Soon another day passed, and before I knew it, the night was like a ghost, and it had already quietly shrouded the whole land...

In the sky, the stars flashed, like the eyes of a group of black dragons, although they drove away the light of the world, but at the same time, it seemed to return the tranquility of the night...

Since Pangea, the sun and moon have rotated...

Heaven regards all things as dogs...

I believe that the way of heaven is fair...

Therefore, I respect the way of heaven...

If my child cannot be reborn in the Heavenly Dao, then it is enough to prove that I have lived in the wrong world from beginning to end...

If that's really the case

If you can choose

Then, I will not hesitate to choose to leave completely...

If I had another choice, I would like to wander through the beginningless eons and never be reincarnated as a human again...

However, I know that no matter how high-pitched the sound of heaven is, it is difficult to surpass the melody of reality...

Because, although life needs hope and passion, it can only become an invisible tool at best when faced with facts...

Because no one can say, maybe after I am high, it is possible at any time, because of the appearance of the child's problem, I will enter calm or even low again...

However, this does not seem to be entirely the case. When I deliberately pulled the child in front of the wall chart again, he finally started his life with my assistance. Unexpectedly, he finally spoke consciously for the first time in what we had been waiting for...

At that time, it was hard for our family to imagine that when I pointed to the "one" on the wall chart and asked him to say it, he really pointed to the long-awaited "one" hanging there in a moment, unexpectedly, and clearly and decisively said the number "one". At the moment of surprise, my whole family seemed to be like a child, and immediately won the Nobel Prize. And in the unexpected surprise, I clapped desperately with all my strength...

Unexpectedly, under the stimulation of our continuous applause and language encouragement, the child also continued to be like a madman, elated in the experience of gradually moving towards the peak of happiness, always synchronized with my instructions, and kept saying the voice of "one"...

At the moment when he said "one", his excitement, his smile, his face that was getting redder and redder, like a peach blossom approaching March, the more it bloomed, the more beautiful it became, the stronger the smile became...

At this time, the grandmother who had passed the passion said calmly: "Finally spoke!" ”

But in her seemingly calm tone, I seemed to feel that her eyes under the light seemed to be flickering with hidden tears, and in the long-term anticipation and guilt, it seemed that there was finally some comfort and relaxation that had not been seen for a long time...

And at this time, I am not like this. Once a lake of tides, once thousands of times, they turned a blind eye and heard again and again, so that I was helpless in anger and disappointment more than once!

Because, the joy and happiness of my loved ones are the meaning of my life and my unshirkable responsibility. Therefore, I was in the mood of accommodating them again and again, and I unintentionally and helplessly ignored the children!

Therefore, my mood at this time, as the child's excitement gradually faded, and began to be in the bittersweet and sour memories, like autumn clouds, following the thunder of June, constantly dancing and surging, and I couldn't help myself...

At this moment, how I wish I could be like a wronged child, I can cry unscrupulously...

Thinking about the past, looking at the present, and worrying about the future, how I hope that my tears can be integrated into the rivers and lakes through time and space, and in the journey of wind and rain, I will always flow with the night...

The river swept eastward...

The sound of the waves is still there...

Perhaps the victory at the beginning was not enough to overwhelm me, because I understood that this protracted war had only officially begun, and the long march of thousands of miles had barely taken the first step...

So, just as the children and their families continued to sing and dance, I fell into calm again, into a chaotic state of thought. When I think of the child's performance just now, it is indeed a true sense of speaking. But for a moment, I couldn't determine the true reason why he just spoke!

Is it a coincidence?

Or does it play a role in rehabilitation in Hefei?

In short, about 24 hours after going home to Hefei, the child really miraculously spoke in the days when the family was looking forward to and worried...

However, is this the effect of temporary rehabilitation in Hefei, or is it just the time when the child should speak? Or because the child is relaxed in time when he returns home due to unexpected satisfaction and benign stimulation, coupled with the stimulation of negative emotions encountered in the institution, in a short period of time, his inner world, due to the relaxation and freedom of the mind, makes his thinking consciousness, conscious and subconscious, at the moment when he temporarily gets rid of repression, in the balance of mutual harmony of natural behavior!

Therefore, only by determining the reason for the opening can it be possible to develop a corresponding rehabilitation plan and achieve a smooth recovery!

If, from the perspective of the interaction of the three consciousnesses, it should be in the positive and negative repression, and at the same time, because of the satisfaction, and the formation of negative new repression due to the stimulation of the new environment, squeezing and replacing the original old repression, and in the benign satisfaction and curiosity, let the thinking consciousness in relaxation, from the conscious excitement and happy experience, while avoiding the repression of the thinking consciousness, obtain the subconscious information opening, obtain the three consciousness coordination and synchronization, and achieve the conscious in the visual and auditory functions, because of the corresponding happy experience, And let the thinking consciousness accept the external instructions at the same time, because of the removal of negative repression, and let the subconscious information, in the corresponding coordinated interaction with the conscious and the mind, and achieve the effect...

This phenomenon is like a depression formed in the repression due to the split of the three consciousnesses caused by the loss of love. Although the mental consciousness asks itself not to think about it, because the subconscious mind is full of information about the lover, the conscious mind is integrated with the subconscious mind in the past experience, and resists the instructions of the thinking consciousness. When the original lost love is suddenly regained, the thinking consciousness will immediately withdraw the command, and in the mood of happiness and satisfaction, it will quickly cover and squeeze the original melancholy, and then let the three consciousnesses immediately return to normal from the pain of splitting and the instant integration!

The biggest difference between the two is that lovelorn adults will be guided by thinking consciousness in the pain of the split of the three consciousnesses, and strive to get rid of the pain of falling out of love and regain the integration of the three consciousnesses. However, because children are developing their thinking consciousness and because their functions are weak, they are prone to involuntarily appear independent behaviors in the three major consciousness divisions and are difficult to unify, such as self-talk in unconscious behaviors, conscious behaviors like to listen to and repeat something, and evasive behaviors in thinking consciousness, etc.

Therefore, from the perspective of subconscious analysis, playing alone or talking to oneself is mainly due to the lack of benign interaction and increased depression, resulting in the lack of corresponding benign conscious support between thinking consciousness and subconscious awareness, resulting in the formation of two major consciousness splits in the process of avoiding pain. Like repetition, because of the lack of security caused, by the use of the experience of the three consciousness integration of pleasure experience, to achieve the fear of blocking the consciousness of the mind and the formation of habitual avoidance behavior, because of the effect of fear experience and the original negative consciousness of the thinking consciousness and the subconscious, resulting in the closed conscious experience...

If this is the case, I can now almost be sure that his performance just now should be the result of the integration of the three consciousnesses, which was manifested in my assistance and encouragement, after being stimulated by positive and negative stimuli, and in time to get rid of the previous subconscious repression in time to obtain a brief period of relaxation.

The world is the only one...

Idealism is one and two phases...

Now, if from the physiological point of view of matter, any external information can pass through the human five senses and touch, resulting in a corresponding chemical reaction in physiology, and the result of this corresponding chemical reaction perceived by the conscious mind is emotion, which produces thinking consciousness under the action of emotion, and then under the mutual action of the two, the chemical reaction produced will change the original physiological state to a greater extent and form the corresponding subconscious information!

Therefore, the three consciousnesses could have been summarized as the products of idealism, but from a materialist point of view, because they are the result of physiological chemical reactions, they have become the products of materialism...

In fact, this materialistic phenomenon of idealistic consciousness, such as someone experimenting with perfume, can produce the feeling of passionate love, and the reaction of other things and the body of modern vaccines is a truth. When a thing disappears after a short stimulus, then the corresponding chemical reaction of physiology will stop, but the corresponding reaction that has already been experienced will not disappear, and will be stored in the form of memory and physiology. Therefore, the less the impact on the three major consciousnesses.

However, if the stimulus is repeated to a certain extent, even if the stimulus disappears, the body will still continue to secrete the corresponding chemical reaction substances, and continue to dominate people's thoughts and behaviors in the conscious experience!

This phenomenon is similar to what a vaccine does to the body. The vaccine virus will cause the body to produce corresponding antibodies, and when it reaches a certain level, even if the virus is gone, the body will continue to produce antibodies. The same is true of the evolution of life. This phenomenon is also similar to Jung's collective consciousness...

Therefore, I think if this is the case, then it is equivalent to discovering the core elements of autism rehabilitation!

If this is the case, perhaps in rehabilitation, as long as the positive behaviors that the child has already appeared are repeated on the original basis, so as to eliminate the effect of the other, and then to eliminate the effect of negative psychological behaviors, it is naturally easy to achieve vertical and horizontal development results.

For example, I ask my child to repeat what he already knows in a happy stimulus. He is naturally prone to speak more languages in his vertical development. When it reaches a certain level, it may not need to be deliberately guided, and it will be prone to horizontal development, such as wanting to communicate with people in language, and with the development of communication desire, it will naturally develop into interaction and other long-term effects. In terms of his negative behavior and emotion, the principle of subconscious hypnosis is used to implant positive information as a tool for interference, and the effect of eliminating the other's strengths and weaknesses is obtained...

When I think of this, I seem to see more hope in my excitement!

Because, I think I might be right

Because, I think I should be right

Because, along the way

Because, until now

Exploring Humanity...

Searching for the Truth...

Discover the truth of fate...

It's the theme of my life involuntarily...

So, when I fell into the memories again, in the scorching heat of August last year, when I was worried and couldn't take care of it, I hurried back because of it...

As soon as I entered the house, I deliberately observed and interacted with him and found that the child was really because of bad eye contact, and no matter how provocative I was, I didn't really look at me from beginning to end!

Even in the occasional moment of looking at each other, I always feel that in some drifts, there is a kind of evasion, shyness, and reluctance. At the same time, there is a slight sense of tranquility and expectation...

When I analyze from the perspective of conscious experience, it may be that the child is away from the mother and in a monotonous environment, which leads to a greater desire for maternal love and a lack of more positive environmental interaction, which leads to eye problems.

More importantly, it may be because of the keen sense of hearing, which causes the problem of conscious experience, and happens to encounter the paranoid and repressive split grandmother, which leads to the lack of experience of family security in the repressive isolation, which causes the weakness of attachment and the weakness of the visual function. Therefore, in the occasional eye contact, many hidden subconscious negative consciousness emerges...

When I looked at the child, in this line of thought, I quickly thought that children like to throw high. I thought, then, I will use him to get the happiness of throwing high, first induce him to experience happiness and satisfaction in accepting my instructions. In this way, we will strengthen his self-awareness, and then we will induce his eyes to pay attention to my eyes, so as to help him to have the conscious happiness experience brought about by the visual function...

Sure enough, the child did not disappoint me. When I picked him up again, I tossed him a few more times, and he still laughed as happily as before!

When he was still using body language and asked me to continue to satisfy him, I told him again: "Well, you stand here and don't move, when Dad claps his hands when he says three, you immediately run over and Dad hugs you!" ”

In the process of speaking to him, I was worried that he would not understand his thinking consciousness, so I paid special attention to the tone, tone, and speed of speech, etc., to ensure that in case he did not understand, he could understand the meaning of my language to the greatest extent with the conscious perception function!

However, unexpectedly, the child seemed to be better than I thought. Although this was the first time he had heard such language, and although it seemed that there was no response, I could sense from his waiting eyes that he should have understood my language!

So, I threw him twice, then unceremoniously put him in front of me, crouched down and looked up at him, pointed to his eyes and then to mine, and said, "You stand here!" You look into Daddy's eyes! By the time I count to three! You immediately run over to Daddy and hug you! Throw high! ”

The reason why I want to crouch down and talk to him is because I know that when I squat, he may not understand anything, but in his heart, his conscious mind, he will definitely experience a sense of equality, security, and acceptance...

Because, although children don't seem to understand, because life is in the process of survival and evolution, it has been deeply rooted in the face of short life, and can experience self-superiority, strength, and security in the form of natural intuition! The same phenomenon can occur even in lower animals...

Maybe it's because of this, maybe it's because of me squatting, so that he can experience the self-consciousness of safety and superiority, only to see him at my request, with a curious and shy smile, while following my instructions, standing there seriously...

However, when I was about three meters away from him in the first quick retreat, before I could speak, he ignored the command and couldn't wait to run over...

When I asked him for the second time, he made some progress, and when I just counted to "two", he ignored the command again and couldn't wait to run over...

But, I didn't expect that by the third time, he was completely like an athlete on guard, in the stillness and concentration, when I counted to "three", he took a quick step, and finally ran into my arms perfectly for the first time...

Especially at the moment when he was about to pounce on me, in the eye with me, in that moment, his eyes, his face full of smiles, like a boy of good money, and like a wild horse about to break free from the rope, continued to go back and forth again and again, and kept asking me to pick him up and throw him high...

Think about that moment, the child's instructions, smile, eye contact, size and movement, physical and mental synchronization and reaction ability, etc., do not see any problems at all.

Especially when I put my fingers on the corners of my eyes and asked him to look at him, when he looked into my eyes, his eyes gave people the feeling of a mature child, and between the faint smiles, there was a flash of beauty and pleasure...

However, when you think about it, if the child has performed so well just now, why is it so completely different in normal times? In the end, he won't? Still don't understand? Is it unwilling? Still not interested, or is there no one to accompany him, or maybe some other reason?

With a lot of question marks and thoughts, just when I told him that my grandfather would use this method more at home, I didn't expect that his still disdainful eyes made me helpless to hug him and throw him a few times before leaving in the afternoon. Then he hurried away from him with worry and disappointment...

However, unexpectedly, when he went back again a month later, his eyes improved significantly, and it seemed that inadvertently, he didn't feel that there was any problem...

At the time, I had a hard time believing what I could achieve with just a few hugs. Although my reason is constantly denying, deep down in my heart, I seem to feel the child's expectant eyes, which makes me feel that it should be those hugs last time, and the child's eyes are starting to show better.

I understand that my self-doubt at that time, because the problem of autistic children's reciprocal vision, at least at present, in the world, whether it is a rehabilitation therapist or a specialist, they are difficult to solve quickly and effectively! I'm just an ordinary father, so it's hard to believe that just hugging me like that would make a difference!

Unless it's a pure coincidence...

Unless Freud's subconscious analysis is really an effective tool for detecting the mind...

Otherwise, the improvement of the child's vision is the inevitable behavior that will occur in the process of his growth...

However, it wasn't until later, when I continued to make progress on the basis of subconscious analysis, that I slowly found out that I slowly believed in myself, and I was really right, I used my subconscious intuition and conscious perception to analyze the child's subconscious, and it seemed that it was really correct...

It turns out that all of this seems to be not a coincidence...

It turns out that all of this seems to evolve like other things, with specific laws and processes...

Because, when I started to set up methods with this as the core, there were almost no exceptions, and the children were almost able to achieve the desired effect for them in the continuous breakthrough and progress again and again...

However, in the face of such facts...

At some point, I began to become more and more confident, and I began to be cautious, not daring to underestimate myself anymore...

Because, this is related to the future of the child...

Because, this is related to his life and the hope of the whole family...

Because at this time, perhaps because of this, it seems that I see his future, his hope...

As a result, I seem to have become a little arrogant, and I despise even more institutions and impostor experts who use resources and are good at swaggering and deceiving...

Think of them...

Think about yourself...

Think about the kids...

At this moment, my mood is like a thousand horses taking off and blood boiling. Because I seem to be able to confirm that the main reason why the child speaks tonight is mainly stimulated by positive and negative emotions, and in the timely relaxation, the thinking consciousness is relaxed, and the conscious feeling is formed, and the subconscious information is induced, and the effect achieved...

Of course, all this is still just the beginning. The truth of things, although it can be obtained from reasoning, is the result of reasoning. It needs to be verified through practice in order to finally determine its correctness!