated by my children to become an immortal, it would be equally hard to believe. Because the child who only slept for more than forty minutes, when he woke up again, he was really like a courage in a miracle, and once again picked up the butcher knife of desire, like the god of war out of the customs, with high courage, stepped into the battlefield that belonged to him...

What's even more comforting is that since that day, the child has opened his heart to love many of the games here, and almost every time he plays, he is reluctant to leave after my several requests.

Therefore, in the later days, whenever I shared my recovery story with my child in the autism group, I was either directly besieged by the trustee in the agency group or kicked out of the group by the administrator. Some people say that I am misdiagnosed, some have to say that I am a liar, and some people even say that I am engaged in crooked and evil ways and tricks!

Because, it is difficult for anyone to believe and accept that the problem of autism's typical narrow interest in the world's difficult problem is difficult to effectively solve even if there are many institutions, how many experts, and how many parents, and I just fell asleep with my child in my arms, and it disappeared beyond the limit. Is this possible? But with the facts in front of us, can we say that this is impossible?

In fact, the main factor causing this situation is that autism involves complex issues related to physiological, psychological, hypnosis, modern medicine, Chinese medicine, and even philosophy and religion. In all these disciplines, except for Western medicine, other disciplines are fundamentally difficult to separate from the youngest psychology.

Since the establishment of psychology, and in the development of Freud and Jung's theory of consciousness, it has only been developed in the past 130 years, but there are many schools of theory. Although it is as beautiful as a flower, it is difficult to deny that it is often difficult to achieve the desired effect when it is really operated and used!

The main reason for this phenomenon is that when Freud created the theory of the unconscious, he ignored the principles of thinking consciousness, conscious consciousness and hypnosis, resulting in a lack of argument differentiation and the existence of the three consciousnesses, independence and harmony. As a result, psychology lacks the core theories of the three major consciousnesses, and it is difficult to complete systematization until today!